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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " love your pics xx | |||
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"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x" Thank you..it's just niggling me..daft I suppose | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x | |||
"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x Thank you..it's just niggling me..daft I suppose" so long as their reasonably attractive,why not? | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x" Plus I can't get it out of my head that comparisons would be made..so not sure I want to go there... | |||
"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x Thank you..it's just niggling me..daft I suppose so long as their reasonably attractive,why not?" Maybe I should just relax and enjoy and stop being so judgy | |||
"Age is just a number just that the numbers get bigger!!! There isn't that much difference in you both . I married an older women cod I like older women lol ok she's only 5 months older but it still makes me a toy boy "True..thanks for the advice. And five months is five months lol | |||
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"age is just a number and u look great , so what if he meet a 19 year old as long as u like him age means nothing my fb is 30 and i am 45 so whats the difference be happy and enjoy "In your case pal about 15 years  | |||
"age is just a number and u look great , so what if he meet a 19 year old as long as u like him age means nothing my fb is 30 and i am 45 so whats the difference be happy and enjoy "I agree completely about age difference..I think my problem is that she's at the younger end of the scale though obviously over legal age. Not sure I'd want to follow a hot 19 year old 
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age is just a number. Whats that 19yr olds name again  | |||
"Be cool age is just a number. Whats that 19yr olds name again "Ha ha now that's very cheeky!! | |||
"age is just a number and u look great , so what if he meet a 19 year old as long as u like him age means nothing my fb is 30 and i am 45 so whats the difference be happy and enjoy
I agree completely about age difference..I think my problem is that she's at the younger end of the scale though obviously over legal age. Not sure I'd want to follow a hot 19 year old
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"Be cool age is just a number. Whats that 19yr olds name again
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(Although you were viewing my cam in chat the other night and I'm only 21! You did comment you'd stop looking though, so your integrity is solid ;D) | |||
"Take it as a compliment that after meeting a younger woman he finds you as equally attractive and interested to message and chat with you. " Well I haven't heard from him today..maybe his tastes have changed! | |||
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"Some men just like the variety. While 19 sounds 'young' because there's not many of that age group on here, that's only 8 years age difference. I've met men 15 years older than me who in turn also meet women older than them, and we all have fun " | |||
"Be cool age is just a number. Whats that 19yr olds name again " | |||
"Take it as a compliment that after meeting a younger woman he finds you as equally attractive and interested to message and chat with you. Well I haven't heard from him today..maybe his tastes have changed! "I'm older but your defo hot xx | |||
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"Although I don't necessarily believed it to be 'wrong', I can see where the reservations come into play. A 19 and 27 year old doesn't seem too weird to me (regardless of gender dynamics), but when you are close to someone of one of the ages, it can sway your opinion. Neither positively or negatively, just how you perceive it. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't feel bad for straying from the scenario, though! Nobody had done anything wrong, it's just your personal preference
(Although you were viewing my cam in chat the other night and I'm only 21! You did comment you'd stop looking though, so your integrity is solid ;D) "I did enjoy your cam but it did feel a bit wrong when I found out your age! Plus I was only viewing not meeting you if that makes a difference. Maybe I need to get over my mental block! | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " An adult meets another adult of a different age......Shock horror! By the way, the age difference between you and him is greater than him and her. If it worries you, find someone else. | |||
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"Take it as a compliment that after meeting a younger woman he finds you as equally attractive and interested to message and chat with you. Well I haven't heard from him today..maybe his tastes have changed! "Or realised that a more experienced woman would be to hot to handle for him | |||
"Hi Fae, I think that you would have no problems following a hot 19 year old, you are on fire...! _tripper9 Xxx " He he thank you..and I do enjoy younger guys n girls so I understand how it may come across as hypocritical. I also have nothing against younger people on here. Im trying not to get into the 'judging via veris' thing either! | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks An adult meets another adult of a different age......Shock horror! By the way, the age difference between you and him is greater than him and her. If it worries you, find someone else. "Yes I realise the age difference but I have a daughter nearly her age which comes into it too. | |||
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"I did enjoy your cam but it did feel a bit wrong when I found out your age! Plus I was only viewing not meeting you if that makes a difference. Maybe I need to get over my mental block!" Well, I wouldn't mind if you got over your mental block at all, in that case!
