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why do women automatically rule out younger guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones? |
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?"
Cockiness, immaturity levels, not so level headed, childish, you're the same age as there children? Everyone has there reasons. Who doesn't like a Milf or cougar.  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not attracted to younger men - not just their bedroom skills, but generally their chat and interests too.
I prefer older men as I find them more interesting - life experience counts for a lot.
I also couldn't go with someone where I am old enough to be their mum. |
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No it's not a preconception on my part it's experience. We know one or two younger men that we click with on many levels but in most cases we have very little in common with people much younger than us.
I find that many younger men hold preconceptions about older women too though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't automatically rule them out either, but if other people do you can't force them to change their mind. they're here for what they want, not what you want.
if they are saying they don't think you'll satisfy them then yeah it's a preconception (or prejudice if you like).
i've met some guys who were good fucks and willing to experiment, others i find expect me to do all the work and i think it is coz they aren't that experienced, wouldn't mind if they attempted stuff either but i'm not really here to teach anyone how to fuck i'm here for experienced guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us its not sexual we like to meet people we have a connection with and can chat with without struggling to find things in common. Our age range reflects who we feel we would get on with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it's not a preconception on my part it's experience. We know one or two younger men that we click with on many levels but in most cases we have very little in common with people much younger than us.
I find that many younger men hold preconceptions about older women too though."
We thought we'd try a younger guy (in his 20s) did absolutely nothing for Jackie, was like a rabbit in headlights, plus very selfish, 30s and 40s for us from now on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think posting their insecurities, humbly bragging and almost insinuating older women 'should' give them a chance doesn't really propel their chances... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all |
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all"
Are you suggesting that at 58 years old I don't know where my preferences lie from previous experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all
Are you suggesting that at 58 years old I don't know where my preferences lie from previous experience?"
Tear him apart |
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all
Are you suggesting that at 58 years old I don't know where my preferences lie from previous experience?
Tear him apart "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it's not a preconception on my part it's experience. We know one or two younger men that we click with on many levels but in most cases we have very little in common with people much younger than us.
I find that many younger men hold preconceptions about older women too though.
We thought we'd try a younger guy (in his 20s) did absolutely nothing for Jackie, was like a rabbit in headlights, plus very selfish, 30s and 40s for us from now on "
Ha u can't argue with that haha! I once had a meet back in day and I was a rabbit headlights! No sex bye the way ha! But it all comes down to experience as I was soiling my pants about meeting someone off here more than anything ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all"
It's simple generally younger girls are way more mature than younger guys (not in all cases before I get shot down) hence younger girls find older guys attractive,ourview anyway |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I don't automatically rule out anyone when I go to clubs, although I am more likely to end up with younger guys. However when it comes to one on one meets I find that they are either no good conversationally, or they look so horrified when they see me it makes me feel like shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all"
You are right about mentality. maybe that us your problem? Have you considered that women are just not attracted to you rather than younger guys in general? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all
Are you suggesting that at 58 years old I don't know where my preferences lie from previous experience?
Tear him apart
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im not specifically targeting anyone, and im not saying anyone doesnt know what they want, im merely making a point that many seem to just cancel the idea out because of a couple of years. im not talking 25-30 year age gaps either, even 5 year ages gaps seem to be an issue for some. im not being a little bitch or throwing a paddy, im more just curious as to everyones thoughts and having a debate. taking anything as a personal dig is silly and responding with mild humiliation directly towards me is not on, as this is a debate and not a moan at anyone directly |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all"
Some older guys think its a badge of honour to pull a younger lass.
I know from speaking to loads of younger lads, through work and previous jobs that they don't interest me, so why should I have to wade through even more messages on here that are so unlikely to float my boat just to reassure some younger lads that its not unfair to use the filters to meet who I want... is it not better to be excluded straight off than think you have a chance with someone who really is not interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
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Some men will sleep with young women, some women will sleep with young men
Not all older guys are looking for young women, OK I know not many would turn one down but that's the difference between men and women
Generally women like to connect mentally with who they sleep with where as most men don't give a shit if they have anything in common |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know! "
Give the lad a chance...he may be a mastermind at TV programmes of the 80s....he may sing you a lullaby of the theme tune to 'button moon'...)) |
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"i see. all valid points i guess!
another thing i find bizzare, is how it varies from gender to gender. A 38 year old male would happily sleep with an 22 year old female, yet a 38 year old woman would not sleep with a 22 year old male.
i see the points of maturity and whatnot and interests, but i think its a massive judgement to be making without talking to somebody first. personally i work in a way that means i speak to everyone equally on a level playing field with an open mind and no pre-conceptions. now, in real world terms, i believe that mentality is usually seen as a better approach is it not? im just curious about this idea thats all
Are you suggesting that at 58 years old I don't know where my preferences lie from previous experience?
