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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?"
Age not so important 
Looks important
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?"
yes but when you get inside that matters  |
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I must admit there has to be a physical attraction for me and we all have our preferences but I think men are less fussy, after all I think of myself as old, fat and plain but am never short of offers, unfortunately most live too far away lol, I have met a couple of guys that were not shall we say, my cup of tea, purely because personality wise we got on really well but when it came to the bedroom, my heart wasn't really in it and I know I didn't give 100% |
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"I must admit there has to be a physical attraction for me and we all have our preferences but I think men are less fussy, after all I think of myself as old, fat and plain but am never short of offers, unfortunately most live too far away lol, I have met a couple of guys that were not shall we say, my cup of tea, purely because personality wise we got on really well but when it came to the bedroom, my heart wasn't really in it and I know I didn't give 100%"
I may have read your post wrong, and I apologise in advance if I have, but I get the feeling YOU don't think you're worthy of better so sleep with men because they ask?!! After all if they're not fussy you're grateful?!!
I truly hope I've misinterpreted your post, if not, I think that's rather sad!!!
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We have to find people that we are going to have sex with attractive (to us)- as every ones perceptions of attractiveness are different - age isn't massively important but to us size and looks certainly are! Z |
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"I may have read your post wrong, and I apologise in advance if I have, but I get the feeling YOU don't think you're worthy of better so sleep with men because they ask?!! After all if they're not fussy you're grateful?!!
I truly hope I've misinterpreted your post, if not, I think that's rather sad!!!
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Lol yeah you did get it wrong, I am fussy and age size and looks matters a great deal to me and I meant I am never short of offers from guys that fit my critera but on the odd occasion that I have gone for personality alone, the spark was never there |
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over a year ago
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Although age, looks & size is important I think if you get to know people you bend the rules for the right person so I can understand the 'it's what's on the inside' bit too
Need to be attracted to something first though! |
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over a year ago
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AFTERTHOUGHT.....lol
I will admit that I have declined offers based on age/size/looks.....
It is very hard getting to know anyone just by mailing and seeing a few pics....
Socials are the BEST way to meet others that you would normally decline...It also works the other way, have seen great profiles/pics on here, but when meeting......erm...no!!! lol
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"I may have read your post wrong, and I apologise in advance if I have, but I get the feeling YOU don't think you're worthy of better so sleep with men because they ask?!! After all if they're not fussy you're grateful?!!
I truly hope I've misinterpreted your post, if not, I think that's rather sad!!!
Lol yeah you did get it wrong, I am fussy and age size and looks matters a great deal to me and I meant I am never short of offers from guys that fit my critera but on the odd occasion that I have gone for personality alone, the spark was never there"
LOL...glad I was wrong!! |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?"
Age, fairly important (why we have an age range)
Looks, not so important if there's a click.
Size, very very important (assuming we are talking body size, not cock or boob size!).
There has to be some physical attraction, has to be, *has* to be! |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
Age, fairly important (why we have an age range)
Looks, not so important if there's a click.
Size, very very important (assuming we are talking body size, not cock or boob size!).
There has to be some physical attraction, has to be, *has* to be!"
Looks and size are intertwined! Its both visual attraction. |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
Age, fairly important (why we have an age range)
Looks, not so important if there's a click.
Size, very very important (assuming we are talking body size, not cock or boob size!).
There has to be some physical attraction, has to be, *has* to be!
Looks and size are intertwined! Its both visual attraction. "
Very true! I think I saw looks and thought "face", saw size and thought "body"... or didn't think at all.
One of them.
Regardless, they are important |
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"I must admit there has to be a physical attraction for me and we all have our preferences but I think men are less fussy, after all I think of myself as old, fat and plain but am never short of offers, unfortunately most live too far away lol, I have met a couple of guys that were not shall we say, my cup of tea, purely because personality wise we got on really well but when it came to the bedroom, my heart wasn't really in it and I know I didn't give 100%
I may have read your post wrong, and I apologise in advance if I have, but I get the feeling YOU don't think you're worthy of better so sleep with men because they ask?!! After all if they're not fussy you're grateful?!!
I truly hope I've misinterpreted your post, if not, I think that's rather sad!!!
