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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone tell me what the point of this is,
At least when you send someone a message and you know they have read it and not replied you now know they are not interested
Maybe I'm missing something here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone gets say, 50 plus messages, reads them all and then decides to mark as unread the one or two they're interested in replying to at a later date and deletes all the others. |
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I use it on my couples profile, if I have read the message but hubby hasn't yet. It saves the sender from getting shirty if they see that the message has been read but we 'haven't bothered to reply' to the message for a few hours.
Some messages need to be read by both before we can give an honest reply. |
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"I use it on my couples profile, if I have read the message but hubby hasn't yet. It saves the sender from getting shirty if they see that the message has been read but we 'haven't bothered to reply' to the message for a few hours.
Some messages need to be read by both before we can give an honest reply."
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"I use it on my couples profile, if I have read the message but hubby hasn't yet. It saves the sender from getting shirty if they see that the message has been read but we 'haven't bothered to reply' to the message for a few hours.
Some messages need to be read by both before we can give an honest reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone gets say, 50 plus messages, reads them all and then decides to mark as unread the one or two they're interested in replying to at a later date and deletes all the others. "
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"I use it on my couples profile, if I have read the message but hubby hasn't yet. It saves the sender from getting shirty if they see that the message has been read but we 'haven't bothered to reply' to the message for a few hours.
Some messages need to be read by both before we can give an honest reply."
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Just found this thread. None of this explains why people constantly leave messages 'unread' for days on end, during which time they log in 2 or 3 times a day. If they just delete fine, though slightly rude, but to leave 'unread' for days (our record was 3 weeks!) makes no sense at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just found this thread. None of this explains why people constantly leave messages 'unread' for days on end, during which time they log in 2 or 3 times a day. If they just delete fine, though slightly rude, but to leave 'unread' for days (our record was 3 weeks!) makes no sense at all."
I think you need to read the FAQ's. No reply means not interested and is not rude.
I often delete messages unread. Oneliners, cock pic avatars, those who haven't read my profile and by checking their profile before even looking at the message I can tell if someone doesn't meet my prefrrences. Makes total sense to me and I know many others who do this. |
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I think you misunderstand. My main point is not about people not replying but about people who leave messages unread for days on end - in fact of course they have read it and then marked it as unread. What's the point in this? Why not just delete?
On not replying of course it does depend on your own point of view and values as to whether this is rude or not... unless it's something downright horrible, how long does it take to say 'non merci'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you misunderstand. My main point is not about people not replying but about people who leave messages unread for days on end - in fact of course they have read it and then marked it as unread. What's the point in this? Why not just delete?
On not replying of course it does depend on your own point of view and values as to whether this is rude or not... unless it's something downright horrible, how long does it take to say 'non merci'?"
Probably as long as 'your fucking ugly/well fuck off/hope u die' which have been the sort of reply I have received lately ehen ive said no thanks
Maybe people do it to avoid abuse. I dont know but for what ever reason they do.
No reply is not rude. Values don't come into it as that is implying those that reply are more 'polite' than those that ignore.
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I use it on my couples profile, if I have read the message but hubby hasn't yet. It saves the sender from getting shirty if they see that the message has been read but we 'haven't bothered to reply' to the message for a few hours.
Some messages need to be read by both before we can give an honest reply.
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