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By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago
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So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like. 
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion. "
E, forgot and nothing sinister! |
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Likewise, I always take a selection,
and if hosting a party I make sure there is a selection on either side of the play bed plus some in the spare room, but I also tell guests to bring their own favourite brand/size as well |
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion.
Hhhhmmmmm how could you forget though that would be like a plumber turning up without his tools
E, forgot and nothing sinister!"
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion.
E, forgot and nothing sinister!"
Don't see how you could "forget"! |
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion. "
I guess I'm still a bit naive, if I agree to meet socially, I wouldn't have any expectations of it going further. That said, experience has taught me over time that, if we hit it off, which is nearly allways the case, we end up having sex, so I'm always prepared, condoms stashed in my wallet, pockets, car lol. Point is, my initial assumption would be just a chat and coffee/drink. If it happens, more the better.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hhhhmmmmm how could you forget though that would be like a plumber turning up without his tools "
Quite easily I know I have countless times, thankfully I remember in time to go to a shop and buy some sadly usually ones I don't like.
Not everything is for a sinister reason |
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By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago
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I guess I'm still a bit naive, if I agree to meet socially, I wouldn't have any expectations of it going further. That said, experience has taught me over time that, if we hit it off, which is nearly allways the case, we end up having sex, so I'm always prepared, condoms stashed in my wallet, pockets, car lol. Point is, my initial assumption would be just a chat and coffee/drink. If it happens, more the better. "
Oh i would never expect to play but there is always the hope that if we click it could be a possibility. If that's the case i wouldnt like to waste the opportunity. Must have been a girl Scout in a former life "Be prepared -dib dib dib"  |
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E, forgot and nothing sinister!
A guy could forget??? Really??
Obviously not that interested if you forget.  "
I forget lots of important things all the time. Doesn't mean im not interested in the thing I need them to do. Excitement, nerves, absent mindedness all play a part.
I forget my stuff for work all the time much to my managers annoyance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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E, forgot and nothing sinister!
A guy could forget??? Really??
Obviously not that interested if you forget. "
Firstly we seldom do meets only clubs. We don't really carry around a clutch bag that we use for toys, condoms and lube. I usually pick condoms up and put them in my pocket before we leave. Annoyingly I sometimes forget sometimes the other half reminds me. I've never done it for the reasons the OP stated! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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F - no idea, because I always bring my own anyway (except when I forget, and if I can forget, I'm sure a bloke can easily forget).
But then I have sex with people I've decided I like, so I don't have to go reading sinister ulterior motives into minor things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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E, forgot and nothing sinister!
A guy could forget??? Really??
Obviously not that interested if you forget.
I forget lots of important things all the time. Doesn't mean im not interested in the thing I need them to do. Excitement, nerves, absent mindedness all play a part.
I forget my stuff for work all the time much to my managers annoyance. "
Thank you so I'm not the only person on this site who forgets things |
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we always supply the condoms , as we prefer certain brands to others ......our health is our own responcibility , and lets be honest does it matter who brings them as long as you have some (and you get them by the bucket load at the gum clinic lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never had a guy forget to bring condoms but if he did it wouldn't be a problem as I normally have some anyway. If I had a brand preference then I wouldn't expect the guy to provide them at all. I really don't think I'd make a big issue out of it unless he refused to wear one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once people have them and use them is the most important part to this post. No glove no love.
Can I ask what people preference are on condoms are ? Just to be better prepared |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion.
E, forgot and nothing sinister!"
F, didn't bring any because the only place he went to only had packs of 15s and not 4s.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Skins are the best imo
I never leave it chance and I always pop one in my bra prior to a meet then when you get to THAT moment you don't have to stop and reach for the shag bag and the passions don't simper...though a surprised and dissapointed man face does occur at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember at one of my socials i went to the bar for a couple of drinks,as i pulled the money out of my wallet some condoms came out too. I just casually put them in and carried on as if nothing happened, was great night after the drinks thou |
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By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago
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"F. assumption
that you'll have some if your insisting on playing safe"
I do bring my own as I said initially . I've had guys show up on occasion with each of the above assumptions made.
I just think if I'm prepared a guy should be too. Don't expect a guy to do something I'm not willing to do myself. That's just me.
As for buying my preferred brand, cheeky i know but sure if he offers why not tell him?
