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over a year ago
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I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is |
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Its more common than you think. I don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex. That's just a bonus if it happens, which is rare for me.
The feelings I get from sex can be amazing regardless. There doesn't have to be a finale. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for me it depends on meeting the right person, some men are good with their fingers or at giving oral, if they aren't though it doesn't matter because they are better at fucking.
its nice if they make me cum with their finger or tongue but no big deal if they don't because I use my rabbit vibrator. I don't decide to meet someone again because they made me cum its other things as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its more common than you think. I don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex. That's just a bonus if it happens, which is rare for me.
The feelings I get from sex can be amazing regardless. There doesn't have to be a finale. x"
Same here for me. Just love feeling a cock inside of me and that's what i really crave from sex.
I don't usually have a problem cumming though, but when i don't cum i'm not fussed. |
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"I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is"
I have NEVER came with sex but i LOVE it |
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"So it's about finding the right place in your head, no distractions feeling safe and cared for, comfortable "
Eh not sure. I'm a bit of a control freak. Sometimes I'm nearly there and i think "if i could just do it myself " and that just kills it. My last playdate was my first time to be blindfolded and restrained and that was seriously erotic. I felt very comfortable and safe with my playmate. Nearly didn't want to leave  Thinking i want to try this again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely cum when playing without having to do it myself. I can gush but it's not the same thing. Maybe i just overthink it sometimes.
Exactly the same  "
AND HERE!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is a mental thing for me. Free my mind and my ass will follow. Unfortunately, too many people go straight for the physical side and so I tend not to cum. I can still enjoy the experience but can find it lacking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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id never had an amazing orgasm til i was in my 40s - but never knowing that and having what i thought was ok sex i never knew what i was missing - but now WOW !!! - just trying to say if youve never had you never miss unless you feel there is more and its frustrating you - but then often the more i come the more i want - which is as frustrating ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have never reached orgasm through penetration alone but that doesn't bother me at all. I blame having played with vibes for quite some time "
I've known this with quite a few women, some times it's all about the clit.
Others it is all about letting go.
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"I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is"
It's all about the journey, if you never reach the destination if the route you're taking is breathtaking what's the problem?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So it's about finding the right place in your head, no distractions feeling safe and cared for, comfortable
i cant even get there with my partner xx  "
you ever showed anyone else how you do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only had my first orgasm from penetration last week. I can cum from having my clit rubbed and sucked but I just like the feeling of having a cock buried deep inside me x |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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They always say that the brain is the most sensitive sex organ - and if my mind is in the right place I can orgasm several times in a session with one or more men either by fucking or through oral. While I really enjoy cumming, I still enjoy the sex even when I don't. A win win situation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is
It's all about the journey, if you never reach the destination if the route you're taking is breathtaking what's the problem? "
I've never had a meet where the bloke didn't cum at least once! Gets to feel a little unfair after a while  |
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"I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is
It's all about the journey, if you never reach the destination if the route you're taking is breathtaking what's the problem?
I've never had a meet where the bloke didn't cum at least once! Gets to feel a little unfair after a while "
It doesn't bother me but I can see how you might feel that way. Is it something they're not doing or another reason? |
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By *ebenhamCouple
over a year ago
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"id never had an amazing orgasm til i was in my 40s - but never knowing that and having what i thought was ok sex i never knew what i was missing - but now WOW !!! - just trying to say if youve never had you never miss unless you feel there is more and its frustrating you - but then often the more i come the more i want - which is as frustrating ??"
Same here - didn't have my first orgasm until a couple of years ago, and it had never bothered me as I didn't know what I was missing. Even now I only come through oral - not yet achieved it through penetration, but I still love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its more common than you think. I don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex. That's just a bonus if it happens, which is rare for me.
The feelings I get from sex can be amazing regardless. There doesn't have to be a finale. x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've known, several women in my time, that were unble to reach orgasm.
Some of these ladies even had a hard time climaxing when they played alone.
Apparently they still enjoyed and felt fuilled by sex.
They often felt like they where the only ones like this.
I am wondering how common this is
It's all about the journey, if you never reach the destination if the route you're taking is breathtaking what's the problem?
I've never had a meet where the bloke didn't cum at least once! Gets to feel a little unfair after a while "
Actually some times I dont cum, I get so wrapped up in trying to please a lady that I kinda turn it off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I rarely cum when playing without having to do it myself. I can gush but it's not the same thing. Maybe i just overthink it sometimes. "
Same here! I don't always gush either, but still love sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its more common than you think. I don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex. That's just a bonus if it happens, which is rare for me.
The feelings I get from sex can be amazing regardless. There doesn't have to be a finale. x"
thats the attitude lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm one unhappy camper if a man can't make me orgasm. I feel very disappointed if I don't cum during sex, which thankfully isn't often! They always cum so why shouldn't I #equalrights  |
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