Tear him apart
im not specifically targeting anyone, and im not saying anyone doesnt know what they want, im merely making a point that many seem to just cancel the idea out because of a couple of years. im not talking 25-30 year age gaps either, even 5 year ages gaps seem to be an issue for some. im not being a little bitch or throwing a paddy, im more just curious as to everyones thoughts and having a debate. taking anything as a personal dig is silly and responding with mild humiliation directly towards me is not on, as this is a debate and not a moan at anyone directly"
I didn't imagine for one minute that your remarks were directed at me but it would have been presumptuous of me to reply on behalf of all women. My intention was not to humiliate you any more than yours is in calling me silly. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
Give the lad a chance...he may be a mastermind at TV programmes of the 80s....he may sing you a lullaby of the theme tune to 'button moon'...))"
I think even 'button moon' is older than him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
Give the lad a chance...he may be a mastermind at TV programmes of the 80s....he may sing you a lullaby of the theme tune to 'button moon'...))"
haha, im more culturally educated and humerous than you think! and tend to make myself a target for humiliation, i think id make a great yellow coat at maplins :p |
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This one always makes me wonder...
At some point in history, age came to mean experiance...
Not true, modern humans, in the West have so little experiance other than work, TV, what they read and regurgitate as their own ideas, that they are little more than children till the age of 60.
When they start to use their retirement cash to "experience" life...
Otherwise experiance is bullshit they don't really understand. |
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"This one always makes me wonder...
At some point in history, age came to mean experiance...
Not true, modern humans, in the West have so little experiance other than work, TV, what they read and regurgitate as their own ideas, that they are little more than children till the age of 60.
When they start to use their retirement cash to "experience" life...
Otherwise experiance is bullshit they don't really understand."
Ooo I'm about to start experiencing then  |
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I remember being 23 on my first post abroad and by the time I came back at 25, I was more experienced than most 50 year olds...
Yes childish, I still am, yes wild, I still am and yes I've never grown up and don't plan to.
Life's more interesting for a curious child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm honest I'm really not attracted to young baby faced guys, I like a lived in face, I just fine a more mature face more attractive, I like a few wrinkles I find older guys who have aged well more appealing to look at |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know! "
I still want to know the answer to my question though! |
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"If I'm honest I'm really not attracted to young baby faced guys, I like a lived in face, I just fine a more mature face more attractive, I like a few wrinkles I find older guys who have aged well more appealing to look at"
Thats probs a bit more like it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!"
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no preconceptions as such about young lads as I've had some great conversation with some. For me though it is all about the age as I fancy my own age group, yes some of the young lads are good looking but when I consider the age between us, its incredibly off putting and even in a club, I wouldn't go there |
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p"
Did you just Google all that lol |
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol"
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive. |
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p"
SWo intelligent conversation isn't your forte then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
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well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
Yeeeaaahhh.... 
I don't think its your age that's the problem. |
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"I'm not attracted to younger men - not just their bedroom skills, but generally their chat and interests too.
I prefer older men as I find them more interesting - life experience counts for a lot.
I also couldn't go with someone where I am old enough to be their mum."
This |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I had sex with younger men when I was younger. I don't want to have sex with men I could have given birth to. That's my choice.
It doesn't matter how good you may be at sex I have my preferences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have met younger guys some been great company , some not, its all horses for courses , but the age thing on profile also is anice way of saying no thanks to guys, its like a get out clause lol. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
erm wow. I like fun and something in common with the people I meet... nothing to do with your age, but that kind of rant is really off-putting... I find judgmental people a huge turn off.
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"And the lucky few who do get chances usually blow it then ruin it for the rest of us."
what a crock of shit. No one ruins anything for you, only you can ruin things for yourself, not other people |
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
Hmmm may of found the reason why older women don't want to meet you, maybe it's not your age lol |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
So much judgement.
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
Is that you Obi Wan ?
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"Well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
Ok... You can't compare two different paper from different times.
Take engine manufacture... What we thought were good ideas 10 years age, are now borderline useless.
Therefore if a student who aced a paper then, took a paper today on engine manufacture, he would fail. No matter how clever.
As our knowledge of the universe improves, things that we once needed are no longer required.
So for reasons of efficiancy and effectiveness we jettison them.
Giving the next generation the best possible chance to improve on the last.
