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Best (or worst) excuse to not meet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am sure we have all been let down on a meet last minute. Yesterday for example a woman I had been chatting to for a couple of months (from another) site was going to come round subject to a doctors appointment, and poor lass Is now pregnant from her first fling after 8 years of celebacy so was in pieces (and obviously didn't come over). Now I don't doubt her sincerity but that has to be the best stood up line I have heard. Would be interested in yours fabbers and your opinions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That's lame

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He'd run out of petrol and had left his wallet at his mates, he had to wait for his mate to bring his wallet over but as he'd been drinking he couldn't. Yeah yeah, whatever lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

user no longer on site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't like clubs because we may like to play for longer (6 hours wasn't enough lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

She may have been seriously sick on her death bed in all fairness

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By *haron4465TV/TS over a year ago

HULL

Feckin idiot he was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't meet tonight - because I need to watch Eastenders to find out who killed Lucy ........ pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not sure about the pregnancy thing though. Poor woman if true. The run out of petrol thing is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

She may have been seriously sick on her death bed in all fairness"

yes she only climbed up on that death bed a hour before our meet

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

"I can't meet tonight - because I need to watch Eastenders to find out who killed Lucy ........ pmsl!"

Hey...that's my line! lol

But seriously, any excuse is better than simply not turning up and leaving you sat there like a Billy no mates...grrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I guess so but surely honesty well in advance is more preferae, and why do people bottle it

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS over a year ago

Epsom

Where's the club....(gave address).. Oh my train ticket won't get me back.....(Dah taxi. We would be going back the same way)... Some people.

Still at least he was talking.. Some guys give all the talk then go quiet before the meet. Stay quiet for a few weeks and then wonder why I won't meet them

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By *egs1194Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

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there loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Indeed. It is his loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Her husband had found out!!! He rang me to threaten me as well so it was true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a guy cancel a meet because his mother had died, I said it was ok not to worry etc and didn't hear from him for a while

he messaged me a few months later asking how I was etc and would i still llike to meet i said ok let me know when your free, he replied I'm over you way next weekend as it's my mother's 70th birthday and we're having a family party I'm staying over in a hotel after if you'd like to join me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a guy cancel a meet because his mother had died, I said it was ok not to worry etc and didn't hear from him for a while

Pahahahaha, what a twat. You have to have a bloody good memory to lie that's why its best just to tell the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh dear. Sad state of affairs if the husband didn't know. Must be a marriage doomed to failure

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Whatever happened to the good old fashioned 'sorry love, I'm washing my hair'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whatever happened to the good old fashioned 'sorry love, I'm washing my hair'"

Sorry but I've changed my mind would be better, I'd greatly respect that rather than being treated like a twat with a pathetic excuse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Whatever happened to the good old fashioned 'sorry love, I'm washing my hair'

Sorry but I've changed my mind would be better, I'd greatly respect that rather than being treated like a twat with a pathetic excuse!"

Well I would definAtely not let you down on a meet

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By *verysmileMan over a year ago

Canterbury

Taken from a mail that I received from a 'genuine and single woman'......

"I know that I asked for discretion but my husband has found out about my site membership. Maybe available in a few weeks when he is away again"

Blocked. ..but kept the mail as it amuses me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a guy cancel a meet because his mother had died, I said it was ok not to worry etc and didn't hear from him for a while

Lucky escape. He may have had the coffin in his room!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

then they come back the next week as someone else

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I arranged an afternoon meet with a guy, social in a pub first then hopefully back to his. Half an hour after we were supposed to meet he texted me to say he couldn't make it as he was still in bed with the woman he'd met the night before.

At least the pub served good beer.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Whatever happened to the good old fashioned 'sorry love, I'm washing my hair'

Sorry but I've changed my mind would be better, I'd greatly respect that rather than being treated like a twat with a pathetic excuse!"

