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Too intimidating

By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense!

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

You've had 55 meets...you can't be that off-putting!

Although maybe those people were just really brave?

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Haha well that's over a few years just nothing regular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ps your stunning so are the photos. But I know I'd be to scared to try anything

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Well, you've got some amazing pics, and the implication they give is that you like some quite hardcore kinky femdom play...that wouldn't put us off, but maybe it does others?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes feel abit intimated by people on here. Either their experience, confidence or looks.

I realise its all in my head and I don't have any ill feelings towards them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "
woop!

some great pics! you ooze sex appeal but many would think youd be hard to please. Caps make it look like your shouting too in your profile hope that helps. ive got to go ive stood on my tongue!!

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Maybe have to scale down our pics -if people are put off

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Caps make it look like your shouting too in your profile hope that helps"

Yes, must admit that if it wasn't for your opening question, we wouldn't have bothered scrolling through the ALL CAPS to see your pics, it is very off-putting.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Oooops didn't realise we had caps on profile will get that updated. It's good to get feedback things we may have missed thanks xx

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Maybe have to scale down our pics -if people are put off

Why? They are fab! More likely to get you the sort of meets that you want than lose them, surely?

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By *andomfodCouple over a year ago

walsall

Yeah pics look great, if I had to pick something out of it, the use of a lot of caps sounds a bit demanding. Some of the tone (whether or not intended) too. Though if they're important rules to you, maybe the people intimidated aren't the right fit?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have had one or two tell us they are scared to meet due to her looks. We duly replied that we wouldn't have messaged if we werent keen!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

looks can be intimidating for sure

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By *SweetVioletxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't think so you're intimidating. But then I'm not one to be intimidated as I don't take anything or anyone too seriously on Fab.

You seem to have had enough success without it being a major issue and I know that if someone felt intimidated by me then they wouldn't be the right person for a meet anyway.

Personally I don't like the use of the word inferior in your status as that word naturally gets my back up.

Aside from that (and I realise you weren't asking for a profile critique so apologies) your profile is clear in what you are looking for and I prefer that any day over a vague, wishy washy profile.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Nothing wrong with the rules being there at all, but putting them all in caps sets the wrong tone visually for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't imagine how being too good looking would make someone intimidating. ....maybe it is the attitude and arrogance that goes with it with some. That is very off putting.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I don't think so you're intimidating. But then I'm not one to be intimidated as I don't take anything or anyone too seriously on Fab.

You seem to have had enough success without it being a major issue and I know that if someone felt intimidated by me then they wouldn't be the right person for a meet anyway.

Personally I don't like the use of the word inferior in your status as that word naturally gets my back up.

Aside from that (and I realise you weren't asking for a profile critique so apologies) your profile is clear in what you are looking for and I prefer that any day over a vague, wishy washy profile.

Thanks guys - I only put that as our status as couldn't believe someone had said it. As tone honest we are down to earth people and yes we do have standards but who doesn't xx

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Nothing wrong with the rules being there at all, but putting them all in caps sets the wrong tone visually for sure."

Yeah we will change for sure - thanks for input xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awful ranty profile and air brushed photos would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In all honesty I don't thinks e would message you either, because you guys look far too hot. You've also had a LOT of experience, and it makes me feel sad, because We are just nowhere near that level of hotness

So we would likely not message for fear of rejection, which would be likely in a case like this! I can understand why some people may not message. C x

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

" Awful ranty profile and air brushed photos would put me off."

Yes I admit my husband is into his photography so some photos are edited but you will also note a lot of selfies with no adjustment at all.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"I can't imagine how being too good looking would make someone intimidating. ....maybe it is the attitude and arrogance that goes with it with some. That is very off putting."

It's easy to understand, surely? People are often insecure about themselves, and the idea of meeting people they perceive to be more attractive than them can feed those insecurities.

That it may exist all in their own head is the unfortunate truth. That can create the idea that attitude or arrogance exists where there is often none.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking at your pics is say you are above average sexy lady

Women can be bit paranoid about there looks so I can see an average woman feeling bit intimidated by how sexy you look even the guys maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the shouty text on your profile will put a few people off more than your looks. Your status update will do that too.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think the shouty text on your profile will put a few people off more than your looks. Your status update will do that too. "

Like I was saying I only put that status as someone said it to us it was more couldn't believe they said. Also didn't realise about Caps so going to change that xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd take you both on. You can't intimidate me. I'm unintimidateable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the shouty text on your profile will put a few people off more than your looks. Your status update will do that too.

