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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok being a single bloke on here you have to develop a thick skin and patience, but I have found lately that the demands of certain women and couples is getting extreme. I feel they think every single guy will do anything for a shag and I for one am not desperate by any means. Iv met some lovely people but others not so.
case in point 1 - chatting to a lovely lady for a few days we swap numbers we go on cam and arrange a meet. The day before the meet she emails me a list of demands as i read them - i must book and pay for a taxi, i must have her favourite wine in the fridge, a little present would be nice (she then listed her favourite perfume) anyway after reading i politely declined and said she wasnt for me to which i received a tirade of abuse and then blocked.
Another messaged me at 4am and because I was asleep and didnt reply I was called a timewaster??
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By (user no longer on site)
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Any self-respecting person would not give into demands. Stick to your principles; politely decline, block and move on. Most resonable people would not have a list of financial demands, that's just a scam. However there are some men who are so desparate they will comply. More fool them. |
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"Those women and couples only get away with making unreasonable demands because some men are desperate enough to go along with them. "
This!!!
Yes some can be ridiculous but they get away with it because some will agree to it all. Just ignore and block. |
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Yeah i mean i never tar anyone with the same brush as we are all individuals and i have hears stories of men doing the same. Its about smiling and moving on. I mean in a relationship these demands are normal lol but not on fab having said that of course i am not a scrooge and dont mind buying a round or going halves on a takeaway etc.
My latest meet cancelled because she forgot it was her birthday and she was going out lmao |
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Yeah - fab has a lot of folk that are unreasonable.
I get that some people have rules, but making demands is not really on - particularly when it is one way traffic.
Double standards really irks me - like can't send a message without a photo but they have no photo themselves.
I guess what most decent people think as reasonable differs a bit, but some are obviously unreasonable.
Personally I would never ask anything of anyone I wasn't prepared to do myself, and there is definitely a difference between asking politely and demanding.
Ultimately those that demand are not worth bothering with and I _iew them as time wasters - but cynically - maybe that is the idea! |
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See I don't make demands, just maybe considering 'smart but casual dress' rather than turn up in what they threw on when they got up as makes me wonder why I bother worrying about what to wear  |
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Of course it is always nice to make an effort and if you choose to provided a token gift that is lovely.
Likewise when someone makes and effort for you or gives you a token gift - that's lovely too.
Huge difference between that and a demand - manner cost nothing but mean everything to me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep have had this. Had a couple message me to say want a meet .You have to come now. I said politely sorry I have my daughter today so no can do but if you fancy meeting up some other time feel free to message me. The reply I got back was NO. Lol  |
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"Those women and couples only get away with making unreasonable demands because some men are desperate enough to go along with them. "
Couldn't agree more 
Ignore them n stop giving them the attention they crave. |
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"You should have replied with your own list of demands tbh
Hex"
Agreed!! Sadly the desperation of many guys on here allows many women,and couple, on here to punch well above their weight.
You did right. |
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It's not just woman that make demands . I had a guy tell me what beer he wanted and that he would need to sleep over as he wanted to drink .in the morning he would like brecky . Plus he liked his girls dressed in sexy white underwere but not the cheap primak stuff |
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"Those women and couples only get away with making unreasonable demands because some men are desperate enough to go along with them. "
dis
leave the saps to it. i refuse to join their ranks
Boy power! |
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"Those women and couples only get away with making unreasonable demands because some men are desperate enough to go along with them. "
Absolutely, sad isn't it? |
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I received a list of demands that included buying her a dress for at least $150 and she wouldn't wear anything under it while we had dinner at a restaurant if her choice (likey another $200) and then went back to be hotel of her choice ($300) at which point I could do as I chose with her.
I chose to decline! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok being a single bloke on here you have to develop a thick skin and patience, but I have found lately that the demands of certain women and couples is getting extreme. I feel they think every single guy will do anything for a shag and I for one am not desperate by any means. Iv met some lovely people but others not so.
case in point 1 - chatting to a lovely lady for a few days we swap numbers we go on cam and arrange a meet. The day before the meet she emails me a list of demands as i read them - i must book and pay for a taxi, i must have her favourite wine in the fridge, a little present would be nice (she then listed her favourite perfume) anyway after reading i politely declined and said she wasnt for me to which i received a tirade of abuse and then blocked.
Another messaged me at 4am and because I was asleep and didnt reply I was called a timewaster??
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OMG. How cheeky! I feel cringy asking for a lift there and back! Xx |
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"Ok being a single bloke on here you have to develop a thick skin and patience, but I have found lately that the demands of certain women and couples is getting extreme. I feel they think every single guy will do anything for a shag and I for one am not desperate by any means. Iv met some lovely people but others not so.
case in point 1 - chatting to a lovely lady for a few days we swap numbers we go on cam and arrange a meet. The day before the meet she emails me a list of demands as i read them - i must book and pay for a taxi, i must have her favourite wine in the fridge, a little present would be nice (she then listed her favourite perfume) anyway after reading i politely declined and said she wasnt for me to which i received a tirade of abuse and then blocked.
Another messaged me at 4am and because I was asleep and didnt reply I was called a timewaster??
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Fuck em!
Or don't in this case...
In every scene there's police and outlaws.
The police make demands and being part of the establishment are well know and dependable, like good old plod.
The outlaws don't respond well to demands, are fun, dangerous and exciting... But elusive...
Only a few know their true identity... |
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"I received a list of demands that included buying her a dress for at least $150 and she wouldn't wear anything under it while we had dinner at a restaurant if her choice (likey another $200) and then went back to be hotel of her choice ($300) at which point I could do as I chose with her.
I chose to decline!"
That would have been one expensive rub! |
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