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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
I'd like to come at spanking from the spankees side. What makes it pleasurable and sensual? I have known ladies to cum while being attended to.
Seems to me that most ladies on Fab say they like spanking.
Do any see being spanked as a reason for a meet?
I'm thinking about sensual and controlled at the level both enjoy. |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"Spanking is good...whipping is better...it's a cross over between pain and pleasure...same as biting and scratching....we both love it."
Never tried a whip. I should think you'd need to learn how to handle it from both sides? Flogger is great but also easy to overdo. Has the advantage of being able to tickle between a lady's legs |
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"Spanking is good...whipping is better...it's a cross over between pain and pleasure...same as biting and scratching....we both love it."
Yes. I kinda get a bit bored with spanking Sometimes. Just isn't enough behind it. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Not how I play on fab... but with my lover its the pleasure/pain and also trust.
There is something very liberating about handing over control like that, and also the sensation that spanking brings. We've never used whips or floggers, and not sure we will, but I love being spanked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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http://isthisbdsm.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/the-science-behind-spanking.html?m=1
You may find this an interesting read
P.s. Controlled punishment at the hands of someone who knows what they are doing can be the most amazing release in the world x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://isthisbdsm.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/the-science-behind-spanking.html?m=1
You may find this an interesting read
P.s. Controlled punishment at the hands of someone who knows what they are doing can be the most amazing release in the world x"
This has to be the most informative article I have ever read on the science behind spanking. Thank you for sharing!
crystal |
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"http://isthisbdsm.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/the-science-behind-spanking.html?m=1
You may find this an interesting read
P.s. Controlled punishment at the hands of someone who knows what they are doing can be the most amazing release in the world x"
I agree with that, I've been punished by people who don't know what they're doing and its just hurt. On the other hand when done by an expert it is the release you describe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://isthisbdsm.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/the-science-behind-spanking.html?m=1
You may find this an interesting read
P.s. Controlled punishment at the hands of someone who knows what they are doing can be the most amazing release in the world x"
This!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brilliant blog link Lucy. Really interesting read.
For me it's the crossover between pleasure and pain. There is a major mental element to it too, what I can tolerate and the element of surprise, from soft stroking to spanking. Although like said above, spanking alone can be too one dimensional but is fantastic combined with other forms of teasing and punishment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm getting the vibes from the ladies. Is it fair to compare a good spanking to good sex? Also when you've enjoyed a good spanking was the same guy the business in bed?"
A good spanking with good sex is the way forward 
In answer to your question, a good spanking normally involves good sex. Yes, the same guy is the business in bed because you have that connection. It's not something you do with just anyone though. For me anyway. |
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Looking at the op's profile, I wonder if he may be curious about being spanked himself?? every picture tells a story..don't it?
I love it when it is totally unexpected and begins very gently..Mmmmmmm Ax
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I'm getting the vibes from the ladies. Is it fair to compare a good spanking to good sex? Also when you've enjoyed a good spanking was the same guy the business in bed?"
If a guy has little or not control in the rhythm, placement and force of each spank he delivers then he'll probably be just as uncoordinated with his ability to do other things. I realise this is a massive generalisation but as with everything else, you make assumptions regarding a person based upon your own experiences and observations.
crystal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to come at spanking from the spankees side. What makes it pleasurable and sensual? I have known ladies to cum while being attended to.
Seems to me that most ladies on Fab say they like spanking.
Do any see being spanked as a reason for a meet?
I'm thinking about sensual and controlled at the level both enjoy."
I enjoy power exchange. Spanking - and other similar things - can be an expression of power exchange. |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
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"I like it coz it feels good. I would meet someone purely for a spanking. "
I understand that and have met to enjoy the giving and seeing the pleasure it can give. Like sex on a first meet, to be good you have to feel the electricity.
As a spanker I have also swapped places on many occasions but it hasn't delivered the tease that other acts do. Might be generalisation but perhaps the biology of a lady helps the whole scene be more sensual?
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises."
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts...."
Twitch.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last time we finished playing with another couple Will spanked me, making me cum all over again 
The other couple were surprised - to say the least! Lol
More please !
Sara x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts....
Twitch...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts....