Like I was saying I only put that status as someone said it to us it was more couldn't believe they said. Also didn't realise about Caps so going to change that xx"

It's making you sound like you think you are better than others because we don't know the story behind it so that will put more people off. Good luck getting more meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

You come across as as an attractive, self-assured couple with a great deal of experience. This, and your interest in things like 'Breast/Nipple Torture', will make some feel that you're a little too 'advanced' for them. Especially the nervous newbies, I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no profile would intimidate me - might put me off wanting to even make first contact - you use a lot of upper case and it comes across as a bit stroppy - its your profile and your pics are lovely and its only others insecurities that might feel under par in comparison

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In all honesty I don't thinks e would message you either, because you guys look far too hot. You've also had a LOT of experience, and it makes me feel sad, because We are just nowhere near that level of hotness

So we would likely not message for fear of rejection, which would be likely in a case like this! I can understand why some people may not message. C x"
just fabbed your pics i really think yours are as good if not better! but i am a toy lover

so a little biased and your both RED hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually yeah, those photos ARE very photoshopped, and badly too... Might want to rethink those ones defo, because they really don't do any favours

they just look so badly faked

C x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd take you both on. You can't intimidate me. I'm unintimidateable

ha ha unintimidateable, same here

S xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must be the most intimidating guy on here! As loads of people say no to me. I thought it was because they didnt like me. Must be because im so hot! Who would of thought it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get your husband to do less powder effect when editing. He can still do some and get a good effect but when you start to have impossibly smooth skin, it could be intimidating to some people.

One trick is to always zoom out and repeatedly look at the whole image when using photoshop. It's easy to overdo it if you are zoomed in on a specific area!

Less is more.

Nice photography though. Very nice.

I'm also wondering if people are put off by the number of veris you have?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

numbers of veris dont mean anything - if you attend a social you could get a dozen plus in one hit - plus its over a long time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gav is a teacher but also a games designer (and by definition a graphics designer too). He would know what the problem was there, I'll get him to post! C xx

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"numbers of veris dont mean anything - if you attend a social you could get a dozen plus in one hit - plus its over a long time "

Of course, but many people won't comb through to establish that, they will just read a big number and think 'wow!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd take you both on. You can't intimidate me. I'm unintimidateable

ha ha unintimidateable, same here

S xx"

I'm currently writing Rachael's concise dictionary of manipulatable words

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd take you both on. You can't intimidate me. I'm unintimidateable

ha ha unintimidateable, same here

S xx

I'm currently writing Rachael's concise dictionary of manipulatable words

Ha hah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey all, Gav here, been allowed to post for once haha!

The problem is that as was said previously, it's impossibly smooth skin. This is a common problem people have when they badly photoshop images and don't quite know what they are doing. The true story is that the most perfect and believable skin you can make WILL have flaws.

There's a really simple way to do this, which to be fair I haven't got enough time to go into here on my lunch, but it involves two I ages, one being the original. And the other being a very smooth, flawless version, with all folds and flaps, bruises, wrinkles and the like removed, so that it looks unreal. You then take the original image and use that as an opacity mask, setting it so that it doesn't look too fake, but doesn't look like the original either, a mix if you will. You can then touch up with the clone tool and what have you afterwards. It's a simple process.

However... There's a reason why even though I know what im doing ( I work for a games company on rather high profile things as well as teach), I wouldn't do that to our pics. In fact if you look at our pics all you will see is the odd hair removed, or some colour grading and basic vignette.

If you edit your pics too much on here you suddenly don't become that person. So what are you supposed to do when you go to a meet and loom nothing like your photo, with scars, wrinkles, flabby bits etc? That's why our pics are never edited in that fashion.

Anyway, hope this helps some what. Im going back to my sandwich!

Gav

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and just to add to Gavs post, yeah the verifications! Cherry pick them! Don't display all! I have 111 verifications, but I wouldn't show them all! :p C x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your pics are representative of you and your meets don't scale them down. On Fab you can find people who are comfortable with you; don't change for someone else.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Not at all intimidated by the images.

Too photoshopped, and the profile as has already been said comes across as ranty.

