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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here 8 months now and nothing..
Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up! 
I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few things if you want to hear them.
Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.
You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A few things if you want to hear them.
Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.
You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you."
So what does my profile give the impression of?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It comes across as quite selfish to be brutal, full of I and I'm. what are your potential playmates hoping to get out of meeting you? seems more like you're just out for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few things if you want to hear them.
Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.
You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you.
So what does my profile give the impression of? "
To me it seems very matter of fact, doesn't really give any idea of a personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate? "
Don't write it off the bat, do it away from the site over a few days...On wordpad or something like that. Then you can keep tweaking until you're happy with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....
first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...
Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,
When you tell a WOMAN they won't be disappointed, they probably will be, especially at 20 years, picture a young lion cub wandering into a cage full of sexually powerful lionesses...they will TEAR you apart,
Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...
Tell them you will turn up...
Clean, groomed,
You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...
You won't rush..
You won't talk in slang..
You will LISTEN...
If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))
I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,
Go get em...tigger....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..
Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!
I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for?? "
Spelling mistake. It's well spoken. Not we'll spoken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..
Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!
I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??
Spelling mistake. It's well spoken. Not we'll spoken. "
Worry not the kid is on it like a car bonnet, he's changed it already...
I like this kid.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate?
we would meet you for a drink if you are ever in Leeds x  "
Hehe, ill bare that in mind love! Thanks  nice pics btw x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....
first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...
Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,
When you tell a WOMAN they won't be disappointed, they probably will be, especially at 20 years, picture a young lion cub wandering into a cage full of sexually powerful lionesses...they will TEAR you apart,
Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...
Tell them you will turn up...
Clean, groomed,
You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...
You won't rush..
You won't talk in slang..
You will LISTEN...
If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))
I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,
Go get em...tigger....
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Just the REPLY i was after! Nice one mate, great confidence boost on how to portray my profile! It was an eye opening read  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....
first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...
Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,
When you tell a WOMAN they won't be disappointed, they probably will be, especially at 20 years, picture a young lion cub wandering into a cage full of sexually powerful lionesses...they will TEAR you apart,
Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...
Tell them you will turn up...
Clean, groomed,
You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...
You won't rush..
You won't talk in slang..
You will LISTEN...
If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))
I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,
Go get em...tigger
Just the REPLY i was after! Nice one mate, great confidence boost on how to portray my profile! It was an eye opening read "
We've only just started tigger... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP...I still don't think your profile is that bad.
I have seen a LOT worse.
Whilst there is good advice on this thread.
You need to be YOU on it.
What works for someone else might not work for you, because once chatting, if your personality doesn't match the profile. . You'll struggle anyway.
Get some more pics on it.
The lack of pics is the bigger problem more than what you've written.
Because what you've written isn't that bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look "
You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look
You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie "
I won't tell you my secret |
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"Have a look around at the successful blokes profiles for ideas."
How many meet requests have you out up? How many socials or parties have you been to? How many clubs?
Or did you think they would all come running? Hard work pays off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have a look around at the successful blokes profiles for ideas.
How many meet requests have you out up? How many socials or parties have you been to? How many clubs?
Or did you think they would all come running? Hard work pays off"
Alright alright, this was more for advice rather than an interrogation mate  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..
Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!
I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for?? "
Einstein said to do the same things over and over and expect a different result is a definition of insanity.
If it ain't working fella change something, profile, messages, approach, only you know how and what to change.
My question... Why an older lady, can't a young lady blow your mind? |
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"Want some help taking pics?
Yes! Yes! Yes!
I'm going to enjoy the close-ups lol
Photos, my only weakness on Fab! Help me out "
I'd love to..til then do what women do. Wear some sexy undies, pose alot and take 50 pics until 1 is good enough. A glass of wine or beer makes you feel a bit less like an idiot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look
You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie
I won't tell you my secret "
Hmmm I wonder what it could be...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look
You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie
I won't tell you my secret
Hmmm I wonder what it could be... "
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