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Swinging can make or break a relationship!
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Swinging broke mine! But in a way a good job it did, now divorcing after 20 years married, the grass is greener (her words) bloody hassle of selling houses solicitors etc, but all in all a change for the better! Anyone else experiencing the same thing? Funny enough she doesn't swing now and I do! |
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over a year ago
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Broke mine too, but like you it was for the better, was in a sexless relationship for 8 years so we did this so we could both have a sex life, we didn't play together we used to meet couples for separate room swap, he met a woman while swinging and left me for her
If it hadn't been for swinging he would have never of met her and we'd probably still be plodding along so all I can say is......thank you swinging  |
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over a year ago
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Maybe it just highlights your relationship. If it's strong it strengthens it? If it's weak it breaks it?
It's like a relationship test. But a very, very fun one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way... |
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way..."
No idea I would never make assumptions on other people's relationships, I'm sure some happy couples like separate room fun, you can't always judge others by how you feel about swinging |
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Maybe it is. I always wanted same room, towards the end she started pushing for seperate or even meeting in hotels on her own. Everyone's different so I wouldn't say either way in your case, just look for the signs I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it is. I always wanted same room, towards the end she started pushing for seperate or even meeting in hotels on her own. Everyone's different so I wouldn't say either way in your case, just look for the signs I guess."
Signs are hard to spot sometimes
There are a few single profiles on here who claim to be married but their partner does not play
Is that a sign |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well its made ours, she was so happy she could continue seeing her other boyfriends when we met 23yrs ago, we are fine all together or seperate, no worries there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way..."
I'd say it is, yes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Far point, you shouldn't judge. However, from the above comments, it appeared that that was a trend with some prior to their marriages failing."
What above comments? There is only me who has said we met separate room and my maraige failed, I'd hardly say the experience of one person is setting a trend |
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way...
I'd say it is, yes.
S x"
That's a bit judgy isn't it? I meet alone. I don't have a failed/failing relationship? At least I hope bloody not!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way...
I'd say it is, yes.
S x
That's a bit judgy isn't it? I meet alone. I don't have a failed/failing relationship? At least I hope bloody not! "
Judgy? Yes I guess so - but I can only go by what I've seen.
From what I can gather, couples that play together - stay together
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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago
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"Broke mine too, but like you it was for the better, was in a sexless relationship for 8 years so we did this so we could both have a sex life, we didn't play together we used to meet couples for separate room swap, he met a woman while swinging and left me for her
If it hadn't been for swinging he would have never of met her and we'd probably still be plodding along so all I can say is......thank you swinging "
wow he must of been crazy to leave such a fine specimen like yourself. you are absolutely gorgeous
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way...
I'd say it is, yes.
S x
That's a bit judgy isn't it? I meet alone. I don't have a failed/failing relationship? At least I hope bloody not!
Judgy? Yes I guess so - but I can only go by what I've seen.
From what I can gather, couples that play together - stay together
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I would suspect it depends on the couple, their relationship dynamics, the communication level between the couple, and how it's done.
Tons of couples split up, whether they swing, don't swing, and whether they eat a fry up on a Saturday morning. Without actually doing a proper look at the numbers instead of using anecdotal evidence, then I think it's a sweeping statement.
But ask me again in a few years if we are still together.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything can break a relationship....
Leaving the toilet seat up or shagging the neighbours husband..... The trick is to talk to each other, find out if you both want the relationship to work and then work at it!
If swinging is for you both then great, if it isn't then it isn't! |
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way..."
No it isn't, everyone is different. |
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way...
I'd say it is, yes.
S x
That's a bit judgy isn't it? I meet alone. I don't have a failed/failing relationship? At least I hope bloody not!
Judgy? Yes I guess so - but I can only go by what I've seen.
From what I can gather, couples that play together - stay together
I would suspect it depends on the couple, their relationship dynamics, the communication level between the couple, and how it's done.
Tons of couples split up, whether they swing, don't swing, and whether they eat a fry up on a Saturday morning. Without actually doing a proper look at the numbers instead of using anecdotal evidence, then I think it's a sweeping statement.
But ask me again in a few years if we are still together.
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I stick with what I've said.
It's brilliant your relationship suits swinging separately - but I still see it as I see it.
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way..."
You could also say that those who only do same room and don't allow separate room fun have trust issues. |
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"Sorry guys & ladies if this is a stupid question. Would you say that a preference to single room swinging is an indication of a failed/failing relationship?
We would only consider same room by the way...
You could also say that those who only do same room and don't allow separate room fun have trust issues. "
True - you could say that.
It could also be said couples that do separate room play have something to hide
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over a year ago
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Commenting on the same/separate room play...sometimes its just a case of logistics! Having hot sexy same room fun...but the beds just not quite big enough, youve already got carpet burns and leg cramp...and there's a perfectly good double bed in the other room.... |
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"Commenting on the same/separate room play...sometimes its just a case of logistics! Having hot sexy same room fun...but the beds just not quite big enough, youve already got carpet burns and leg cramp...and there's a perfectly good double bed in the other room.... "
There's always the floor
From our point of view, it comes down to swinging being a shared part of our relationship - just like every other part of it. We're into foursomes primarily re swinging. Everyone playing together.
There's also the safety aspect of leaving your partner alone with a stranger.
If something goes wrong/someone's accused of something etc - things can change/happen in an instant.
I'm more relaxed knowing my partner is very close by, has my back and I his
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