The willingness to try anything, and creativity and kinkiness being on there and nipple torture? Not what I am looking for on fab, and I know a load of ladies would not play that way via fab... perhaps try looking elsewhere to fill those requirements? Also, attractive is always subjective, so I prefer to leave that to others to decide or it does sound a little like you think you are something special, and that attitude would put loads of people off.

Good luck on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I sometimes feel abit intimated by people on here. Either their experience, confidence or looks.

I realise its all in my head and I don't have any ill feelings towards them. "

I think that hits the nail on the head

Its not intimidating people its insecure people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As mentioned it's the shouting that's intimidating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Caps make it look like your shouting too in your profile hope that helps

Yes, must admit that if it wasn't for your opening question, we wouldn't have bothered scrolling through the ALL CAPS to see your pics, it is very off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't know if u were good looking as u have no face pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have very stylish, sexy pictures. Nothing intimidating about people who look after themselves and obviously enjoy their kinkier side too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often get told I can come across as intimidating to some men. But I am of the opinion if I intimidate them on here then I certainly would in real life and they obviously aren't the right person I would want to meet up with anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

I've seen a number of threads in which people say that they won't meet people they consider to be out of their league so yes it might be correct.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

never found anyone intimidating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been told whilst at a club I have a "fuck off" face... !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt say itimatating,we are all humans after all sometimes you just need to talk to people before you can make a judgement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

They probably really mean because you look so great they can't believe their luck lol!

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By *osweet69Couple over a year ago

portsmouth

Wow people Photoshop their pic! Did not know that,we just thought that a lot of swingers had porn star bodies and looks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Hahah...the best case of humble bragging yet,

if one or two people have been intimidated by how you look then don't let it worry you...to let anyone intimidate you is a sign of weaknesses, Christ we all have the same parts what some see as beauty some see as ugly...

But thanks for drawing our attention to your intimidating beauty,

Have me round for a cheeky vimto....I'll fuck any intimidation out of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

P.s. you do like to hammer those filters don't you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been told this a few times via message after social events. It's not great as we're very friendly approachable people so it's disappointing when people haven't spoken to us for this reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We'd certainly not be too intimidated to meet you... if you weren't miles and miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Not sure if you would be too intimidating, could only tell if you met us and were totally naked, wouldn't want something like clothes getting in the way, so that we could judge for ourselves xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ahhhhh!!

Oh sorry, thought you were someone else

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By *eithoWoman over a year ago

Chatham

Intimidating to those with inferiority complexes maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe people are using 'intimidating' as an excuse??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know about intimidating but Mrs dirrtypretty is certainly vicious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Haha that's just their way of saying they are ugly :D. I'd of thought people would grab the chance of meeting hotties...people and their hangups lol.

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan over a year ago

aberdeenshire

You don't intimidate me, I just don't think that I meet your criteria. I think another part of the problem is that up here there seems to be, ehm...to try to put it tactfully, quantity over quality as far as active users are concerned

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

No fully grown, well adjusted adult is intimidated of another...

In fact the better you get the bigger challenges you seek out!

If your really worth it the big game hunters will track you down... Without the merest mention of intimidation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No fully grown, well adjusted adult is intimidated of another..."

Bullshit. C x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in"

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have been told this before mainly by couples. We know some of our pics are a little bold but it's just us two having a nice time. We are quite shy really. And actually quite normal.

Great post by the way.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Awful ranty profile and air brushed photos would put me off."

Haha you crack me up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No fully grown, well adjusted adult is intimidated of another...

In fact the better you get the bigger challenges you seek out!

If your really worth it the big game hunters will track you down... Without the merest mention of intimidation."

Must be lovely to have that kind of confidence but not everyone does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe people are using 'intimidating' as an excuse??"

Or maybe they more mean the profiles intimidating rather than their looks, it is a bit stand offish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

Get a grip...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

me too. I'm so hot I literally can't touch anything...things melt and spontaneously combust whenever I'm near.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No a couple cant be too intimidating, well only if they got hundreds of rules of do and donts lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe people are using 'intimidating' as an excuse??

Or maybe they more mean the profiles intimidating rather than their looks, it is a bit stand offish

To be fair I didn't read it BECAUSE OF THE CAPITALS ALL SEEMED A LITTLE BIT SHOUTY SHOUTY TO ME AND MY EYEBALLS......just a tad.))

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey all, Gav here, been allowed to post for once haha!

Anyway, hope this helps some what. Im going back to my sandwich!

