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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can and are expected to report them for being a no show.
However, not sure if that is just when they give no reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's why I only meet local people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over "
I feel your pain I have had the same sort of thing on a few occasions!! I agree to reporting them for sure but like others i doubt this has any impact on a cpl when a single guy complains!! we are like second class citizens in swinging!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bloody hell id never drive for an hour for a meet !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very bad form on their part. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Just settle for creating a voodoo doll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see the point in reporting, what will it actually achieve? |
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I'm self employed and left half a day free from work to meet a couple i'd chatted to for 3 weeks, then on the day of meet, they blocked me ! Learn from our mistakes is the lesson to be learned ! .... timewasters are definitely not just male ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe im just been devils advocate but this cpl could of had a row , unexpected childcare issues or as usual with cpls one wants it more than the other and wouldnt do as hubby says |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well they blocked now lol and still online but what is the point in reporting them makes you fume tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't do anything special to meet anyone off here. too many twats who wouldn't think twice about letting you down.
Reporting a no show makes no difference. The bitch who no showed for me was still on here after |
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"Just settle for creating a voodoo doll "
good idea |
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By *ung hiMan
over a year ago
Northwest |
Well it shows who's not Genuine on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reporting them makes me laugh !
What do we expect admin to do ? Lol
All u can do is learn a lesson for next time .
And dont travel that far again either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reporting them makes me laugh !
What do we expect admin to do ? Lol
All u can do is learn a lesson for next time .
And dont travel that far again either"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was rude of them not to cancel or give notice before you arrived or started out on your journey, however, shit does happen in people's lives! Just block, learn from the experience and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to bloody true m8 |
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"I don't see the point in reporting, what will it actually achieve?"
Especially when they are actually verified. You cant call them not genuine too. |
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By *ob3842Man
over a year ago
North Tyneside |
Happens a lot, I did not realise you report that?
What actually happens? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reporting them makes me laugh !
What do we expect admin to do ? Lol
All u can do is learn a lesson for next time .
And dont travel that far again either" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over "
If there brother had turned up unexpectedly what were they supposed to do? Say "Sorry you've got to go there's a bloke we met on the Internet coming round to fuck me"
Sometimes real life gets in the way. |
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Reporting them to admin is a joke nothing is done. I reported a woman for trying to sell sex guess what shes still here. But if you name and shame you get warning think the site is just after the money and an easy time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see the point in reporting, what will it actually achieve?"
i think if they do it all the time they can be removed - or something - not sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe im just been devils advocate but this cpl could of had a row , unexpected childcare issues or as usual with cpls one wants it more than the other and wouldnt do as hubby says"
Doesn't make it any more acceptable. Children aside as they are priority of course |
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What exactly does happen if you report someone? Do they get a message from admin, or a timeout? Does it depend on why they're being reported? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I only meet local people "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over
If there brother had turned up unexpectedly what were they supposed to do? Say "Sorry you've got to go there's a bloke we met on the Internet coming round to fuck me"
Sometimes real life gets in the way. "
lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've reported , nothing has happened x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first ever meet was a complete fake! Even gave us wrong address |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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went to meet a guy,about an hours drive away,almost there so text him for final directions,he texted back saying he was on his way to london,had an urgent job to go on,no worries,went on to a daytime venue instead.... |
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over
If there brother had turned up unexpectedly what were they supposed to do? Say "Sorry you've got to go there's a bloke we met on the Internet coming round to fuck me"
Sometimes real life gets in the way. "
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They can always send a message to cancel.
If effort can be put to arrange a meet, why can't they message to cancel; out of courtesy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell wouldnt drive an hour to meet anyone some people are too trusting of others and what did you actually do to prevent it happening, did you phone or mail them before setting off, if they didnt respond id never have gone to meet them sometimes i do think people become blikered and reckless at the prospect of having a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Messaged leaving now response ok see you soon then got there first message we asked another lad to come you ok with that said yes then the message about the brother ask me its a piss take but hey ho so from now on with cpls talk on phone to woman im afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaged leaving now response ok see you soon then got there first message we asked another lad to come you ok with that said yes then the message about the brother ask me its a piss take but hey ho so from now on with cpls talk on phone to woman im afraid "
i always talk to both people at the same time if meeting couples and a cam chat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I only meet local people
This"
Absolutely right |
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always phon e m mobile number iff they don't want to chat no meet best way there gen then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it shows who's not Genuine on here..."
Just because they were no longer interested doesn't mean they are not genuine, people have the right to change their minds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So they'd asked another guy too but didn't check with you if you were ok with that until you'd actually arrived.
Ok, so you didn't have a problem with it, but what if the other guy did?
What if he had already arrived?
Could be why the 'brother' excuse then materialised.
Truth is you're never going to know exactly what was going on with them, but unfortnately have found out that this particular couple are unreliable and likely to mess people about.
Report and block as you have done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha "
What's the actual point in doing that? Nothing, just being an arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha
What's the actual point in doing that? Nothing, just being an arse"
Set one up an mess you about haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it shows who's not Genuine on here...
Just because they were no longer interested doesn't mean they are not genuine, people have the right to change their minds"
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha "
makes mental note |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get ur own back hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet locally, around 20 mins of my place and always meet socially first, usually in my break at work for a quick coffee. I've learnt over the years of being on and off here not to go out of your way or change any plans for a meet as there is a chance you'll be let down. My approach works well for me but sorry to hear you were let down OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over
If there brother had turned up unexpectedly what were they supposed to do? Say "Sorry you've got to go there's a bloke we met on the Internet coming round to fuck me"
Sometimes real life gets in the way.
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They can always send a message to cancel.
If effort can be put to arrange a meet, why can't they message to cancel; out of courtesy.
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i agree, there is not excuse for not sending a message to cancel over something like a family member turning, it's just basic manners |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"Just settle for creating a voodoo doll "
no point in that haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's sad when this happens. I've heard it happen to a couple of friends recently too. Not men or couples but women seem to do this as well.
Always go for a social first but maybe just don't travel that far! Shame it's happened but block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha
What's the actual point in doing that? Nothing, just being an arse
Set one up an mess you about haha "
Absolute waste of time and no point at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set a up a fake profile and arrange to meet her an stand her up haha
What's the actual point in doing that? Nothing, just being an arse
Set one up an mess you about haha
Absolute waste of time and no point at all"
Awww why not? It will be fun ,I'll arrange to meet you and not turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I only meet local people "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two simple words...
Move on.
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"Shame you cant name and shame just drove an hr for a meet got there then got told oh my brother here now he d*unk and excuse after excuse and it was a cpl so it not just single guys sorry rant over
If there brother had turned up unexpectedly what were they supposed to do? Say "Sorry you've got to go there's a bloke we met on the Internet coming round to fuck me"
Sometimes real life gets in the way.
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They can always send a message to cancel.
If effort can be put to arrange a meet, why can't they message to cancel; out of courtesy.
i agree, there is not excuse for not sending a message to cancel over something like a family member turning, it's just basic manners "
I think the point they were trying to make is, what if the brother had turned up like 5 mins before the op had arrived, full of intention to meet but something got in the way and no time to message, im not saying thats what happened but it is a possibility. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"What exactly does happen if you report someone? Do they get a message from admin, or a timeout? Does it depend on why they're being reported? "
Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.****** |
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