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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any ladies known themselves to pass out during sex?
That's a few people I've known now who have...happened to my lass last night but off an 'aftershock' which I've never seen before!
We'd had sex, and as is fairly normal she experienced several orgasms after we'd finished...(well, I encouraged with a few gentle touches and words) and on the third aftershock she passed clean out, I had to take her hand and talk her back round untill she was aware of her surroundings again.
I've known ladies pass out from an orgasm during play a few times...but never from an afterschock so long after.....
Is it fairly common to pass out during? Or from aftershocks? What are people's experiences of this?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It was quite worrying the first time i saw it happen....
It was an 'all stop' moment....luckily it was really brief and she came too fairly rapidly....
It's odd as a bloke...you think you've done something to them at first... |
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over a year ago
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Kat passes out with big orgasms. She twitches and gets visions as well. They last about 5 to 10 minutes.
I leave her physically alone during this time because otherwise it brings her round and she does not get the full benefit of the orgasm.  |
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over a year ago
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"Kat passes out with big orgasms. She twitches and gets visions as well. They last about 5 to 10 minutes.
I leave her physically alone during this time because otherwise it brings her round and she does not get the full benefit of the orgasm. "
She just had three quite big aftershocks then wham...gone...no movement, flat out....came too asking how she got here...
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now."
Same last night...she experienced quite a big drop...
Natural after such a hit I guess... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kat passes out with big orgasms. She twitches and gets visions as well. They last about 5 to 10 minutes.
I leave her physically alone during this time because otherwise it brings her round and she does not get the full benefit of the orgasm.
She just had three quite big aftershocks then wham...gone...no movement, flat out....came too asking how she got here...
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Kat twitches until all the aftershocks are done then lies quietly. If i catch her at the right moment she can cum again in seconds.
Omg! I wish i could cum like a woman!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Kat passes out with big orgasms. She twitches and gets visions as well. They last about 5 to 10 minutes.
I leave her physically alone during this time because otherwise it brings her round and she does not get the full benefit of the orgasm.
She just had three quite big aftershocks then wham...gone...no movement, flat out....came too asking how she got here...
Kat twitches until all the aftershocks are done then lies quietly. If i catch her at the right moment she can cum again in seconds.
Omg! I wish i could cum like a woman!!! "
They do definitely have the better end of the orgasm stick I think
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one "
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking? |
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking? "
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated "
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ive never passed out from sex, use to pass out a lot in every day life its not a nice thing to happen so dont think id want to after sex "
She had her blood pressure taken this week at the gum clinic (fuck knows why...we went for testing and she got some pill) and it was spot on.... |
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"ive never passed out from sex, use to pass out a lot in every day life its not a nice thing to happen so dont think id want to after sex "
I've passed out once....it was quite nice weirdly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A terrible thing happend to a friend of mine he was having sex with a girl whilst camping in the summer , and as they were having sex she died ! The lad was never right for about 3 years after it happend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A terrible thing happend to a friend of mine he was having sex with a girl whilst camping in the summer , and as they were having sex she died ! The lad was never right for about 3 years after it happend "
Sorry to hear that....
Do they know the cause of death? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation"
I think if people try to hard to make you cum they loose sight of what's really important
I have has guys leave me really sore because they have tried to hard, I also hate it when guys keep asking if you have cum yet, I feel under pressure and that's not helping matters either
I would never cum through penatrive sex, I'm not even that fussed about it and only do it of others want to, I quite like the slow seductive penatrive sex where your more holding and grinding each other but again most guys think they have to bang you into orgasum and that just does not work for me
I honestly think I could cum with someone else, I know my body and I know what it likes the problem is finding somebody who is sexually compatible who likes the same |
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Never passed out during sex yet although strong orgasms do make me light headed. I've had a few funny turns in real life recently where I've passed out though. Hope it doesn't mean I'm more likely to when I'm playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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once massively - when i came round W had lifted me off him - and i was cradled on his knee on the other side of the bed - all i could hear was 'are you ok'  i dont remember that part of it all but i do remember everything else that session - WOW doesnt come close  Sx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation
I think if people try to hard to make you cum they loose sight of what's really important
I have has guys leave me really sore because they have tried to hard, I also hate it when guys keep asking if you have cum yet, I feel under pressure and that's not helping matters either
I would never cum through penatrive sex, I'm not even that fussed about it and only do it of others want to, I quite like the slow seductive penatrive sex where your more holding and grinding each other but again most guys think they have to bang you into orgasum and that just does not work for me
I honestly think I could cum with someone else, I know my body and I know what it likes the problem is finding somebody who is sexually compatible who likes the same"
I think the orgasm has become the ultimate goal of sex for many.....sure, they're great when they happen but I think that fleeting moment pails in comparison to the rest of the play.