But no, seriously, I get what you're saying. Firstly, a cam session is quite different to the real deal. (Weirdly I'm more comfortable in person, for example.)
Secondly, there's no need to 'get over' the mental block just because everyone else says it's fine. As it's down to preference, that's like someone saying to 'get over' men with beards... Even if you really dislike beards. Something along those lines at least. I don't think there's a need to force your way of thinking to change, but if you feel like it - don't be afraid of doing so, either. If you try it: you may or may not enjoy it. If you don't, well it doesn't matter - plenty of other opportunities! | |||
"A good spanking is what you need "Well now you mention it... | |||
"I did enjoy your cam but it did feel a bit wrong when I found out your age! Plus I was only viewing not meeting you if that makes a difference. Maybe I need to get over my mental block! Well, I wouldn't mind if you got over your mental block at all, in that case!
But no, seriously, I get what you're saying. Firstly, a cam session is quite different to the real deal. (Weirdly I'm more comfortable in person, for example.)
Secondly, there's no need to 'get over' the mental block just because everyone else says it's fine. As it's down to preference, that's like someone saying to 'get over' men with beards... Even if you really dislike beards. Something along those lines at least. I don't think there's a need to force your way of thinking to change, but if you feel like it - don't be afraid of doing so, either. If you try it: you may or may not enjoy it. If you don't, well it doesn't matter - plenty of other opportunities! "I do see your point. It's all about what you're comfy with. Maybe I should just see how it goes! Btw love beards..just saying | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks An adult meets another adult of a different age......Shock horror! By the way, the age difference between you and him is greater than him and her. If it worries you, find someone else.
Yes I realise the age difference but I have a daughter nearly her age which comes into it too."A definite reason to choose someone my age then.lol | |||
" I do see your point. It's all about what you're comfy with. Maybe I should just see how it goes! Btw love beards..just saying "Absolutely! If the guys has been nothing but nice to you (but doesn't mind meeting younger women himself), I don't think he sounds a dodgy or immoral type, haha. Do what your mammalian brain feels is right! Enjoy
Also, I'll note that love of beards in my notebook for later. Habe to win you over somehow! | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " This is a prime example of why I hate verifications...there's been men before where I've chatted to them and wanted to meet, then seen a verification from someone else that's set off an insecurity in me and made me second guess the whole thing, when if I hadn't seen it I probably just would have met them and had fun.  | |||
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Youve either fucked a hot young guy or an experienced older guy | |||
"age is just a number and u look great , so what if he meet a 19 year old as long as u like him age means nothing my fb is 30 and i am 45 so whats the difference be happy and enjoy
I agree completely about age difference..I think my problem is that she's at the younger end of the scale though obviously over legal age. Not sure I'd want to follow a hot 19 year old
"Seriously - far sexier at your age than her. While they may look lovely - they really don't have any idea what they really want. Personal experience has shown me that. The guys in the pub can keep drooling after that certain one..... | |||
"A good spanking is what you need
Well now you mention it... "ooh if i were younger... | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " If you're not going to be 100% comfortable meeting him then don't, choose one of the many hundreds of other guys that you could meet instead, a classy stunner such as yourself can pick the finest fruit from the fab tree | |||
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"I think most guys don't really care about age to be honest You see less guys with an age preference than you do women " I had noticed this too... Anyone gets what they can on fab I think. If you're attracted and it's on offer why not? I'm probably guilty of it too. | |||
"Thank you for all your lovely comments and compliments. I have met a few younger guys and they seem to value maturity and experience. I do realise that age is just a number and its about getting on and attraction. I'm going to relax and enjoy though if he doesn't contact me i'll be cool with it. As has been pointed out there's plenty more guys out there. It's always a dodgy thing judging on veris anyway! " thats why some dont have any or want them | |||