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Must admit i read it on the same lines as you did, ive slept with guys cos they have booked a room, because i felt obligated to, shant be doing that again, just like she says, they werent my cup of tea, sex was equally as boring  |
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"Looks play a small part i definetly go for personality but you have to find the person somewhat attractive.
Age, looks, size not important!!!!!
So you would go with a 50stone minger in there 80's?"
no not at all !! but it goes two ways on both sides when u see profiles saying dont want anyone over a size 12 must be fit not over the age of 30 and when u speak to them they are so rude i class myself a BBW im not fit and im 41 and im no supermodel myself saying age looks size not inportant !! within reason |
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"Looks play a small part i definetly go for personality but you have to find the person somewhat attractive.
Age, looks, size not important!!!!!
So you would go with a 50stone minger in there 80's?
no not at all !! but it goes two ways on both sides when u see profiles saying dont want anyone over a size 12 must be fit not over the age of 30 and when u speak to them they are so rude i class myself a BBW im not fit and im 41 and im no supermodel myself saying age looks size not inportant !! within reason "
ive been turned down by a couple who were looking for slim, they thought i was a 12, when i said 14, they said thanks and good luck |
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"Looks play a small part i definetly go for personality but you have to find the person somewhat attractive.
Age, looks, size not important!!!!!
So you would go with a 50stone minger in there 80's?
no not at all !! but it goes two ways on both sides when u see profiles saying dont want anyone over a size 12 must be fit not over the age of 30 and when u speak to them they are so rude i class myself a BBW im not fit and im 41 and im no supermodel myself saying age looks size not inportant !! within reason
ive been turned down by a couple who were looking for slim, they thought i was a 12, when i said 14, they said thanks and good luck "
how could they turn u down !! u have a perfect body very sexy x |
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Age: providing they are not too much younger than me, as I don't like to babysit.
Look: got to be pleasing to the eyes.
Size: small ones do nothing for me, and I can only look at the really big ones and admire them from afar!
In addition to the above, wit, sense of humour, manners, smell, personal hygiene, dress sense, etc. etc. all play a part in a person's desirability as a playmate.
Fussy? Me? Damn right I am!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a not so frequent visitor to Chams, I see Mr and Mrs average having more fun, more often than the so called Mr and Mrs Stunning...
Perhaps its cos us average people are more approachable, or perhaps we try harder because we don't slide by on looks?
As for age, Am middle aged, have met same, younger and older and I think its about how sexy you are!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That depends on how manually adept you are?
You want to see me juggle??
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Well i know you can manipulate figures, so thats a start, probably better to weigh things up first.....
Go on.
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I fed you the line! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can juggle tennis balls, not bowling balls!!"
PMSL!
Am glad to say they aren't that big cos would be walking round with black eyes with all the riding I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" would be walking round with black eyes with all the riding I do
How indiscreet! I'm all for the empowerment of ladies, but let's not strip away too much veneer."
Horses, riding horses! Big breasted ladies that ride have to wear over-the-shoulder-boulder-holders unless the want to end up with knee warmers for breasts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can warm my knees if you like "
Well get that cute little ass to the Midlands then, and I will warm a little more than that, preferably before my engine overheats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its important to me
The first bites with the eye so to speak, if i dont like a person pics or what they look like on cam, im never going to know if they are nice or not, because its simply wouldnt get that far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
Maybe if they were really ugly themselves?
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty"
I don't see what's nasty about what he said. He's honest and I agree with him. |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't see what's nasty about what he said. He's honest and I agree with him."
so if a fat or someone u think is ugly !! you would mail them and say SORRY WE THINK U ARE TWO FAY AND UGLY and thats not nasty ? it puts people of from useing fab its a good site and dont need people like u and him name calling isnt a thanks but no thanks better |
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"lol - of course it's just fun - but we have to find people attractive and as you said yourself we all have different views as to what we deem to be attractive.Z"
thats very true and eveyone is not everyones cup of tea !! we all like diffrent types of people but i just hate the !! fat thing and people that thinks they are gods gift lol |
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over a year ago
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty"
I don't know why you're upset by this post?
He has just said the same as you have about people liking different things
I can't see where he suggests he's some sort of supermodel.....you said that!
I can't see where he suggests that he mails people to tell them they're fat or ugly....you said that!
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't know why you're upset by this post?
He has just said the same as you have about people liking different things
I can't see where he suggests he's some sort of supermodel.....you said that!
