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we think its unreal the amount of timewasters we had in the past couple of weeks do they want fun or is it just a turn on thinking about it ? they say they are up for a meet and never hear from them againe  |
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"we think its unreal the amount of timewasters we had in the past couple of weeks do they want fun or is it just a turn on thinking about it ? they say they are up for a meet and never hear from them againe "
Of course they want fun.
Of course they are up for a meet.
It's just that when he mentions it to the wife she turns round and says "Are you still on that fucking swinger site? I thought we agreed we werent going to do that again..."
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over a year ago
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"we think its unreal the amount of timewasters we had in the past couple of weeks do they want fun or is it just a turn on thinking about it ? they say they are up for a meet and never hear from them againe
Of course they want fun.
Of course they are up for a meet.
It's just that when he mentions it to the wife she turns round and says "Are you still on that fucking swinger site? I thought we agreed we werent going to do that again..."
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The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way... |
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Not this old chestnut again!!!!! Just because people don't want to meet YOU doesn't mean they're timewasters! A timewaster is someone who arranges to meet then doesn't turn up without any explanation. We have also actually met people then decided that we didn't want to have sex with them - are we timewasters? No! Of course not, selective yes! Z |
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way..."
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
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lol - but are they timewasters? No. They are easy to spot and can also provide a few minutes of fun when you pretend you actually think they're a 'couple'!!! Can't understand all the whinging posts about fakes and timewasters - time would be better spent in other pursuits perhaps? Z |
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
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Rubbish!!!
ok, let us expand on that... we agree that some "couples" are like that, but 80%.... no way! We have met a few people off of here and had some amazing fun, and yes, we have had suspicions about a few that it was just him and she had no idea, but we would say it is far more like 5 to 10% not 80%! |
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
Rubbish!!!
ok, let us expand on that... we agree that some "couples" are like that, but 80%.... no way! We have met a few people off of here and had some amazing fun, and yes, we have had suspicions about a few that it was just him and she had no idea, but we would say it is far more like 5 to 10% not 80%!"
5-10%? Utter fantasy. |
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
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Right lets just get this straight, the vast Majority of single guys on here are wasters and chancers. We have been let down more often than not by guys!
We always arrange to meet at least 3 guys as at least one always fails to show!
However, we also know there are some very genuine men on here!
We are better now as we only meet well verif guys! 
PS this is the male half of the cpl writing  |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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Does nobody realise that other people have lives away from swinging? 
Haven't the schools been off for the last few weeks? Maybe that's why things have "slowed down" for some folk seeing as, I presume, folk will put spending time with their own kids/families before meeting strangers off a swinging site for a shag! 
Just my thoughts, as always!  |
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"Not this old chestnut again!!!!! Just because people don't want to meet YOU doesn't mean they're timewasters! A timewaster is someone who arranges to meet then doesn't turn up without any explanation. We have also actually met people then decided that we didn't want to have sex with them - are we timewasters? No! Of course not, selective yes! Z"
Well said Zoe, saved me doing it! |
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"Does nobody realise that other people have lives away from swinging?
Haven't the schools been off for the last few weeks? Maybe that's why things have "slowed down" for some folk seeing as, I presume, folk will put spending time with their own kids/families before meeting strangers off a swinging site for a shag!
Just my thoughts, as always! "
we have cupboards in scotland that we can lock them in a piece on jeely n bottle of irn-bru n bobs yer uncle lets swing hehe |
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over a year ago
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To me a "timewaster" is someone who wastes my time, I don't care if it's 30 seconds or 3 hours it's my time and I don't want it wasted by people outside our criteria, winking us, sending friends invites, messaging us etc.
I don't care how long it takes to delete it, added up per day it's time I don't want to waste.
So far today we have had about 14 mails and an equal number of winks plus about 4 friends invites, all because none of them could be bothered reading our profile or worse ignoring it as one person actually admitted to doing.
We reply to every message and most winks/friends invites, and that takes time.
Half the people who contact us do so even though we don't fit thier criteria ie "wont meet smokers" or I am too old. |
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over a year ago
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Whose moaning, I am stating a fact in response to someone else stating that people are only timewasters if they arrange a meet and don't show up.
We are all entitled to our own definition of something.
Do timewasters bother me, obviously not otherwise we wouldn't be on the site, we fully accept that they are part and parcel of the online swinging scene no different to the things we don't enjoy in our vanilla lifestyles, like people taking thier time in supermarket queues then running off to find another item, like shop assistants who chat instead of serving you. nothing worth getting upset about just a fact of life.
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"nice to see you's lot wasting some of your so called precious time again...its good to winge "
If you consider giving your opinion in the forums is a waste of time, why are you wasting your time |
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"nice to see you's lot wasting some of your so called precious time again...its good to winge
If you consider giving your opinion in the forums is a waste of time, why are you wasting your time "
Doh! Because his time isnt as valuable as ours. |
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"we think its unreal the amount of timewasters we had in the past couple of weeks do they want fun or is it just a turn on thinking about it ? they say they are up for a meet and never hear from them againe
Of course they want fun.
lol that is so true
Of course they are up for a meet.