"My Daughter is 20 but if someone of that age of younger wanted to meet ME then I would see no problem. Se is about staying in the law and having fun. Why people keep getting to others head to me is pure jelousy most of the time," I think that's the main difference between men and women. When men get an offer from a young women the last thing he's thinking about are his kids most men are just happy to pull a young bird where as you hear so many times women say I'm old enough to be their mum | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x Plus I can't get it out of my head that comparisons would be made..so not sure I want to go there..." Forget him and see me... Lol No you have nothing to worry about your very hot and to be honest sex is something you learn and get better at. Age in that way dose matter... He would forget about her in a second as soon as you get going. | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x Plus I can't get it out of my head that comparisons would be made..so not sure I want to go there..." Haha I do that too When guys mail me I always check out the pics of their verifications and if they are young\slim\attravtive i don't mail them back I think to myself there's no way I'm getting naked infront of someone who's shagged her | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x Plus I can't get it out of my head that comparisons would be made..so not sure I want to go there... Haha I do that too When guys mail me I always check out the pics of their verifications and if they are young\slim\attravtive i don't mail them back I think to myself there's no way I'm getting naked infront of someone who's shagged her "Yep it's that exactly! Who wants to feel like they're being compared unfavourably? Maybe if he meets a couple of ladies my age/size it would even things out and I'd be cool with it | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x Plus I can't get it out of my head that comparisons would be made..so not sure I want to go there... Haha I do that too When guys mail me I always check out the pics of their verifications and if they are young\slim\attravtive i don't mail them back I think to myself there's no way I'm getting naked infront of someone who's shagged her
Yep it's that exactly! Who wants to feel like they're being compared unfavourably? Maybe if he meets a couple of ladies my age/size it would even things out and I'd be cool with it"The thing is they most likely are not comparing us and have most likely shagged loads of women bigger and older than us But who can work out a woman's logic eh and who dares to try | |||
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"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32." So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious | |||
"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious" No don't got problem with age as she is over 18. I might compare and think maibe who was best in bed kinda thing you know. What do you mean by compare, the same thing?. | |||
"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curiousNo don't got problem with age as she is over 18. I might compare and think maibe who was best in bed kinda thing you know. What do you mean by compare, the same thing?." Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience? | |||
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" It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39 " Because he thinks you're hot? (Which you are btw) As people have said age is a number and sex appeal is ageless. I saw a picture of a 61 year old Christie Brinkley the other day, she's hotter than 99% of women a 1/3rd of her age. You're only 39, an age I'll be very soon; is that considered old? (the reason I ask is people keep telling me I need to grow up) | |||
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"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curiousNo don't got problem with age as she is over 18. I might compare and think maibe who was best in bed kinda thing you know. What do you mean by compare, the same thing?. Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience?" I see what you mean there and yes I treat them the same way in appearance as they are younger or older. | |||
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"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious" I'd have you both Together And smile as you fucked her | |||
"It wouldn't put me off. I was married with 3 children by the age of 21. I had a very old head on my shoulders. " True..I suppose if I didn't have kids at a relatively early age it wouldnt matter so much. Having a woman of a similar age in my house does bring it home to me. Right not going to worry about it anymore..attraction and a connection is key! | |||
"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious I'd have you both Together And smile as you fucked her "Well that made me giggle | |||
"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious I'd have you both Together And smile as you fucked her "Lmao i actually think this is the most common feeling of most men Ask them if they prefer a 19 year old or a 39 year old and 99% would take both | |||
"Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience?" I've been with 19 year olds on here and guys in their 40s, never even compared them on anything. They were individuals who i enjoyed chatting to and then having sex with. They were just attractive and age never came into it. Neither was more exciting because of their age either, like i wasn't thinking phwoar young guy is gonna be hot, lol. I take people as attractive for looks yeah but being young definitely does not give a monopoly on good looks or attractiveness from my perspective. Same for body type or colour, i like a wide variety of guys and personality might come into it but overall appearance will and i like a lot of things so many different guys will appeal to me. Same for many different things will turn me off someone as well despite them having some of the things that turn me on. Am surprised by half the guys on here if i'm honest but when i apply my principles to how they might be thinking then it makes sense, and yeah if a guy shows interest and his meets have been stunning i do wonder if my pics show me as something better than what i am, so i ask guys when we meet up and they say i do look like my pics so am guessing they just have the same mindset as me when it comes to attraction. | |||