I can't see where he suggests that he mails people to tell them they're fat or ugly....you said that!
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at the end of the day this is a swinging site we are not looking for a relationship we are looking for fun the trouble is some people on here are not happy with what they have |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't know why you're upset by this post?
He has just said the same as you have about people liking different things
I can't see where he suggests he's some sort of supermodel.....you said that!
I can't see where he suggests that he mails people to tell them they're fat or ugly....you said that!
at the end of the day this is a swinging site we are not looking for a relationship we are looking for fun the trouble is some people on here are not happy with what they have "
How do you mean some people are not happy with what they have? |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't know why you're upset by this post?
He has just said the same as you have about people liking different things
I can't see where he suggests he's some sort of supermodel.....you said that!
I can't see where he suggests that he mails people to tell them they're fat or ugly....you said that!
at the end of the day this is a swinging site we are not looking for a relationship we are looking for fun the trouble is some people on here are not happy with what they have
How do you mean some people are not happy with what they have? "
sometimes if a couple are into swinging one of them are not happy with their partner so they are looking for more than the !! fun!! part of it we all have our likes and disslike if we all liked the same life would be very boaring lol |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't see what's nasty about what he said. He's honest and I agree with him.
so if a fat or someone u think is ugly !! you would mail them and say SORRY WE THINK U ARE TWO FAY AND UGLY and thats not nasty ? it puts people of from useing fab its a good site and dont need people like u and him name calling isnt a thanks but no thanks better "
I can't see where he said he would write to anyone saying that!!! |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't see what's nasty about what he said. He's honest and I agree with him.
so if a fat or someone u think is ugly !! you would mail them and say SORRY WE THINK U ARE TWO FAY AND UGLY and thats not nasty ? it puts people of from useing fab its a good site and dont need people like u and him name calling isnt a thanks but no thanks better
I can't see where he said he would write to anyone saying that!!! "
if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ? |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
unlike yourself we are not all supermodels lol people that u might think is sexy others might think they are ugly and im sure if u sent replys like this to people that mail u its nasty
I don't know why you're upset by this post?
He has just said the same as you have about people liking different things
I can't see where he suggests he's some sort of supermodel.....you said that!
I can't see where he suggests that he mails people to tell them they're fat or ugly....you said that!
at the end of the day this is a swinging site we are not looking for a relationship we are looking for fun the trouble is some people on here are not happy with what they have
How do you mean some people are not happy with what they have?
sometimes if a couple are into swinging one of them are not happy with their partner so they are looking for more than the !! fun!! part of it we all have our likes and disslike if we all liked the same life would be very boaring lol"
I don't understand what that has got to do with what you were saying to Archangel but never mind  |
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ? "
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself |
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I wouldnt ever be deliberately cruel to someone if they messaged me. I would never say, no sorry you're too ugly for me because theres no need to be nasty or cruel. Id like to think that I treat people better than that. But that said, we do all have levels of different attraction, it might not even be down to looks, it could be the way someone writes etc. I would probably tell a little white lie and say thank you for your message but we are unable to meet, or something like that |
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I'm more than happy in my relationship, looks are still important - I can't have sex with a person that I don't find attractive - I wouldn't dream of telling someone that I wouldn't meet them as I thought they were fat - thats terrible and I'm sure no one else would send that kind of message either! If you are that insecure about your appearance (thats the imprestion I'm getting from your posts) then should you attack others who are not insecure? It doesn't mean they think they're any BETTER than other people! Z |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?"
I just love the way we were asked for our views then got slated for having them! Classic! Z |
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i think looks are and so a views coz if u dont find the other person to your liking there wont be any fun, and isnt that the point to have fun???
As fare as the age goes people have there own view on age some people dont care like me and some people do, but isnt that there choice???
dont have a go at people coz of what they like and dont like.
Some people like marmite some people dont, its thesame thing |
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"Looks play a small part i definetly go for personality but you have to find the person somewhat attractive.
Age, looks, size not important!!!!!