In the short term people complain and thing we are going backwards, but 50 years later they see flying cars. |
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I'm not a woman but dress and date as one. Despite my profile stating my age preferences, I receive a lot of messages from younger guys. It's very flattering but I'm just attracted to older men, that's all. Being no spring chicken myself, I prefer someone I can relate to and have a conversation with on an equal basis. It's not all about sex for me and nothing personal. |
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I prefer men of various ages who don't overthink the shit out of everything or like to post clever sounding (they think) theories in an attempt to get one over others. |
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Okay, just looked at your photos and why you are "being ruled out" by more mature women is not a mystery. Photos 3 and 4 are . . . really immature. Not attractive at all. So if you want to have a hope in hell of meeting an older woman then be what attracts one - and that isn't someone goofing off with their tongue hanging out. |
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?"
Even if your conversation skills are excellent a lot of people will prefer to talk to people who have more experience in life and knowledge of topics in which they have an interest . Is there any reason why you do not concentrate on meeting people of a similar age to yourself ? |
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I don't actively seek out anyone younger than 30, just my choice, but perhaps if I was at a club etc I would most likely play a guy younger than that if they were interested. I'm sure they wouldn't be though lol! |
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I attempted a social with a younger man once. He talked the talk via messages, face to face, no conversation and no offer to buy me a drink, so I bought my own, he threw his toys out the pram, called me miserable and walked off. Never again will I meet someone my son's age |
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For me (ms) I want to feel a man wants me for me... Not because he thinks I will be flattered... Or because he wants to try an older woman.
So that puts me off... We have met younger guys but there is a real lack of chemistry.
For me my age range is quite narrow for my ideal xx from 30 to 46ish x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"No it's not a preconception on my part it's experience. We know one or two younger men that we click with on many levels but in most cases we have very little in common with people much younger than us.
I find that many younger men hold preconceptions about older women too though."
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I am not attracted to men that are the same as my children . I have a 31 year old son and 3 younger sons. I have tried to be a cougar but can't do it ... I would otherwise love to be with a younger guy cause I believe they could really hit the spot ha |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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My question is why do some people excluded by the preferences of some others complain about it on the grounds that it's not an issue for them?
Do these people really not realise that their own preferences will not be something that some others have a problem with?
Why are you not interested in meeting men, OP? To me meeting men is not an issue. Does that make your preference less valid? |
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"And the lucky few who do get chances usually blow it then ruin it for the rest of us.
what a crock of shit. No one ruins anything for you, only you can ruin things for yourself, not other people"
Seems par for the course on here that its always someone else's fault rather than take responsibility for their own failure |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet for more than just sex, I meet for the social side as well, what on earth would I speak about during naked chats on the sofa......Can you answer me that? Coz I would love to know!
I still want to know the answer to my question though!
well, as i have never spoken to you i wouldnt know what interests you have. but a few of my interests, there would be politics, discussions on how the population seems to be becoming more stupid as generations progress, the benefit system that fuels egits to become baby factories or benefit thugs in order to get the free ride of the taxpayer. its very difficult to say what i can talk about, as im a salesman, i can chat all day about anything that becomes apparent and mingle with most, its what i do for a living :p
Did you just Google all that lol
Really you want to talk politics??
And actually every generation is increasingly more intelligent than the last, imagine how stupid we look to people 100 years in the future.
Also we might need baby factories, as our ageing population (who spend their days talking politics), needs plenty of younger people to ensure that the country they live in, will survive.
well put it this way, a modern day a-level paper is the same difficulty as 20 year old o level paper, the 'british' education system make test and exams easier, believe me ive seen it all and compoared exams 2 decades apart. the population is getting more technically advanced yes, because they are growing up as a digital generation. and look at it this way. the intelligent people who would make great parents, alot of the time are career focused and not interested in having children until later in life and even then have 2 maybe at a push. yet at the other end of the spectrum we have the ones who cant be arsed and dont give a shit breeding left right and centre and producing children being brought up in environments where the families dont care or raise a child correctly"
Oh dear.
This pretty much sums up one of the reasons I tend to prefer men with rather more real life experience and depth.
Anyone can mindlessly parrot propaganda and rhetoric in an attempt to sound clever and informed.
Some people, usually older people, can talk about things they know something about. Some also realise they don't actually know it all.
There are younger men with those traits but they are few and far between. I'll chat to them if they come across well but very few do. |
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Mrs Cook has a thing for younger men, she has had a couple of experiences with them and has been left a little disappointed as they have not been very considerate and have been concerned with their own pleasure. |
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I get along well with those older than me.
My likes and interests are very different to the general 'young' population. Actually, i'm just different as a whole.
I seem to click better with those older than those around my age. I'm a bit too old in the head for my age.
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?"
