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By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is there anyone else who 'suffers' with this. I have just been reading the thread about how women get disappointed when a man doesn't cum and feel like they've failed at something.
Do men feel the same? I have never orgasmed with a man but thay doesn't stop me from enjoying the sex. Am I alone with this on here?
I don't mind PMs if you're not happy discussing it in public. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just me then. Great   "
Women on a swingers site are likely to have greater sex drives than the general population and also I would guess are more likely to persue orgasm vigorously?? That's probably why not much response. Also using the correct term as your title may have deterred the majority of the populace  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a friend that isnt on here that will rarely orgasm through sex, but can bring herself to orgasm. She puts it down to control.
She had a very bad experience when she was young, which I can't go into. She loves sex but she has to have ownership of the orgasm itself. Nothing distresses her more though than having some patronising bloke trying to tell her that he can teach her how to enjoy herself again. People are complex creatures, there is no right or wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never cum from sex either. I don't feel that I "suffer" with it in any way, it's just the way that my body works.
What really annoys me is when men then assume that they can "make it happen" for me, as though they have some kind of right to do it - completely ignoring the fact that that isn't what I want!!!
Yes, there are things in my far past that are involved, and I've know many other women in the same situation with problems raising out of very serious abuse - and those are things that we only share with those very close to us... We never want to "explain" and shouldn't be asked to...
But if any woman wants to discuss it with me in private, then they are very welcome, and I'd love to talk...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd feel disappointed if I didn't make the lady organ. I love to please and my main goal during sex is to please and make the time for the woman as nice as possible for her which include giving organs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd feel disappointed if I didn't make the lady organ. I love to please and my main goal during sex is to please and make the time for the woman as nice as possible for her which include giving organs. "
But what makes you think that an orgasm will please a woman when she's specifically said that it's not what she wants???
Why is it so hard to try pleasing her by attending to the things that she does ask for???
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met couple younger than me she had never cum with her husband
But she did with me and she was a regular fb with him dropping her off at mine
First time she started crying I am sorry iam sorry before I relised she was going to cum
We videoed the sessions for him to watch with her later
Good times had |
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By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I met couple younger than me she had never cum with her husband
But she did with me and she was a regular fb with him dropping her off at mine
First time she started crying I am sorry iam sorry before I relised she was going to cum
We videoed the sessions for him to watch with her later
Good times had"
Bet that made him feel good ;/
Good to see that I'm not alone, but does seem to reinforce that some men think that there needs to be an orgasm for it be worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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my first sexual partner was my ex and was with just him for 20 years - i thought it always had to end with his orgasm - took a while to realise that this isnt the case but went a long time with that guilt feeling if bloke never came - |
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