Mmmm profile was a little off putting. Read like a list of demands, with couples and ladies profiles one can understand this to an extent as you are trying to filter out the hundreds of emails us single blokes send.
Best solution to meets I think is get out there, go to meets/socials say hi to people and chat.
While some on here may want zero social interaction, I think a great many people do want some degree of friendliness, i.e. that ability to have a BBQ and not conduct it in total silence. |
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over a year ago
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First thing I noticed in your profile was you telling people not to be rude because you are not rude to them yet your profile opens with Shouting (capitols) and then you say "if I can put pictures up why can't you"
Well there are a lot of reasons why people cannot put face pictures in thier profile, we have them but we accept other people can't and respect that, to demand that they do is rude.
People have choices, if they don't want pictures on thier profile it is thier choice and they should not be chastised for it.
Do what we do, block anyone who doesn't have pictures that is not being rude it is respecting thier wishes whilst excersising our own choice not to have contact with them. |
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Best advice-
Read and actually take note of all advice given on this thread as well as the others. You have made no effort to adjust your profile to peoples recommendations.
Your profile can be used to represent your personality, Mine is far from perfect yet effort has been put in and been told it shows.
Rant at the end of your profile at least, and caps make letters bigger and often seen as aggressive and subtlety is usually the better tactic.
Last of all READ the actual advice given... Also maybe delete current profile and sit down, stand up or pace around and think through how you wish to portray yourself, and can't stress this enough. USE ADVICE GIVEN and don't waste peoples good intentions mate. |
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over a year ago
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i can see where he is coming from, i send polite messages, i check the age range looking for, i have pictures and a face picture, and im not bad looking yet nothing. Hmmm! |
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over a year ago
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"i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!
and yor profile reads like a shopping list!
Is "Desperation" the new fragrance for men by Givenchy?
(because i'm worth it)"
that would be L'Oreal...
...you're worthy of desperation? |
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"i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!
and yor profile reads like a shopping list!
Is "Desperation" the new fragrance for men by Givenchy?
(because i'm worth it)
that would be L'Oreal...
...you're worthy of desperation?"
I'm here. Same as you.
I look forward to inhaling the sweet aroma of "Pot & Kettle" on your neck... |
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over a year ago
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"hi all.i just wonderd how are you meant to meet genuine people off here if nobody replies to my messages,let alone wants to meets....any advice would be apriciated."
delete and start again  |
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"i can see where he is coming from, i send polite messages, i check the age range looking for, i have pictures and a face picture, and im not bad looking yet nothing. Hmmm! "
Your profile isnt that bad apart from the cock pics and the ruler  |
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over a year ago
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i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently
as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block
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"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently
as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block
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It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice. |
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"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently
as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block
It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice."
that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol |
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over a year ago
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Hmmm interesting thread!
Well you have been given some advice previously and not acted on it? It doesn't bode well for people putting effort in to try and help if you don't take it on board.
Ok as i see it your profile isn't the best, you need to be more open and encourage people in.
Think of it like opening your fount door and inviting someone in for a cuppa. It has to be inviting and its the same with your profile.
Messages and response.......well huge can of worms as your trying to stand out. So what you have to do is make your message different. How you do that is up to you. If i told you then you wouldn't be different but just a minni me.
The one thing you MUST absorb is that not everyone will answer. So its a matter of moving on. But try not to cut and paste as its not popular, make things personal and tailored and it will help. The thing you need though is some charisma and sadly not everyone has it. |
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"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently
as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block
It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice.
that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol "
Thats what i think,perhaps he hopes someone will feel sorry for him and shag him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP,
Considering when this thread was started, I have just looked at your profile, and you have ignored ALL the suggestions, so why bother to ask?
Spell check and grammar, a few taps of the spacebar, a little less demanding- save the BDSM for the playtime, instead of carrying the dominant attitude into your p ie.
Oh yes and it Is contradictory- you don't like fisting but will do it if they like it ie. under duress (poor you!)grow a pair and state that you don't like it, end of!
Finally, pin your ears/eyes back and listen, actually take the advice on board! (Notice the spelling of board!)
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If the OP wants a meet he should jump in his van, head to durrington and follow the 3rd Infantry to the "secret location".
At which point it's a simple matter of taking a ticket from the Tescos Deli style machine and waiting for your number to be called.
As long as he's not shy.
Or fussy.
Oh, and watch the road on the way back, i've heard it's tricky.
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"If the OP wants a meet he should jump in his van, head to durrington and follow the 3rd Infantry to the "secret location".
At which point it's a simple matter of taking a ticket from the Tescos Deli style machine and waiting for your number to be called.
As long as he's not shy.
Or fussy.
Oh, and watch the road on the way back, i've heard it's tricky.
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3rd infantry? oooo I do like a man in combats...
Just the trousers and boots...
Preferably with the flies undone and a nice juicy cock peeking out mmmmmm |
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"hi all.i just wonderd how are you meant to meet genuine people off here if nobody replies to my messages,let alone wants to meets....any advice would be apriciated."
If you don't meet people's 'requirements' - you won't meet anyone. Most likely, your message will just be deleted.
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"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently
as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block
It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice.
that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol
Thats what i think,perhaps he hopes someone will feel sorry for him and shag him lol"
so he wants the pity shag option lol |
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