I agree with this and have said this myself before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm watching Eastenders Live

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cars on red No petrol send me £20

nope!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The dog ate my condoms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best excuse i had was from a guy saying that he had to cancel the meet because his kids were home that day, but he said we could use his sisters flat if I gave him a £10 note because she would have to go out and didn't have much money being a single mum. lol

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By *uestandpinkCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Some pearlers here lol....how about we had to work....then a few hours lata....up pops a veri on their profile lol

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By *oust99Couple over a year ago

Blackpool

How about, I'm not meeting you cos you deleted all the mails you sent.....(mailbox prune)

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By *aime DowneMan over a year ago

stoke on trent

Got to bath the goldfish tonight!

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"Some pearlers here lol....how about we had to work....then a few hours lata....up pops a veri on their profile lol"

I see your 'had to work' and raise you 'got my period' Apparently didn't bother the guy they met then

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How about, I'm not meeting you cos you deleted all the mails you sent.....(mailbox prune)"

I had that once. Glad I found out he was a stroppy bugger in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No one likes a stroppy bugger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But at least any response is better then none

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

May have got this one ;-(

"I am sorry but can't make our meet. I have just got back from my holiday and have a medical issue.

I went to Lourdes and my eyesight has returned. I now realise you are an absolute minger.

Have lots of fun."

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By *rown eyes 8Woman over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

"May have got this one ;-(

"I am sorry but can't make our meet. I have just got back from my holiday and have a medical issue.

I went to Lourdes and my eyesight has returned. I now realise you are an absolute minger.

Have lots of fun.""

Brilliant lol

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

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By *lutandhubbyCouple over a year ago

west midlands

had a couple cancel half hour before the meet (not on this site). because they looked at our varies and didn't like the peeps we had met

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

About 15 mins into a bi mmf meet with one guy I knew well and a new guy. We were making him feel welcome with a shared bj and he came, no probs we were just getting started... Then his phone rang.

He worked for an agency and one of the lads he'd sent to a warehouse had had his foot run over by a forklift truck.. And he had to go right then to meet him at the hospital. I'm pretty sure it was genuine cos I heard most of the other part of the conversation too, it was a rather good 'excuse' to do one after getting him jollies tho!

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By *omaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

My Sat nav has just packed in, I've got no credit on my phone to text after this message and its about to die, flat battery So can't take directions. .. . Speak soon!

I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The absolute most unforgettable excuse I ever heard was about a year ago now. .

"My best friends son got killed by a car sorry I can't make it"...

I HAD to believe that as I just refused to believe someone is capable of coming out with shit like that as an excuse.

I fully believed it..right up to the point when I logged on fab a day or so later and saw a status update in my feed of:

"I broke a rule last night..great night"

Which was promptly deleted within about 2 minutes of me logging on.

That has to be the best, worst and quite frankly pathetic excuse I've ever had yet.

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By *uth 50Woman over a year ago

Leeds/Huddersfield

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub, waited 15 mins no show, so texted, no answer. The following day got a text apologising he had been at the hospital with his mate and couldn't text me back. I didn't know they screened sky sports and d*unk beer in hospitals. His status from that night " great match and a few beers with the lads"

Cheeky sod asked to rearrange!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The dog ate my condoms

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Was speaking to one guy for a few months who could only be local in the week "due to work". Weekly meets are very tricky for us time wise/other commitments but he was persistent and we got on great so arranged a meet. Ten minutes before we we're about to set off we get a message saying he's a two hour drive away and is now in a different hotel but he's ready and waiting.

Needless to say we didn't bother to drive, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think my worst was meet at ours, we have a friend over so could you come over when they go. 1/2 hour later oops still here but will be leaving in 10 1 hour later oops still here. We have up never bothered to say to them. However we never heard from them after until the husband messaged to say his wife had fallen asleep that night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had someone cancel because they said there dog had bitten there finger off

It was so daft we thought it was probably true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

His loss cause you look fabulous xx

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By *WcplCouple over a year ago

Tameside

The Wife just found my Fab profile !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had several in my early fab days:

I've had a car accident on the way

(20 mins before the meet time and id paid for a hotel and arranged for a female friend to come for an mff and we were sat there patiently waiting but luckily managed to get us two stunt cocks in later that day!)