Twitch...."
a happy one i hope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving a good spanking it's about starting slowly getting the bottom nice red then getting bit harder keeping a good rythem and moving you spanks around the bottom and top off the thighs so they don't know where next spank will land |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"The last time we finished playing with another couple Will spanked me, making me cum all over again
The other couple were surprised - to say the least! Lol
More please !
Sara x"
Wow...true confession! Imagine it had ended in a double spanking....maybe next time? |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts....
Twitch...."
Methinks the lady has received the wisdom of the swishing stick judging by the profile pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts....
Twitch....
Methinks the lady has received the wisdom of the swishing stick judging by the profile pic?"
Hehe, guilty as charged your honour |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Are we turning up the heat and extending spanking to include the dying art of caning. Those glorious parallel red stripes framed by the raised welts....
Twitch....
Methinks the lady has received the wisdom of the swishing stick judging by the profile pic?
Hehe, guilty as charged your honour "
I trust the crime fitted the punishment? Only thing is its prob not a deterrent.. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife will not even contemplate a light spanking. Tried it once and she went mad. However, she does love to give it and is very adept with the cane. I really get off on the endorphin rush and she gets very wet taking it out on my arse. Strange but there you go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love been spanked by a lady wearing a black corset or basque but she must be baringn her breasts and I can watch in a mirror . As you can imagine it has not happened enough for me over the years.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife will not even contemplate a light spanking. Tried it once and she went mad. However, she does love to give it and is very adept with the cane. I really get off on the endorphin rush and she gets very wet taking it out on my arse. Strange but there you go."
thats hot not strange |
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"Spanking is good...whipping is better...it's a cross over between pain and pleasure...same as biting and scratching....we both love it.
Never tried a whip. I should think you'd need to learn how to handle it from both sides? Flogger is great but also easy to overdo. Has the advantage of being able to tickle between a lady's legs"
A combination of all of them works so well....especially when blindfolded and you don't know what's coming next...the anticipation is thrilling..  |
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"Spanking is good...whipping is better...it's a cross over between pain and pleasure...same as biting and scratching....we both love it.
Never tried a whip. I should think you'd need to learn how to handle it from both sides? Flogger is great but also easy to overdo. Has the advantage of being able to tickle between a lady's legs
A combination of all of them works so well....especially when blindfolded and you don't know what's coming next...the anticipation is thrilling.. "
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"Spanking is good...whipping is better...it's a cross over between pain and pleasure...same as biting and scratching....we both love it."
Though I love it more than him but he does like a lady who scratches and bites gently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore spanking and being spanked. The look or feel or a red backside is excellent - especially when it still tingles for a while after.
You cannot beat a good flogging warming up with a soft flogger to the harder ones.
If this is administered as a punishment, then all the more fun - especially with verbal humiliation thrown in. |
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"I adore spanking and being spanked. The look or feel or a red backside is excellent - especially when it still tingles for a while after.
You cannot beat a good flogging warming up with a soft flogger to the harder ones.
If this is administered as a punishment, then all the more fun - especially with verbal humiliation thrown in."
Goes to lie in a darkened room.... |
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By *lan43sum OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have masochistic tendencies and am turned on by welts and bruises.
Me too "
Superb pic on your profile ma'am... something like 14 proper stripes. Good job well done and compliments to the aim of the caner
I'm also off to lay down in a darkened room |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love a good spank it's just naughty and builds anticipation x although I had a bad experience once we bought a lovely pink and black leather paddle which must have had a fault as one good hard one n the leather split off n I got spanked with the thin metal rod supporting it inside a bit to far past my pain thresh hold when I'm not expecting it lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love a good spank it's just naughty and builds anticipation x although I had a bad experience once we bought a lovely pink and black leather paddle which must have had a fault as one good hard one n the leather split off n I got spanked with the thin metal rod supporting it inside a bit to far past my pain thresh hold when I'm not expecting it lol x"
Ouch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love a good spank it's just naughty and builds anticipation x although I had a bad experience once we bought a lovely pink and black leather paddle which must have had a fault as one good hard one n the leather split off n I got spanked with the thin metal rod supporting it inside a bit to far past my pain thresh hold when I'm not expecting it lol x
Ouch! "
Yea it sucked n I couldn't sit right for days lol x |
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