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last night we got the best time waster excuse ever,,,,,,
wait for it ,,,,,,,
"I forgot im decorating my house so I cant make it"
You got to laugh !!! |
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over a year ago
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I got a text at 01.45 to say that he could not make the met the next day as he had to take the car in to the garage.
I asked if it had turned into a pumpkin!
What a tosser! |
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We've been the ones to sort notice cancel on a few occasions. Usually it had been mother nature or no baby sitter. Twice we've been blocked because of it. One couple we met at a party about 2 months later, they said they blocked us because they thought we weren't real or that I was a fake profile. That's a fake profile with 20 or so veris at the time  |
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over a year ago
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"Ok so what's the weirdest you've had "
Mine was unwell child related then at the time the appointment was due they were online for the whole hour with s status that read...
Never been so horny |
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"Ok so what's the weirdest you've had
Mine was unwell child related then at the time the appointment was due they were online for the whole hour with s status that read...
Never been so horny"
That's quite feasible though isn't it? |
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Sat and waited in a pub for half an hour last meet time once, I called him, no reply so texts him "where are you?" Only to get a reply "I didn't think you were serious" FFS, had driven forty minutes, sat there for thirty and forty minutes drive home, a whole evening wasted really never mind the time it took me to get ready. That's why I mainly meet in clubs now, There are always reserves to call on
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I only consider someone as timewasters when they confirm to meet but didnt show up or cancel within just few minutes before the time.
If they cancel hours or a day beforehand, i dont consider them as timewasters. They might have more important things to do.
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I was due to meet a couple for the second time in the same bar we met in for the first date which went well.
90 minutes later, after several texts from me, I got a message from him saying that his wife had just fallen out with her sister and was too upset to meet....  |
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"I only consider someone as timewasters when they confirm to meet but didnt show up or cancel within just few minutes before the time.
If they cancel hours or a day beforehand, i dont consider them as timewasters. They might have more important things to do.
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"Sat and waited in a pub for half an hour last meet time once, I called him, no reply so texts him "where are you?" Only to get a reply "I didn't think you were serious" FFS, had driven forty minutes, sat there for thirty and forty minutes drive home, a whole evening wasted really never mind the time it took me to get ready. That's why I mainly meet in clubs now, There are always reserves to call on
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I'll keep my eyes open for you next time I'm at the Townhouse.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"last night we got the best time waster excuse ever,,,,,,
wait for it ,,,,,,,
"I forgot im decorating my house so I cant make it"
You got to laugh !!! "
Did she mean she'd "got the painters in"????? I hate that phrase, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its knobheads like these timewasters that make it so hard for people like me to get a meet.
Well that and the fact i look like shrek on drugs crossed with a Jeremy Kyle guest....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"waiting for a meet and got a text sorry i cant make it i have run over a deer.of course he didnt get a second chance i deleted him "
That sounds pretty genuine to me - sounds like a sensitive chap! Anyway, a deer can do a lot of damage to your car. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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One once sent me a text...as I was sat waiting in the pub for our meet...saying he was sorry but he was helping his brother move a bed, could I hang on for 2 or 3 HOURS?!! Errrr....nope!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so what's the weirdest you've had
Mine was unwell child related then at the time the appointment was due they were online for the whole hour with s status that read...
Never been so horny"
This could have been a genuine excuse...being online is no proof that they weren't... I have 3 devices on which I access fab and sometimes forget to close one down...have had someone "accuse" me of spending all day online and get stroppy when I was actually working!!! |
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"Its knobheads like these timewasters that make it so hard for people like me to get a meet.
Well that and the fact i look like shrek on drugs crossed with a Jeremy Kyle guest.... "
Can't comment on the second reason for your lack of meets, but it's not the first....you make your own luck on this site. |
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"Ok so what's the weirdest you've had
Mine was unwell child related then at the time the appointment was due they were online for the whole hour with s status that read...