"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious I'd have you both Together And smile as you fucked her
Well that made me giggle "Yes fun that lol | |||
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"Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience? I've been with 19 year olds on here and guys in their 40s, never even compared them on anything. They were individuals who i enjoyed chatting to and then having sex with. They were just attractive and age never came into it. Neither was more exciting because of their age either, like i wasn't thinking phwoar young guy is gonna be hot, lol. I take people as attractive for looks yeah but being young definitely does not give a monopoly on good looks or attractiveness from my perspective. Same for body type or colour, i like a wide variety of guys and personality might come into it but overall appearance will and i like a lot of things so many different guys will appeal to me. Same for many different things will turn me off someone as well despite them having some of the things that turn me on. Am surprised by half the guys on here if i'm honest but when i apply my principles to how they might be thinking then it makes sense, and yeah if a guy shows interest and his meets have been stunning i do wonder if my pics show me as something better than what i am, so i ask guys when we meet up and they say i do look like my pics so am guessing they just have the same mindset as me when it comes to attraction." Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha | |||
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"Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience? I've been with 19 year olds on here and guys in their 40s, never even compared them on anything. They were individuals who i enjoyed chatting to and then having sex with. They were just attractive and age never came into it. Neither was more exciting because of their age either, like i wasn't thinking phwoar young guy is gonna be hot, lol. I take people as attractive for looks yeah but being young definitely does not give a monopoly on good looks or attractiveness from my perspective. Same for body type or colour, i like a wide variety of guys and personality might come into it but overall appearance will and i like a lot of things so many different guys will appeal to me. Same for many different things will turn me off someone as well despite them having some of the things that turn me on. Am surprised by half the guys on here if i'm honest but when i apply my principles to how they might be thinking then it makes sense, and yeah if a guy shows interest and his meets have been stunning i do wonder if my pics show me as something better than what i am, so i ask guys when we meet up and they say i do look like my pics so am guessing they just have the same mindset as me when it comes to attraction. Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha" Now I get it, another stupid bloke lol The she most be better than me ...... She is young and stunning, that went RIGHT over my head 
I feel the same way when I see females that enjoy average and huge cocks, the huge cocks bother me
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"No problem as she is over 18. I have fucked few 19 years old myself and I am 32. So you're not bothered about age.. If you fucked a 39 year old right afterwards would you compare? Just curious I'd have you both Together And smile as you fucked her
Lmao i actually think this is the most common feeling of most men
Ask them if they prefer a 19 year old or a 39 year old and 99% would take both "I'd actually take the 39yr old - on her own. For me - it's not about seeing how many notches there are - if I'm spending time with someone there will be a damn good reason for it. At 19 - she won't be centred, most likely not comfortable in her own skin and almost definitely won't know what it is she wants... Life shows you that - and life is precious. | |||
"Take it as a compliment that after meeting a younger woman he finds you as equally attractive and interested to message and chat with you. Well I haven't heard from him today..maybe his tastes have changed! "You are hot!! Why wouldn't he want you? Everyone is attractive in their own way, I wouldn't compare a 25 year old guy with a 45 year old guy, I'd meet both purely because I liked them as individuals x | |||
"Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience? I've been with 19 year olds on here and guys in their 40s, never even compared them on anything. They were individuals who i enjoyed chatting to and then having sex with. They were just attractive and age never came into it. Neither was more exciting because of their age either, like i wasn't thinking phwoar young guy is gonna be hot, lol. I take people as attractive for looks yeah but being young definitely does not give a monopoly on good looks or attractiveness from my perspective. Same for body type or colour, i like a wide variety of guys and personality might come into it but overall appearance will and i like a lot of things so many different guys will appeal to me. Same for many different things will turn me off someone as well despite them having some of the things that turn me on. Am surprised by half the guys on here if i'm honest but when i apply my principles to how they might be thinking then it makes sense, and yeah if a guy shows interest and his meets have been stunning i do wonder if my pics show me as something better than what i am, so i ask guys when we meet up and they say i do look like my pics so am guessing they just have the same mindset as me when it comes to attraction. Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha Now I get it, another stupid bloke lol The she most be better than me ...... She is young and stunning, that went RIGHT over my head
