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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys,
I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?  |
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There could be a few reasons why they'd ask if you were bi
The m might be bi or bicurious and doesn't want to put it on their profile or the m is straight and doesn't want a bi guy involved in case it creates problems later  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something? "
Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie  |
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It may not be a limiting factor - some couples might ask if you're curious or bi as they would experiment, or because they don't want to meet bi-spectrum guys.
Peoples' recognised sexual orientation doesn't stay fixed in their minds or lifetimes for everyone. Neither does it fit neatly into a 2 or 3 categories. A guy that may have tried something and not found it incredibly horny may decide he's straight, or not. Many guys don't fancy other blokes but somehow when there's a mass of bodies writhing things happen and using their head to think things through doesn't need to happen, it's all about being in the moment and maximising their horniness.
Being bi, curious or gay makes a guy no less of a man, so no one should take it as a slur etc. |
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"Hey guys,
I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?
Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie "
Surely everyone has to start somewhere, Jackie does look lush. Why not just say we're a couple?
I almost joined a couple with a bi curious guy, he asked if it bothered me if he was bi curious I said not at all. But I won't meet you alone. There's lots of time wasters on here and single guys posing as couples, creating the honey trap with pix of a sexy woman. Of course there's plenty of genuine peeps too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I don't know if this is a regular thing but I get so many couples asking me if I'm actually straight or if I'd be up for some bi fun...is swinging mainly for bi guys or am I missing something?
Probably as equally annoying as it is for us when we ask in our profile for bi guys, but get inundated with messages from straight guys who want to" try being bi" just so they can meet Jackie
Surely everyone has to start somewhere, Jackie does look lush. Why not just say we're a couple?
I almost joined a couple with a bi curious guy, he asked if it bothered me if he was bi curious I said not at all. But I won't meet you alone. There's lots of time wasters on here and single guys posing as couples, creating the honey trap with pix of a sexy woman. Of course there's plenty of genuine peeps too "
Sorry, don't understand the " why not say where a couple" comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet with a cpl whereby the guy stated he was categorically straight beforehand. Mid way through playing with his wife he asked if he could suck me off to which I said "no way" - completely ruined the meet and was prob one of the most awkward situations I've been in.
Since when is not classed as bi when you want to suck another mans cock!?  |
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i regularly get asked the same...must have bi wrote on my forehead lol, i am straight but not bi phobic so i am comfortable with my sexuality enough not to be offended.
It it amazes me how many straight guys in couples and single guys who say they are straight are secretly bi, rather than be embarrassed about it be honest and you'll find plenty of fun here on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i regularly get asked the same...must have bi wrote on my forehead lol, i am straight but not bi phobic so i am comfortable with my sexuality enough not to be offended.
It it amazes me how many straight guys in couples and single guys who say they are straight are secretly bi, rather than be embarrassed about it be honest and you'll find plenty of fun here on Fab."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking of which, im not a couple but i do get bi and gay lads checking em out. have even had messages from them. dont know whay as it says straight on my prifle and i like girls with big boobs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm asked the same thing over and over by men and some couples.
As my profile explicitly states my sexuality, I usually ignore/delete/block those messages. Stops the fantasising person on the other end wasting time
But yeah, happens a fair amount. Unfortunately you'll have to learn to live with it and politely decline advances. |
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