So you would go with a 50stone minger in there 80's?
no not at all !! but it goes two ways on both sides when u see profiles saying dont want anyone over a size 12 must be fit not over the age of 30 and when u speak to them they are so rude i class myself a BBW im not fit and im 41 and im no supermodel myself saying age looks size not inportant !! within reason
ive been turned down by a couple who were looking for slim, they thought i was a 12, when i said 14, they said thanks and good luck
how could they turn u down !! u have a perfect body very sexy x"
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself"
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it |
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"I wouldnt ever be deliberately cruel to someone if they messaged me. I would never say, no sorry you're too ugly for me because theres no need to be nasty or cruel. Id like to think that I treat people better than that. But that said, we do all have levels of different attraction, it might not even be down to looks, it could be the way someone writes etc. I would probably tell a little white lie and say thank you for your message but we are unable to meet, or something like that "
so true that is what we would say !! a nice swinger lol |
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"I'm more than happy in my relationship, looks are still important - I can't have sex with a person that I don't find attractive - I wouldn't dream of telling someone that I wouldn't meet them as I thought they were fat - thats terrible and I'm sure no one else would send that kind of message either! If you are that insecure about your appearance (thats the imprestion I'm getting from your posts) then should you attack others who are not insecure? It doesn't mean they think they're any BETTER than other people! Z"
im very happy with the way i look im a bbw but it gets to me when its fat and ugly are said many times on this post but they are all said by slim people |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
I just love the way we were asked for our views then got slated for having them! Classic! Z"
views yes but not insults |
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over a year ago
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all are important to me - i wpouldn't sleep with a 20 year old like i would sleep with anyone over 50. i could not sleep with anyone i did not find physically attractive.
Yes personality can make someone who is fairly average far more appealing, but there has to be the initial chemistry and attraction before anything else can be considered
Size = depends on the context. i'm a BBW so prefer not to meet men who have beer bellies as I don't want our bellies clashing and getting in the way lmao. I prefer stocky men, do not find slim men attractive. i prefer clean and tidy in all aspects, not scruffy looking.
so many things to consider i'm surprised i've met anyone! lol |
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"Looks play a small part i definetly go for personality but you have to find the person somewhat attractive.
Age, looks, size not important!!!!!
So you would go with a 50stone minger in there 80's?
no not at all !! but it goes two ways on both sides when u see profiles saying dont want anyone over a size 12 must be fit not over the age of 30 and when u speak to them they are so rude i class myself a BBW im not fit and im 41 and im no supermodel myself saying age looks size not inportant !! within reason
ive been turned down by a couple who were looking for slim, they thought i was a 12, when i said 14, they said thanks and good luck
how could they turn u down !! u have a perfect body very sexy x
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over a year ago
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For us... Age.. Not too old and not too young..
Looks.. Well to be quite honest most people are attractive, some more than others.. The truly only a mother could love that face gene has probably been breed out through natural selection
(a comic aside.. This may be tested by a visit to Corby on a Saturday)
Now comes the sticky point of size.. Mrs new and I have probably lost 7 or 8 stone between us .. And now in our svelte like states, still going after four years plus, we do prefer to play with people of. The same shape as us.. But not too skinny
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"and what if they were millionaire would you still be saying the same now there is a thought "
Yes - I don't give a toss about what others have got - couldn't shag any one I didn't find attractive - oh - and I have not mentioned 'fat' or 'ugly' in any of my posts - it;s all subjective. Z |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
I just love the way we were asked for our views then got slated for having them! Classic! Z
views yes but not insults "
OK - fair enough - show me one insult here! Z |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
I just love the way we were asked for our views then got slated for having them! Classic! Z
views yes but not insults
OK - fair enough - show me one insult here! Z"
did not say u insulted i said others on here read the posts |
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?
I just love the way we were asked for our views then got slated for having them! Classic! Z
views yes but not insults
OK - fair enough - show me one insult here! Z
did not say u insulted i said others on here read the posts "
yep - I have - no insults there! Z |
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FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
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that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z |
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z"
ITS NOT HE (TONY) ITS SHE (TRACEY) DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BBW LOL HAVE U READ THE POSTS THAT I MYSELF TRACEY WROTE IT SAIM IM A BBW LOL |
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z
ITS NOT HE (TONY) ITS SHE (TRACEY) DOES HE LOOK LIKE A BBW LOL HAVE U READ THE POSTS THAT I MYSELF TRACEY WROTE IT SAIM IM A BBW LOL "
You don't need to shout - but your point is? Z |
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Going back to the original question, I have never selected a sexual poartner because they have physically attrscted me, but because they have mentally stimulated me.