I feel the same way when I see females that enjoy average and huge cocks, the huge cocks bother me
Insecurities can ruin a perfectly great time. "I think I mentioned my insecurities and if I didn't I assumed it was clear from my posts! I know it's stupid but hey ho. | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " Just go to the meet and don't think about other girl, I am sure that he will only be thinking about you. You have a fantastic body, extremely fit. I would love to get my hands and more on you, he is a lucky fella. X | |||
"Take it as a compliment that after meeting a younger woman he finds you as equally attractive and interested to message and chat with you. Well I haven't heard from him today..maybe his tastes have changed!
You are hot!! Why wouldn't he want you? Everyone is attractive in their own way, I wouldn't compare a 25 year old guy with a 45 year old guy, I'd meet both purely because I liked them as individuals x"Thank you! I decide to meet someone based on many different factors and have met a mix of people. I should therefore assume this guy is just doing the same. Not sure why this has thrown me..all my instincts and other parts of me say to just meet him. | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Just go to the meet and don't think about other girl, I am sure that he will only be thinking about you. You have a fantastic body, extremely fit. I would love to get my hands and more on you, he is a lucky fella. X" Aw thank you and to everyone else for their positive comments and advice | |||
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"Your beautiful and we all feel insecure at times its life. Now stop attention seeking and sort yourself out lass or ill get my paddle out "Yes Sir!! *pulls herself together* | |||
"Would you meet anyone older? I would and have" would you meet anyone 180 miles away (joke) | |||
"Your beautiful and we all feel insecure at times its life. Now stop attention seeking and sort yourself out lass or ill get my paddle out
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"Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha" Tbh, just had a look at your pics and i think you've got good pics that show you as you are, like some you are covered up and sultry but others you can tell what you look like and nothing is hidden, doubt anyone could get a wrong impression of you from them overall. A guy interested in meeting would look at them all, i'm sure. You look fine as well, nothing like my body and i don't even have hangups lol, not sure why you would have. Am sure you'll get over it once you realise all women are sexually alluring to certain guys and those guys hunt you down for that reason, coz you appeal to them. | |||
"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x Thank you..it's just niggling me..daft I suppose so long as their reasonably attractive,why not? Maybe I should just relax and enjoy and stop being so judgy" this
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"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x" agrees with that you do look fab (naughty) | |||
"Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha Tbh, just had a look at your pics and i think you've got good pics that show you as you are, like some you are covered up and sultry but others you can tell what you look like and nothing is hidden, doubt anyone could get a wrong impression of you from them overall. A guy interested in meeting would look at them all, i'm sure. You look fine as well, nothing like my body and i don't even have hangups lol, not sure why you would have. Am sure you'll get over it once you realise all women are sexually alluring to certain guys and those guys hunt you down for that reason, coz you appeal to them." Thank you I do try and have a range of pics (too many probably) to give a good idea of what I look like. A lot is down to decent lighting and angles though im not kidding myself. I can now see if someone thinks a certain 19 year old is sexy he can equally find someone older attractive too. I just need to overcome my knee jerk reaction to a veri and just carry on chatting. | |||
"dont be daft,some like all ages. Bit like me for example. i love hot older woman,biggest fantasy ever lol but i wouldnt say no to a sexy young 19yo either ha You look fab btw x agrees with that you do look fab (naughty)"Thank you..just peeked your profile..very hot! | |||
"Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha Tbh, just had a look at your pics and i think you've got good pics that show you as you are, like some you are covered up and sultry but others you can tell what you look like and nothing is hidden, doubt anyone could get a wrong impression of you from them overall. A guy interested in meeting would look at them all, i'm sure. You look fine as well, nothing like my body and i don't even have hangups lol, not sure why you would have. Am sure you'll get over it once you realise all women are sexually alluring to certain guys and those guys hunt you down for that reason, coz you appeal to them. Thank you I do try and have a range of pics (too many probably) to give a good idea of what I look like. A lot is down to decent lighting and angles though im not kidding myself. I can now see if someone thinks a certain 19 year old is sexy he can equally find someone older attractive too. I just need to overcome my knee jerk reaction to a veri and just carry on chatting."
