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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right I'm not sure whether it's me or just bad luck but I don't what's happening maybe something people see or summat lol
but I must of sent 100's of messages since I started but not had 1 meet I either get a no or deleted or blocked
I don't send 1 liners I send what I like about them and things
I send a pic with my messages
I know I'm no model but surely someone must of taken pity on me by now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment. |
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment."
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses |
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses "
Well it very much sounds as if you are... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses "
Nobody has a clue until they go, there's plenty of Newbie nights to cater for the nervous. Can't afford? How much would you spend on a normal night out with the boys? the only barriers preventing you having more luck are ones you're putting up for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab'no ur making it sound you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Well it very much sounds as if you are..."
No ur trying to make it sound like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Nobody has a clue until they go, there's plenty of Newbie nights to cater for the nervous. Can't afford? How much would you spend on a normal night out with the boys? the only barriers preventing you having more luck are ones you're putting up for yourself."
well like I say I can't afford that so I don't go out |
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab'no ur making it sound you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Well it very much sounds as if you are... No ur trying to make it sound like that"
You're making the excuses, not me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have played with loads of single guys at clubs,,club hosts let in 100s of single guys every week and most play we normally take 3a time greedy girl lol x if u have not the nerve to meet at club then u will never get meet on here we look for guys who are friends know at clubs xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Nobody has a clue until they go, there's plenty of Newbie nights to cater for the nervous. Can't afford? How much would you spend on a normal night out with the boys? the only barriers preventing you having more luck are ones you're putting up for yourself. well like I say I can't afford that so I don't go out "
Sorry but if that's the case then you're gonna struggle big time. Relying on this site alone will get you nowhere. |
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab'no ur making it sound you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Well it very much sounds as if you are... No ur trying to make it sound like that
You're making the excuses, not me..."
I just said I wasn't making excuses just seems I'm being stereotyped a little here and the forums are supposed to be for constructive help not judging |
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Nobody has a clue until they go, there's plenty of Newbie nights to cater for the nervous. Can't afford? How much would you spend on a normal night out with the boys? the only barriers preventing you having more luck are ones you're putting up for yourself. well like I say I can't afford that so I don't go out
Sorry but if that's the case then you're gonna struggle big time. Relying on this site alone will get you nowhere."
yh I know I was just wondering if it was summat else I'll just keep trying and save up I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try something different like getting out from behind the keyboard..... There's a whole world of social events, club events and the like where you can meet people.......real human interaction. Relying solely on Fab' to get you a meet is very much likely gonna end in bitter disappointment.
it's not like I'm sat behind the keyboard I'm not a perverse or anything it's company too and I can't afford the travel to clubs plus never been and don't have a clue what happens so I can't really and not trying to make excuses
Nobody has a clue until they go, there's plenty of Newbie nights to cater for the nervous. Can't afford? How much would you spend on a normal night out with the boys? the only barriers preventing you having more luck are ones you're putting up for yourself. well like I say I can't afford that so I don't go out "
Well there's no helping you then......whatever anyone may suggest.....you'll find a reason not to take said advice. |
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"Right I'm not sure whether it's me or just bad luck but I don't what's happening maybe something people see or summat lol
but I must of sent 100's of messages since I started but not had 1 meet I either get a no or deleted or blocked
I don't send 1 liners I send what I like about them and things
I send a pic with my messages
I know I'm no model but surely someone must of taken pity on me by now lol "
I wouldn't meet you.
Why?
Because your profile sounds like you want a date.
"I love a gosh,cuddling up to a film, nibbles, a bottle of wine and see where we go"
uh... no. even a social meet, no. no. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm not sure whether it's me or just bad luck but I don't what's happening maybe something people see or summat lol
but I must of sent 100's of messages since I started but not had 1 meet I either get a no or deleted or blocked
I don't send 1 liners I send what I like about them and things
I send a pic with my messages
I know I'm no model but surely someone must of taken pity on me by now lol
I wouldn't meet you.
Why?
Because your profile sounds like you want a date.
"I love a gosh,cuddling up to a film, nibbles, a bottle of wine and see where we go"
uh... no. even a social meet, no. no. "
oh right so swingers can't have a bit of affection then ur nights must last a long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined Fab I was invited to a party and then went to a few club nights...I found the club experience very rewarding as my first verifications came from these meets. I was made very welcome and played for the first time. As for cost..Great value for money. I do spend more on a night on the town.
Get yourself to a club or a social and get yourself out there. Charming, witty and positive guys do have fun on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile sounds like its geared towards a single female, its probably not that appealing to couples.try and save and get to a club its an easy and great way to meet real people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus don't hang me I just asked a simple genuine question won't do it again"
There's no point being so defensive. People offer you genuinely good advice and your solution is to find reasons not to take it. You're almost certain to not get anywhere relying on fab messaging alone........so the solution is to try something different. We're skint but still manage a night out occasionally. We just have to save for it, there's ways and means over every hurdle if you want something bad enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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meant very constructively and helpfully
Chap,
Lots of people on this forum have given you some good advice.
No one particularly wants to be your entertainment for the night or have to come round and cheer you up.
Have a slightly more positive outlook as appearing to be desperate or lonely is not an attractive look.
There are thousands of people on this site who meet regularly, message each other and have a laugh... So, the site can't be the weak link...
Try having another look at your profile and seeing if you can word it a bit better.
Personally, after just a couple of months, I have met some great people and had plenty of great meets. The site is a really nice place to be, just learn how to be on it...
Hope you find someone...
TBG... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"meant very constructively and helpfully
Chap,
Lots of people on this forum have given you some good advice.
No one particularly wants to be your entertainment for the night or have to come round and cheer you up.
Have a slightly more positive outlook as appearing to be desperate or lonely is not an attractive look.
There are thousands of people on this site who meet regularly, message each other and have a laugh... So, the site can't be the weak link...
Try having another look at your profile and seeing if you can word it a bit better.
Personally, after just a couple of months, I have met some great people and had plenty of great meets. The site is a really nice place to be, just learn how to be on it...
Hope you find someone...
TBG..."
Ok advice does not get any better than this.
Please take it on board and have fun.
I do agree that this is a great place to be. |
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