The only thing that will put me of a guy, is if he has emotionally dead eyes.
I haven't had strings of partners, but what I have found sexy about them is their desire for me; if they wear that aura of sexuality, push it on to me, it will make me feel amazing and that is what I find attractive |
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I have read every post an not seen one insult!!!
Archangel was not insulting anyone....so, he wouldnt shag an ugly bird...good on him!!!! lol
Hell, I wouldnt shag a fat/thin ugly bloke.....
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"I have read every post an not seen one insult!!!
Archangel was not insulting anyone....so, he wouldnt shag an ugly bird...good on him!!!! lol
Hell, I wouldnt shag a fat/thin ugly bloke.....
Cath xXx"
wey hey- another sane post - it isn't all about people being 'fatist' at all - Z |
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z"
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My post was not directed at anyone in particular. The thread was getting rather heated, and I thought I should say something, that's all! |
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z
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My post was not directed at anyone in particular. The thread was getting rather heated, and I thought I should say something, that's all! "
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
that wasn't an issue at all - the op was asking a question that seemed to get answered quite comprehensively and in a nice manner - he took offense where there was none - i'd never refer to any one as fat or ugly - been blocked now anyway so gutted! Z
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My post was not directed at anyone in particular. The thread was getting rather heated, and I thought I should say something, that's all!
i give up !!"
Good idea! That last quote was in favour of you by the way - so yep- give up now! Z |
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m here due to depression my weight spiralled so consider myself a male bbw lol but we are definetly more about mentally being attracted rather than physically . ps losing weight fast now |
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"I'm more than happy in my relationship, looks are still important - I can't have sex with a person that I don't find attractive - I wouldn't dream of telling someone that I wouldn't meet them as I thought they were fat - thats terrible and I'm sure no one else would send that kind of message either! If you are that insecure about your appearance (thats the imprestion I'm getting from your posts) then should you attack others who are not insecure? It doesn't mean they think they're any BETTER than other people! Z
im very happy with the way i look im a bbw but it gets to me when its fat and ugly are said many times on this post but they are all said by slim people "
I hope that in your comment you are not saying that all slim people slate those overweight people as fat and ugly?? I as a slim person, would never dream of being so derogatory especially having been ridiculed all my life for being born without good looks therefore i know what its like to be made fun of, it would be like the kettle calling the pot black
Oh and ive lost the weight so that at least i have something going for me, otherwise i would be both fat And ugly wouldnt i
I have to say that at the beach party at Chameleons, there were some very very hot BBW's, with curves in all the right placeslets face it, just because someone is not slim, does not make them ugly does it. |
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it "
Erm, I'm fat so why would the word offend me?!! There's no need to be indignant on my behalf
As has been said we all have different standards: standards are subjective.
Some people specify "very attractive" playmates, I like "attractive" playmates too BUT if they are "thick", write in text speak, don't have an opinion then they do absolutely nothing for me: that's what works for me.
Naturally sone will bristle and say why should it matter: it matters to me, it's my enjoyment.
What gives any of us the right to try and dictate to others how they play?!! |
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I can't believe everyone has got so stressed about a lighthearted question!
Attraction is determined within miniseconds of seeing someone (apparently), and if everyone was attracted to the same people, it would be pretty boring....
Can we all go have fun with those we are attracted to now please?!!
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it
Erm, I'm fat so why would the word offend me?!! There's no need to be indignant on my behalf
As has been said we all have different standards: standards are subjective.
Some people specify "very attractive" playmates, I like "attractive" playmates too BUT if they are "thick", write in text speak, don't have an opinion then they do absolutely nothing for me: that's what works for me.
Naturally sone will bristle and say why should it matter: it matters to me, it's my enjoyment.
What gives any of us the right to try and dictate to others how they play?!! "
Well said!!
i too am fat..i am what i am and worry not what anyone else thinks!
I like me..i think im lovely..many agree..many disagree...that is life!
I would not play with someone i didnt find attractive and to be very honest i get offended when people dont care what someone looks like!
I am someone..NOT anyone ....so I only meet people who find me attractive and vice versa.
Anything less and you do yourself and your playmate a disservice
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"is age looks size inportant ? or is it just fun !! to us its not its what you are inside that matters but what are your views on this ?"
