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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always been interested in this type of relationship, but I'd have to find a partner or two first, but every guy I've been interested in is either only wanting me for a shag or is already in a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think just allowing yourself to meet lots of new people, and talking about your desire for multiple partners is the best place to start.
However I also know that I'm really, really lucky because lots of my friends are poly. |
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"I've always been interested in this type of relationship, but I'd have to find a partner or two first, but every guy I've been interested in is either only wanting me for a shag or is already in a relationship "
Such an arrangement would suit me, I don't particularly seek a relationship with one person. However having a live in fuck buddy would be ideal, both doing our own thing separately and respecting each others privacy.  |
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Me and Cath have discussed this,and have wondered if its a place we'll up in a few years down the road..neither of us are against the idea,although we are not going out of our way to achieve that as a goal |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"I've always been interested in this type of relationship, but I'd have to find a partner or two first, but every guy I've been interested in is either only wanting me for a shag or is already in a relationship
Such an arrangement would suit me, I don't particularly seek a relationship with one person. However having a live in fuck buddy would be ideal, both doing our own thing separately and respecting each others privacy. "
I know its different strokes for different folks, but for me, living in a menage was more than a live in fuck buddy. I didn't love either of them, but it was a very fulfilling relationship. And from the poly people I know - its way deeper. |
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Such an arrangement would suit me, I don't particularly seek a relationship with one person. However having a live in fuck buddy would be ideal, both doing our own thing separately and respecting each others privacy. "
Call me naive as i will confess im not well educated on the subject but that doesnt sound like a poly relationship at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Such an arrangement would suit me, I don't particularly seek a relationship with one person. However having a live in fuck buddy would be ideal, both doing our own thing separately and respecting each others privacy.
Call me naive as i will confess im not well educated on the subject but that doesnt sound like a poly relationship at all."
No its not a poly relationship |
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"I've always been interested in this type of relationship, but I'd have to find a partner or two first, but every guy I've been interested in is either only wanting me for a shag or is already in a relationship "
Hi if your intrested in a polyamorous relationship Id like to talk to you more my ex and I discussed and looked in to a few night that where aimed at poly people I personaly like the idea of it because no two people can make each other happy all the time so an extra person/s added to the mix makes for more happy times if all party's are willing to work at it. |
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I think it would be easier for a woman to join an established couple than it would be for a woman to find two guys to join her.
It does seem like an interesting thought but I think I would always love my missus more than the other person and if children happen it might push one of them away. |
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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago
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True polyamoury is hard to find. To get more than one individual of each sex into a stable relationship is bloody hard. Polyandry (1 wife, many husbands) is easier but rare and not unknown. Ensuring that one of the men is not reduced to an abusive state is not easy and the dynamics of the relationship can be complex: usually works best with brothers or twins sharing one wife.
Polyamoury is much more common - and in some cases institutionalized (Mormons - Arabs) but the practice also can lead to abusive relationships as the women make compromises to keep the status quo. Very often, it is not the man, but the senior wife who is the nexus for the abuse.
Good luck looking and keep your wits about you. |
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It's not something we could do we are just your common old monogamous swingers.
My view is simply that I believe part of relationships is about making sacrifices.
My wife comes above me in the dynamic of choice. So if I had two equal partners and they want opposite things how do you make that choice?
Not something I could easily do. |
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"We love the idea, unfortunately most people we have met into poly seem to be incredibly judgmental towards swinging or monogamy.
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Don't matter what group you associate with human nature governs all. It's always them and us. Millions of years ofe evolution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it would be easier for a woman to join an established couple than it would be for a woman to find two guys to join her.
It does seem like an interesting thought but I think I would always love my missus more than the other person and if children happen it might push one of them away. "
Polyamory isn't always about three people living together in a closed relationship.
I have multiple, open relationships where they all have their own partners. Polyamory is about being emotionally involved with more than one person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love the idea, unfortunately most people we have met into poly seem to be incredibly judgmental towards swinging or monogamy.
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That's quite odd - nobody I know who is poly is judgemental towards monogamy (about 30%+ of my friendship group are poly) and a large chunk of them (most, in reality) are into swinging or BDSM, or both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It does seem like an interesting thought but I think I would always love my missus more than the other person and if children happen it might push one of them away. "
That's why I don't date couples. I've got no interest in being 'second best' or pushed away because of children. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've spoken with my best friend and we both like the idea of a polyamorous reltionship, we're going on our first date at the end of this month and can't wait and see how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In no way shape or form do I condone bestiality, and I find it distasteful to post a thread about fucking parrots, even if you do love em
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