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " Personally I wouldn't let it bother you. He finds you attractive, why question it? | |||
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"And to add to that, I'm 23 and your pictures are hooooooot!" Thank you! I enjoyed yours too | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts" Although experience varies..you can be young and experinced or older with very little it just depends | |||
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"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Although experience varies..you can be young and experinced or older with very little it just depends" very true | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Although experience varies..you can be young and experinced or older with very little it just depends very true "ive only been with a few and didnt know what a cock extesion was till i joined fab | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts" Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired. | |||
"Compare as in appearance.. she was younger, less wrinkly, no stretchmarks. Or do you treat them as two entirely different kinds of experience? I've been with 19 year olds on here and guys in their 40s, never even compared them on anything. They were individuals who i enjoyed chatting to and then having sex with. They were just attractive and age never came into it. Neither was more exciting because of their age either, like i wasn't thinking phwoar young guy is gonna be hot, lol. I take people as attractive for looks yeah but being young definitely does not give a monopoly on good looks or attractiveness from my perspective. Same for body type or colour, i like a wide variety of guys and personality might come into it but overall appearance will and i like a lot of things so many different guys will appeal to me. Same for many different things will turn me off someone as well despite them having some of the things that turn me on. Am surprised by half the guys on here if i'm honest but when i apply my principles to how they might be thinking then it makes sense, and yeah if a guy shows interest and his meets have been stunning i do wonder if my pics show me as something better than what i am, so i ask guys when we meet up and they say i do look like my pics so am guessing they just have the same mindset as me when it comes to attraction. Maybe the guy I'm chatting to feels the same way. I do sometimes think my pics give a better view of me than reality. Alot comment on my face or eyes or cheekiness so that's the attraction I suppose. I'll try not to judge him for meeting a beautiful, slim, 19 year old then...doh it's going to be hard! Ha ha Now I get it, another stupid bloke lol The she most be better than me ...... She is young and stunning, that went RIGHT over my head
I feel the same way when I see females that enjoy average and huge cocks, the huge cocks bother me
Insecurities can ruin a perfectly great time. "Penis envy isn't recognised Where will I get any treatment | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired." And rough, how could you forget a bit of rough | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired." I think I said the same in a slightly different way...I'm experienced enough to know how it is. Just needed a little advice which i received. Thanks all | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired. And rough, how could you forget a bit of rough "Haha yes of course, we love a bit of that too 
Younger ones will usually have better bodies that we can enjoy and older ones generally get wetter down below | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x" It would put me off too. I dont think it's an unusual reaction to be fair. Would feel a bit icky to me. Think it goes with the territory of having daughters. | |||
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"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks Seems we've been speaking to the same person and I have to admit it put me off meeting him as my daughter is in that age bracket x It would put me off too. I dont think it's an unusual reaction to be fair. Would feel a bit icky to me. Think it goes with the territory of having daughters." One of the many differences between men and women...men couldnt care less about that and would love to fuck a girl that young | |||
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"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired. And rough, how could you forget a bit of rough
Haha yes of course, we love a bit of that too
Younger ones will usually have better bodies that we can enjoy and older ones generally get wetter down below"Didn't you just say that experience wasn't related to age? I'm confused therefore as to why you think hotness and wetness are connected to age. Seems a bit of a sweeping generalisation to me... | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired. And rough, how could you forget a bit of rough
Haha yes of course, we love a bit of that too
Younger ones will usually have better bodies that we can enjoy and older ones generally get wetter down below
Didn't you just say that experience wasn't related to age?