For example, i rarely remember a particular orgasm, though I do remember the other things that went on in any particular meet....they're the memories that remain...I love just 'being horny' and find cumming reduces that greatly...
I dunno....human sexuality is a massive spectrum that's worth exploring without chasing the orgasm...
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"Never passed out during sex yet although strong orgasms do make me light headed. I've had a few funny turns in real life recently where I've passed out though. Hope it doesn't mean I'm more likely to when I'm playing "
That is a worry...perhaps get yourself to the docs if you've been having funny turns? Might be something up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyone who passes out like this should go to the doctors, it's usually a blood pressure problem."
went to clap club yesterday and they took my blood pressure and said it was quite good! |
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"once massively - when i came round W had lifted me off him - and i was cradled on his knee on the other side of the bed - all i could hear was 'are you ok' i dont remember that part of it all but i do remember everything else that session - WOW doesnt come close Sx"
Yeah it's odd.....she'd no idea how she'd gotten there last night and it was her own bed!? Took a moment for me to assure her |
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"Never passed out during sex yet although strong orgasms do make me light headed. I've had a few funny turns in real life recently where I've passed out though. Hope it doesn't mean I'm more likely to when I'm playing
That is a worry...perhaps get yourself to the docs if you've been having funny turns? Might be something up "
Im under docs about it in case it's epilepsy or heart problem although I've also been told off one doctor it's tonsilitus and one yesterday suggested it could be depression. Lol x |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
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I went to the docs when it happened to me and apparently its caused by the build up to orgasum and posistion your in i also had my head bang and had to sleep after
its more common than folks think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never passed out during sex yet although strong orgasms do make me light headed. I've had a few funny turns in real life recently where I've passed out though. Hope it doesn't mean I'm more likely to when I'm playing
That is a worry...perhaps get yourself to the docs if you've been having funny turns? Might be something up
Im under docs about it in case it's epilepsy or heart problem although I've also been told off one doctor it's tonsilitus and one yesterday suggested it could be depression. Lol x"
I have epilepsy believe me a seizure is nothing like passing out you would know if you had one
And i've never had a seizure during orgasum either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never passed out during sex yet although strong orgasms do make me light headed. I've had a few funny turns in real life recently where I've passed out though. Hope it doesn't mean I'm more likely to when I'm playing
That is a worry...perhaps get yourself to the docs if you've been having funny turns? Might be something up
Im under docs about it in case it's epilepsy or heart problem although I've also been told off one doctor it's tonsilitus and one yesterday suggested it could be depression. Lol x"
So no real help thus far then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I went to the docs when it happened to me and apparently its caused by the build up to orgasum and posistion your in i also had my head bang and had to sleep after
its more common than folks think "
On your back? The times I've known it happen the lasses have been on their backs....only just threaded that together now you mentioned position... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
Dehydration can cause you to pass out
Could be something in that "
Interesting point....as she did for the first time last night squirt....just a little though.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
Dehydration can cause you to pass out
Could be something in that
Interesting point....as she did for the first time last night squirt....just a little though...."
I have a few times gone light headed if I've gushed a lot, I've always put it down to dehydration and just had a drink |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
Dehydration can cause you to pass out
Could be something in that
Interesting point....as she did for the first time last night squirt....just a little though....
I have a few times gone light headed if I've gushed a lot, I've always put it down to dehydration and just had a drink "
It's an interesting point.....I don't think she lost enough fluid to apass out though...it was just a little...half a cup perhaps..
Still, could be a link |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
Dehydration can cause you to pass out
Could be something in that
Interesting point....as she did for the first time last night squirt....just a little though....
I have a few times gone light headed if I've gushed a lot, I've always put it down to dehydration and just had a drink "
Was the guy tapping away at your temple really fast?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive never passed out from sex, use to pass out a lot in every day life its not a nice thing to happen so dont think id want to after sex
I've passed out once....it was quite nice weirdly..."