I have to take my exes dog to the vets

(a club meet, I was meant to meet him there...ended up having a great night without him)

My real mother has got in touch after not seeing her for 20 years and I have to drive to Scotland to see her as she's dying

(he was saying this to me as he was stood outside the pub I was watching him from whilst he was waiting for a date with my friend he'd also been lying to...oh how we giggled at him)

I cant come now as its too icy to walk up the street (i was waiting at the top of the street in my car ready to jet him off to a club)

I could go on lol...thankfully I think my bullshit detector is in full working order now and Im not half as gullible stupud as i clearly was then!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Perhaps there should be a bullshit grading mark along with the profile verifications!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"We had someone cancel because they said there dog had bitten there finger off

It was so daft we thought it was probably true "

Have a heart; that wasn't his 'finger'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry, meeting your mum instead

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

I never mind as long as they text to cancel

in December I had to cancel a friend and said cant meet as iv had a heart attack he replied oh ok next weekend then? doh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh no ruby. How crass

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"I've had several in my early fab days:

I've had a car accident on the way

I have to take my exes dog to the vets

(a club meet, I was meant to meet him there...ended up having a great night without him)

My real mother has got in touch after not seeing her for 20 years and I have to drive to Scotland to see her as she's dying

(he was saying this to me as he was stood outside the pub I was watching him from whilst he was waiting for a date with my friend he'd also been lying to...oh how we giggled at him)

I cant come now as its too icy to walk up the street (i was waiting at the top of the street in my car ready to jet him off to a club)

I could go on lol...thankfully I think my bullshit detector is in full working order now and Im not half as gullible stupud as i clearly was then!!

Wow. Some guys have missed their vocation. Instead of being creative writers they opted to be complete Wankers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why do people bother to make up such bullshit. Just be honest and say you had or have cold feet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do people bother to make up such bullshit. Just be honest and say you had or have cold feet"

Exactly this. All the bullshit is just insulting someone's intelligence, just no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do people bother to make up such bullshit. Just be honest and say you had or have cold feet"

absolutely true,just wondering why people get cold feet though as this is what the site is about??weird

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As returning members (5years on and off) we arranged out first meet on our new profile last week with a guy we had chatted to last time we were here. Keen as mustard he was, just like the previous times we chatted.

Being a laid back chap, my fella agreed to give him another chance to meet. As good people we confirmed 3 days prior. And right up to two hours to meeting he still hadn't confirmed he was meeting us.

So my horn was slightly knocked to say the least. But we should have known better. He did the same to us last time.

So my question is. Why is it so hard for single guys to confirm? We have work and families to work around. Planning is essential for us.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couldn't get his canal boat out of a lock!

I don't think it was a euphemism? ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance."

Ah yes, the silent treatment but are often online. Had a guy so silent last week when I mentioned meeting tonight, not heard a peep for over a week now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance.

Ah yes, the silent treatment but are often online. Had a guy so silent last week when I mentioned meeting tonight, not heard a peep for over a week now. "
what a crazy guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had 3 let downs. 2 said their car had broken down, but then admitted they thought I'd not turn up. They've both apologised and have asked to try again! Of course they got a 'fuck off'

2nd one said his mother was having a panic attack. (Dunno whether to put a sad face or laughing face incase of offending) ah stuff it

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance.

Ah yes, the silent treatment but are often online. Had a guy so silent last week when I mentioned meeting tonight, not heard a peep for over a week now. "

That is probably because 'he' is a woman pretending to be a guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance.

Ah yes, the silent treatment but are often online. Had a guy so silent last week when I mentioned meeting tonight, not heard a peep for over a week now.

That is probably because 'he' is a woman pretending to be a guy

No he was verifed well by meet and photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had 3 let downs. 2 said their car had broken down, but then admitted they thought I'd not turn up. They've both apologised and have asked to try again! Of course they got a 'fuck off'

2nd one said his mother was having a panic attack. (Dunno whether to put a sad face or laughing face incase of offending) ah stuff it

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Never had a last minute cancellation. Only had some profiles go silent when I've messaged to confirm a meet arranged the previous week.

Only time I've had to cancel was when I didn't go to a party recently. I had food poisoning. It's a shame, as its sounds like an obvious lie so pretty sure there will be no 2nd chance.