Gav"

Can't see the point in editing pictures..its just embarrassing when people see the real person and they aren't quite the same..different for magazines and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have been told this before mainly by couples. We know some of our pics are a little bold but it's just us two having a nice time. We are quite shy really. And actually quite normal.

Great post by the way.

Mrs x"
nice pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

me too. I'm so hot I literally can't touch anything...things melt and spontaneously combust whenever I'm near.....

I know the pain...frozen food cooks itself when I handle it..!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

I've got to be honest I have turned down loads of men because I feel they are to good for me

Daft really but such is life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

New 6pack pic is up lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"New 6pack pic is up lol

Piss off and start your own thread ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

Get a grip...

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

me too. I'm so hot I literally can't touch anything...things melt and spontaneously combust whenever I'm near.....

I know the pain...frozen food cooks itself when I handle it..!!"

that can only be a bonus....all that saved time defrosting and cooking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We wouldn't be intimidated to meet anyone on this site . It's all about who you fancy having fun with. Everyone likes different types of people so some will want to meet you and and some won't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"New 6pack pic is up lol

Piss off and start your own thread ffs

"
lol good idea, lots of drama in this so will stay here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have me round for a cheeky vimto....I'll fuck any intimidation out of you.

brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have been told this before mainly by couples. We know some of our pics are a little bold but it's just us two having a nice time. We are quite shy really. And actually quite normal.

Great post by the way.

Mrs x nice pics

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah, you're not intimidating...

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Here's a thought....maybe I'm intimidating too and that's why I don't get many meets. Who am I kidding, I'm just fuck ugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought....maybe I'm intimidating too and that's why I don't get many meets. Who am I kidding, I'm just fuck ugly

No its cause you live at the back end of the arse hole of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought....maybe I'm intimidating too and that's why I don't get many meets. Who am I kidding, I'm just fuck ugly

No its cause you live at the back end of the arse hole of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe people are using 'intimidating' as an excuse??

Or maybe they more mean the profiles intimidating rather than their looks, it is a bit stand offish

To be fair I didn't read it BECAUSE OF THE CAPITALS ALL SEEMED A LITTLE BIT SHOUTY SHOUTY TO ME AND MY EYEBALLS......just a tad.))"

Hehehe I got two lines in and thought...SOD IT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe people are using 'intimidating' as an excuse??

Or maybe they more mean the profiles intimidating rather than their looks, it is a bit stand offish

To be fair I didn't read it BECAUSE OF THE CAPITALS ALL SEEMED A LITTLE BIT SHOUTY SHOUTY TO ME AND MY EYEBALLS......just a tad.))

Hehehe I got two lines in and thought...SOD IT

I think we've solved this problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here's a thought....maybe I'm intimidating too and that's why I don't get many meets. Who am I kidding, I'm just fuck ugly

Yip your right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont find the pics intimidating not to be rude but she could have a worse figure than me, who can tell with all that photoshopping

When I see pics like that I just wonder what they are trying to cover up or hide that they can't just put natural pics up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've just looked at your pics again as I didn't notice your pics had been messed with..so are you not actually like the pics? as in less toned? Can't really see what people mean lol..I'm gonna be zooming in on peoples pictures now for different reasons lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan over a year ago

aberdeenshire

"Here's a thought....maybe I'm intimidating too and that's why I don't get many meets. Who am I kidding, I'm just fuck ugly

No its cause you live at the back end of the arse hole of nowhere

Indeed

Yip your right

That's harsh! I used to like you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 06/03/15 21:58:21]"

To us you're not intimidating but we wouldnt meet you because you're not like us, you seem to want gym fit, very very well endowed, not anyone larger than yourselves and for us you seem a bit up yourselves to be honest. Yes you have a gorgeous body but that kinda puts us off because we have bits that jiggle and tiger stripes from baring children I couldnt see myself enjoying your company thinking god shes so fit and im just a chunker.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

"[Removed by poster at 06/03/15 21:58:21]

In California there are partys/BBQs/get togethers for all types...

If they want "regular" looking folk within a certain age bracket and your a model, you won't get in, for that very reason...

It makes people body conscious, then they are not relaxed.

People are not intimidated, but don't want to have to peacock either...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 06/03/15 21:58:21]

Unfortunately you don't show your chunker body because I'd really like to see it. Your pussy looks so edible; lovey and smooth, firm and tight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yip your right

That's harsh! I used to like you

Aww

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Yip your right

That's harsh! I used to like you

Aww

Just kidding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love people with a little bit of wobble.

