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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Jane and I love this as a build up to a possible meet, building the anticipation and getting all parties horny.
Any others enjoy this - and are good at it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jane and I love this as a build up to a possible meet, building the anticipation and getting all parties horny.
Any others enjoy this - and are good at it? "
Yeah we enjoy this too usually on kik though we make a group along with text and pics its all good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ( Ms) will not get involved in this before a meet... Mr will.... I just can't do it and feel dumb.. "
Im dont type/chat too much either more of a textual observer or voyeur its still fun tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ( Ms) will not get involved in this before a meet... Mr will.... I just can't do it and feel dumb..
Im dont type/chat too much either more of a textual observer or voyeur its still fun tho "
I just find it makes me uneasy to have someone else's partner messaging me about wanting me or thinngs he or they want to do to me.
I don't want to see messages other women send Mr either yet love to see him with others.
I guess I'm more of a doer than a talker x |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Not before a meet, no. Feels too scripted and false, and I would prefer to see what happens on a meet.
I don't sext anyone other than my current lover though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't like it,even less before I meet the person. I came to realise quite quickly that the people who do the talking aren't the ones who do the doing very well. The best sex I have had is where I'm attracted to the man through ordinary conversation. The best has been when I haven't been sent any naked pics too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't like it,even less before I meet the person. I came to realise quite quickly that the people who do the talking aren't the ones who do the doing very well. The best sex I have had is where I'm attracted to the man through ordinary conversation. The best has been when I haven't been sent any naked pics too. "
I've actually ended up blocking because people seem to think I'm a free sex line... But I know a lot of people need it.
The irony is I need someone to engage my brain before my body will follow .. yet I rarely give them the chance to do so then am the first to complain that something was mediocre |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't like it,even less before I meet the person. I came to realise quite quickly that the people who do the talking aren't the ones who do the doing very well. The best sex I have had is where I'm attracted to the man through ordinary conversation. The best has been when I haven't been sent any naked pics too.
I've actually ended up blocking because people seem to think I'm a free sex line... But I know a lot of people need it.
The irony is I need someone to engage my brain before my body will follow .. yet I rarely give them the chance to do so then am the first to complain that something was mediocre"
Ah, you're missing out! I use it to engage someone's mind first and if they respond, then I know it's going to be very, very good once we meet! Matt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ah, you're missing out! I use it to engage someone's mind first and if they respond, then I know it's going to be very, very good once we meet! Matt"
That's not true. One of the worst meets we ever had the banter between everyone had been great. And also I'm not missing out if it's not something I enjoy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ah, you're missing out! I use it to engage someone's mind first and if they respond, then I know it's going to be very, very good once we meet! Matt
That's not true. One of the worst meets we ever had the banter between everyone had been great. And also I'm not missing out if it's not something I enjoy x"
Exactly!
Especially if someone doesn't like oral and someone says they're missing out, well they're not coz they don't like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely detest it , truly don't understand sexting etc, when there are so many real people on here who want to meet and do , rather than talk about it .
Too much pre meet chat invariably spoils any spontaneity too , when people start talking about what they are going to do on the meet we cancel it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jane and I love this as a build up to a possible meet, building the anticipation and getting all parties horny.
Any others enjoy this - and are good at it? "
Yeah luv it too , kik you say builds up the anticipation and gets the juices flowing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I enjoy it, a real turn on and helps anticipation and build sexual tension before a meet usually find a meet is better after a good build up through chatting before meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand it personally, find it boring and tedious"
It bores me frigid and most are pretty inept at it anyway...maybe I am just too literal but I need sensual stimulation and cyber or setting doesn't stimulate my senses... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree that well written words can engage the brain, but there are so many all talk no walk on here, I won't get drawn into anything graphic and never exchange photos - it feels childish to me and is a complete turn off.
Subtle and suggestive works well though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jane and I love this as a build up to a possible meet, building the anticipation and getting all parties horny.
Any others enjoy this - and are good at it? "
id love to do this with a real couple. details or on my profile |
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