Never been so horny
That's quite feasible though isn't it? "
I would have thought so. The meet had to be cancelled due to child related issues so after looking forward to a meet she couldnt now have she was left horny and sexually frustrated. Happens to me a lot, but im honest from first contact that i struggle for child care and do have to sometimes cancel at the last minute |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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Not for a planned meet but 'couples' with excuses like:
"wife has just has a Hysterectomy"
In the 6 months here, I've had a dozen 'couples' come up with this excuse. The number of Hysterectomies on FabS exceeds the capacity the NHS can handle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol we were told by a guy after we'd sent a face pic that we weren't for him as he doesn't go with anyone that's more hench than him - well my man does have big guns lol |
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I've had quite a few...
One recently was when i aranged a meet with my bi male fb. I had asked this guy loads about being bi, he had bi on his profile, we even went in to some detail on what he wanted to do..
He cancelled as he did do the bi thing anymore |
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Not really a time waster, more frustrating, arranged to meet a guy yesterday around 2 weeks ago. I messaged beginning of last week to ask if he was still ok to meet, oh yes he says, very excited, I've not changed my mind have I? Nope, defo up for it, I'll text you Sunday morning to confirm, ok he says. So I text when I say but he tells me he's made other plans as he didn't hear from me?!!!! |
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"Not really a time waster, more frustrating, arranged to meet a guy yesterday around 2 weeks ago. I messaged beginning of last week to ask if he was still ok to meet, oh yes he says, very excited, I've not changed my mind have I? Nope, defo up for it, I'll text you Sunday morning to confirm, ok he says. So I text when I say but he tells me he's made other plans as he didn't hear from me?!!!!"
sounds like yet another keyboard fantasist. There are so many on this site. Real meets scare them.
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"waiting for a meet and got a text sorry i cant make it i have run over a deer.of course he didnt get a second chance i deleted him "
a little hasty, sounds like a decent guy.
I've hit a deer before when it jumped out in front on my car, I was mortified.
sex would have been the last thing on my mind. |
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"Not really a time waster, more frustrating, arranged to meet a guy yesterday around 2 weeks ago. I messaged beginning of last week to ask if he was still ok to meet, oh yes he says, very excited, I've not changed my mind have I? Nope, defo up for it, I'll text you Sunday morning to confirm, ok he says. So I text when I say but he tells me he's made other plans as he didn't hear from me?!!!! sounds like yet another keyboard fantasist. There are so many on this site. Real meets scare them."
I've had a few like this over the years previous I was on here but he was well verified by meet. I've given him one last date and time but won't give another if he cancels again. Don't need crap like that, just sort a meet and go, its really that easy! |
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"Not really a time waster, more frustrating, arranged to meet a guy yesterday around 2 weeks ago. I messaged beginning of last week to ask if he was still ok to meet, oh yes he says, very excited, I've not changed my mind have I? Nope, defo up for it, I'll text you Sunday morning to confirm, ok he says. So I text when I say but he tells me he's made other plans as he didn't hear from me?!!!!"
If they did this to someone who was going to help them, look at a car for sale or anything else they would be embarrassed to back out at the last minute.
Because it is a sex meeting through Fab they think normal politeness does not matter. They are just plain rude and inconsiderate shits as far as i am concerened. |
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"Not really a time waster, more frustrating, arranged to meet a guy yesterday around 2 weeks ago. I messaged beginning of last week to ask if he was still ok to meet, oh yes he says, very excited, I've not changed my mind have I? Nope, defo up for it, I'll text you Sunday morning to confirm, ok he says. So I text when I say but he tells me he's made other plans as he didn't hear from me?!!!!
If they did this to someone who was going to help them, look at a car for sale or anything else they would be embarrassed to back out at the last minute.