Gym fit... Ugh... We can't stand boney skinny women and men, or men who have spent their entire life in the gym... Job on!

We would never edit our pics to make us look that way! Its not what we search for! C x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like ladies who have curves. Baby softness is familiar and sexy to me.

Guys..... Well get your ass into the gym if you want me. I take quite some pinning down

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Wow thanks for all the messages guys - good and bad I can take them in the chin I'm a big girl. Yeah hubby does like his editing but like I say a lot of pics on there never been touched as I took them as selfies. As you will see some people say we are even better than our pics so have nothing to hide at all by adding filters here and there not like shrinking my size from a 20 to a 10 ha!

Yes we have to say we keep in shape and like to meet people similar build to us. That's not being up our arses that's just having standards nothing wrong in that.

Thanks again and will take your comments on board xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like ladies who have curves. Baby softness is familiar and sexy to me.

Guys..... Well get your ass into the gym if you want me. I take quite some pinning down

That's fighting talk round here, I bet I can pin you down

*rolls up sleeves*

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan over a year ago

London

"Wow thanks for all the messages guys - good and bad I can take them in the chin I'm a big girl. Yeah hubby does like his editing but like I say a lot of pics on there never been touched as I took them as selfies. As you will see some people say we are even better than our pics so have nothing to hide at all by adding filters here and there not like shrinking my size from a 20 to a 10 ha!

Yes we have to say we keep in shape and like to meet people similar build to us. That's not being up our arses that's just having standards nothing wrong in that.

Thanks again and will take your comments on board xx"

To be fair, I didn't think you touched up your pics...

Just used several colour effects... You get the general idea...

And why not choose people who are simular to yourselves...

I think it's just that saying your intimidating is something that should never be done...

Plus there's always a bigger fish round the corner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone needs a moist wipe for the end of their nose....

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Someone needs a moist wipe for the end of their nose....

What's that meant to mean??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love people with a little bit of wobble.

Gym fit... Ugh... We can't stand boney skinny women and men, or men who have spent their entire life in the gym... Job on!

We would never edit our pics to make us look that way! Its not what we search for! C x"
lol the gym is my 2nd home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn't / wouldn't put me off

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

" Awful ranty profile and air brushed photos would put me off."

Put us off too - but intimidating. Not at all. Thought that we were all here to find people we think are good looking.

Really sorry, and we may be wrong, but to us this just looks like another "look at me and say nice things" thread - and that also puts us off. We find modesty a far more attractive trait.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like ladies who have curves. Baby softness is familiar and sexy to me.

Guys..... Well get your ass into the gym if you want me. I take quite some pinning down

That's fighting talk round here, I bet I can pin you down

*rolls up sleeves*

A woman who can pin me down? Awesome. I warn you; I do wriggle....... A little

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

Thanks Hun appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yip your right

That's harsh! I used to like you

Aww

Just kidding

Me too, I don't feel bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

I agree. Most people would hide their profile or snap back at the comments

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

Perhaps - but a "poor us, aren't we wonderful" thread is going to draw a lot of negativity from people who don't think they are actually that wonderful - not because of what they may or may not look like but because of the attitude they have projected

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

Can I ask where we have given a bad attitude we are nice normal people who don't quite deserve people to take us the wrong way. It was meant as a general comment but take it the way you wish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

I have just read though the whole thread again and I can't see any attitude from the OP at all

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By *ardbellyCouple over a year ago

Alicante

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

"
..I agree with this comment and to be honest we've been chatting to them for a few months and they come across as ok to us ? With the odd status comment that does make me think .." Hmm I'm not sure I'd say that ,but hey go for it ?" ).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes we have to say we keep in shape and like to meet people similar build to us. That's not being up our arses that's just having standards nothing wrong in that.