Love Monday morning discussions
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion.
I guess I'm still a bit naive, if I agree to meet socially, I wouldn't have any expectations of it going further. That said, experience has taught me over time that, if we hit it off, which is nearly allways the case, we end up having sex, so I'm always prepared, condoms stashed in my wallet, pockets, car lol. Point is, my initial assumption would be just a chat and coffee/drink. If it happens, more the better. "
 I am always prepared and have been able to supply others occasionally |
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E, forgot and nothing sinister!
A guy could forget??? Really??
Obviously not that interested if you forget. "
One of my regular meets, on about our 5th, once left his on his side at home and forgot to pick them up only realised once he turned up at mine, so gave me a quick knock to let me know he was just popping to shops and would be back asap, he didnt need to though as i always have a good stash. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been to meets where the host prefers to use condoms supplied by them which is understandable but still no reason for a bloke not to take any! "
Makes sense who knows if the condoms are good to start with or maybe tampered with or lastly in date. |
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion.
E, forgot and nothing sinister!
Don't see how you could "forget"!"
I always forget things I shouldn't..I can easily see mw turning up and think "oops,I knew there was something I was meant to bring!" |
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I bring them to socials to be honest!
You never know what's going to happen
And I don't ask about specific types just bring what I have, if the lady wants a very specific type and doesn't say in advance if expect her to have them otherwise mine will have to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So whilst chatting with a friend regarding condoms the following thought crossed my mind:
Why do guys show up to meets without them?
I can only guess the following reasons a guy doesn't come prepared - he can only be assuming one of 4 things:
A. We're not going to play. (what guy is going to assume that!!!!)
B. I'll bring them (now that's just lazy, if he wants to stick his cock in me he should be prepared)
C. He's looking for a quick blow job (wishful thinking)
D. He's hoping for bareback ( and that's not gonna happen!!!)
I generally come prepared but if he's going to buy them i have a preference so he might as well buy the ones i like.
Monday morning discussion. "
Why is it the guys job to bring condons
If you also don't have him then all your above points apply to you as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Surely a lot of people drive to a meet so why don't they have a few put away in the car just to be sure of not forgetting them. At least then it's just a quick pop to the car to get them |
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"Surely a lot of people drive to a meet so why don't they have a few put away in the car just to be sure of not forgetting them. At least then it's just a quick pop to the car to get them "
Incase the mrs finds them in the glove box and asks awkward questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always bring the condoms that suit me the best, I also semi open them so that the moment is not ruined by fumbling about trying to open them.
No bareback for me thank you !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we always supply the condoms , as we prefer certain brands to others ......our health is our own responcibility , and lets be honest does it matter who brings them as long as you have some (and you get them by the bucket load at the gum clinic lol)"
I take my own as they are the right size for me. We can all be forgetful when we are nervous and excited, but I have found that if I keep a few in the car, I am never without. Likewise, if you have a preference say for latex free or a particular brand, have those available. |
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By *lirtyjj OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why is it the guys job to bring condons
If you also don't have him then all your above points apply to you as well"
Didn't say it was solely his job just think if I'm prepared a guy should be too. If he is expecting to stick it in then he should expect to cover up and have the necessary tools to do so. Same goes for me |
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I have a bag that contains regular and XL condoms, lube, a few dams, baby wipes, a rubbish bag and a couple of toys.
I should probably get some latex free condoms too, just in case someone tries that old chestnut |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"I have a bag that contains regular and XL condoms, lube, a few dams, baby wipes, a rubbish bag and a couple of toys.
I should probably get some latex free condoms too, just in case someone tries that old chestnut "
Shovel, flask, warm blanket and a warning triangle too? |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"I have a bag that contains regular and XL condoms, lube, a few dams, baby wipes, a rubbish bag and a couple of toys.
I should probably get some latex free condoms too, just in case someone tries that old chestnut "
Shovel, flask, warm blanket and a warning triangle too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have my own stash with me the only person who is going to properly look out for my sexual health is me so i am always prepared.
If the guy wants a certain brand etc then he had better bring some or he can just turn right back around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are worried about expiry dates, you arent getting enough
We have had several meets where the bloke (despite reminders) "forgets" or "the shop didn't have any"
No problem , we have a box of extra safe ones....
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