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... the ultimate test of if someone is 100% honest about their relationship status?
We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it was to meet on Valentines Day hahahaha |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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well that didn't take long for the white knight to appear.... is that a record???
seriously though... before my current job(s) saturday evenings were always awkward as i did finish until late... or had to work early on a sunday morning...
so bear in mind not everyone works the conventional mon-fri 9-5 lark.....
now i have my weekends back... it still feels strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my children on alternate weekends so that takes care of half my Friday and Saturday nights.
I've actually got them this week too.
Of my remaining free Saturdays I am occaisionally called upon to provide DJ services.
None of the above restrictions to my availability on a Saturday evening makes me any less single than I am - it just means that I have other things in my life demanding of my time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... the ultimate test of if someone is 100% honest about their relationship status?
We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it was to meet on Valentines Day hahahaha"
There are so many other things to do on a Saturday night .
As previously mentioned many guys have their kkids at the weekend .
Work commitments .
Night out with mates .
Oh and of course an evening with the wife / girlfriend may be part of the reason too
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"... the ultimate test of if someone is 100% honest about their relationship status?
We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it was to meet on Valentines Day hahahaha
There are so many other things to do on a Saturday night .
As previously mentioned many guys have their kkids at the weekend .
Work commitments .
Night out with mates .
Oh and of course an evening with the wife / girlfriend may be part of the reason too
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nope when not working normally free unless prearraged social with not so deviant friend.
I find spontaneose is a no go fir anytime in weekend, unless you planned something in advance forget it.
Also have to remember weekends are normally premium days for being with family or catching up with old buddies....... Or just crashing out exhausted... |
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"well that didn't take long for the white knight to appear.... is that a record???
seriously though... before my current job(s) saturday evenings were always awkward as i did finish until late... or had to work early on a sunday morning...
so bear in mind not everyone works the conventional mon-fri 9-5 lark.....
now i have my weekends back... it still feels strange"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always found a Saturday night out at a club such as Partners was always a great evening!
I was always pleased at how busy the place was with such a good cross section of folks. |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"... the ultimate test of if someone is 100% honest about their relationship status?
We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it was to meet on Valentines Day hahahaha"
I don't know about anyone else but my Saturdays are taken up with access to my daughter. She comes over nearly every weekend and stays over at my place. yes, it's sounding like an excuse but I love seeing her.
Had to fight long and hard for this so swingin now takes a back seat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I expect a lot of single guys with kids have them at the weekends too.
Nearly every single dad I know has their kids of a weekend. "
This
I'm only free really at weekends...  |
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Saturday nights can be difficult because all the club nights are couples or single women!
I've had problems trying to meet on a Saturday night so it's not like there's loads of women and couples unable to meet because all the men can't come out!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my kids most weekends and as much as Id love to meet somebody nothing gets in the way of time with my kids , there are the odd free weekend though so , some people think I'm a timewaster because of this ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Helloooooooo!!
Still tapping the frecking screen...
I,m frreee
Saturday night...
Coooooeeeyyy!!"
Put a meet today up then and see what happens. You won't get a huge influx of offers from a forum thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saturdays are the boys night out nights. Fridays and week nights are popular but they tend to be tired after work and fall asleep. I like a Sunday evening meet because they were out the night before,have slept all day,woke up horny and full of life. Unless they had a really mad Saturday night. I do hate being squeezed in between work and friends but people have lives. |
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"Helloooooooo!!
Still tapping the frecking screen...
I,m frreee
Saturday night...
Coooooeeeyyy!!
Put a meet today up then and see what happens. You won't get a huge influx of offers from a forum thread. "
oh dear, believe it or not I used live near Stoke.... Tunstall area many years ago..creepy I know considering above inputt lol..
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
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We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it was to meet on Valentines Day hahahaha"
Maybe you could change to another evening if you are really that interested?
And I agree about Valentines Day. Loads of couples were not available to meet on that day either funnily enough. Damned inconsiderate of them because I was available so they should have been too. |
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"... the ultimate test of if someone is 100% honest about their relationship status?
We find it incredibly hard to get guys to meet on saturday evenings. It's a great evening for us, but boy, it's hard work. Surely with free reign as to future dates, guys could manage it if they were really that interested?
And don't even ask about how hard it
was to meet on Valentines Day
hahahaha"
I had to turn an mmf down tonight.....Saturday  we have guests over. |
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Although I'm a single guy, I do have a life away from swinging. I think that some couples think that us single guys just sit at home all day with our cock in our hands 
Most birthday nights out, weddings, family functions, stag dos, piss ups etc. etc. are on a Saturday evening so for me having lots of Saturdays free is unfortunately rare |
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"Although I'm a single guy, I do have a life away from swinging. I think that some couples think that us single guys just sit at home all day with our cock in our hands
Most birthday nights out, weddings, family functions, stag dos, piss ups etc. etc. are on a Saturday evening so for me having lots of Saturdays free is unfortunately rare"
This is interesting as what you are basically saying is that for you swinging is a thing to be put after other social events. For many people - us included, it's equal.
So, if your view is that a piss up is better than an evening swinging...
well, it doesn't make you look too good does it? it makes it sound like you think swinging is something you'll bother to do only when you have nothing better on offer. |
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I disagree
Swinging is fun. Sex is fun! But my family and friends matter to me more than swinging does. I don't think that makes me look bad. It's a matter of prioritising.
As I get older, I don't get to see my friends as much as I'd like to, so if I have a choice of seeing them and the only day they are free is on a Saturday, then that's what I'm more likely to do.
It does mean that swinging has to take a back seat sometimes, but that's the way it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although I'm a single guy, I do have a life away from swinging. I think that some couples think that us single guys just sit at home all day with our cock in our hands
Most birthday nights out, weddings, family functions, stag dos, piss ups etc. etc. are on a Saturday evening so for me having lots of Saturdays free is unfortunately rare
This is interesting as what you are basically saying is that for you swinging is a thing to be put after other social events. For many people - us included, it's equal.
So, if your view is that a piss up is better than an evening swinging...
well, it doesn't make you look too good does it? it makes it sound like you think swinging is something you'll bother to do only when you have nothing better on offer."
Why does that make him look bad? You're a couple, and if you have friends in the scene then by swinging you're spending time with your friends and partner. A single person whose friends aren't in the scene is in a different position. A piss up with friends, what's so bad about that? Plenty of people prioritise other aspects of their lives above swinging (family, work, children, sporting hobbies), why on earth should they be criticised for that?  |
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