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Why so many guys on here

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey everyone just wondering why there are so many guys on here compared to ladies. Is it coz there are way more single men. Women are less into casual sex. More men cheating than fems. Was just curious

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Hey everyone just wondering why there are so many guys on here compared to ladies. Is it coz there are way more single men. Women are less into casual sex. More men cheating than fems. Was just curious"

all of them plus many many more....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do men cheat more than women? It's be an interesting bit of research. *goes off to google*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because women have less problem to get sex in the real world I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm getting some popcorn and soda, this is going to be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I think the stats hold up on more cheating men.

The question is are they all cheating with the same woman. Or are more single women being conned by married men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hmm interesting. If they do think it's easier they are deluded lol

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

it's easier than hanging about till closing time, in the hope of a sniff of a bit pussy

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Women generally see the opposite sex way differently to men. Men just can't get enough of women. They're like an addiction. They want them all the time! Where as women are a bit more reserved and selective and go about getting a mate in different ways to men. There are exceptions to this of course!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?"

You mean I have to put effort in now?

That's a bit high maintenance.

Don't tell the wife.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's so so so frustrating! If there were less men I'd be having more sex! It's an outrage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?

You mean I have to put effort in now?

That's a bit high maintenance.

Don't tell the wife."

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?

You mean I have to put effort in now?

That's a bit high maintenance.

Don't tell the wife."

I know! It's blooming outrageous!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there alot cheating men on here

Just I am not new just newish profile I spotted signs early but I don't doubt I may get conned

There is a lot guys here compared to women had a lot mail

From my area alone x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single man living with hope of finding a woman to have sex with. Not every man cheats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not all men here are attached there a lot single ones

But had couple married ones message

But took while before they said they were

I not judging them just I don't want the hassle of irate mrs if goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex without effort

You got to be kidding me

Takes less effort to go to a club pick up an alcohol happy woman than posting profiles pics arranging meets

But I forgot women can multi task

As usual don't take me liturally ??

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Cos men come looking on here under the misapprehension this is a sex site .

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By *jandjbCouple over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"Cos men come looking on here under the misapprehension this is a sex site .

I think this probably hits the nail on the head. I also think it explains the action of a minority of males (and not all the time ) in clubs.

Him

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?"

But it's not, judging by some of the other threads on here, is it?

Although you're probably right, that's why they come her to start with. If I'm honest, that's why I came here at first. Now I stay because I like the socials, the forums and the chat. I've had a great time over the last 6 months, met lots of great people and no longer go hunting for sex. It either happens or it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See a lot more single females about on here in the last six months especially on the forums.

Don't think it will ever even itself but the ratio must have gone up a little bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ah would be nice to see the ratio narrow a bit. I'm on here as I don't really want a relationship at the moment but it's interesting to hear people's opinions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I googled. Seems like there's a theory women may even cheat more, but they are less likely to admit to it in a survey?

Looks like the jury is out.

I reckon a lot of women are looking after their kids which is a huge sex drive killer for many. Being a father doesn't seem to affect a guys sex drive at all.

So a lot of women don't have the luxury of free time and energy to go hunting for sex.

AND men in relationships often feeling pushed out by the kids so go looking for affection elsewhere.

Massive generalisation obviously but I suspect it happens enough to have an effect on the numbers involved.

Add in that for men it's seen as a mark of status to shag about but women are called all sorts of derogatory names if they shag around.

Plus women may be more cautious about personal safety than men so less

likely to meet online?

Lots of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I googled. Seems like there's a theory women may even cheat more, but they are less likely to admit to it in a survey?

Looks like the jury is out.

I reckon a lot of women are looking after their kids which is a huge sex drive killer for many. Being a father doesn't seem to affect a guys sex drive at all.

So a lot of women don't have the luxury of free time and energy to go hunting for sex.

AND men in relationships often feeling pushed out by the kids so go looking for affection elsewhere.

Massive generalisation obviously but I suspect it happens enough to have an effect on the numbers involved.

Add in that for men it's seen as a mark of status to shag about but women are called all sorts of derogatory names if they shag around.

Plus women may be more cautious about personal safety than men so less

likely to meet online?

Lots of reasons."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know why... But I fooooking love the fact there are so many!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I must say I know a lot of people and out of all my friends it tends to be the woman that has cheated. Not sure why. Maybe it's because men like the idea of going with another woman but when it comes down to it they don't have the balls where women probably get a lot more offers,attention And opportunity if they are a house wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't know why... But I fooooking love the fact there are so many!

Lol

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By *oojCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Cos men come looking on here under the misapprehension this is a sex site .

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

How do you know that the men on here outnumber the women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One reason could be evolution.

If you consider the animal kingdom, and especially our nearest relatives, you will see one alfa male with a group of females around him. Men are therefore genetically programmed to seek other women to have sex with. By the same token females tend to be far more selective and not favour casual sex (although on Fab many do.

)

Monamous relationships are, in evolutionary terms, a relatively modern Social and Religious construct which society and religious leaders found useful for their purposes.

Disclaimer - please do not whitter on about me supporting "cheaters".

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"One reason could be evolution.

)

Monamous relationships are, in evolutionary terms, a relatively modern Social and Religious construct which society and religious leaders found useful for their purposes.

Disclaimer - please do not whitter on about me supporting "cheaters". "

Maybe you are talking about the other guy; the alpha male

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you know that the men on here outnumber the women?"

Its obvious dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?"

This

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

How do you know that the men on here outnumber the women?

Its obvious dont you think?"

The population at large comprises of slightly more females than males. So the obvious conclusion is that there are more females on this site than males

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?

This"

Not just men we all thought so the only difference is us men were a bit wrong......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because men think it's any easy way of getting sex without effort?

This

Not just men we all thought so the only difference is us men were a bit wrong......"

Im prepared to put effort in

and do

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By *orthen soul manMan over a year ago

aberdeen

It's because to a man sex is not love and many women thing sex is love men are genially programmed to mate with as many women as they can goes back to cave men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women generally see the opposite sex way differently to men. Men just can't get enough of women. They're like an addiction. They want them all the time! Where as women are a bit more reserved and selective and go about getting a mate in different ways to men. There are exceptions to this of course!"

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Who cares

I'm happy the way it is lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems that altough there is an imbalance towards single men on this site, the single women that are here enjoy all the attention they recieve, so are definitely not complaining

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems that altough there is an imbalance towards single men on this site, the single women that are here enjoy all the attention they recieve, so are definitely not complaining

I agree but if a man reads my profile takes time to message me I might give the attention back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let us not forget,women who enjoy sex with multiple partners -slag. Men who enjoy sex with multiple partners -a stud. Even people on here have that attitude.

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By *ardbellyCouple over a year ago

Alicante

It seems a lot of the ladies on here use the term SLAG..iv not heard any guys we've met or played with use that word or even say anything like that about the women on here ?

But it also seems more guys than ladies ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do you know that the men on here outnumber the women?

Its obvious dont you think?"

Yeah just a bit obvious lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't handle my inbox if it was the other way round

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