Nothing wrong with standards but when you moan about not getting meets with other couples its because the couples you havent met are not of your standards. Why not remeet those you have previously? You got such good verifications from them surely they would be worth a second look?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

Can I ask where we have given a bad attitude we are nice normal people who don't quite deserve people to take us the wrong way. It was meant as a general comment but take it the way you wish. "

Im not sure that people are saying you have a bad attitude..I think possibly its the fact that you have edited your pictures, yet put a post up saying people think you are intimidating to others with your looks..when perhaps your possibly much the same as the people who are feeling intimidated?..it's far better to have 'real' pictures on as that's how people who you meet are going to see you..it's not a photography competition..people want to see the real person..unless of course you get a kick out of loading pictures for people to see. Only changes I make to my pics are black and white lol..I'd be mortified if I met someone and they said your not what we expected from your pics. Just my opinion

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

Can I ask where we have given a bad attitude we are nice normal people who don't quite deserve people to take us the wrong way. It was meant as a general comment but take it the way you wish. "

I am really sorry, and I didn't mean to be unkind, but an attitude that we personally don't find attractive is projected both by your profile, which is very proscriptive and shouty, and by your opening gambit on this thread "are we so attractive we intimidate people?" The point is that we certainly wouldn't be put off by your looks, but we would be by anyone who laid down rules and thought themselves so attractive -that's all. You asked and we gave our _iew.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

taxi!

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Not at all intimidated by the images.

Too photoshopped, and the profile as has already been said comes across as ranty.

Good luck on fab"

Thanks for your feed back but not sure where the nipple torture is coming from. we don't have any pics like that and don't make any mention of that in our profile.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Thanks for the feed back we take on board all the comments good and bad. Will look at the pics and see if I am over touching them. On the whole most people like them, but we came on here looking for feed back and we have got it.

if we have come across to some of you as arogant or up ourselves as some have said I can assure you we are not.

We will take some of the advice and make changes to our profile.

Thanks again for all the comments they are appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Yes when I was with previous fb we were too intimidating...he is 6ft 5 and in heels I am 6ft 2 so we were a little unapproachable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for your feed back but not sure where the nipple torture is coming from. we don't have any pics like that and don't make any mention of that in our profile."

Errrr....3rd to last paragraph? You may want to re-read your own profile.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Thanks for your feed back but not sure where the nipple torture is coming from. we don't have any pics like that and don't make any mention of that in our profile.

Errrr....3rd to last paragraph? You may want to re-read your own profile. "

I think that is a list to go with the "What turns you on" question above.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With all the CAPs at the start it looks like your screaming at people.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I know myself and my partner sometime feel intimidated by gorgeous people I think it's the whole out of our league thing kicking in

Yes I get this!! I sometimes think people are so good looking it is intimidating

Get a grip...

Thats not our words, thats what some others have said to us. We were just looking for feed back on that.

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By *rofman134Man over a year ago

Newcastle

All im saying is.... I would

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Haha thanks xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

I would agree with this.

welcome to the forums & have fun

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I think the OP has been rather gracious in their responses considering some of the comments aimed at them and their pics

I would agree with this.

welcome to the forums & have fun

Thanks babe xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With all the CAPs at the start it looks like your screaming at people. "

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"New 6pack pic is up lol

i wouldnt mind the constant posts if you were an actual bodybuilder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe have to scale down our pics -if people are put off

Reasons we wouldn't immediately think about meeting -

CAPS - I stopped reading and skipped on

Hot sexy slim couples - if body shape is a big thing for you I don't want to be scrutinised at a meet (or rejected for not coming up to scratch)

Your status update re no filters etc - again this links to the appearance is key point above

And you like to do girl on girl while the guys watch where as we prefer everyone to join in - I don't like "putting on a show"

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Maybe have to scale down our pics -if people are put off

Reasons we wouldn't immediately think about meeting -

CAPS - I stopped reading and skipped on

Hot sexy slim couples - if body shape is a big thing for you I don't want to be scrutinised at a meet (or rejected for not coming up to scratch)

Your status update re no filters etc - again this links to the appearance is key point above

And you like to do girl on girl while the guys watch where as we prefer everyone to join in - I don't like "putting on a show" "

Sorry if we offend but we find slim couples attractive and at the end of the day you have to have an attraction and chemistry. As to my latest status I am proving a point that people think our pics are airbrushed beyond recognition so shows that you do get what you see!

Also again my hubby does enjoy taking girl on girl pics so we do a bit of that at beginning of meet but believe me everyone joins in - we certainly not wishy washy when it comes to meets.

Check our verifications for prove of this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are there any photos of your hubby? Or photo of you as a couple? If a straight couple were looking at your profile what interest is there for the female half?