They are all important as i see it and i hope in the people i meet. A man who views a hole as a hole is unimpressive to me. |
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hi, they are all important,but i have this problem when we chat to people. can we see a pic of your partner (dave)so when they do see they dont get back. so what happens when you have a very beautiful wife like me, and i,m just a normal looking guy, hope i,ve put this right.lol |
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"FFS, lighten up!
I would like to believe the BBWs on here and everywhere else are happy in their own skin, and do not mind being called fat! Myself included!
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i'm a BBW but don't enjoy being called fat. I don't believe in titles - I say i'm a BBW so people have an idea that i'm a bigger lass and it's a term accepted on the site. But i would be offended if someone called me fat.
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it "
You really have issues don't you. I would have pm'd you but for some reason you blocked me which is amazing as i have had no contact with you.
Right lets clear things up as you seem to lack the capacity to understand things.
Ugly is different to all people. One persons ugly is another's attractive. I stated that no one would shag someone they and the key word here is THEY found ugly.
I could find your remarks insulting but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and grant you low mental capacity as an excuse for your boorish behaviour. |
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it
Erm, I'm fat so why would the word offend me?!! There's no need to be indignant on my behalf
As has been said we all have different standards: standards are subjective.
Some people specify "very attractive" playmates, I like "attractive" playmates too BUT if they are "thick", write in text speak, don't have an opinion then they do absolutely nothing for me: that's what works for me.
Naturally sone will bristle and say why should it matter: it matters to me, it's my enjoyment.
What gives any of us the right to try and dictate to others how they play?!! "
I'm not sure that they were speaking solely for yourself, but anyone that WOULD be insulted for being called fat.
It's ok to say you were not insulted by the use of the term, but if someone on the street called you it or a partner or a work colleague, you would most probably take it for what it is, a derogatory word.
Fat is tissue, to call someone fat is saying that is all they are, a mass of fatty tissue, anyone who is overweight knows that they are more than just fatty tissue! I don't mind if someone told me I was overweight as it is a matter of fact...I would perhaps applaud their perceptiveness, but little else.
When you call someone fat, you are, like it or not, insulting them.
The fact that 'some folk don't find it insulting, doesn't mean all won't and doesn't make it any less offensive.
Some folk don't find n*gga or baldy or c*nt offensive, doesn't mean it isn't. If it offends someone, it is offensive.
As adults it would be nice to think that if someone could recognise a word could offend some, they would use a less offensive alternative...then perhpas there wouldn't be lengthly threads debating whether it is or not.
I try this in life at all times and if I make the mistake of using a word and someone objects, I just apologise for causing said offence and hope they understand it was never intended to be said in malice...what I don't do is tell them they are wrong to be offended.
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it
Erm, I'm fat so why would the word offend me?!! There's no need to be indignant on my behalf
As has been said we all have different standards: standards are subjective.
Some people specify "very attractive" playmates, I like "attractive" playmates too BUT if they are "thick", write in text speak, don't have an opinion then they do absolutely nothing for me: that's what works for me.
Naturally sone will bristle and say why should it matter: it matters to me, it's my enjoyment.
What gives any of us the right to try and dictate to others how they play?!!
I'm not sure that they were speaking solely for yourself, but anyone that WOULD be insulted for being called fat.
It's ok to say you were not insulted by the use of the term, but if someone on the street called you it or a partner or a work colleague, you would most probably take it for what it is, a derogatory word.
Fat is tissue, to call someone fat is saying that is all they are, a mass of fatty tissue, anyone who is overweight knows that they are more than just fatty tissue! I don't mind if someone told me I was overweight as it is a matter of fact...I would perhaps applaud their perceptiveness, but little else.
When you call someone fat, you are, like it or not, insulting them.
The fact that 'some folk don't find it insulting, doesn't mean all won't and doesn't make it any less offensive.
Some folk don't find n*gga or baldy or c*nt offensive, doesn't mean it isn't. If it offends someone, it is offensive.
As adults it would be nice to think that if someone could recognise a word could offend some, they would use a less offensive alternative...then perhpas there wouldn't be lengthly threads debating whether it is or not.
I try this in life at all times and if I make the mistake of using a word and someone objects, I just apologise for causing said offence and hope they understand it was never intended to be said in malice...what I don't do is tell them they are wrong to be offended.
