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what do i say?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

looking for help here, basically i cant seem to find a meet or actually get any replies, what am i doing wrong.

I have a face pic i send with msgs, and i always send a polite message, always mention something from the profile to show i actually read it, anyone got any pointers of how to actually get a reply or meet. Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since you asked.

Get rid of the cock pics, and replace with some body pics, bums, torsos etc...

And replace your avatar with a body type pic.

Cock pics put most people off, especially if they get one in their first unsolicated message from you.

Be a bit more discerning, liking all girl type reads desparate IMHO.

Hope this helps!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And try and explain why you cannot accommodate, as a lot of peeps associate the inability to accommodate with gents playing away from home etc...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah your profile is just full of cock shots which an increasing number of people are getting sick of. As mentioned above face is most important and other body/torso pics.

Just remember that women are generally not obsessed with cocks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have you'll meet any age group but are you messaging people who DO have an age preference?

Most of us find it icky the thought of playing with people the same age as our kids: just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks guys, i will change a few pics, i dont really want my face public, but always send it in a messege, and cant accomodate as share a house, maybe i will put that on my profile.

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By *ollie_JCouple over a year ago

London

And if you must have a cock shot i would give the old fella a haircut

And if you want to meet couples hen you may want to change the profile as at the moment it purely mentions girl type rather than other situations

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so i have updated my profile, feel free to give me any other pointers.

Will sort the pics tonight.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You still have looking for everything in your profile!!!

Apart from the pics, it looks better than it did before, well done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

whoops, i meant to remove that.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get rid of the cock pics! Are those really pics of a cock WITH A RULER????? Girls are not obsessed with cock size!

If you don't want to use face pic, then nice torse or bum pics are far better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you must have a cock shot i would give the old fella a haircut

i have to admit i was thinking that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if you must have a cock shot i would give the old fella a haircut

i have to admit i was thinking that too

To be honest, I did not look that closely, I just went, oh no, full of cock pics, and got out of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll probably be shot down in flames for mentioning this,,,, But,,,,,,,, your profile states you are Straight,,,,, and yet indicate you would like to meet TV’s…. Ehem,….. I think most people would agree anyone seeking for cock in a frock slightly contradicts a claim of being Straight,,,, taking this in conjunction with your willingness to try anything … perhaps Bi-curious might seem a more appropriate option ,, or maybe I’m just being over analytical …anyway … Its just something I thought to mention …. Not important really…. Hey, each too their own….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh..... and Yeppers.....deffo give it hair-cut...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll probably be shot down in flames for mentioning this,,,, But,,,,,,,, your profile states you are Straight,,,,, and yet indicate you would like to meet TV’s…. Ehem,….. I think most people would agree anyone seeking for cock in a frock slightly contradicts a claim of being Straight,,,, taking this in conjunction with your willingness to try anything … perhaps Bi-curious might seem a more appropriate option ,, or maybe I’m just being over analytical …anyway … Its just something I thought to mention …. Not important really…. Hey, each too their own….

I agree especially as his profile states he's seeking to play with the male too!

I have to agree pictures of your cock with a ruler is up there with the Sky remote and Lynx can: off putting!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

profile full of cock pics and I reach for the block button I am straight, I dont want to be confronted by a cock when I click on a profile and neither does Sasha though she at least finds them good to replace her lollipop fetish.

If the cock pic is in the avatar then I won't even look at the profile because I know whats in-store for me.

The watersports puts us off people but if thats your thing it is good that your honest and upfront about it.

My best advice would be to take a look at the other single guys profiles, see who is successfull and perhaps you can work out why or how thier approach/profile differs from yours.

You have taken the first steps in the right direction - ask and learn, put yourself in the position of those you want to meet and try to work out what you would like to see in the profile of someone contacting you and what you would like to know about them.

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By *ensualfire88Man over a year ago

Edinburgh

You'll take someone eye out with that!

And the brown leather chair HAS to go.

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

keep your pics and sell your self a bit more need a verification there on your profile

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