ive had a couple bad times when passing out, in school I was year 6 passed out fell on a kid in year 2 and broke his leg with my head. passed out having my hair done me and the person doing my hair got burnt with the curling irons, and hurt myself falling onto things and hitting my head off stuff when falling |
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"Ive cum so hard ive got jelly legs n cryed but never passed out unless you can call masterbatin till i fall asleep passin out lol "
I've know lasses to go jelly legged and on occasion cry just due to the drop experienced after an intense time...I take that as relatively normal...well...the jelly legs...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Used to happen to my husband quite a bit. Obviously I thought it was my skills that did it....but I can't really take the credit as it turned out to be low blood pressure  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I spoke to my GP about it (he must love some of the weird things I've asked) and he suggested overheating, dehydration and low BP (I do have low BP anyway) and also that my heart rate is particularly low as I am fairly fit (exercise not anything else lol) and all that can combine. |
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Yep, someone said it before, it's a vasovagal response. It happens in response to a trigger and the trigger is different in everybody. During sex endorphins, Oxytocin and adrenalin are all released and in massive doses after intense sex, it can cause a 'malfunction' in parts of the nervous system that regulate the heart rate and blood pressure. When the heart rate slows, the blood pressure drops and you pass out.
If this happens, then the person should be laid flat and the flow of oxygen to the brain will bring the person around quickly. They shouldn't be kept upright with their head higher than the body.
I personally haven't passed out during sex but I have burst into tears after a massive orgasm. First time it happened my partner was really worried that I was hurt or something until I smiled!! hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive cum so hard ive got jelly legs n cryed but never passed out unless you can call masterbatin till i fall asleep passin out lol
I've know lasses to go jelly legged and on occasion cry just due to the drop experienced after an intense time...I take that as relatively normal...well...the jelly legs...
Bambi legs "
Hehehe i luv it only just started experiencing it cos ive got someone very special teaching me how to masterbate properly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep, someone said it before, it's a vasovagal response. It happens in response to a trigger and the trigger is different in everybody. During sex endorphins, Oxytocin and adrenalin are all released and in massive doses after intense sex, it can cause a 'malfunction' in parts of the nervous system that regulate the heart rate and blood pressure. When the heart rate slows, the blood pressure drops and you pass out.
If this happens, then the person should be laid flat and the flow of oxygen to the brain will bring the person around quickly. They shouldn't be kept upright with their head higher than the body.
I personally haven't passed out during sex but I have burst into tears after a massive orgasm. First time it happened my partner was really worried that I was hurt or something until I smiled!! hehe"
Ahhh...ok, I may have a google of this later on...it's my thing to learn a little about today now I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ive never passed out from sex, use to pass out a lot in every day life its not a nice thing to happen so dont think id want to after sex
I've passed out once....it was quite nice weirdly...
ive had a couple bad times when passing out, in school I was year 6 passed out fell on a kid in year 2 and broke his leg with my head. passed out having my hair done me and the person doing my hair got burnt with the curling irons, and hurt myself falling onto things and hitting my head off stuff when falling "
Only passed out once, was in the warrington gum clinic end of last year having my bloods taken.
I never had before but I was fairly exhausted and hungry when I attended though...she had to have a few goes to find a vein and I felt myself fade out, luckily I was sat on the bed and the ladies in there just lay me down. It felt bizzare coming too, not altogether unpleasant.
I might have liked it a lot less if I'd had your experiences though |
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"Ive cum so hard ive got jelly legs n cryed but never passed out unless you can call masterbatin till i fall asleep passin out lol
I've know lasses to go jelly legged and on occasion cry just due to the drop experienced after an intense time...I take that as relatively normal...well...the jelly legs...
Bambi legs
Hehehe i luv it only just started experiencing it cos ive got someone very special teaching me how to masterbate properly. "
As a bloke, it's a thing to behold...minieux couldn't get off the bed for a full twenty mins once...it was funny as hell...we were both laughing like tits by the end of it...brilliant way to finish a session with some big belly laughs
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first "
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx |
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"Ive cum so hard ive got jelly legs n cryed but never passed out unless you can call masterbatin till i fall asleep passin out lol
I've know lasses to go jelly legged and on occasion cry just due to the drop experienced after an intense time...I take that as relatively normal...well...the jelly legs...
Bambi legs
Hehehe i luv it only just started experiencing it cos ive got someone very special teaching me how to masterbate properly.