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Personally, I find your need to use n*gger in your example offensive as I feel it was aimed at me, whereby I didn't feel "fat" was!
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Iv re read this thread and I still can't see anyone calling anyone fat or ugly
Is it going to get to the stage where we can't even mention a word without it offending someone?
There are a lot of words I would find offensive if they were directed at me
Someone saying they would'nt fuck me because im too fat and ugly for them would offend me,as its a needless insult
Someone saying they would'nt fuck a fat ugly person does'nt offend me,its all subjective anyway,and what they find fat and ugly is'nt going to be the same as the next person |
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Personally, I find your need to use n*gger in your example offensive as I feel it was aimed at me, whereby I didn't feel "fat" was!
Oh the irony! "
And I stand by my comment that i would apologise if I caused undue offence. I'm not a hypocrite, I would not tell you that you had no right to be offended.
Though you are smart enough to know that was in no way aimed at you. |
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it
You really have issues don't you. I would have pm'd you but for some reason you blocked me which is amazing as i have had no contact with you.
Right lets clear things up as you seem to lack the capacity to understand things.
Ugly is different to all people. One persons ugly is another's attractive. I stated that no one would shag someone they and the key word here is THEY found ugly.
I could find your remarks insulting but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and grant you low mental capacity as an excuse for your boorish behaviour. "
Actually Archangel, I understood the comment you earlier which seemed to rile the OP. Your only fault was using the word fat when you could have used the word overweight, i knew you didnt mean it as a derogatory comment, unfortunately thats the only word that was seen. Had they read all of the comment they would have noticed that you used a far nicer phrase than "sympathy shag"!
Funny really cos they used the same words people have used in their comments, but they didnt like it |
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if u read some of the post they are insulting and rude eg insulting fat and ugly people saying no one should shag a ugly person unless they where ugly themselfs so theirs nothink with that ?
No-one has insulted anyone on this thread,you have just twisted something you have read to suit yourself
. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
unless they where ugly
so this is not an insult for bbw people the word FAT no need for it
You really have issues don't you. I would have pm'd you but for some reason you blocked me which is amazing as i have had no contact with you.
Right lets clear things up as you seem to lack the capacity to understand things.
Ugly is different to all people. One persons ugly is another's attractive. I stated that no one would shag someone they and the key word here is THEY found ugly.
I could find your remarks insulting but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and grant you low mental capacity as an excuse for your boorish behaviour.
Actually Archangel, I understood the comment you earlier which seemed to rile the OP. Your only fault was using the word fat when you could have used the word overweight, i knew you didnt mean it as a derogatory comment, unfortunately thats the only word that was seen. Had they read all of the comment they would have noticed that you used a far nicer phrase than "sympathy shag"!
Funny really cos they used the same words people have used in their comments, but they didnt like it "
I do not see anything wrong with unseeing the word fat. I am fat, i eat too much, I am not obese yet though. I would not have sex with someone who is obese as I do not find that look appealing.
If you look in the dictionary FAT has a nice simple explanation and it is what fat people are.
I don't see people jumping up and down about other words used on the forums that are actually classed as offensive words or derogatory words in the dictionary.
Is fat to be a word people are not allowed to use in its pure form like many others that the PC brigade try and force us not to use!
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold."
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z"
possibly as thin has never been associated with any negative comment...it is, in fact, probably more of a compliment. I do, however, believe some folk are offended by being called skinny |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z
possibly as thin has never been associated with any negative comment...it is, in fact, probably more of a compliment. I do, however, believe some folk are offended by being called skinny"
But in the context of the comment it was used in exactly the same way as fat - merely as a description of body size without any negative connotations! Z |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z
possibly as thin has never been associated with any negative comment...it is, in fact, probably more of a compliment. I do, however, believe some folk are offended by being called skinny
But in the context of the comment it was used in exactly the same way as fat - merely as a description of body size without any negative connotations! Z"
That's how I looked at it!
Sadly, there will ALWAYS be someone who takes offense at something!
