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is it a big deal here if you dont publishnyour verifications
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me. I don't really pay that much attention to what they say, and I don't show mine because people are nosy bastards and it's none of their business who I have sex with.
I quite like to see the summary though, so I can see if it's 5 verifications by meets recently or 1 by cam 6 years ago, but generally try to make my own mind up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always getting agro for not showing them. Personally I think they're a bit cringe and over rated.
If I had a pound for everytime I saw "he had the most suckable cock" and "not to be missed" I'd be a billionaire  |
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"To some? Yes.
To others? No.
Do your own thing as you'll never please everyone and trying to do so is pointless.
A"
Ppl get very offened and I have lost contact with ppl cos i choose not to splash my private life on mine and more specifically other peoples pages. I see veris as just confirmation that you are who u say u are and you can hold a convo. Anything other than that and your dealing with conjecture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get lots of messages saying do you ever meet ! Just cos we don't feel the need to plaster our sex life all over the Internet Doesn't mean we don't have one looses lol xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me not to see verifications, i think some are quite personal or crude and know the person might not want to show them.
I'm always suspicious about people who don't show the summary, i often think they're having a relationship with someone on here and don't want them to know they've met recently? Although after hearing about some of the drama on here i can understand why they do that as well. I don't get any drama so left mine up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only ever display my last one, the rest stay hidden...hasn't seemed to affect me in here.
Personally not that fussed about reading them either.
I do display my summary though just to show I turn up for meets etc....that's the only purpose they serve to me....to know that someone is reliable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris can sometimes kill my opinion of someone, if I'm chatting and they seem quite articulate etc. Then I read a veri saying
"don't miss out on this one lads".. I just think eww,
Each time I've left fab I've left my veris behind..really good veris too but they mean nothing, I'd rather use instinct but if you need to read a re_iew before the book then they may help some.
I prefer to pick a book up and start reading.)) |
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We show some of ours - a mix of socials, meets and some that are just about me. I think it shows we stick to arrangements, are friendly and fun, and not timewasters.
When looking at other profiles, I like to know that some veris are recent so they are definitely meeting, and it's people we would get on with.
But ultimately we make up our own mind. I don't mind meeting unverified people for a social, we all have to start somewhere. |
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It doesn't matter to me either way, show them or not it is your choice.
As I only play in clubs, if I met you there I would assume that you are 'genuine', I wouldn't ask for your fab name to check your veris before dragging you off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know and don't care really, we just do our own thing and decided that we love going out to clubs, fundamentally for our own amusement. So our adventures are not dictated or influenced by others interest/or not in us by either our profile or verifications. However, it is nice when nice people leave us a nice verification... it is our personal feelings that count not those that may or may not _iew them....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple once chastised me because I admitted I don't publish every verification. I asked them if they gave each other a veri and published it after every time they had sex together - they said course not! I then pointed out that I don't use dating sites etc, so the only time I ever have sex is with people from fab - and I'm darned if i'm going to publish a breakdown of who I had sex with, where it was, when it was, and exactly what we did - every time I have sex! My sex life is my business, whether on fab or off it, and like everyone else I have the right to show or hide veris at will!
( Climbs down off soap box!  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some people it's a massive deal if you don't show them as they think you're hiding something awful
Just do what you're comfortable with,it's your profile and your fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No big deal at all, up to the person as its their profile. I've always seen them as a way of saying they are who they say they are and prefer to make my own mind up about someone, not go on what a total stranger who lets face it, probably doesn't know them that well, says about them. Some are just too graphic for me anyway! |
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