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Do you like being called names during the sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way
I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names
I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way
I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names
I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"
obvs i wouldnt say it in asda ffs! |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx  "
Never had that at a club but someone was using words a bit like that at a party once i.e. to my wife. It wasn't so bad that we needed to object but it wasn't a sexy as the bloke seemed to think it was (perhaps HIS wife does like it) and didn't help their chances of a future meet with us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pig gets all sorts of names thrown at her during sex but best is fat ugly pig "
That's fine if you get off on it which your partner obviously does, but if anyone called me a fat ugly pig while I was having sex with them I'd be up and out the room so quick I'd probably snap their cock off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about men being called names?
Keith or Dave really do it for me ......
Absolute classic!
All depends on the people involved and the situation! "
Ive never been much of a fan of Bryan the spelling using a Y just doesn't get me going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about men being called names?
its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....
I got up and calmly walked out........"
What your northern cock
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about men being called names?
its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....
I got up and calmly walked out........
What your northern cock
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Isn't that a building society?lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...
"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'
I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I quite like it when someone I've known for a little while calls me names in the heat of the moment. But I think if someone on a first meet was to address me like that I'd be slightly pissed off!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't particularly mind "dirty bitch " in the heart of the moment. Whore and slut etc would turn me off "
One guy called me that once, the way he said it it did sound sexy tbh. Mostly i don't like being called names though. |
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"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way
I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names
I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"
 Too right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the flip side I remember a guy I used to meet who after several meets decided to whisper sweet nothings in my ear mid shag telling me how he knows I'm lonely and justs a to be loved and held etc that kinda liked the mood  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the dynamics and who is doing the name calling tbh
But yes at times a well placed My little.......
Can really push me over the edge  "
This ^^ saves me typing  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"On the flip side I remember a guy I used to meet who after several meets decided to whisper sweet nothings in my ear mid shag telling me how he knows I'm lonely and justs a to be loved and held etc that kinda liked the mood "
Some of your experiences do make me chuckle NN. You should write a book, I'd buy it. |
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"What about men being called names?
its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....
I got up and calmly walked out........"
That's awful! Fair play for leaving though. Wonder how many guys have that control?
B |
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Massive turn on for me. It hardened my erecting when you call me names during fun.i used to see a lady who swears a lot during fun.
Sorry this may not be for every folks.i like it.As for me quite the opposite. I don't swear or call names during sex. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"What about men being called names?
its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....
I got up and calmly walked out........
That's awful! Fair play for leaving though. Wonder how many guys have that control?
B"
for me it was about respect... and thats not respectful in my eyes at all...
other people would have let it pass i have no doubt it plays up to a stereotype they sell....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...
"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'
I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.."
What about a posh Dagenham accent |
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"Pig gets all sorts of names thrown at her during sex but best is fat ugly pig
That's fine if you get off on it which your partner obviously does, but if anyone called me a fat ugly pig while I was having sex with them I'd be up and out the room so quick I'd probably snap their cock off "
with a slapped face too, for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes...but only from someone im familiar with...sometimes it can feel a wee bit too agressive with someone i dont know well, as i wouldnt want to be in a situation where i was nervous of them becoming more agressive.. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...
I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.."
I'm very good at evil stares and have been known to let rip with the odd gasping expletive in my softened Belfast accent |
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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
Outskirts of Notts |
"Slut..I love being called slut. . Emphasise the t in it tho..slutttttt "
Same here , maybe starting with naughty girl , dirty girl working up to calling me slut xxx
Jo xxx |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
On a meet, it would result in the meet ending there and then.
From my current dominant lover, abso-fucking-lutely love it!
But we also use a lot of onomatopoeic words - slap, smack, thwack, whack when we are one the phone to each other - that definitely garner a reaction...  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx "
We love all of them...and so have the women we've met.
Of course, if they didn't, we wouldn't be using them. The key is communication, and deciding beforehand what sort of language is acceptable. You shouldn't really be dropping those words in just to test the water! |
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Vocabulary like this is that of violence and I don't regard sex as an act of violence.
I prefer to ask her how it feels. Ask her if she is liking it. Ask, ask, ask. She provides the commentary as I slide in and out of her.
To this end, lying face down with me behind biting her neck and ear whilst quietly asking her how hard she wants it is one of my favourite things.
Ladies quite like it too
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Hubby hates it. He can't even stand the words hun or babe etc being used about me before, during or after. Personally I don't care what they call me during sex. During a greedy event I'm quite happy to be called any dirty word by anyone as long as they're giving me what I want
Hubby won't put up with it though and has stopped those who are too vocal with those words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vocabulary like this is that of violence and I don't regard sex as an act of violence.
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I disagree, words are just words, in and of themselves they are meaningless. It is the intent behind them that is important.
If it's during a scene then I'm all about telling a naughty slut just how dirty they are
That doesn't mean I would use the same vocabulary on the street or towards randomers/folks who object. Context see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"... "
If I told my partner to " do that again big boy" or said anything tiger-esque, we'd both dissolve into fits of laughter. It would most definitely not be conducive to the strict roleplay scenarios we sometimes undertake
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you know someone well, and you know they like it, then it can be very erotic. With strangers though, I'd steer well clear of saying anything rude that might upset them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horses for courses. Some people do, like us. Some don't. Some even use them for profile names. I loved seeing & hearing Jax reaction to guys calling her names while fucking her. Mind you none ever got really aggressive & used it to great effect when they saw how much it was turning her own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...
If I told my partner to " do that again big boy" or said anything tiger-esque, we'd both dissolve into fits of laughter. It would most definitely not be conducive to the strict roleplay scenarios we sometimes undertake
S x"
Haha, did you see my tongue planted firmly in my cheek?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...
If I told my partner to " do that again big boy" or said anything tiger-esque, we'd both dissolve into fits of laughter. It would most definitely not be conducive to the strict roleplay scenarios we sometimes undertake
S x
Haha, did you see my tongue planted firmly in my cheek?? "
Of course!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way
I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names
I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"
That's well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind being described by soft names, or called by filthy names, but other way around is a put-off.
Would be totally put off if I was called "soft" names like tiger, but say im a tiger in bed and ill be back for more lol.
My fb used to call me a filthy bastard just before she came.
Im sound totally unconvincing when I try to say anything filthy in bed  |
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