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z
possibly as thin has never been associated with any negative comment...it is, in fact, probably more of a compliment. I do, however, believe some folk are offended by being called skinny
But in the context of the comment it was used in exactly the same way as fat - merely as a description of body size without any negative connotations! Z"
as I said earlier though, if you know a word, in or out of context, could cause offence, why not use the less offensive alternative...like overweight?!
everyone here seems to agree that if you call a person fat, it isn't gracious and that they wouldnt say it to a persons face nor in a pm...which seems to relay that they all recognise that folk can be offended by it.
it might be ott to some, but surely a person has a right to say if they are offended or not and it is not for us to say they have no right to be offended? |
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I do find it interesting that no one finds the words "thin" or "skinny" offensive on these forums, yet using the word "fat" promotes a wave of reaction.
When I was a teen I was 6 foot and 9 stone 10. Not quite skeletal but not far off. No fault of my own I just had the standard 3 to 4 meals a day, which wasn't enough for my metabolism. People would say to me "God, you look skinny" or more simply "You need to eat something", which I did laugh off (helped being a cocky little git I suppose) but I hated the way I looked.
Obviously once I had my own place and job I started cramming 7 meals a day into my system, coupled with high weight low reps hard training for now almost 6 years, and that coupled with my metabolism at 33 slowing to that of a high metabolic rate 25 year old means I finally got the body I wanted as a teen which would look good on someone in their early twenties for that matter, which I suppose is better late than never as my mates do seem to be hitting beer gut age with the onset of their mid thiries fast approaching.
Point is though I found the term "skinny" highly offensive personally, it's just no one seems to give a shite about that, but woe betide you if you mention the word "fat"....just a strange double standard I think.
Interestingly enough btw, I can find all sizes attractive in different ways, it's just I have certain standards for my own body, which is odd, but that's just me all over really.... |
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"Jesus its important to everyone at some level. If your not attracted to someone then your not going to get turned on. Some like fat people some like thin we all like different. We all set different standards too but i don't believe anyone would shag a really ugly person even if they had a heart of gold.
Lets just read this again - I totally agree with this comment and haven't noticed any one getting upset of being insulted by the word 'thin' - this is just clear common sense and I can't understand why the OP has taken issue with it! Z
possibly as thin has never been associated with any negative comment...it is, in fact, probably more of a compliment. I do, however, believe some folk are offended by being called skinny
But in the context of the comment it was used in exactly the same way as fat - merely as a description of body size without any negative connotations! Z
as I said earlier though, if you know a word, in or out of context, could cause offence, why not use the less offensive alternative...like overweight?!
everyone here seems to agree that if you call a person fat, it isn't gracious and that they wouldnt say it to a persons face nor in a pm...which seems to relay that they all recognise that folk can be offended by it.
it might be ott to some, but surely a person has a right to say if they are offended or not and it is not for us to say they have no right to be offended?"
But no-one has called anyone fat or ugly on this thread,if they had I can understand them being offended,but they hav'nt |
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"I do find it interesting that no one finds the words "thin" or "skinny" offensive on these forums, yet using the word "fat" promotes a wave of reaction.
When I was a teen I was 6 foot and 9 stone 10. Not quite skeletal but not far off. No fault of my own I just had the standard 3 to 4 meals a day, which wasn't enough for my metabolism. People would say to me "God, you look skinny" or more simply "You need to eat something", which I did laugh off (helped being a cocky little git I suppose) but I hated the way I looked.
Obviously once I had my own place and job I started cramming 7 meals a day into my system, coupled with high weight low reps hard training for now almost 6 years, and that coupled with my metabolism at 33 slowing to that of a high metabolic rate 25 year old means I finally got the body I wanted as a teen which would look good on someone in their early twenties for that matter, which I suppose is better late than never as my mates do seem to be hitting beer gut age with the onset of their mid thiries fast approaching.
Point is though I found the term "skinny" highly offensive personally, it's just no one seems to give a shite about that, but woe betide you if you mention the word "fat"....just a strange double standard I think.
Interestingly enough btw, I can find all sizes attractive in different ways, it's just I have certain standards for my own body, which is odd, but that's just me all over really.... "
I think i did just say that some folk do find the wors skinny an insult.
fact is, had the OP said "i'm offended" and the publisher responded "no offence meant"...we would have all just gone along with the thread without comment or concern.
As it is, this didn't happen and everyone else took offence about the OP being offended....seems the OP is the only one on this thread without the right to be offended!!!
ironic huh? |
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You did indeed say that bonny lass, I was midway through typing my little essay when you did though!
And you're right, there is a certain degree of irony.... |
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