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Do you meet swinging couples for a regular night out?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all. We were thinking of putting a meet up in a couple of weeks to meet a couple for a regular night out with drinks dancing and a good laugh. The reason for this is we want to make some long term friends who we can have friendships with but also be able to openly talk about this lifestyle. Is this something you guys have tried? And did you form some great long term friendships? |
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"Hi all. We were thinking of putting a meet up in a couple of weeks to meet a couple for a regular night out with drinks dancing and a good laugh. The reason for this is we want to make some long term friends who we can have friendships with but also be able to openly talk about this lifestyle. Is this something you guys have tried? And did you form some great long term friendships?"
This is something we like to do but it isn't easy. It's great to meet and talk openly and we've found that organised socials are the best way to do it. |
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We assumed that this is the ultimate goal, good friends which we can socialise with and possibly enjoy each others company in more playful ways...
Have seen (but as yet not established) such couples and the way they interact and behave around each other, it looked so natural and just bloody awesome...
Does swinging only have to evolve around random sexual experiences with (relative) strangers? |
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"We assumed that this is the ultimate goal, good friends which we can socialise with and possibly enjoy each others company in more playful ways...
Have seen (but as yet not established) such couples and the way they interact and behave around each other, it looked so natural and just bloody awesome...
Does swinging only have to evolve around random sexual experiences with (relative) strangers?"
No it doesn't but finding a good dynamic four ways is difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes of course, guess it would kinda be like a polyamorous type of dynamic. Hard enough to keep one relationship on track lol
Nice to wish though..... lo,
May happen. Given the right circumstances and opportunities  |
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"Yes of course, guess it would kinda be like a polyamorous type of dynamic. Hard enough to keep one relationship on track lol
Nice to wish though..... lo,
May happen. Given the right circumstances and opportunities "
Yes it might happen.  .
We're a bit of an acquired taste so unlikely for us |
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"We assumed that this is the ultimate goal, good friends which we can socialise with and possibly enjoy each others company in more playful ways...
Have seen (but as yet not established) such couples and the way they interact and behave around each other, it looked so natural and just bloody awesome...
Does swinging only have to evolve around random sexual experiences with (relative) strangers?
No it doesn't but finding a good dynamic four ways is difficult."
Tottally agree as part of a couple on here in the past it was very difficult to find a four way dynamic that suited x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So are we lol... such is life. Nicer to ascertain face to face rather than via a website. The written word never seems to carry the same emotions/sentiments as getting passed together and having a giggle |
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"So are we lol... such is life. Nicer to ascertain face to face rather than via a website. The written word never seems to carry the same emotions/sentiments as getting passed together and having a giggle "
 mind you once acquired never forgotten.
We have had some great social evenings with couples, single men and in organised settings, its so nice to be able to say "I love being tied up" and have someone reply "so do I, pass the sugar". It's also great to be able to flirt with someone else's partner and their partner flirt with yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So are we lol... such is life. Nicer to ascertain face to face rather than via a website. The written word never seems to carry the same emotions/sentiments as getting passed together and having a giggle
mind you once acquired never forgotten.
We have had some great social evenings with couples, single men and in organised settings, its so nice to be able to say "I love being tied up" and have someone reply "so do I, pass the sugar". It's also great to be able to flirt with someone else's partner and their partner flirt with yours "
Exactly, that is I guess our ultimate goal. Just close friendships, not living in each others pockets mind you. Just people that we have learnt & they have learnt to be comfortable in each others company |
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"So are we lol... such is life. Nicer to ascertain face to face rather than via a website. The written word never seems to carry the same emotions/sentiments as getting passed together and having a giggle
mind you once acquired never forgotten.
We have had some great social evenings with couples, single men and in organised settings, its so nice to be able to say "I love being tied up" and have someone reply "so do I, pass the sugar". It's also great to be able to flirt with someone else's partner and their partner flirt with yours
Exactly, that is I guess our ultimate goal. Just close friendships, not living in each others pockets mind you. Just people that we have learnt & they have learnt to be comfortable in each others company "
It's a rare thing and there's a fine line to tread. |
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"I'd love to as well, but often the dynamic of a single female friend for a couple seems to raise tensions."
