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Does too many clique ruined party excitement ?

By *ieutenant OP Man over a year ago

london

This trend is becoming more popular in house party and clubs.Last week In a house party which suppose to commence from 10 30.pm.due to friends congregation chatting about 50 Shades of Grey.Infact the party later kick off around 12 midnight. You can tell few couples begin to feel very uneasy about the whole episode.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was there a question in there somewhere? ? ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Was there a question in there somewhere? ? ?"

In the thread title. Do too many cliques ruin house partie?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"This trend is becoming more popular in house party and clubs.Last week In a house party which suppose to commence from 10 30.pm.due to friends congregation chatting about 50 Shades of Grey.Infact the party later kick off around 12 midnight. You can tell few couples begin to feel very uneasy about the whole episode.

They felt uneasy about talking about 50 shades?? I never knew party times were so regimented. I thought the fun just happened when it happened?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So if you go to a party, you expect to be balls deep by a certain time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd feel uneasy if we were at a party and some guy was stood looking at his watch every 5 minutes and implying it was time to start fucking.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

So if you go to a party, you expect to be balls deep by a certain time? "

Not "balls deep". Only 'insertable length'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When i was 'new' to the scene i did feel uneasy. You can always tell when people have formed their own little circles or friendships. But, of course that would have developed over time.

Realised i'm just being paranoid to be honest. I'm the same as anybody else. I speak to everybody and anybody now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely most groups of people who meet periodically, whether social and professional, inevitably end up forming associations and relationships through shared interests and experiences.

New people into those groups don't share the experiences, but if they are there for the same interests it should be easy enough to join in.

Sounds like you were maybe there for with a slightly different agenda/purpose.

There's more to sex than sticking it somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a similar conversation with my other half at Abfab Saturday but as I pointed out we're not great at chatting to others bit shy and slightly intimidated.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

To be honest I would be more uneasy about going to a house party where it was expected that I began playing at a certain time.

Sometimes I'll be one of the first, others times I'll be one of last joining in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so you had to wait nearly 2 hours, sounds like a waste of time to me.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

Surely its only natural to congregate with the people you know,and it only seems like a clique if no one else approaches them to chat...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ok why didnt you start your own fun?

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By *LCoupleCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

"Had a similar conversation with my other half at Abfab Saturday but as I pointed out we're not great at chatting to others bit shy and slightly intimidated. "

We have the same problem. Just not great at approaching people in a club

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

Come on people, time is money...

Now herd the cattle through.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had a similar conversation with my other half at Abfab Saturday but as I pointed out we're not great at chatting to others bit shy and slightly intimidated.

We have the same problem. Just not great at approaching people in a club "

The silly thing is, it's easy because you see other do it with ease we and possibly you guys too just don't know how to do it. Sometimes we do it without trying and have a fab night but other times we just turn shy.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

did you let everyone attending know that the sex was to commence at 10:30 pm sharp..?

maybe next time synchronise watches etc to avoid any confusion..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a regular party and club goer x its not about cliques its about the social side too, seeing people you havent seen in ages or meeting new people,so nattering about 50 shades of grey would be a fun conversation to me.not that ive seen the film yet

ive never thought about timing as I tend to go private room anyhow if I want to go off play within ten minutes of being there or 2hrs later thats what I do.a party is what u make it, I dont wait for the crowd to move