It's just that when he mentions it to the wife she turns round and says "Are you still on that fucking swinger site? I thought we agreed we werent going to do that again..."
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"Not this old chestnut again!!!!! Just because people don't want to meet YOU doesn't mean they're timewasters! A timewaster is someone who arranges to meet then doesn't turn up without any explanation. We have also actually met people then decided that we didn't want to have sex with them - are we timewasters? No! Of course not, selective yes! Z"
well i think u are wrong a TIMEWASTER is a person that can see the two of u on a pic and that they are the ones that make contact they are the ones that ask for a meet arange it and at the last min say oh they have to cancel |
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
lol - but are they timewasters? No. They are easy to spot and can also provide a few minutes of fun when you pretend you actually think they're a 'couple'!!! Can't understand all the whinging posts about fakes and timewasters - time would be better spent in other pursuits perhaps? Z"
so if thats not a timewaster what would u call a timewaster ? |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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to me a timewaster is someone who arranges to meet but then dont show up and no explaniation as to why, i arrange to meet and cant for some reason i let them know as what time i do get for myself is precious |
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"Does nobody realise that other people have lives away from swinging?
Haven't the schools been off for the last few weeks? Maybe that's why things have "slowed down" for some folk seeing as, I presume, folk will put spending time with their own kids/families before meeting strangers off a swinging site for a shag!
Just my thoughts, as always! "
so what as this got to do with timewasters ? |
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I have to agree a timewaster is someone be it single or a couple who have arranged a meet, and then don't show, no explination, no mails, not even any bare faced lies for excuses!
I had this 3 times on the run, drove me insane, But now it's back to looking around! |
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"we yearn to be the victims of timewasters as this would indicate that we had actually arranged a meet to start with "
I was going to try and arrange something with you, but a look at your profile made me think you were timewasters.
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"we yearn to be the victims of timewasters as this would indicate that we had actually arranged a meet to start with
I was going to try and arrange something with you, but a look at your profile made me think you were timewasters.
lol
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"A timewaster is someone who wastes all their time moaning about timewasters 
for the couples that onlyPLAY WITH guys I WOULD DOUT U WOULD GET TIMEWASTERS LOL"
Everyone will experience them at some point, its how you deal with them and learn from it that normally helps |
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for the couples that onlyPLAY WITH guys I WOULD DOUT U WOULD GET TIMEWASTERS LOL"
we dont ONLY play with single guys but when we do look for them then yes we get plenty who arent actually looking for a meet ... just pics to wank over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hey its happings 2 single fems 2 lol
happen 2 me on sat ngt..he was coming
for dinner an said he stopped the ngt
so i went away an bought dinner an breaky
for the sun morning..an guess wat
he didnt coming lol but his lose |
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"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters "
Did they scream first? |
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"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters "
at least they turned up .. ok rude for not saying Thanks, but No Thanks to your face - but at least they were there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone said "it's how to deal with them" put it down to experience and out of your mind immediately, don't let them get to you and spoil the fun with everyone else.
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Does nobody realise that other people have lives away from swinging?
Haven't the schools been off for the last few weeks? Maybe that's why things have "slowed down" for some folk seeing as, I presume, folk will put spending time with their own kids/families before meeting strangers off a swinging site for a shag!
Just my thoughts, as always!
so what as this got to do with timewasters ?"
Read the post above mine and a couple of the other ones on this thread too then you will see what I was answering and what I was meaning!
Damn, that's you made me waste 2 mins of my time answering you when it was obvious in the first place! |
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"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters
at least they turned up .. ok rude for not saying Thanks, but No Thanks to your face - but at least they were there"
Maybe it was his face they were saying "thanks, but no thanks" to... |
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"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters
Did they scream first?"
Haa haa haa haa haa...oh I can't stop haa haa haa!
Sorry mate, that's awful, haa haa "did they scream first?" Hilarious!!
Right, decorum!
Nope...haa haa haa haa... |
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"I think whingers are more of a problem on here than timewasters.....
Your not whingeing about whingers are you
Me?.....I laugh at whingers"
Whinging about timewasters is more of a waste of time than the whingers waste when they say that timewasters should spent less time whinge.....
...fuck it. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"The number of times that HE has set up a meet to fulfil HIS fantasy of "seeing his wife/partner/girlfriend with a black man" only for her to get cold feet (or slap him!) when he tell her I'm on my way...
No shit, Sherlock!!
At the risk of being contentiuous (moi?) i'd wager that if you took the total number of couples profiles on here, 80%+ of the women have either no knowledge or only the vaguest idea that they have a profile on a swinger site.
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bugger we are in the 20% section again |
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i just wish they were a top draw cpls but they were not one got back to me and said sorry for what they did and the other thats another story but they have been sorted
"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters
Did they scream first?
