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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok question, I've read a lot of profiles on here and the majority of the couples on here say that swinging is an enhancement to their sex life.
Was wondering if swinging was to cease existance tomorrow how would most people cope, would you just shrug and be fine about it on or would some of you really struggle if you were not getting anymore meets.
I thought of this at half 1 this morning.
Personally I'd be fine, dont get any meets anyway lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play with single gents, and can find them here and everywhere! 
I don't like going to vanilla clubs and bars on my own, however, I don't have reservations about going to swingers clubs and socials on my own.
I am confident that I would still be able to find suitable gents for NSA fun outside the so-called swinging lifestyle.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be devastated here, we would still have a large list of friends that we met in the scene obviously, many of whom we rarely or never play with but would have to re-think our social life.
As for sex, wouldn't bother us in the least, we only play every 2 or 3 months anyway and rarely get compatible people interested in meeting us so would hardly notice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I probably didn't phrase it very well, just really interested in how reliant people are on swinging, if you'd be able to cope if you didn't get any more meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daft Q ....
Sex goes on ..... it's not dependent on swinging.
I'd use another meeting site ...sheesh ......or just accept vanilla invites - they can be hotter than some of the meets obtained through swinging sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can go months no meets get the offers just have lots on in my life at times swinging has to fit around my family and horses ... so when i do its lovely as dont do it loads .. its now and again. That way never gets boring x jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So turn the question around a bit and ask couples..
Can you survive having sex with only your partner for the rest of your life?"
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I do not believe I can have just one sexual partner for the rest of my life anymore!
Variety is the spice of life IMHO!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had years just john was very good still is ..... But i love this feeling swinging gives me of being free to do as i like ... we are open about it all and very happy. Dont think i would be married over 20 years happy if not for swinging........ it spice up our lifes now and again . jo xx |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Naughty same for me too.
It would be terrible for me as dont go to normal clubs or pubs alone. Actually dont feel comfy going to cinema or anything alone really. I am comfy going to a swing club alone tho.
It would be terrible for me as would get no sex and really have to learn to search for it in the pubs and normal clubs which I dislike.
Also the thought of not having the female touch again would be awful.
My sex life would stop
Would be terribly frustrated more so than I get now
God nooooo.
Not good thoughts.
Have also had a life with sex with one man and dont think I would be able to do that(well maybe not sure how) and no women touch,...no |
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