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define what a time waster is.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok lots of talk about timewasters.
Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.
But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?
For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.
We just being friendly.
But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.
Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.
But we all different.
Thoughts please.
Friendly if possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place. |
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Mine is
A someone who doesn't show up
B someone who replies to my meet today offering a meet three weeks next Tuesday
C people who attempt to get me to change what my requirements are to suit themselves
That's all ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok lots of talk about timewasters.
Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.
But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?
For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.
We just being friendly.
But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.
Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.
But we all different.
Thoughts please.
Friendly if possible "
In my personal opinion most people who arrange to meet them don't I'd call time wasters.
In my case finding anyone to meet first is wasting enough time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is
A someone who doesn't show up
B someone who replies to my meet today offering a meet three weeks next Tuesday
C people who attempt to get me to change what my requirements are to suit themselves
That's all ??"
Think that pretty much sums up my idea of a timewaster. Also people who look nothing like their profile photos. |
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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago
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The people I call time wasters include the fake profiles, I don't mind chatting with people on here as long as all parties know there isn't a meet intended.
Being relatively new, we still struggle to spot all the fakers x |
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People who don't turn up for a meet, or those that arrange one then don't reply to confirmation messages on the day.
And the fake profile idiots, what do they really get out of it? Bizarre behaviour. |
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"Ok lots of talk about timewasters.
Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.
But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?
For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.
We just being friendly.
But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.
Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.
But we all different.
Thoughts please.
Friendly if possible "
Erm....for me it was continuous chat but when the time came to meet up-she declined as she was busy with work and would not be free to meet. So arranged to meet the next day-same story the next day...busy with work yadda yadda
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv been stood up 3 times. Iv stopped arranging to meet as a result, my free time is limited, so spending it getting ready and going to meet, only to find myself sat alone like an idiot, is my time wasted! all 3 id spoken to that day, 2 just blocked me minutes before, 1 went unlos!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again. |
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"I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again. "
We really did have someone cancel because their cat died  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We firmly believe that people can have genuine reasons to cancel and maybe we just gullible.
Especially if it is a couple with kid's. Things can pop up last minute like sick children or babysitting issues. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"The people I call time wasters include the fake profiles, I don't mind chatting with people on here as long as all parties know there isn't a meet intended.
Being relatively new, we still struggle to spot all the fakers x"
These are the biggest time wasters! |
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I was called a timewaster for not replying to a silhouette man with no pics and a rubbish profile. When I asked him why I should reply he came out with crap about taking his pic off as he was hardly ever on here.. So surely that makes him a timewaster not me?
I think if I was to reply to someone with no intention to ever meet then that would make me a timewaster.. Unless I made it clear it was just for the chat |
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"I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again. "
I'm getting like that again
I was Like that the firsts time I was on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who lies consistently and repeatedly. Gets found out, and continues. Don't waste my time! 
This is what usually waste my time...  "
I don't see the point - especially on Fab. If they can't be honest on here, then what the hell are they like in "real" life?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soooo frustrating to hear that there are so many people out there that don't turn up! Ruins it for those of us trying to meet someone for fun times!!
For me a time waster is someone who persistently loses watches......sorry was that very poor?? |
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"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place."
Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place.
Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place.
Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol"
I like your way of thinking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time waster to me is anyone who lies to me to get what they want and takes up my time doing this.
I come on here primarily to make contact with people i've already met as well as people i'm interested in meeting some time in the near future. Anyone pretending they have the same intention is easy enough to catch out, but even if they waste 30 seconds of my time they have wasted it.
People who waste their own time are those who don't bother having pics for me to view, those who don't read my profile, or only contact me every blue moon when they are free and i'm not. Funnily enough it is often these same people who complain about others on here being time wasters on their status or profile when they are the ones wasting their own time.
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Be careful not to brand people with genuine excuse as time waster.e.g when a baby sitter fail to turn up. Or woman period started prior to meet up.also unforseen circumstances.yes there are habitual time waster on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd agree with you our time would only be wasted if we turned up to meet and the other person didn't, it hasn't happened yet (touch wood).
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this is my definition of a time waster |
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