As a bloke, it's a thing to behold...minieux couldn't get off the bed for a full twenty mins once...it was funny as hell...we were both laughing like tits by the end of it...brilliant way to finish a session with some big belly laughs
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Would luv to experience it . im addin it to my sexual bucket list as we spk  |
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx"
Oh god....no....they'll only be happy when your unconscious in a puddle of your own fluids...someone'll drown, health and safety will get involved.....no no no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation"
I'm the same, takes me forever to cum if at all, some times I just give up as long as I know the lady has been suitably satisfied, I never cum from penetrative sex either, I usually end up finishing myself off. I more of a giver than a taker so it doesn't really bother me and most girls love the fact you can go for ages without cumming.  |
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx
Oh god....no....they'll only be happy when your unconscious in a puddle of your own fluids...someone'll drown, health and safety will get involved.....no no no "
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation
I'm the same, takes me forever to cum if at all, some times I just give up as long as I know the lady has been suitably satisfied, I never cum from penetrative sex either, I usually end up finishing myself off. I more of a giver than a taker so it doesn't really bother me and most girls love the fact you can go for ages without cumming. "
There are a few of us out there
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx
Oh god....no....they'll only be happy when your unconscious in a puddle of your own fluids...someone'll drown, health and safety will get involved.....no no no
tina will need 'special' forms for that "
She's gonna need a p.a before long bless.... |
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx
Oh god....no....they'll only be happy when your unconscious in a puddle of your own fluids...someone'll drown, health and safety will get involved.....no no no
tina will need 'special' forms for that
She's gonna need a p.a before long bless...."
oh we have been there and hired staff for fruit salads and black jacks - i think i said i would simply wander around naked for free and be as helpful as i could
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"This could become the new squirting guys trying to make women pass out.
You saw it here first
make a pleasant change - all the male profiles stating they can make you cum til you faint -
often get the jelly legs and we both get cum headaches Sx"
Ouch cum headaches hurt xx |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever "
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird  |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird "
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water "
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water
I am drinking lots of water! Very weird feeling lol"
Keep sipping away cuddles help, unless your on your bill? |
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation
I'm the same, takes me forever to cum if at all, some times I just give up as long as I know the lady has been suitably satisfied, I never cum from penetrative sex either, I usually end up finishing myself off. I more of a giver than a taker so it doesn't really bother me and most girls love the fact you can go for ages without cumming.
There are a few of us out there
I don't think it matters so long as everyone present has plenty fun and a right good laugh "
I have to be honest I do sometimes wish I could cum in another persons company, because it feels so good and I think it would add to the pleasure to share the experience with somebody else
I don't fixate on it but when I make myself cum I do think sometimes omg I wish somebody else was here to touch me and kiss me while this is happening
I guess that's my selfish side coming out |
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I don't cum easily with others, there are a few guys that make me cum but I have to be comfortable with them, I can cum on my own in seconds, it can be frustrating, I don't think you are being selfish at all wanting that x |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water
I am drinking lots of water! Very weird feeling lol
Keep sipping away cuddles help, unless your on your bill? "
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water
I am drinking lots of water! Very weird feeling lol
Keep sipping away cuddles help, unless your on your bill?
I'll cuddle my dog "
Not so bad
You feeling a bit more with it? |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water
I am drinking lots of water! Very weird feeling lol
Keep sipping away cuddles help, unless your on your bill?
I'll cuddle my dog
Not so bad
You feeling a bit more with it? "
Yes thank you, need a good nights sleep I think |
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"I've passed out after very intense orgasms , been very shaky and emotional after but it's only happened twice ever
Make that 3 times after this morning!!! Close to passing out after a really intense orgasm, have felt like im not with it all day since, shaky and fuzzy headed, nice but weird
Ha, that's pretty random...
You ok though? Keep an eye on yourself and take on some water
I am drinking lots of water! Very weird feeling lol
Keep sipping away cuddles help, unless your on your bill?
I'll cuddle my dog
Not so bad
You feeling a bit more with it?
Yes thank you, need a good nights sleep I think "
Yeah that should see ya back to normal in the morning take it easy! X |
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"Never happened to me but then its very rare I orgasum so not likely to pass out from one
Rare as is rare to orgasm in one session...or in general if you don't mind my asking?
I just don't orgasum at all in general
I don't think I have ever orgasumed when I've been with someone else
I can make myself cum quite easily and several times over but noone else has ever managed it
That's not a moan that's just how things are for me
I personally put it down to the fact that because I'm single and only meet guys through swinging nobody really knows my body, you can't just meet a stranger and after one drink expect him to know how to tick your boxes
Plus the type of sex I don't does not really focus on making me cum, I'm more into playing with guys bums, water sports, foot play etc all of which I love and turn me on immensely but let's be honest giving someone a foot wank or using a strap on on them isn't going to make you orsasum it just turns me on and leaves me frustrated
Funny, as I find it pretty difficult to cum with a lass too most of the time..it's very rare I'll cum through penetrative sex, and often have to take matters into my own hands if I'm that fussed about cumming.
If I have a meet planned, I'll often deny myself an orgasm for a few days to allow that build up so I can have one...I'm not normally overly fussed if I do or not but I know a lot of lasses have liked me to in the past so that's my mechanism for having one now.
