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over a year ago
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Just wondering how many swingers out there are in open relationships. Just wondered about people's thoughts and how it works for them. This is something I would like and would love people's inputs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when couples swing,they have sex with other ppl. sometimes the female will go off with another man for the night,go for a drink back to his etc and return home to her man the next day? ive read some guys do it too?
isnt that an open relationship?
if not my apologies x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when couples swing,they have sex with other ppl. sometimes the female will go off with another man for the night,go for a drink back to his etc and return home to her man the next day? ive read some guys do it too?
isnt that an open relationship?
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if not my apologies x"
lol hell no - not for us anyway
Open relationships are full relationships with other people - all equal/emotionally/sexually.
You're not tied to anyone.
My partner and I do everything together. Swinging with other couples is sex only. In the same room.
We don't kiss them or share private details of our lives with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't kiss them or share private details of our lives with them.
oh! what a shame. sounds rather cold fir me. sorry, only my opinion."
No need to apologise, we all swing for different reasons
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't kiss them or share private details of our lives with them.
oh! what a shame. sounds rather cold fir me. sorry, only my opinion.
No need to apologise, we all swing for different reasons
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right!
there are probably as many reasons as swingers in here.
xx
but I'm offtopic.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great replies for me an open relationship is me being with someone on an emotional level and committed too but also to have relationship with others but on a less emotional level or just friendship and sex . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to know more about poly amorous lifestyle and how it works for you all "
Is there anything specific you'd like to know? 'How it works' is kind of broad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would love to know more about poly amorous lifestyle and how it works for you all
Is there anything specific you'd like to know? 'How it works' is kind of broad."
How many partners you have and when do you see them? How did the relationship start and do you love equally? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How many partners you have and when do you see them? How did the relationship start and do you love equally? "
It depends how you define partners. I guess I have two well established partners, a newer partner, and some play partners. I care about them all equally. I see them when there's a good time in our calendars - just like any other relationship I guess.
The relationships started like any other. Mostly 'hey, would you like to get coffee sometime?' and we took it from there.
I don't think I love anyone, but that's really because I don't really understand what 'love' means in our society. I care about them all equally and I have emotional investment with them all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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How many partners you have and when do you see them? How did the relationship start and do you love equally?
It depends how you define partners. I guess I have two well established partners, a newer partner, and some play partners. I care about them all equally. I see them when there's a good time in our calendars - just like any other relationship I guess.
The relationships started like any other. Mostly 'hey, would you like to get coffee sometime?' and we took it from there.
I don't think I love anyone, but that's really because I don't really understand what 'love' means in our society. I care about them all equally and I have emotional investment with them all."
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife and I are in a loving married relationship.
We both have full sex with other people, either together or as the other watches.
I also go to Tgirl events and have sex with men.
We don't sleep with anyone who isn't in a sex club where no strings fun is the norm.
An open relationship, to our minds, would be the freedom to have sex with anyone we can.
That's not for us.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's worth noting that there are *usually* distinct differences between open relationships and polyamory. Open relationships tend to not allow emotional investment outside of the nucleus couple (e.g. swinging). Polyamory tends to encourage emotional investment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's worth noting that there are *usually* distinct differences between open relationships and polyamory. Open relationships tend to not allow emotional investment outside of the nucleus couple (e.g. swinging). Polyamory tends to encourage emotional investment."
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have a very open relationship as in i know and like ti that hubby has a bi side and meets guys and i love to hear what they have done when he gets back and we have the most amazing sex ever. |
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My wife and I are polyamorous and open, which means that we see other people for casual fun and sometimes form deep emotional bonds when it is appropriate.
It works for us. I cannot imagine not being open, not having the freedom to explore sexual and emotional attractions to other women.
We long ago got past any jealousy issues, indeed I often become friends with my wife's lovers and she with mine. Once you examine society's norms you often find there's no real reason for them other than they are the current cultural norm. Throughout history human beings have practised all imaginable kinds of relationship dynamic. Monogamy is pretty uncommon in the animal kingdom and in humankind throughout history. |
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