Ah yes, the silent treatment but are often online. Had a guy so silent last week when I mentioned meeting tonight, not heard a peep for over a week now.

That is probably because 'he' is a woman pretending to be a guy

No he was verifed well by meet and photo verified."

I am just kidding; x

But I do know what you mean. I normally get that from the 'couples' where the female half is supposed to be bi-curious, bisexual, bi-furious

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By *izequeenCouple over a year ago

Solihull

I had the worst excuse ever about a hour and a half before we were due to be meeting:

Sarah I've just woken up after a sleep to be ready for tonight and Im all blocked up, I'm so sorry I don't want to meet you when I can't breath properly when it comes to sex that really doesn't help I hope that you're not too angry, I'm going back to bed I don't feel good at all x

He was verified and we had been chatting for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Couldn't get his canal boat out of a lock!

I don't think it was a euphemism? ??

I think this is my favourite excuse so far lol

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By *obb2upCouple over a year ago

Bangor

this is true.......we are on Anglesey ....this lad was coming from fife he drove all the way across north Wales till he was 1/2 hr away ...then phone to say work had called and he had to go....so turned round and drove the 6hrs back to fife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 mins before meet cant come as my son is still in bathroom so can not get ready

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arranged to meet in a coffee shop out of my town so I travelled, he messaged to say he's on way, he texts to ask if Im on way, I say yes not even 5 mins away and I ask if he's in the actual shop by this point..... I heard nothing back. He wasn't in the coffee shop either. Why do guys do this? And why do they wait a week or whenever for only to message you on fab asking to if you're free to meet all the while acting like they've done nothing wrong previously!? This site is about no hassle sex not marriage! It's absolutely strange behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its the one's who you arrange to meet, go all silent then put status updates up moaning they can't get a meet or this site is crap that get me. I've not been on here for over a year but I've had a few guys, who don't know its me, who I arranged to meet on my old profile and then disappeared who are still here, still not verified and I can't see the point in being here or what they get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Arranged to meet in a coffee shop out of my town so I travelled, he messaged to say he's on way, he texts to ask if Im on way, I say yes not even 5 mins away and I ask if he's in the actual shop by this point..... I heard nothing back. He wasn't in the coffee shop either. Why do guys do this? And why do they wait a week or whenever for only to message you on fab asking to if you're free to meet all the while acting like they've done nothing wrong previously!? This site is about no hassle sex not marriage! It's absolutely strange behaviour.

We should be able to name and shame these tinewasters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its the one's who you arrange to meet, go all silent then put status updates up moaning they can't get a meet or this site is crap that get me. I've not been on here for over a year but I've had a few guys, who don't know its me, who I arranged to meet on my old profile and then disappeared who are still here, still not verified and I can't see the point in being here or what they get out of it. "

I agree with you, I had a few no shows, which pissed me off so much that I left for a while. Now I'm back with new profile and same guys are messaging me!

I just delete now.

Should be able to leave negative feedback like ebay. To warn others. But I suppose they'd just get a new profile too!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with you, I had a few no shows, which pissed me off so much that I left for a while. Now I'm back with new profile and same guys are messaging me!

I just delete now.

Should be able to leave negative feedback like ebay. To warn others. But I suppose they'd just get a new profile too!!

I know what you mean but it would be abused, can see it now. You politely turn down a meet for whatever reason and they send negative feedback because they're bitter at being turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My favourite on is not so much an excuse than a reason

I was meeting a guy, had just got to the arranged meeting place when I got a text saying

Sorry but there has been a change of plan I'm now meeting someone else so won't be coming to meet you, I'm free tomorrow if you want to re arrange

Have to give 10 out of 10 for honestly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My best one to date was "the coffee shop is to busy" bare in mind I was sat in the said coffee shop waiting for our social meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My favourite on is not so much an excuse than a reason

I was meeting a guy, had just got to the arranged meeting place when I got a text saying

Sorry but there has been a change of plan I'm now meeting someone else so won't be coming to meet you, I'm free tomorrow if you want to re arrange

Have to give 10 out of 10 for honestly

I wonder if his other meet showed, karma if she didn't!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also had a guy cancel our meet because he invited me to a party without asking the couple running it, he said when he cancelled he was sorry but he just assumed they wouldn't mind an extra woman but apparently they did so he was going alone

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By *oe bloggs69Man over a year ago

fife

Plplmdabo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Plplmdabo "

Bless you!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple over a year ago

Fareham

We had a social meet with a guy (not on this site) with a view to a bi mmf. We got along ok and he seemed keen so we went ahead and arranged a play meet.