There was a time it bothered me but It really doesn't now unless it's detrimental to the pleasure of others...I find it's allowed me to think about and do a lot more than just 'having sex'.....I find it has actually improved play and made me a little kinkier now I've taken the importance of my own orgasm out of the equation
I'm the same, takes me forever to cum if at all, some times I just give up as long as I know the lady has been suitably satisfied, I never cum from penetrative sex either, I usually end up finishing myself off. I more of a giver than a taker so it doesn't really bother me and most girls love the fact you can go for ages without cumming.
There are a few of us out there
I don't think it matters so long as everyone present has plenty fun and a right good laugh
I have to be honest I do sometimes wish I could cum in another persons company, because it feels so good and I think it would add to the pleasure to share the experience with somebody else
I don't fixate on it but when I make myself cum I do think sometimes omg I wish somebody else was here to touch me and kiss me while this is happening
I guess that's my selfish side coming out "
Then use that as part of the fun....have someone watch and even help....'teach' them some of your buttons...there's a way surely you can bring it into play?
I'd say there are very few blokes our there who wouldn't like that scenario |
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"All good today 
Ah! mornin'
Good to know
good sleep sorted you right out
Yep! Now I just want to do it all over again "
Then do I guess
If you don't mind me asking a personal question...is there someone there when your doing this? Or are you helping yourself as it were?
I'm just asking as I'm wondering, if your going that light headed way, it might be good to have someone close is all? |
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"I think Minx passes out during sex.....she lays there quite still and snores very gently....this is normal yes  "
Happened all the time with my lovers so yeah it's pretty common I think.
Give her a crossword or a hand held games console....something to keep the mind occupied, I feel it reduces this phenomenon greatly.
I used to have a mirror on the ceiling, I find a television is of more use these days... |
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"I think Minx passes out during sex.....she lays there quite still and snores very gently....this is normal yes
Happened all the time with my lovers so yeah it's pretty common I think.
Give her a crossword or a hand held games console....something to keep the mind occupied, I feel it reduces this phenomenon greatly.
I used to have a mirror on the ceiling, I find a television is of more use these days..."
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"I think Minx passes out during sex.....she lays there quite still and snores very gently....this is normal yes
Happened all the time with my lovers so yeah it's pretty common I think.
Give her a crossword or a hand held games console....something to keep the mind occupied, I feel it reduces this phenomenon greatly.
I used to have a mirror on the ceiling, I find a television is of more use these days...
Kindle "
I'm too tight for that....you can have a 2011 copy of classic car magazine I pinched from the dentists reception.
There was nowt up wi' mi teeth....it's just where I get my magazines from |
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"I think Minx passes out during sex.....she lays there quite still and snores very gently....this is normal yes
Happened all the time with my lovers so yeah it's pretty common I think.
Give her a crossword or a hand held games console....something to keep the mind occupied, I feel it reduces this phenomenon greatly.
I used to have a mirror on the ceiling, I find a television is of more use these days...
Kindle
I'm too tight for that....you can have a 2011 copy of classic car magazine I pinched from the dentists reception.
There was nowt up wi' mi teeth....it's just where I get my magazines from "
Oh not caravanning monthly ?? |
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I've never passed put but sometimes get light headed at all the panting and blood rushing about!
Also I can get very emotional and sometimes cry like a baby which can be quite disconcerting for my partner!
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"I've never passed put but sometimes get light headed at all the panting and blood rushing about!
Also I can get very emotional and sometimes cry like a baby which can be quite disconcerting for my partner!
X"
Yes I've burst out crying like an idiot a few times just emotions whiz zing around |
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"I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now."
this. only 1 guy has ever set off this response. feels very vunerable.  |
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"I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now.
this. only 1 guy has ever set off this response. feels very vunerable. "
I should imagine it does if that person isn't well known to you...probably not the best reaction to have unless it's with someone trusted i would think.... |
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"I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now.
this. only 1 guy has ever set off this response. feels very vunerable.
I should imagine it does if that person isn't well known to you...probably not the best reaction to have unless it's with someone trusted i would think...."
dont think it would happen without trust, mental barriers would prevent it. |
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"I like to be cuddled after it has happened. It can feel really emotional and a bit raw after it, so the closeness is nice.
Its not something I would allow to happen on a fab meet though - I know my own triggers much better now.
this. only 1 guy has ever set off this response. feels very vunerable.
I should imagine it does if that person isn't well known to you...probably not the best reaction to have unless it's with someone trusted i would think....
dont think it would happen without trust, mental barriers would prevent it."
Good point...probably a good way for the brain to be |
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