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Are there any photos of your hubby? Or photo of you as a couple? If a straight couple were looking at your profile what interest is there for the female half? "

There certainly is a couple of him on there - he doesn't like his photo being in site but I prefer to disagree as he's very hunky and sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for your feed back but not sure where the nipple torture is coming from. we don't have any pics like that and don't make any mention of that in our profile.

Errrr....3rd to last paragraph? You may want to re-read your own profile.

I think that is a list to go with the "What turns you on" question above."

Of course it is...but it still counts as a mention on a profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your new status update is wrong. Your legs in your pictures look like cartoon legs they have been airbrushed that much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your new status update is wrong. Your legs in your pictures look like cartoon legs they have been airbrushed that much "
Maybe they like that look .. We are all different some like airbrush look .. I wish I new how to do it I may give it a go .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your new status update is wrong. Your legs in your pictures look like cartoon legs they have been airbrushed that much Maybe they like that look .. We are all different some like airbrush look .. I wish I new how to do it I may give it a go .

That wasn't my point. They are stating in their status update and on here that their pictures are all real with no airbrushing but they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That wasn't my point. They are stating in their status update and on here that their pictures are all real with no airbrushing but they aren't.

I think the status is just referring to their newest picture, which doesn't look airbrushed.

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By *he Stuff Of LegendMan over a year ago

Hadfield

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Some people see predatory people intimidating it could be that for some be it from a single or a couple.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

That wasn't my point. They are stating in their status update and on here that their pictures are all real with no airbrushing but they aren't.

I think the status is just referring to their newest picture, which doesn't look airbrushed. "

Thanks Hun that's exactly what I was showing xx

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Your new status update is wrong. Your legs in your pictures look like cartoon legs they have been airbrushed that much "

Cartoon legs heard it all now...made me laugh anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your new status update is wrong. Your legs in your pictures look like cartoon legs they have been airbrushed that much

Cartoon legs heard it all now...made me laugh anyway"

Thanks. Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why has none of the I fo been taken onboard? The pics are quite badly photoshopped and the profile is still written in an unappealing way with caps, something I would tell a kid off for on facebook? From what I can see not one thing has been changed? C xx

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Why has none of the I fo been taken onboard? The pics are quite badly photoshopped and the profile is still written in an unappealing way with caps, something I would tell a kid off for on facebook? From what I can see not one thing has been changed? C xx"

This is as we have a life and not had chance to change yet, but we will take on board the constructive criticism and forget the rest. We didn't realise there was a forum police watching our every move ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol they'll be gathering evidence as we speak ha ha

Only change what YOU want to - if anything at all

S x

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

lol they'll be gathering evidence as we speak ha ha

Only change what YOU want to - if anything at all

S x"

PMSL I like it...thanks babe xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all. But here's the problem...

Jimmy wants an apple and moans he doesn't get any apples.

People tell him the reason why he doesn't get any apples is because he's asking wrong.

Jimmy still asks the old way and doesn't get any apples and doesnt cb age his ways, even though all Jimmy really has to do is say "please".

Are you seeing the problem here? The problem is that you posted a thread asking why something is happening...my our told why that is and how to fix it... But do nothing about it.

Don't give me the time excuse. It's a short profile that would take a couple of minutes to rewrite, tops. You can't do anything sbout the pics now other than remove them, sure...mount St least you will know for next time.

The lesson here? Don't as, for answers if you're not willing to make the changes. C x

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Op dont listen to the negative's if they dont like they don't like, its no great lose. The way we look at it we ain't gonna be every bodies cup of java but we're always gonna be someone's

. Oh and by the way we'd play with you if you were a little closer

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

Not at all. But here's the problem...

Jimmy wants an apple and moans he doesn't get any apples.

People tell him the reason why he doesn't get any apples is because he's asking wrong.

Jimmy still asks the old way and doesn't get any apples and doesnt cb age his ways, even though all Jimmy really has to do is say "please".

Are you seeing the problem here? The problem is that you posted a thread asking why something is happening...my our told why that is and how to fix it... But do nothing about it.

The lesson here? Don't as, for answers if you're not willing to make the changes. C x"

You really are patronising quite feel for anyone that does encounter you. Too full of yourself for my liking but there you go.