On the afternoon of the meet he messaged to say he couldn't go through with it as it would be 'too mechanical and lacking in emotion'. Fair play - we weren't offering harps and choirs of heavenly angels - just sex!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with you, I had a few no shows, which pissed me off so much that I left for a while. Now I'm back with new profile and same guys are messaging me!

I just delete now.

Should be able to leave negative feedback like ebay. To warn others. But I suppose they'd just get a new profile too!!

You can report them, then there's an option to tick if they didn't show to a meet, I think if they fail to show to 3 arranged meets they should get a red flag on there profile to warn others there timewasters!

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By *cd and scruffCouple over a year ago

Rochester

Had a meet arranged an hours drive away. We were just about to leave when we got a text cancelling the meet because when he got home from work his mates mother had come for the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We had a social meet with a guy (not on this site) with a view to a bi mmf. We got along ok and he seemed keen so we went ahead and arranged a play meet.

Dear me. His loss

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By *ovecuckoldfunMan over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

had a few make the normal excuse ie womans problems car broke down baby sitter not turn up but had one woman i had met b4 said she was 2mins away 45mins later still not here got a phone call said she wrote her car off bad accident just up road from me so when to meet her was true car in a right mess police firemen amberlance there she was ok bar glass in her hair and her side hurting where car hit her took her back to mine gave her a cpl of glasses of wine then took her home bless her but glad she was ok but did think it was a wind up for a few mins which made me feel bad as was def true so sometimes you have to beleave it when they say they been in a bad accident as in my case was def true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My leg fell off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I sussed out he was all talk. No excuses to him

I just said he was full of bs and I rather not be messaged. Then was blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My leg fell off "

Lol good one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Her husband had found out!!! He rang me to threaten me as well so it was true

I've got the T-shirt on this one too...and deeply unpleasant it was as well. That's why I'm very selective with who I contact on here, as you just never know if you're going to be treading on thin ice...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Her husband had found out!!! He rang me to threaten me as well so it was true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we have had sorry fell asleep a few times sorry fell off the roof walked into a fight got punched fractured cheekbone

bad hay fever tho he had been chatting most of the day but the one i will never forget is the guy who mailed to say sorry he was running late was it still ok to meet we said yes that was around 10pm the next we heard off him was around 1 am asking if it was still ok to call round and could he bring the couple he had met earlier

he said it had slipped his mind and remembered at gone 12

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" we have had sorry fell asleep a few times sorry fell off the roof walked into a fight got punched fractured cheekbone

he said it had slipped his mind and remembered at gone 12

"
men eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Her husband had found out!!! He rang me to threaten me as well so it was true

ah well you have to give her that one -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am sure we have all been let down on a meet last minute. Yesterday for example a woman I had been chatting to for a couple of months (from another) site was going to come round subject to a doctors appointment, and poor lass Is now pregnant from her first fling after 8 years of celebacy so was in pieces (and obviously didn't come over). Now I don't doubt her sincerity but that has to be the best stood up line I have heard. Would be interested in yours fabbers and your opinions"

I've had 10 years of celebacy but I'm not pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've had 10 years of celebacy but I'm not pregnant. "

Not sure I could do celebacy but we all have our 'droughts' is single guys I suppose

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

"Her husband had found out!!! He rang me to threaten me as well so it was true

Ohh SHIT!

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By *oom18Couple over a year ago

Rotherham

we've had that 1 aswell

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

Arranged a social meet with a couple in South London. Then got text that only hubby would be there as he had to vet me. Ok not a problem. Then when I asked him where he was he sent me back a note saying not sure wife always does the map reading!