I think that unless people are very honest and have excellent communication the risk of tension arises however many are involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed guy's, we just can't see why, as mature adults, that that is so hard to ascertain? Guess until the right people come along we will have to just have fun.... |
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Me & Kim meet lots of our swinging friends just for social nights out & holidays etc, its not always about the sex.
We have moved friends help decorate their homes etc all the normal stuff you do with vanilla friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have this with several friends. It's one of the things that seems to have naturally evolved with some of the people we've met through this past time.
J and some of the female counterparts of the couples and single women we know also meet up quite often for a meal and a laugh. It's been a really good way to introduce some of the new couples to the scene here to the concept of swinging in a reassuring way to help them feel more confident. It also feels j bit naughty to be having such open conversations as we do in a public place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We posted a similar thread a few months ago ,we wanted a couple to become friends with benifits but would have to be of a distance that would require a weekend away with a very social view and other lol x |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We have met people on here that are good friends now. We do day to day stuff like shopping and going for meals and the best bit is we can be flirty safe in the knowledge that it is reciprocated. Also when we get alone time we can still get a little bit naughty  |
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"Different strokes and all that, but the last thing we want from swinging is a set of swinging friends to regularly socialise with. "
That's easy to achieve and how most people play it. It hasn't happened to us but we have seen friendships form very successfully leading on to parties, social occasions, regular meets etc. It seems to work both ways and that's how it should be in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Different strokes and all that, but the last thing we want from swinging is a set of swinging friends to regularly socialise with. "
We're the same. Sex and friendships don't mix. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Different strokes and all that, but the last thing we want from swinging is a set of swinging friends to regularly socialise with. "
I used to think that and we never looked for it but once it happened, it's been a real blast...with some though, we've slipped into the "friend zone" but then good friends are always a blessing however you find them... |
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I have made a few girlie friends on here that we frequently go and have brilliant nights out. We have laugh, drink, dancing and chat about swinging and experiences and no sex involved at all... Just a good old fashion night out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Different strokes and all that, but the last thing we want from swinging is a set of swinging friends to regularly socialise with. "
Same here, we wouldn't want to form friendships with guys we met while swinging, swinging is simply for sex.
We don't do the "friendship" thing in vanilla life much either as we spend all our non working time together and have no need or interest in friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. We were thinking of putting a meet up in a couple of weeks to meet a couple for a regular night out with drinks dancing and a good laugh. The reason for this is we want to make some long term friends who we can have friendships with but also be able to openly talk about this lifestyle. Is this something you guys have tried? And did you form some great long term friendships?"
This IS what we look for (and have).. friends with benefits
If we cant get on with you socially, it would never happen any other way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've managed to make friends on here, and the sex gets better, in my opinion.
We have two single female friends, a couple, and a single male friend. We don't really play with the single females, have played with the couple and would again, and often play with the single male.
For me (fem), I have to build up a good rapport with someone to really enjoy the experience. Having said that, we've also played more spontaneously, though this is rare.
It all depends on what you want from the site, really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We must be very luck ..about a year ago after 1 message between us on here .we met a cpl for a social..and we would say we met our best mates that night .we meet regular for fun meals drinks we have even met each others families ( socially) you do form an attachment / bond but the relaxed atmosphere just makes for better fun ...Just hope you find that special cpl like we did |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been looking for a couple we can be friends with in this way for a long time now . and have made some friends along the way but still not found the one's yet ! Xxxxx |
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Have made some good friends through swinging who we see socially. Days out with the kids, they even had my daughter stay round for a few days over the summer.
But would I answer a meet request for someone looking for long term friends? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have some lovely friends who we also play with and in our short time swinging have made some lovely new friends, some we've played with some not, in fact off out for hubby's birthday for a meal with some lovely people met via swinging for a vanilla meal next Saturday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely, we have also met guys, and ladies, whom we consider good freind, and see socially. I guess at the end of the day, it's great to socialise with like minded people |
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