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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My fiance and I met via a site. We not no romantic intension from the outset. However, that changed soon enough and here we are.
I assumed once I met my soulmate I would not like her to be involved in the scene for fear of jealously.
I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous? |
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"My fiance and I met via a site. We not no romantic intension from the outset. However, that changed soon enough and here we are.
I assumed once I met my soulmate I would not like her to be involved in the scene for fear of jealously.
I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous?"
Because you know that love isn't ownership. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous?"
Totally agree with all the above comments. If you're swinging as a couple, there shouldnt be any jealousy, if there was then you probably shouldn't be doing it. We are never jealous of eachother, because we are both secure in our relationship and trust eachother implicitly.
Jealousy comes from a lack of trust and feeling insecure.
Juicy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you've answered your own question, you've found your soulmate and that's all that really matters to you both, the fact you don't feel jealousy is a good thing, it doesn't mean you love her any less  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you've answered your own question, you've found your soulmate and that's all that really matters to you both, the fact you don't feel jealousy is a good thing, it doesn't mean you love her any less "
In fact, I think it means he does love her. Jealousy doesn't come from a place of love but one of insecurity and control. It's possessive and destructive.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just this weekend I swung for the first time with my guy, and in the run up I was feeling quit insecure and jealous and generally stressed out about it. (I've got a lot of external pressures going on at the moment)...
But as soon as the couple arrived and we got chatting, and then as soon as we got down to business, I didn't feel any jealousy at all! Mind opened! Defimitely hoping to get more and more experience in, an amazing night! |
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