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

"As returning members (5years on and off) we arranged out first meet on our new profile last week with a guy we had chatted to last time we were here. Keen as mustard he was, just like the previous times we chatted.

Being a laid back chap, my fella agreed to give him another chance to meet. As good people we confirmed 3 days prior. And right up to two hours to meeting he still hadn't confirmed he was meeting us.

So my horn was slightly knocked to say the least. But we should have known better. He did the same to us last time.

So my question is. Why is it so hard for single guys to confirm? We have work and families to work around. Planning is essential for us.

Mrs x

We all live real lives can't understand it when I say in advance that I need to plan and arrange a meet that you get the well forget it if you can not just drop everything and fuck in now in 10 min. What do people think I am a takeaway pizza?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're damned lucky if you even get an excuse. Manners cost nothing but many still can't afford them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was talking to a hot Tv and asked her what she was doing tonight...she told me she was washing her hair!

In fairness I think it was more a rejection than an excuse not to meet as we didn't speak again

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By *ub... girlWoman over a year ago

worcester

Guy cancelled two hours before and said he was to tired from work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a meet with a guy and a hour before the agreed time he said he could not make it aS his granny was sick and he had to mind her ....

She may have been seriously sick on her death bed in all fairness"

Or she was sick, as in perverted and he wanted to watch it join in!

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

Ive had a couple of occasions when I've arranged to meet a guy on a particular day and then on the morning of that day they've posted a meet event! Wtf's that all about? I'm not vain but I'm not anyone's Plan B either

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"Ive had a couple of occasions when I've arranged to meet a guy on a particular day and then on the morning of that day they've posted a meet event! Wtf's that all about? I'm not vain but I'm not anyone's Plan B either

Yep, it was blatantly obvious with one potential meet that we were being used as a backup. Don't think so, love!

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple over a year ago

TELFORD

We were speaking to a couple at chams one night and they had been let down on a meet with a single lady, she said she could no longer meet that evening as she had had a spray tan in the day and she couldn't get sweaty or else it would come off.

I couldn't help but laugh....loud... They looked puzzled at my laughter, they did think this was a plausable excuse and were hoping to re-schedule the meet. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We were speaking to a couple at chams one night and they had been let down on a meet with a single lady, she said she could no longer meet that evening as she had had a spray tan in the day and she couldn't get sweaty or else it would come off.

I couldn't help but laugh....loud... They looked puzzled at my laughter, they did think this was a plausable excuse and were hoping to re-schedule the meet. Xx

I think this is the best (worst) yet

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

I couldn't help but laugh....loud... They looked puzzled at my laughter, they did think this was a plausable excuse and were hoping to re-schedule the meet. Xx

I think this is the best (worst) yet"

Poor souls who thought it was genuine. BLESS! But yes in one of the best threads I have read for making me smile this one is special. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We honestly cancelled as two of our chickens had their heads bitten off by foxes. It did kill the moment with all the general gore. It was true but not sure if they believed us when we told them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For the best effect the excuse must be delivered with less than an hour to the meet and be a fatuious one. "Sorry, My car won't start"

"But you only live 300 metres from where i am?"

The ultimate accolade is to get a veri from another meet on the same day and time.

And yes, couples are just as likely to time waste as limp dicked single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We honestly cancelled as two of our chickens had their heads bitten off by foxes. It did kill the moment with all the general gore. It was true but not sure if they believed us when we told them

Classic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chatted ages to a guy

Booked a hotel

He never showed up

in the morning a text that said "sorry I locked myself in the fridge at work"

Then a second..... " I was in there over night, I am okay but got Ice Burns, I will be in touch soon"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A CURRENT male member on here.......

Arranged to meet in the Bar at the hotel we had booked and paid for.

10 mins before the meet, we got a text saying "sorry, I am really in the Special Forces and I have been called on a secret mission, I will contact you when I am back in the country"

2 days later saw him in a swingers club and then drive off from the car park in his "parts delivery van" for the local Ford Dealer.

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By *ntimatediscretionMan over a year ago

eaglescliffe

limp dicked single guys??? somewhat of a generalisation??

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

"A CURRENT male member on here.......

