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We've only been on here for a few weeks and have been approached by a lot of people...however, the majority of men approaching always assume that they are talking to Flik and dive straight in with propositioning her...when they do eventually discover they are taking to me they disappear pretty quickly. This has caused much amusement for us and embarrassment for some men.
Do other couples have the same thing happen to them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah if we get an overly creepy one addressed solely to her I (male) just tell them I'm not BI but thanks for telling me how fit I am.
Does not happen that often though. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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To be fair I think its an easy mistake to make when theres a pair of boobs looking at you on an avatar. I often make the same assumption (wrongly) when I see posts in the forums.
Having said that, I often get messages saying 'How are you two?' so I know what you mean. I just assume they are referring to my two arse cheeks.
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"Yeap.Quite funny when I get called babe or hun lol."
Oh yes...especially when they message things like "I want to fuck you so hard" and even when I've responded with "I really don't think you do", they still don't get it...instead they seem to think it's Flik playing hard to get...  |
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"To be fair I think its an easy mistake to make when theres a pair of boobs looking at you on an avatar. I often make the same assumption (wrongly) when I see posts in the forums.
Having said that, I often get messages saying 'How are you two?' so I know what you mean. I just assume they are referring to my two arse cheeks.
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Good point about the avatar ...though our somewhat unimaginative username makes it more than clear that there are two of us... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair I think its an easy mistake to make when theres a pair of boobs looking at you on an avatar.
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This.
Our couples profile always has an avatar of both of us, and equal public pics of us both.
We are always addressed as a couple. |
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"Yes I agree there that all pics are of the woman of the op lol, so anyone would think that "
There is no misunderstanding of us being a couple...just the assumption on first approach that they are talking to the female.. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"To be fair I think its an easy mistake to make when theres a pair of boobs looking at you on an avatar.
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This.
Our couples profile always has an avatar of both of us, and equal public pics of us both.
We are always addressed as a couple. "
Ours does too.
Still get 'nice tits!' messages frequently though.
They're moobs FFS!!  
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree there that all pics are of the woman of the op lol, so anyone would think that "
I didnt actually mean the OPs pics specifically, Im just saying that I tend to make assumptions based on what I see on the profile pic - and frequently Im wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeap.Quite funny when I get called babe or hun lol.
Oh yes...especially when they message things like "I want to fuck you so hard" and even when I've responded with "I really don't think you do", they still don't get it...instead they seem to think it's Flik playing hard to get... "
Yep! Had this a few times! Eventually you have to spell it out! |
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Personally I'd ask who I was talking to if it was a joint account as such. .. but that's just me. I like to know who I'm talking to. I've ran a few websites so I've seen it all. Fore warned is fore armed I guess... |
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"Yes I agree there that all pics are of the woman of the op lol, so anyone would think that
I didnt actually mean the OPs pics specifically, Im just saying that I tend to make assumptions based on what I see on the profile pic - and frequently Im wrong "
It wouldn't be a problem even if that is what you meant...
We have just found it amusing and just wondered if others had been entertained in the same way too...that's all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I agree there that all pics are of the woman of the op lol, so anyone would think that
I didnt actually mean the OPs pics specifically, Im just saying that I tend to make assumptions based on what I see on the profile pic - and frequently Im wrong "
Yes I get you now and same with me. I would think the same about the profile pics in general x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I agree there that all pics are of the woman of the op lol, so anyone would think that
There is no misunderstanding of us being a couple...just the assumption on first approach that they are talking to the female.."
Yes that's a good point as well. |
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The majority of messages are addressed to me (L) since a lot of guys do actually read the profile where it states it's usually me online. We do get the occasional random 'can I cum on her tits' or 'you look hot' ones. I do ask J to respond to the latter rather than me; they could be referring to either of us and he is bi...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair I think its an easy mistake to make when theres a pair of boobs looking at you on an avatar.
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This.
Our couples profile always has an avatar of both of us, and equal public pics of us both.
We are always addressed as a couple.
Ours does too.
Still get 'nice tits!' messages frequently though.
They're moobs FFS!!
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Crackin moobs.  If it wasn't for the afro I'd swear you were twins. |
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"Anyway surely if your approaching a couple you'd want a rapor with both of them not just the woman? Don't people talk to both parties involved then? Seems like a recipe for failure lol"
Absolutely right!! We've both had some fantastic conversations with those that have either bothered to check first or who have at least stayed online once they've realised the error... Flik is only interested in talking to men that actually have balls... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anyone asks who they're talking to, we say 'why do you need to know?'"
we have that and then get a completely different kind of chat when we said it was me - i said we both read these messages and it took a while to sink in - need to take the cock out of gear and engage brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has never bothered me too much as the pictures are of me and when the profile is fully written its obvious its from a female perspective,so it stands to reason that there will be a certain amount of initial messages directed straight at me,not all of them are though but the majority will be a compliment on the pictures
The messages that are directed straight to my OH and are full of blokey innuendo and 'ppphooaaarrrr lucky man what id like to do to her if she was my missus' comments wind me up more  |
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I think the way is supposed to work is you talk to both find out what they like and what they have in mind ie a fantasy they want to fulfil. Relay what I'm interested in and then meet on common ground abs seal the deal. I think everyone on here has a fantasy or two they want played out and someone they feel comfortable doing that with. That won't happen if you ignore the guy and straight to the girl... so yeah I was I bit suprised by the responses I've read here. I just figured people would automatically speak to both parties involved. |
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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago
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"We've only been on here for a few weeks and have been approached by a lot of people...however, the majority of men approaching always assume that they are talking to Flik and dive straight in with propositioning her...when they do eventually discover they are taking to me they disappear pretty quickly. This has caused much amusement for us and embarrassment for some men.
Do other couples have the same thing happen to them?
yes, seems that some men thing only the ladies know how to work a pc.
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"I think the way is supposed to work is you talk to both find out what they like and what they have in mind ie a fantasy they want to fulfil. Relay what I'm interested in and then meet on common ground abs seal the deal. I think everyone on here has a fantasy or two they want played out and someone they feel comfortable doing that with. That won't happen if you ignore the guy and straight to the girl... so yeah I was I bit suprised by the responses I've read here. I just figured people would automatically speak to both parties involved. "
We did too...but hey...live and learn |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I think the way is supposed to work is you talk to both find out what they like and what they have in mind ie a fantasy they want to fulfil. Relay what I'm interested in and then meet on common ground abs seal the deal. I think everyone on here has a fantasy or two they want played out and someone they feel comfortable doing that with. That won't happen if you ignore the guy and straight to the girl... so yeah I was I bit suprised by the responses I've read here. I just figured people would automatically speak to both parties involved. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been with 3 diffrent couples in mmf
Most of time chatted to woman first as normally her who decided a if she likes you go further but do chat to guys of couple to to find out what she likes dislikes
I make it clear from start I don't want to run away with the woman just help them to enjoy the experience
I go with the flow and am very respectfull to both them after all as I see it iam just a guest lucky enought to be there in there fantasy
Enjoy watching them as much as they enjoy watching me after all sex is sex what we are here for right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was in chat once and a bloke PM'd me and started telling me what I great arse I had. I tthanked him. And he started telling me quite graphically how he'd like to rim it. So I went along with it. And he got more graphic. And then I suggested that he could lick my balls. Boy did that not go down well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was in chat once and a bloke PM'd me and started telling me what I great arse I had. I tthanked him. And he started telling me quite graphically how he'd like to rim it. So I went along with it. And he got more graphic. And then I suggested that he could lick my balls. Boy did that not go down well... "
hahaha... brilliant...
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