Because it is a sex meeting through Fab they think normal politeness does not matter. They are just plain rude and inconsiderate shits as far as i am concerened. "
Yep, tend to agree but in not so many words! I think its bullshit to be honest, I wouldn't make other plans and cancel a meet without first messaging the other party to confirm it was still on or not, its just a poor excuse trying to blame me. I've given him one more chance but doubt he'll take it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Curious to why your complaining about his excuse , especially when your willing to give him another try after not getting any notice from him . Just my opinion |
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"Curious to why your complaining about his excuse , especially when your willing to give him another try after not getting any notice from him . Just my opinion "
I always give people the benefit of the doubt. Not really moaning, just bemused as to why he made other plans the day before I said I'd text to confirm the meet. If he's changed his mind then fine, he won't take the second chance and I'll move on. |
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"Curious to why your complaining about his excuse , especially when your willing to give him another try after not getting any notice from him . Just my opinion
I always give people the benefit of the doubt. Not really moaning, just bemused as to why he made other plans the day before I said I'd text to confirm the meet. If he's changed his mind then fine, he won't take the second chance and I'll move on. "
Maybe by not given him the benefit off the doubt he will learn by his mistake and won't do it to another person |
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"Curious to why your complaining about his excuse , especially when your willing to give him another try after not getting any notice from him . Just my opinion
I always give people the benefit of the doubt. Not really moaning, just bemused as to why he made other plans the day before I said I'd text to confirm the meet. If he's changed his mind then fine, he won't take the second chance and I'll move on.
Maybe by not given him the benefit off the doubt he will learn by his mistake and won't do it to another person "
Maybe, but I've had to cancel last minute due to being let down by babysitters and sick kids but rearranged. I think its only fair to give someone a second chance. I doubt he'll take it but I haven't really wasted any time if he doesn't. |
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"waiting for a meet and got a text sorry i cant make it i have run over a deer.of course he didnt get a second chance i deleted him
a little hasty, sounds like a decent guy.
I've hit a deer before when it jumped out in front on my car, I was mortified.
sex would have been the last thing on my mind."
I cried when I ran over a baby sparrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We usually give people the benefit of the doubt. We had one guy say "I had to go off-shore to the rigs on the monday and could not text you from there"
"Oh. OK. When did they tell you?"
"Friday"
"So over the whole weekend you did not get a chance to send a 'Sorry cannot make it' text?"
"No i was busy"
Yeah right!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We usually give people the benefit of the doubt. We had one guy say "I had to go off-shore to the rigs on the monday and could not text you from there"
"Oh. OK. When did they tell you?"
"Friday"
"So over the whole weekend you did not get a chance to send a 'Sorry cannot make it' text?"
"No i was busy"
Yeah right!! "
Oh come on, it takes at least 30 seconds to send a text!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We arranged a social meet with a couple, then that morning all messages stopped, no replies, no answer to calling, it all went quiet. Sent a message asking to confirm the meet was still on...didnt hear back...we sent another saying if we dont hear from you we'll assume its off...didnt hear back. Went online...they'd deleted their profile. We just chalked it up to timewasters.
BUT...recently noticed the same couple have set up a new profile, looked at us, and have blocked us. I did see on updates though that another couple have verified them.
Still have absolutely no idea why they changed their mind about meeting us...but we'd have rather had ANY excuse than none at all!! |
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"We arranged a social meet with a couple, then that morning all messages stopped, no replies, no answer to calling, it all went quiet. Sent a message asking to confirm the meet was still on...didnt hear back...we sent another saying if we dont hear from you we'll assume its off...didnt hear back. Went online...they'd deleted their profile. We just chalked it up to timewasters.
Still have absolutely no idea why they changed their mind about meeting us...but we'd have rather had ANY excuse than none at all!! "
We had similar recently, for a rare evening we were free. Just beyond rude, some people have no manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As being a single guy i take great delight in finding out that it is not always a singleton who lets others down as we get so much bad press as it is and i have to say sometimes i do feel we deserve some off it going by what i have seen in some forum posts . |
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