Fab and the swinging world in general is often strewn with such prejudices masquerading as preferences.
Folks are often too quick to make assumptions and as shallow as a storm drain in August.
There's good and bad in all variations but how often do see all this age, dimension, colour and myriad other forms of selectivity going on.
Do don't take it personal, it's just one of the nastier to human nature, that's appears to be heightened in this little pastime.  |
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"I'm not attracted to younger men - not just their bedroom skills, but generally their chat and interests too.
I prefer older men as I find them more interesting - life experience counts for a lot.
I also couldn't go with someone where I am old enough to be their mum."
Would agree with this...and in your case you are only a few years older than one of our grandchildren.....really not right. |
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"I get along well with those older than me.
My likes and interests are very different to the general 'young' population. Actually, i'm just different as a whole.
I seem to click better with those older than those around my age. I'm a bit too old in the head for my age.
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There are always exceptions pops |
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?
Fab and the swinging world in general is often strewn with such prejudices masquerading as preferences.
Folks are often too quick to make assumptions and as shallow as a storm drain in August.
There's good and bad in all variations but how often do see all this age, dimension, colour and myriad other forms of selectivity going on.
Do don't take it personal, it's just one of the nastier to human nature, that's appears to be heightened in this little pastime. "
It's casual sex with strangers off the internet, it's not exactly a deep pursuit... |
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This subject is seen by some as prejudice but its not its personal choice . The thing with persoal choice is that its just that , your not going to be everyones cup of tea .you may badly want to play with a very hot woman but it certainly does'nt mean she's going to be attracted to you no matter how hot , cool , culturally educated , intelligent YOU think you are .you have to remember its YOUR privilege to be picked not your right . |
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Your tying all older ladies in with the same brush pal, everyone is different, regardless of age or sexuality. Be patient and respectful and you will find the lady your looking for |
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Most younger posts come across, in my experience as cocky and as if they're doing older ladies a favour by offering to give them the 'f*ck of your life'.
On the other side of that.. I like older women 'cos you're more experienced'.
I'm here to enjoy, not teach... If the mails are confident, chatty and not. Immature I'm happy to see if we get on through mails with possibility of meeting. |
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"This subject is seen by some as prejudice but its not its personal choice . The thing with persoal choice is that its just that , your not going to be everyones cup of tea .you may badly want to play with a very hot woman but it certainly does'nt mean she's going to be attracted to you no matter how hot , cool , culturally educated , intelligent YOU think you are .you have to remember its YOUR privilege to be picked not your right ."
bravo!
should be copy and pasted to all men |
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"I get along well with those older than me.
My likes and interests are very different to the general 'young' population. Actually, i'm just different as a whole.
I seem to click better with those older than those around my age. I'm a bit too old in the head for my age.
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you are you Pops ... Carry on keeping it real!  |
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We take people as they are... And if there is a mutual attraction and chemistry then all good. We are both able to communicate with others of all ages and choose not to stereo type people.
Are some interesting people out there! Not all are nutters and fruit loops... And those that are come in all ages .... |
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?
Fab and the swinging world in general is often strewn with such prejudices masquerading as preferences.
Folks are often too quick to make assumptions and as shallow as a storm drain in August.
There's good and bad in all variations but how often do see all this age, dimension, colour and myriad other forms of selectivity going on.
Do don't take it personal, it's just one of the nastier to human nature, that's appears to be heightened in this little pastime. "
Yep... This could be right on target. There's a lot of rule nazis in the UK scene...
Play by the rules or you will be marginalised...
We fuck the rules, I say, I'd rather tread my own lonely path than conform... |
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"During my time on fab, ive come across the age old taboo of age gap. Now, personally, i see no issue. I have been told by some they dont think a "young buck like you" could satisfy an older woman.
Herein lies the issue. Without being big headed (excuse the pun) I've never really had a bad review, i mean the one older woman who has met me on here was more than pleasantly surprised by my skillset and i have had plenty of excellent experiences with older women outside of FAB too with no regrets or complaints from the other party.
So may i ask out of curiosity, is it just a preconception alot women have that younger guys are forbidden or less skilled than older ones?
Fab and the swinging world in general is often strewn with such prejudices masquerading as preferences.
Folks are often too quick to make assumptions and as shallow as a storm drain in August.
There's good and bad in all variations but how often do see all this age, dimension, colour and myriad other forms of selectivity going on.
Do don't take it personal, it's just one of the nastier to human nature, that's appears to be heightened in this little pastime.
It's casual sex with strangers off the internet, it's not exactly a deep pursuit..."
Kinda see this side too... But that's not necessarily what it is to everyone. |
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