I'm confused therefore as to why you think hotness and wetness are connected to age. Seems a bit of a sweeping generalisation to me..."Wheres the confusion? I said young girls can be great in bed. I then said younger ones will usually have better bodies but older ones generally wetter...yes they are generalisations but im not sure where youre getting the confusion from. | |||
"And to add to that, I'm 23 and your pictures are hooooooot! Thank you! I enjoyed yours too "Shame you're so far away | |||
"The younger girls look good but if u want good sex its experiance that counts Bollocks comment. Young girls can be great in bed too, stop pandering to the woman. She doesnt need to be lied to. As someone else said above, most men on here will fuck anything at anytime. Sometimes we want a bit of young, sometimes we want a bit of old, and yes we probably will compare one experience with another from time to time, thats just the way us men are wired. And rough, how could you forget a bit of rough
Haha yes of course, we love a bit of that too
Younger ones will usually have better bodies that we can enjoy and older ones generally get wetter down below
Didn't you just say that experience wasn't related to age?
I'm confused therefore as to why you think hotness and wetness are connected to age. Seems a bit of a sweeping generalisation to me...
Wheres the confusion? I said young girls can be great in bed. I then said younger ones will usually have better bodies but older ones generally wetter...yes they are generalisations but im not sure where youre getting the confusion from."Probably best not to generalise on anything was my point..maybe confusion was the wrong word as it seem to have caused some errr confusion | |||
"And to add to that, I'm 23 and your pictures are hooooooot! Thank you! I enjoyed yours too
Shame you're so far away "Indeedy | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " Think you should enjoy the attention and if he wants to meet and you are happy to why not ? | |||
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"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation "pss send em over | |||
"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation "Haha sure u do pal | |||
"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation "As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
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"I've met women from here from 21 to 56 and had great fun with them all. Age is not the issue. Attitude and confidence is "???????? well said! | |||
"I've met women from here from 21 to 56 and had great fun with them all. Age is not the issue. Attitude and confidence is "I'll be working on that then! | |||
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"I've met women from here from 21 to 56 and had great fun with them all. Age is not the issue. Attitude and confidence is
I'll be working on that then! "A confident woman is a very big turn on for me | |||
"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!"Depends what your idea of fun is I wouldn't meet a young guy not because I'm sat thinking about the age of my kids but because realistically I would have nothing in common with them, I couldn't sit and have a conversation with say a 21 year old because I'm 39 and what the hell can I say that a 21 year old would be even remotely interested in, 21 year olds and 39 year old do not share the same life styles or interests, OK I know we have one thing in common and that's we are on a sex site and both want a shag but for me sex start from first eye contact, the build up is in the talking, having common interests to keep the conversation flowing, the flirting, if they can't stimulate my brain they will never stimulate my body and I just feel I need someone around my own age with simula life experiences to do that
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"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
Haha sure u do pal"Check out my profile, I do | |||
"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!"Totally agree, but, there's something just not right about having sex with someone the same age as your son's friends, just old fashioned I guess. Did try but don't want to be a perv I guess | |||
"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!
Totally agree, but, there's something just not right about having sex with someone the same age as your son's friends, just old fashioned I guess. Did try but don't want to be a perv I guess "See it makes me feel Pervy too Can't believe I'm going to admit to this but I actually met a 20 year old last year, after we had sex it just felt wrong and I actually apologised to him, I just felt like I had taken advantage of his age and I really felt like a dirty old woman and not in a jokey way, I couldn't get away and home fast enough Was a really weird feeling and not one I wish to repeat | |||
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"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!