As you will see from our unedited pics people are getting apples for apples ha

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Op dont listen to the negative's if they dont like they don't like, its no great lose. The way we look at it we ain't gonna be every bodies cup of java but we're always gonna be someone's

. Oh and by the way we'd play with you if you were a little closer

Thanks extremely sexy pics btw - shame we weren't closer xx

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

"Op dont listen to the negative's if they dont like they don't like, its no great lose. The way we look at it we ain't gonna be every bodies cup of java but we're always gonna be someone's

. Oh and by the way we'd play with you if you were a little closer

Thanks extremely sexy pics btw - shame we weren't closer xx"

thank you guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

It's probably self esteem issues coming out and instead of admitting, or internalising those thoughts and working on how to change themselves to feel better about themselves they'll blame you for being 'too attractive' or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe have to scale down our pics -if people are put off

Reasons we wouldn't immediately think about meeting -

CAPS - I stopped reading and skipped on

Hot sexy slim couples - if body shape is a big thing for you I don't want to be scrutinised at a meet (or rejected for not coming up to scratch)

Your status update re no filters etc - again this links to the appearance is key point above

And you like to do girl on girl while the guys watch where as we prefer everyone to join in - I don't like "putting on a show"

Also again my hubby does enjoy taking girl on girl pics so we do a bit of that at beginning of meet but believe me everyone joins in - we certainly not wishy washy when it comes to meets.

Check our verifications for prove of this "

Don't apologise - you asked the question re intimidation and why. I provided an answer from our perspective.

I didn't question your tastes or you validity I simply answered your original post.

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By *rent and RoxieCouple over a year ago

near you

My wife is in a few pics and has met Bootynco a few times and wow what fun was had!

A friendly, sexy down to earth couple!

The pics are not photo shopped maybe a filter or two used to enhance an already quality image. Mr B is a top photographer and in my opinion doesn't deserve some of the comments on here!

They are both lovely, no reason to be intimidated.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"My wife is in a few pics and has met Bootynco a few times and wow what fun was had!

A friendly, sexy down to earth couple!

The pics are not photo shopped maybe a filter or two used to enhance an already quality image. Mr B is a top photographer and in my opinion doesn't deserve some of the comments on here!

They are both lovely, no reason to be intimidated."

Thanks so much hunny. Your gorgeous wife makes our pics extra special we think. I'm pleased someone appreciates his work xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My wife is in a few pics and has met Bootynco a few times and wow what fun was had!

A friendly, sexy down to earth couple!

The pics are not photo shopped maybe a filter or two used to enhance an already quality image. Mr B is a top photographer and in my opinion doesn't deserve some of the comments on here!

They are both lovely, no reason to be intimidated."

I'm sorry but as a digital artist I have to comment, fair enough I don't think they actually are photoshopped..if they are its very novice work, but the controversial 'cartoon legs' pic and a few others are heavily filtered with a blur...I think people are saying filters are fine but when it starts to look like CGI then its too much.

I love a good filter or to I think they really 'enhance' a pic but just go a little easier.))

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense! "

Nothing would stop me!!! Wow

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"My wife is in a few pics and has met Bootynco a few times and wow what fun was had!

A friendly, sexy down to earth couple!

The pics are not photo shopped maybe a filter or two used to enhance an already quality image. Mr B is a top photographer and in my opinion doesn't deserve some of the comments on here!

They are both lovely, no reason to be intimidated.

Thanks

I love a good filter or to I think they really 'enhance' a pic but just go a little easier.))"

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Can a couple really be too intimidating? We are looking for meets but been told people but off as look too intimidating and good looking - doesn't quite make sense!

Nothing would stop me!!! Wow

Awwww thanks babe xx

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple over a year ago

Aberdeen

There are on or two people in this forum who seem to want to tell us what our profile should and should not be. We will take on board what has been said and will make the chagnes we want, not what you want. You worry about your profile, and trust me after looking at the poor photograhy so some you have plenty to worry about.

Whislt I may have use photoshop differently to a professional I would point out there are plenty of unedited picture on there as well. So you do get what you see. And if this is not enough if you ever look in the cam rooms you will find my wife there and from what the reaction in there you see apples you get apples.

The changes to the profile will happen when we have time, unlike some we have lives to live away from our PC.

Whilst our profile is not perfect the nasty comments don't show you in a good light either, so take the time to think before ripping into others about the profile. you don't come off looking too clever.

To everyone else who has taken the time to comment thank you we do appreciate all the comments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP its your profile so do what please you not others . Because you cant please everyone .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP...did you seriously not expect serious criticism along with fawners...with this thread??

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