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curious about those who dont like cum

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now I know we are all very different and we all have our own likes and dislikes but recently had a few discussions about cum... Either love or hate it... And the ladies that hated it some didn't even like it with a partner or that sex could be messy full stop.

When I asked why it was often linked to something that had happened in their past... Or they had no idea..

So for those ladies that don't like it... What is it for you that makes it such a bad thing...

Thanks for indulging my curious mind.

No offence is meant... I'm just genuinely curious

Ms deviant

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

Like it as in taste or as in appearance?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mrs loves it all over her but won't take it in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Like it as in taste or as in appearance?"

The ladies I were talking to don't like it anywhere at all... Not even with partners.

I know some don't like the taste and to be fair sometimes a guys cum can be vile if he eats badly or smokes a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't abide anything human borne, that's wet and gloopy, on my body.

Not just spunk.

Unless it's from my partner

S x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Even more curious is me, cos I'm a bi guy and I'm not at all keen on the taste of cum, not my own never mind someone elses. I always like the idea of it more than the reality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My mrs loves it all over her but won't take it in her mouth "

Pretty much this. She loves seeing me cum, and the feel of it hitting her. She will take it in her mouth, but dislikes the taste so never swallows it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont like it on my face or mouth, anywhere else is ok, I won't let a guy cum over my pussy, just seems pointless using a comdom if he's just going to wip it off and cum over the bit your protecting

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By *un4threeCouple over a year ago

Waterford

Mrs loves getting come on her tits...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry my curiosity came from people that find it a vile bi product of sex...

I'm curious as to why... As I said the ladies I spoke to it was normally from a bad experience... But talking those that can't stand it full stop.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now I know we are all very different and we all have our own likes and dislikes but recently had a few discussions about cum... Either love or hate it... And the ladies that hated it some didn't even like it with a partner or that sex could be messy full stop.

When I asked why it was often linked to something that had happened in their past... Or they had no idea..

So for those ladies that don't like it... What is it for you that makes it such a bad thing...

Thanks for indulging my curious mind.

No offence is meant... I'm just genuinely curious

Ms deviant "

For me (Mrs) it's the smell and taste, just turns my stomach. Happy for it to be on my body but away from my face - boobs down

Not keen on it getting on my hands either - bit gooey and urgh - but I can cope.

Don't think there's a deep-seated reason for it, for me anyway.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry my curiosity came from people that find it a vile bi product of sex...

I'm curious as to why... As I said the ladies I spoke to it was normally from a bad experience... But talking those that can't stand it full stop.

I don't think most that don't like it have any psychological problems or PTSD causing them to hate it on them or seeing it. It's messy - some people can deal with mess, some can't

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By *untime duetCouple over a year ago

leeds

like the feel of it squirting on boobs ass or face just not in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The smell taste and texture turns my guts. I can tolerate it on my body as long as I wipe it straight off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The smell taste and texture turns my guts. I can tolerate it on my body as long as I wipe it straight off. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate the taste.wont have it in my mouth.yuk.never understood why some fems say they dont like the taste and wont swallow it.but if its in their mouth, they can still taste it cant they.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate the taste.wont have it in my mouth.yuk.never understood why some fems say they dont like the taste and wont swallow it.but if its in their mouth, they can still taste it cant they. "

Maybe they hold their nose to kill the taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love it messy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry my curiosity came from people that find it a vile bi product of sex...

I'm curious as to why... As I said the ladies I spoke to it was normally from a bad experience... But talking those that can't stand it full stop.

I don't think most that don't like it have any psychological problems or PTSD causing them to hate it on them or seeing it. It's messy - some people can deal with mess, some can't"
the reason I asked on here is the 3 ladies that I spoke to had reasons that did include past experiences.

Although only one had a sexual experience that put her off. The other two it was anything messy. Even their own mess and one stated it was because of getting told off when younger for getting paint everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't bear it anywhere near me. Horrid. Why? Same reasons as above...the smell, the taste, the awful gloopy feeling...no no no no no. Not in a zillion years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can't bear it anywhere near me. Horrid. Why? Same reasons as above...the smell, the taste, the awful gloopy feeling...no no no no no. Not in a zillion years."
is it just cum... Or do other messy situations make you feel the same way.