Totally agree, but, there's something just not right about having sex with someone the same age as your son's friends, just old fashioned I guess. Did try but don't want to be a perv I guess "I think maybe I'm a little old fashioned too | |||
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"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!
Totally agree, but, there's something just not right about having sex with someone the same age as your son's friends, just old fashioned I guess. Did try but don't want to be a perv I guess
I think maybe I'm a little old fashioned too"Morality aside, in terms of appearances, you can follow up most perky 19 yo I know. Plus most of them don't even know what they are doing. | |||
"And to add to that, I'm 23 and your pictures are hooooooot! Thank you! I enjoyed yours too
Shame you're so far away
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"As an older guy, I get quite a lot of messages from younger girls, think it's experience or safety etc etc, it's very flattering but, morality prevents me. Anyone young enough to be my daughter is out of bounds. follow your heart, spend some time establishing rapport on here. Any doubt, walk away, this is fun, not desperation
As someone representing the younger crowd on here, I kindly disagree
Just because someone is young doesn't mean they aren't fun!
Totally agree, but, there's something just not right about having sex with someone the same age as your son's friends, just old fashioned I guess. Did try but don't want to be a perv I guess
See it makes me feel Pervy too
Can't believe I'm going to admit to this but I actually met a 20 year old last year, after we had sex it just felt wrong and I actually apologised to him, I just felt like I had taken advantage of his age and I really felt like a dirty old woman and not in a jokey way, I couldn't get away and home fast enough
Was a really weird feeling and not one I wish to repeat "And that I totaly relate to, on the rare occasions that lust got the better of me, I felt like I should have known better, I actually apologised too, so if they're reading this forum, there's no surprises. There are some gorgeous, and extremely capable and passionate young ladies on here. It's most definitely my hang up and not theirs. No judgement on my part, as long as it's legal and consenting, and everyone gets what they want, just not for me, nice to know I'm not alone in my way of thinking. Thought I was a bit weird tbh, and that, as a man, I should want younger girls, society's conditioning I suspect. | |||
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"Sounds like double standards. He's 12 years younger than you and that was ok yet he's met a girl whos 8yrs younger than him and it's put you off him
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"Sounds like double standards. He's 12 years younger than you and that was ok yet he's met a girl whos 8yrs younger than him and it's put you off him
You misunderstand..it was the nearness to the legal age that bothered me not the age difference. Sorry if I wasn't clear on that"The thing is shes a woman/adult so i dont see the issue . but if it puts you off then dont do it . | |||
"I'm with you Fae (well I wish I was)! _tripper9 Xxx " He he I confuse myself sometimes | |||
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"She's never said she don't think he should meet a 19 year old she said him meeting a 19 year old makes me feel odd because of her age, she's more saying if he's having sex with 19 year olds shes worried she won't be good enough as she don't feel she can compeat with that That's how I read it anyway " Yep thats it..also as I said before age difference isnt so much an issue as im aware of people I've met and their ages. It's the proximity in age to my daughters' and also the legal age limit. | |||
"not having a go at any one im just have my say on here why do some people say things but its ok for them to do it" Did you read my posts? | |||
"I'm sure this has been covered before but.. I've been chatting to a guy for a few days and he seems nice. He's just posted a verification from a 19 year old (he's 27). This has kind of put me off possibly as I have a daughter of a similar age. It also makes me wonder why he's interested in me as I'm 39, unless he likes variety of course. Maybe it's just feeding my insecurites. Should I just be cool about it and enjoy his attention? Thanks " I have found it quite bizarre that men in their early twenties would be interested in me as I am 46! We really are not interested in anyone that is younger than any of our children, but we do try to be polite and steer them away....  | |||
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"yes I did and sorry some of them I read were not you sorry again. but don't think that some men want young its just what they like I want meet any one under the age of 39 as its not my thing at all" That's ok
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