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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This swinging thing is a lot of pressure, wouldn't take it personally xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yh iv been told that but just really gettin to me feels like soft swap everytime X

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By *asokittyWoman  over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x"

No way its you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with you, you're attractive and have a nice body too. You must just be meeying the wrong guys

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By *xpatscoupleCouple  over a year ago

Ipswich


"Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x"

Omg how could he not get hard over you your lovely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does he have any issues getting hard when it's just the two of you? If not then it may just be performance anxiety. My ex was the same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think they meant the hubby's of the couples they've met

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think they meant the hubby's of the couples they've met"

i wasnt sure if they meant that or him -

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple  over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x"

My god it ain't u I got hard just looking at ur pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sorry yh its the couples hubby Thanx guys just really making me not want to meet my hubby says im just over thinkin it but just a bummer xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sooo frustrating cos mr hubby gets hard and stays hard lol so wen i dont fuck he cant cos we prefer to do it together not him just get sum and i dont x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's condoms in a lot of cases I hadn't worn one for 20 years when we first swung and there's no way I wouldn't wear one . Anyway I couldn't stay hard but second condom came off soft again if your not used to them they are murder it took me about six weeks of wearing them every time we had sex at home and the problem went away sorted after that just needed to get used to wearing them again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It certainly ain't you!!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Have a care for the people who have verified you, even if it isn't them you're referring to people will assume it is.

This is a lot more common than you think sometimes removing the anxiety will help so saying that you will swap if everyone is ready but theres no pressure to do so takes the worry off of the man and the expectation and possible disappointment away from you.

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By *anda2Couple  over a year ago

Norwich

We would be happy to ensure you both get what you want if you would like to meet us. Absolutely no performance issues here ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Have a care for the people who have verified you, even if it isn't them you're referring to people will assume it is.

This is a lot more common than you think sometimes removing the anxiety will help so saying that you will swap if everyone is ready but theres no pressure to do so takes the worry off of the man and the expectation and possible disappointment away from you."

i certainly dont want to upset anyone these have been other meets x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good old fashioned nerves, it can happen to anyone especially if they are first timers but its no big deal really maybe they should have a glass to help calm nerves next time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x"

I feel just like you, its not u hun, but it does get u down, I love playing with couples, but as soon as a rubber is on, it goes soft, and then I'm left feeling a little disappointed

I feel for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yh i know can do it but weve had meets with peopl who have met x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on a gd few meets and have been left abit frustrated The hubbys seem to find it hard to get hard starting to seriously believe its me ahhh x

I feel just like you, its not u hun, but it does get u down, I love playing with couples, but as soon as a rubber is on, it goes soft, and then I'm left feeling a little disappointed

I feel for you xx"

im convinced it's a rubber thing if your not used to them I just started wearing them in house when me and the wife had sex took about six weeks to completely cure thankfully now have no problems well not until the fourth or fifth time not as young as I used to be

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