Arranged to meet in the Bar at the hotel we had booked and paid for.

10 mins before the meet, we got a text saying "sorry, I am really in the Special Forces and I have been called on a secret mission, I will contact you when I am back in the country"

2 days later saw him in a swingers club and then drive off from the car park in his "parts delivery van" for the local Ford Dealer. "

If it had been a post van than he might have been in the special parcel forces. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best one for me was recently....

Il meet you when i get back from london...got a text sorry staying overnight which is fine...then

arrange a meet the next day i took a day off work...sorry i totally forgot it was my birthday and im going out.....whatever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Chatted ages to a guy

Booked a hotel

He never showed up

in the morning a text that said "sorry I locked myself in the fridge at work"

Then a second..... " I was in there over night, I am okay but got Ice Burns, I will be in touch soon" "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Best one for me was recently....

Il meet you when i get back from london...got a text sorry staying overnight which is fine...then

arrange a meet the next day i took a day off work...sorry i totally forgot it was my birthday and im going out.....whatever"

That's dissapointing to say the least

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

Arranged a social meet with a guy who parked up in the car park, to text me "I've just seen you, don't think we should meet"

Not really great for the confidence

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman over a year ago

Swansea

Same guy.. "Sorry I've seen the dentist my mouth hurts too much".

Chance two, "Sorry I cant come now my Gf just lost her job and is upset.. So how about next week?"

Apart from that I've had 2 bike crashes (although one was genuine), work issues and a lot of mothers birthdays.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Arranged a social meet with a guy who parked up in the car park, to text me "I've just seen you, don't think we should meet"

Not really great for the confidence "

That made me laugh because it reminded me of a guy I arranged to meet

I was stood at the arranged meeting place, he pulledmup in his car, looked at me and just drive off

Laugh it off we can't appeal to everyone x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Text a guy a few days before our planned meet asking if he was still up for it oh yes for sure he says. Ok, I'll text you on the morning of the meet to confirm. Ok he says, looking forward to it blah blah. So I text that morning as we agreed and he said he'd made other plans as he hadn't heard from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh this thread! Funny but sadly all too familiar.

My best? I was out with the lads last night and not safe to drive this morning. Sensible if it was true.

Also one poor sod who cancelled after being in a car crash. Rearranged for a couple of weeks later only to have his house burgled! Think that one was jinxed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could honestly write a book on this subject.

One that sticks out was a woman who disappeared just before an arranged meet, the next day she said she had been pulled by the police and breathalysed and because she had a drink to "calm her nerves" before she set off she was over the limit and arrested !

We had arranged to meet somewhere and she had already told me what car to look out for ( a very nice one btw) and her personal reg.

All the time she was supposedly being arrested and dragged to the cells she kept signing in and out of her account which was the first alarm bell! The second was the dvla check i did that proved no such car even existed ( model and number plate)!!!

That wasnt even one of the best ive had!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're both single parents.... So sometimes we just cannot honour a meet due to 4 kids between us, never used them as an excuse though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"limp dicked single guys??? somewhat of a generalisation??

I know! Great isnt it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I could honestly write a book on this subject.

Bless

We had arranged to meet somewhere and she had already told me what car to look out for ( a very nice one btw) and her personal reg.

That wasnt even one of the best ive had!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Being arrested seems a reasonable excuse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I could honestly write a book on this subject.

Good one

We had arranged to meet somewhere and she had already told me what car to look out for ( a very nice one btw) and her personal reg.

That wasnt even one of the best ive had!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a guy go quiet before we were due to meet. Then a text to say he'd had an accident in work and had broken ribs and had to cancel. Hmmm.

He kept in touch, we met him about 6 weeks later and he was still a bit bruised. Accidents do happen.

Oh and it was a great meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not an excuse to meet but just to have a chat on phone. Asked if we could do a girl girl chat on phone just to confirm meet details and the excuse was from the guy was that his wife was on her period and could not answer the phone!!

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

The only time I have had to cancel is when I was working and got asked (told) to stay late to finish something of. I did call the meet straight away to say and explain the situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never cancelled a meet as single or couple but here are some I or we had.

