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Does lack of sex make you go crazy?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe it's related to ego as sex identifies who you are. Or it's an itch that can never be scratched? Do people go crazy from lack of sex? I've started drinking because of a woman who came onto me and I didn't touch her because she keeps talking about another man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The less I have sex, the less I want sex.
OP, go to the gym and let off some steam. You'll feel better (and look better if it takes a while  )"
I have no confidence because women say I'm too skinny. Haven't had sex in 10 years. Drinking is due to feeling worthless. Maybe this is a cry for help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same as Wyrdwoman in that the less sex i have the less i want it, but if i didn't have sex for 10 years think i'd go crazy as well.
Don't know what to advise you though. Really don't think drinking to avoid your problems is the best way, but i don't have your problems. |
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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago
Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14 |
"The less I have sex, the less I want sex.
OP, go to the gym and let off some steam. You'll feel better (and look better if it takes a while )
I have no confidence because women say I'm too skinny. Haven't had sex in 10 years. Drinking is due to feeling worthless. Maybe this is a cry for help. "
Very much understand your cry for help. But I don't think FAB is a place for somebody with such low self-esteem. Its more likely to push you the wrong way rather than help. But just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont got a high sex drive as I never really had anyone to practise on and my libido and desire for sex is very low, thats why sex with me would be dead boring lol. I rather spend my time in the gym working out.
A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can? "
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all."
Which is why I don't wank. I don't satisfy myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all."
Yes that's good, personally I prefer the long build ups I have lol cos if I had sex it would last 2min a wank 40 to 50min |
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I have a very high sex drive and if I go a few days without sex I become very moody and almost aggressive. It hasn't been much fun for the hubby while I've been recovering from a hysterectomy I can tell you. Couldn't wait to get back to our usual routine. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all.
Which is why I don't wank. I don't satisfy myself "
I see yes.. I do cos you can get lost in your taboo thoughts and the porn you watch, love it  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all.Yes that's good, personally I prefer the long build ups I have lol cos if I had sex it would last 2min a wank 40 to 50min "
You can have a long build up with sex too... unless you are a slam in the lamb type fella. I like foreplay as well as penetrative sex, so it can last hours....
Anyway, sorry OP, your thread got a bit hijacked. I think you need to find ways to build your self esteem. Find things you enjoy that make you feel good about yourself. Noone has the power to make you drink, other than you. So you met a lady who was a tease? She met you and spoke about someone else... that says a lot about her and nothing about you. |
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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"The less I have sex, the less I want sex.
OP, go to the gym and let off some steam. You'll feel better (and look better if it takes a while )"
Nah, if he's an ordinary bloke he won't feel better by doing other stuff. If anything, the need just goes worse. He just suffers inside till he gets some.
Atm I suspect this thread is ment to create sympathy for the guys out there who hasn't got any for long time. But while sexless life can lead to depression or self-pity, then self-pity (or worse, depression) NEVER leads to sex. So it's very wrong platform to solve the issue.
Good news to the OP is - youre still in the right place. Women are here because they want/need/crave/desire sex. But you probably have no clue what to do. Thats why you have cock pics on public and face pics in private while it should be the other way around. Ok here is how it works for you. Get a nice stylish haircut, shave, use aftershave & deodorant(picked by a woman, not by yourself, ask help from shop when not sure) and go to the nearest swingers club. Put yourself physically out there- here you don't stand a chance to stand out from the sea of singles. The hosts of the club give you a tour. don't act like you know it all, they know you're rookie and so do you. When the tour ends hang by the bar and ask them for tips. if the place is any good- you get some practical advice. remember- people come to that club to have sex! And you're there on the scene, looking your best. Looks pretty good already? Don't be shy to discreetly ask about other people. Who are playing with singles and who are couples only? You avoid approaching wrong people and wasting their time and yours. Listen what they tell you and add what you know now about "how to mingle" with freshly obtained "who to mingle with". And when the time comes, shy as you may be- the only way is forward. Good mingling leads to liking and liking leads to playing. No one guarantees you success right there but...your chances are now the highest as they might have ever been.
If everything goes well and you have behaved as a gentleman and not as an asshole during and after the play, then
she won't mind seeing you again at the same club. Exchange your fab names and you're all set to meet again in the same club. And that's how it begins. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Maybe it's related to ego as sex identifies who you are. Or it's an itch that can never be scratched? Do people go crazy from lack of sex? I've started drinking because of a woman who came onto me and I didn't touch her because she keeps talking about another man. "
Please seek professional help; I say this in the nicest possible way. Please make an appointment with your GP and they will refer you to an appropriate service
Sex is over-rated; nobody goes crazy from lack of sex. But people do from alcohol abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wank is like sex and your body dont know the diference. So why deny urself pleasure cos just cos you can?
My body certainly does know the difference... a wank is nothing like sex at all.
Which is why I don't wank. I don't satisfy myself "
Or you can satisfy yourself but the feeling lasts all of 2 mins x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's related to ego as sex identifies who you are. Or it's an itch that can never be scratched? Do people go crazy from lack of sex? I've started drinking because of a woman who came onto me and I didn't touch her because she keeps talking about another man. "
Now I was the other way round I was in a relationship the guy made me.feel worthless the sex wasn't there in our relationship I found swinging and then I went on a ramp page. I was meeting 3 different blokes a day sometimes I didn't even know their names when I met them or actually when they left. I got addicted and when it got to over 100 men in a couple of months it was time to stop. I was also meeting men I had met on a regular basis in between |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The less I have sex, the less I want sex.
OP, go to the gym and let off some steam. You'll feel better (and look better if it takes a while )
Nah, if he's an ordinary bloke he won't feel better by doing other stuff. If anything, the need just goes worse. He just suffers inside till he gets some.
Atm I suspect this thread is ment to create sympathy for the guys out there who hasn't got any for long time. But while sexless life can lead to depression or self-pity, then self-pity (or worse, depression) NEVER leads to sex. So it's very wrong platform to solve the issue.
Good news to the OP is - youre still in the right place. Women are here because they want/need/crave/desire sex. But you probably have no clue what to do. Thats why you have cock pics on public and face pics in private while it should be the other way around. Ok here is how it works for you. Get a nice stylish haircut, shave, use aftershave & deodorant(picked by a woman, not by yourself, ask help from shop when not sure) and go to the nearest swingers club. Put yourself physically out there- here you don't stand a chance to stand out from the sea of singles. The hosts of the club give you a tour. don't act like you know it all, they know you're rookie and so do you. When the tour ends hang by the bar and ask them for tips. if the place is any good- you get some practical advice. remember- people come to that club to have sex! And you're there on the scene, looking your best. Looks pretty good already? Don't be shy to discreetly ask about other people. Who are playing with singles and who are couples only? You avoid approaching wrong people and wasting their time and yours. Listen what they tell you and add what you know now about "how to mingle" with freshly obtained "who to mingle with". And when the time comes, shy as you may be- the only way is forward. Good mingling leads to liking and liking leads to playing. No one guarantees you success right there but...your chances are now the highest as they might have ever been.
If everything goes well and you have behaved as a gentleman and not as an asshole during and after the play, then
she won't mind seeing you again at the same club. Exchange your fab names and you're all set to meet again in the same club. And that's how it begins."
Great advice xx |
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