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over a year ago
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Some couples do. Personally I love to see Mr kiss other ladies so we tend to not often meet couples that have a no kissing rule as it takes to much away for us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any couples have a no kissing rule, ie partners only, or just a precursor to a good session.?"
If I have a message off someone like this no kissing or in a club they say it
Its a no |
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For about 18 months, we had a no kissing rule as we felt it was the one thing we wanted to keep for each other.
Looking back, I think we felt insecure without realising it at the time.
Now we do kiss on meets and definitely wouldn't go back...  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love to kiss when we play, it just doesn't seem right to have sex with someone without kissing them!! "
Agree. Always makes me ponder when I see 'We don't kiss' on a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why on earth do people have this rule??...sex without kissing is trying to start a car without a key...the fuel is there and the chassis is waiting for you to take you for a good ride...but there is no way of starting the ignition and getting the engine running! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one partner that I kiss and I have one partner that I don't.
I like kissing, but if someone else doesn't like it then it wouldn't be a dealbreaker.
What would be a dealbreaker for me would be them not kissing because they weren't *allowed* to kiss. I'm ok with people not enjoying kissing, but I don't like being dictated to when I'm fucking someone. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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We would only play with kissers. If you are seriously 100% OK with your partner having full penetrative sex with someone else, then you have already jumped some major hurdles in your head, to think that you would then freak out if their lips touched seems a little strange to me.
I would also think that in the heat of the moment it would very incredibly hard, if you are sucking on a nipple, then kissing a chest, then a neck then a cheek..... |
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We don't have a "no kissing" rule, but don't enjoy or feel the urge to kiss others, so prefer not to (why do something you don't enjoy? - we'd only be doing it to please the other party).
People automatically assume that we must be either insecure or weird with the usual "How can you fuck someone but not kiss them?!", ect, ect.
The answer is that kissing others is what feels cold and robotic to us.
When Bradley kisses me, the Earth moves. Kissing other men/women feels like such a let down in comparison.
Many don't like it and move on, just as we move on from those who insist on it.
- Amy. x |
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"Why on earth do people have this rule??...sex without kissing is trying to start a car without a key...the fuel is there and the chassis is waiting for you to take you for a good ride...but there is no way of starting the ignition and getting the engine running! "
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"Why on earth do people have this rule??...sex without kissing is trying to start a car without a key...the fuel is there and the chassis is waiting for you to take you for a good ride...but there is no way of starting the ignition and getting the engine running! "
because we don't need to kiss to get in the mood and if we do want to kiss we can do it with each other. Keeping one thing That we see as intimate between us. We don't meet others for intimacy just for the sex and fantasies that we can't do with just the 2 of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's definately one of fabs mysteries to us when people say they don't kiss on meets .
We truly would not meet anyone who had this rule , it's the precursor to the main event , and sometimes it's the main event in itself . Without it there's no passion , and the whole meet is cold .
There's nowt so strange as folk I guess . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't have a "no kissing" rule, but don't enjoy or feel the urge to kiss others, so prefer not to (why do something you don't enjoy? - we'd only be doing it to please the other party).
People automatically assume that we must be either insecure or weird with the usual "How can you fuck someone but not kiss them?!", ect, ect.
The answer is that kissing others is what feels cold and robotic to us.
When Bradley kisses me, the Earth moves. Kissing other men/women feels like such a let down in comparison.
Many don't like it and move on, just as we move on from those who insist on it.
- Amy. x"
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"Why on earth do people have this rule??...sex without kissing is trying to start a car without a key...the fuel is there and the chassis is waiting for you to take you for a good ride...but there is no way of starting the ignition and getting the engine running!
because we don't need to kiss to get in the mood and if we do want to kiss we can do it with each other. Keeping one thing That we see as intimate between us. We don't meet others for intimacy just for the sex and fantasies that we can't do with just the 2 of us. "
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I love to watch 'A' kissing men and women, it's as erotic and sensual as watching her having sex. In fact, probably more so. Why wouldn't you want to kiss someone when you're having sex with them? You can't beat a nice kiss.  |
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When we first started out Mrs P had the no kissing rule for herself. She felt it was something she didn't want to share with others.
Then she realised how much she missed it and enjoyed it so pretty quickly got rid of that rule.
We've never looked back since, now it's a big part of our play as we both love it!! I can't really imagine meeting without it now.
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over a year ago
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Yep, we're some of those wierdos who don't kiss. We kiss each other and love playing with others before during and after we kiss. We've found ourselves in loads of situations where everyone's had a great time without kissing so it would be the easiest thing in the world to give a miss to anybody who felt it essential.
Just maybe there's room for everybody without banging the whole 'isn't wierd when people aren't just like us' drum?  |
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"Yep, we're some of those wierdos who don't kiss. We kiss each other and love playing with others before during and after we kiss. We've found ourselves in loads of situations where everyone's had a great time without kissing so it would be the easiest thing in the world to give a miss to anybody who felt it essential.
Just maybe there's room for everybody without banging the whole 'isn't wierd when people aren't just like us' drum? "
This is one thing that some find very difficult to accept. Nobody questions preferences such as no anal but no kissing and women who don't like oral seem to be the exception. |
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