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"why do a LOT of couples profiles use a picture of the female only for a profile pic....???"
Some couples send a picture of the man if they message but it has been our experience that if there are no pictures and they don't send one that he is a reluctant participant so we avoid those profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do a LOT of couples profiles use a picture of the female only for a profile pic....???
Some couples send a picture of the man if they message but it has been our experience that if there are no pictures and they don't send one that he is a reluctant participant so we avoid those profiles."
They're either in it together or they're not. Photos can tell a tale of their own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do a LOT of couples profiles use a picture of the female only for a profile pic....???
Some couples send a picture of the man if they message but it has been our experience that if there are no pictures and they don't send one that he is a reluctant participant so we avoid those profiles.
They're either in it together or they're not. Photos can tell a tale of their own!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Out of curiosity how does ours come across ?"
Genuine, approachable, coyly adventurous...I think you'd be a really wild little meet with the right buttons pushed..x |
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We alternate....Flik only...loads of messages....both of us....less messages.....Paul only virtually no messages except from bi guys who don't read the profile ...interesting social experiment or total waste of time as the result was inevitable??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of curiosity how does ours come across ?
Genuine, approachable, coyly adventurous...I think you'd be a really wild little meet with the right buttons pushed..x"
Interesting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To answer the original question, we haven't got many pics of us together. It is quite difficult to get good selfies with us both in. Plus, I have a lot more outfits to take pics in than he does. That and the fact I have a better phone so tend to randomly snap pics when I'm on my own. We are planning to take more of us both if we get five minutes alone. Must admit that a lack of male pics on couples profiles does put us off messaging if we want to meet both of them. |
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"As a single fem I find it very frustrating that there are frequently very few or no male pics displayed in the profile  "
This! We're a couple but feel the same - drives me mad that there aren't pics of the male but they expect to play as a couple. I've got to the point where I say no unless I get to see recent male pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single fem I find it very frustrating that there are frequently very few or no male pics displayed in the profile
This! We're a couple but feel the same - drives me mad that there aren't pics of the male but they expect to play as a couple. I've got to the point where I say no unless I get to see recent male pics "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"why do a LOT of couples profiles use a picture of the female only for a profile pic....???"
Because they can?
If they're looking to meet with (straight) single guys then I guess the answer to the question is obvious!
If they're looking to meet other couples? It either means the male thinks he'll reduce interest levels, that the female is significantly more attractive/in shape and will therefore be better 'bait' - as it was termed earlier, or that they're incapable of setting a timer on a phone and standing together.
If they're looking to meet bi fems? They probably (wrongly) think the female half is more important than the male to potential female company.
Or could just be because they can.
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We have pic of us both admittedly there are more of Sabrina but she is way better to look at than me .I mean lets face it without her I probably wouldn't get to play and id just be another single guy moaning about not getting any meets and threatening to leave the site every couple of weeks  |
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"We have pic of us both admittedly there are more of Sabrina but she is way better to look at than me .I mean lets face it without her I probably wouldn't get to play and id just be another single guy moaning about not getting any meets and threatening to leave the site every couple of weeks "
Lots of men say that and I know it's meant in a self effacing way but it isn't terribly flattering to the women in the other couples they meet. I always feel that if a man says this he's implying that I'll settle for him in order to allow my partner to have his wife. |
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"We have pic of us both admittedly there are more of Sabrina but she is way better to look at than me .I mean lets face it without her I probably wouldn't get to play and id just be another single guy moaning about not getting any meets and threatening to leave the site every couple of weeks
Lots of men say that and I know it's meant in a self effacing way but it isn't terribly flattering to the women in the other couples they meet. I always feel that if a man says this he's implying that I'll settle for him in order to allow my partner to have his wife."
sorry that was writen tongue in cheek but thats the problem with text you can't see facial indicators so it probably came across less amusing than it sounded in my head . 
I wouldn't expect Sabrina to take one for the team anymore than id expect any woman to.we want to meet couples where the is mutual attraction between all parties and would expect nothing less from anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because we meet single men and S doesn't want to shag them
Same as us. We have face pics of us both tho if asked to see them.
Us too
Us too xx "
same here |
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"We have pic of us both admittedly there are more of Sabrina but she is way better to look at than me .I mean lets face it without her I probably wouldn't get to play and id just be another single guy moaning about not getting any meets and threatening to leave the site every couple of weeks
Lots of men say that and I know it's meant in a self effacing way but it isn't terribly flattering to the women in the other couples they meet. I always feel that if a man says this he's implying that I'll settle for him in order to allow my partner to have his wife.
sorry that was writen tongue in cheek but thats the problem with text you can't see facial indicators so it probably came across less amusing than it sounded in my head .
I wouldn't expect Sabrina to take one for the team anymore than id expect any woman to.we want to meet couples where the is mutual attraction between all parties and would expect nothing less from anyone else."
Good  wouldn't it be nice if we could see tone |
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We keep meaning to get pics of him on here but haven't got around to it yet.
He has tats that I'd need to photoshop before I upload pics of him. We do have a face pic of us both together that we send to people we're arranging meets with.
Recently I was told that 15% of our pics should be of him. Not sure why that percentage, lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because most are looking for a bi female for the woman to have sex with while the man watches and wanks? Am I close? 3rd prize?"
Nope. Well on our account not so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I like pictures of me, I'm very vain, it's all about me, he begs me to let him have a cock shot or an assessment shot or a work suit shot, but I don't allow it |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have a BF I play with (we both play individually as well) and there are more photos of me than him on our couples profile. Considering on his single profile he has none and I have loads I think I got lucky getting him to even upload those. But our avatar will always be of the two of us; if we're playing as a couple we're both equally important regardless of who we're playing with and how. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say because the woman attracts the attention on here.
And / or although it's a 'couple' profile its driven by the woman, she's the one that mainly meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say because the woman attracts the attention on here.
And / or although it's a 'couple' profile its driven by the woman, she's the one that mainly meets."
Thats presumptious, ... |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Mrs N plays and I don't. A face pic of me we always send as I will be there but not involved at all once things are agreed (profile explains this) so for us it makes sense, it's her who's the "main attraction" and not me. |
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