Haa haa haa haa haa...oh I can't stop haa haa haa!
Sorry mate, that's awful, haa haa "did they scream first?" Hilarious!!
Right, decorum!
Nope...haa haa haa haa... "
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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How many timewaster threads have there been? Just done a search and at least 35. I am smiling about all those peeps wasting time putting up timewaster threads and all the rest of us wasting time commenting about wasting time. I just love irony |
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"How many timewaster threads have there been? Just done a search and at least 35. I am smiling about all those peeps wasting time putting up timewaster threads and all the rest of us wasting time commenting about wasting time. I just love irony "
if all the timeasters stoped and all the people that !! think they want to swing !! woke up their would be no threads |
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"you go to meet cpl or a cpl comes to meet you as you come out to meet them and they drive off in there car and thats not nice thats real time wasters
Did they scream first?
Haa haa haa haa haa...oh I can't stop haa haa haa!
I found it funny too! Very naughty but funny. Terrible thing to do but for some reason I found it amusing. Sorry
Sorry mate, that's awful, haa haa "did they scream first?" Hilarious!!
Right, decorum!
Nope...haa haa haa haa... "
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Do we include, in the category of "Timewasters", those who only want to be 'friends' so they can look at the erotic photos in your private gallery? Those who attempt to lead you into erotic chat in the pretence of arranging a meet? Or who ask you to send them face and c*ck photos to their mobile phone on the pretext of arranging a meet? These activities all use up (and waste) one's precious time and we don't even get as far as actually arranging a meet to which they then fail to turn up! I was tempted not to reply to newbies and unverified profiles but then recalled being a Newbie myself once and that some kind trusting person(s) took a risk and agreed to meet me! Timewasters are an occupational hazard on a site like this and here to stay I think! |
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"Count us in
Blimey, the non-timewasting genuine couples will take over this thread if we aren't careful "
If we carry on like this we'll have the timewasters whining about gen couples always wanting to meet them; not just swap pics, etc  |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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On a serious note i often wonder if the phrase time waster is used to put pressure on someone who isn't sure about meeting.
Do pressure meeter's get more knock backs and are the knock backs a time waster? |
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There will always be timewasters, even more so when some people meet every other night and think everyone else should too, some even think that anyone who changes their mind is a timewaster, these same people think that if they’ve went to the effort to chat or exchange pictures and messages that they’re entitled to a shag
It's blatantly obvious that swinging has taken over some peoples lives, luckily some still see it as the bit of fun its meant to be. |
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over a year ago
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"On a serious note i often wonder if the phrase time waster is used to put pressure on someone who isn't sure about meeting.
Do pressure meeter's get more knock backs and are the knock backs a time waster? "
Thats a really good point,like when you get messages saying mail back if you're genuine
I don't expect any pressure,I do things at my own pace and make sure people are aware of that,if they're not happy then I don't really care if they think im a timewaster,would they rather me arrange something to keep them happy with no intention of turning up?
Similarly I would never put pressure on anyone else |
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"There will always be timewasters, even more so when some people meet every other night and think everyone else should too, some even think that anyone who changes their mind is a timewaster, these same people think that if they’ve went to the effort to chat or exchange pictures and messages that they’re entitled to a shag
It's blatantly obvious that swinging has taken over some peoples lives, luckily some still see it as the bit of fun its meant to be."
Oooh I wish there was a clapping emoticon! Well said! |
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Or perhaps some people think that if you don't swing in the same way we do, you don't meet as rarely or as often as us, you don't meet the same kind of people we do, you don't have the same views as us, then your way of doing it is wrong. |
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"Count us in
Blimey, the non-timewasting genuine couples will take over this thread if we aren't careful
If we carry on like this we'll have the timewasters whining about gen couples always wanting to meet them; not just swap pics, etc "
Hmmmm... Thinks... AandK calculated 5....
Plus new-east mids is ( pauses to take shoes and socks off ) ...
er.. 7...
Yess I say!! I CAN join in! Or those nice peoples wont have even numbers for the nasty whingers to moan about.
Runs back to East Finchley to warm iron for Dave's shirts... |
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Its been said a few times on here but sometimes the people who shout time waster are the pushy ones and they generate more rejection by pushing too much. |
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A straight forward rejection is not an issue as I prefer people to be honest, upfront and to say "..no thanks.." if I do not meet their requirements. My issue is with those who pretend they want to meet (in order to gain or look at photos and/or engage in erotic chat?). In the most extreme example a meet was agreed but, not only did the couple not turn up as arranged, their profile was deleted soon after. I had even done my 'due diligence' and chatted with the woman on cam before agreeing to meet. We all accept that our real lives take prescedent over meeting and genuine emergencies are sometimes unavoidable. It is just the frequencies with which the babysitter falls ill at the very last moment or the cat gets run over (again!) that is frustrating. |
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