Sorry for my curious head on

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

In a condom...is where it should be. No past trauma involved, I do not like the feel or the taste. I have tried swallowing once and had.to make a b line for the toilets...quite embarrasing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In a condom...is where it should be. No past trauma involved, I do not like the feel or the taste. I have tried swallowing once and had.to make a b line for the toilets...quite embarrasing

This made me LOL! The exact same thing happened to me when I tried to swallow - my gag reflex just won't allow it haha. Its the warm, thick saltiness of it all

S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In a condom...is where it should be. No past trauma involved, I do not like the feel or the taste. I have tried swallowing once and had.to make a b line for the toilets...quite embarrasing

This made me LOL! The exact same thing happened to me when I tried to swallow - my gag reflex just won't allow it haha. Its the warm, thick saltiness of it all

S x"

See I'm with you if it tastes salty or is too thick. But mostly I prefer it over me anyway

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm not disgusted by it. Never have been ...... unlessssssssss

I get a whiff of it and I wretch .... a taste of it makes me hurl...

So the stuff can go anywhere as long as it's below the shoulder.

My disgust isn't psychological. Nothing has happened to put me off. If I had no sense of taste or smell I wouldn't have the slightest worry about it.

I think it's more odd to like it than dislike it ...... it's not chocolate flavour now ... is it ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"In a condom...is where it should be. No past trauma involved, I do not like the feel or the taste. I have tried swallowing once and had.to make a b line for the toilets...quite embarrasing

This made me LOL! The exact same thing happened to me when I tried to swallow - my gag reflex just won't allow it haha. Its the warm, thick saltiness of it all

S x

See I'm with you if it tastes salty or is too thick. But mostly I prefer it over me anyway "

Agreed. It's not the morality of it ...it's just VILE

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"In a condom...is where it should be. No past trauma involved, I do not like the feel or the taste. I have tried swallowing once and had.to make a b line for the toilets...quite embarrasing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I hate the taste.wont have it in my mouth.yuk.never understood why some fems say they dont like the taste and wont swallow it.but if its in their mouth, they can still taste it cant they. "

Yep. Taste is on the tongue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I asked why it was often linked to something that had happened in their past... Or they had no idea..

So for those ladies that don't like it... What is it for you that makes it such a bad thing...

Thanks for indulging my curious mind.

No offence is meant... I'm just genuinely curious

Ms deviant "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I asked why it was often linked to something that had happened in their past... Or they had no idea..

So for those ladies that don't like it... What is it for you that makes it such a bad thing...

Thanks for indulging my curious mind.

No offence is meant... I'm just genuinely curious

Ms deviant "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like it on my face or mouth, anywhere else is ok, I won't let a guy cum over my pussy, just seems pointless using a comdom if he's just going to wip it off and cum over the bit your protecting "

You'll have to pick someplace else...as far from the pussy or face as you can get.....

That's your feet then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow I just posted that , I hate it when a man can't come , you can be at it for hours and come many times ...,. Then you realise your flogging a dead horse ..... Why be in here at all if you can't perform !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow I just posted that , I hate it when a man can't come , you can be at it for hours and come many times ...,. Then you realise your flogging a dead horse ..... Why be in here at all if you can't perform !!"

I don't think a man not cumming means be can't perform ..

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

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I think it's more odd to like it than dislike it ...... it's not chocolate flavour now ... is it ?"

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

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I don't think a man not cumming means be can't perform .. "

I have met a couple of men who just could not come, they knew it, told me up.front and we had a wonderful time enjoying each other. They stayed hard throughout so I agree with you.

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I can't bear it anywhere near me. Horrid. Why? Same reasons as above...the smell, the taste, the awful gloopy feeling...no no no no no. Not in a zillion years."

This is it for me. And on my face/boobs anywhere else I find it really humiliating, even with a partner. Not sure why, but I just feel like a receptacle they're wanking onto rather than an active particiant...even when I am. It's very irrational I know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both find it odd that anybody doesn't enjoy it, we have been known to almost fight over who gets to swallow !! My (M) marriage to my ex ended for this very reason and I understand that it may be a bit shallow. But I was happy to taste and swallow it and she wouldn't let if near her face and it became a huge issue. I now have a girl who adores it, both mine and others. Guess the moral is, make sure you are with the right partner !!

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By *heeseandWineCouple over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

I love it on my boobs and most other body regions but my face and mouth are absolutely off limits!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont really understand those who dislike cum, I love it and love a guy cumming in my mouth or over my body. Each to their own I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like it on my face or mouth, I don't like it due to things in the past.

Also I don't like food either, so swallowing someone's cum is just a no no, but I do try and make up for it in other ways

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