Dog has a cold

Car broke down when I suggested train as we were next yo new street station they had broken both arms as well

Death in Family

Star Trek the Movie on telly

Got another meet can I come to you afterwards

Gone to wrong hotel

I don't think you want to meet

Wife can't make meet but I still can

I'm tired

Surprise birthday party

Cat gone missing

Cant find your house

Ran out petrol on way there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id agree if it had been true!

Like i said she was signing in and out of fab all the time she was supposedly being arrested and questioned! And not on a mobile device either!

Then she just disappeared when id asked what happened and how she was signing in and out.

Then left the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep making people ill, 3 and counting now. Seem perfectly fine when I message them the morning of the meet then an hour or so before they get struck down by some mystery illness!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry, can't make it, my last meet left me handcuffed to the bed, and I'm having to text this with my feet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My dog rolled in fox poo I'm washing him tonight

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"My dog rolled in fox poo I'm washing him tonight "
you swine you told me you had stubbed your toe pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My dog rolled in fox poo I'm washing him tonight you swine you told me you had stubbed your toe pmsl x"

Lmfao xxxx

I did kicking the dog (that's a joke ok)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best excuse was off a ts/ cd who cancelled due to his period starting

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Best excuse was off a ts/ cd who cancelled due to his period starting"

Interesting choice of sex partner for a supposedly 'straight' guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Best excuse was off a ts/ cd who cancelled due to his period starting

Interesting choice of sex partner for a supposedly 'straight' guy

Indeed. Can't be safe

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By *ohndelMan over a year ago

Preston

And some of us actually keep to meets , yes we do exist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had two separate no shows,so not bad going I guess,but both were talking evening before, both had my mobile number,so no excuse. one had excuse the day after meet was meant to be, that he had done night shift and gone to sleep. little tip, dont arrange a meet day after finishing night shift

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I lost my balls, can't find them anywhere, have to rain check, sorry sweetheart I was really looking forward to seeing you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"user no longer on site.

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Have had this 5 times twice I've been on my why to a meet

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Being arrested seems a reasonable excuse!"

Don't think I want to meet a grown up who gets arrested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I agree queen

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

Went to meet a couple years ago before mobile phones he was on his own said his wife had just come on so she went back home he did not want to let us down so come on his own but she will be here next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being arrested seems a reasonable excuse!"

You'd think so except the Police don't allow you to use your phone while you're in custody - they make you switch it off.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *WcplCouple over a year ago

Tameside

"Sorry, my Wife has just found my Fab profile and I have some explaining to do"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am sure that has happened

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Never been let down last minute.. the time spent on online chat before I get to meeting tends to out the ones who aren't going to bother...

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS over a year ago

London

I hardly ever get stood up; my system of meeting and screening is almost totally fail and fool proof

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Screening is natural isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only once have I been let down last minute. ...He was stopped by the police and had his car impounded......I still don't know whether I would prefer that to be made up or the truth

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By *uestandpinkCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Some great ex uses eh.....some given...then the next day a veri goes up from the peeps who gave the excuse lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I text a guy the morning of the meet to confirm it, as I said I would, he said as he hadn't heard from me, he'd made other plans

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some great ex uses eh.....some given...then the next day a veri goes up from the peeps who gave the excuse lol"

Yup I've had that happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The gas board was digging up the payment and had blocked her car in

So she could not make it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One guy I've seen a few times can no longer meet me this summer because he's emigrated. It's certainly the most creative let down I've had.

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By *avebi48Man over a year ago

Lordswood

I had a meet arranged not long ago with a lovely lady at mine, then got some sort of allergic reaction to something I'd been working on so had to cancel

Not contagious but the anti-histamines pretty much knocked me out. At least it was a couple of days ahead of the meeting and she understood. I'd always confirm a meet and give as much notice as possible if something comes up, it's only fair to the person you're meeting. Things happen but sometimes the excuse just doesn't ring true... c'est la vie

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

She told me she had to go with her unicycling Brazilian boyfriend up the Amazon.

Crushed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have twice booked hotels in stoke and leeds.

First one said 'my boyfriend has found out cant come.

second one said she forgot!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your mum.

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