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By *et_n_Wild OP Couple
over a year ago
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What's the time limit you give for Noobs to get verified before you assume they're a time waster?
Or what other signs do you look for?
I try and be fair and give people a chance... Trying not to turn into a bitter cynical swinger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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beautiful sexy young woman who are interested in naughty things, have a huge friend list and no verification after one year on here, are probably fakes. 
everyone else would get I chance from us we we fancy him/her/them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say that this may seem a little unfair as some find it a little more difficult to get their first meet than others.
Yes, I appreciate that one can get cam verified, but it took me a while to consider this option as I wasn't initially keen at using the chat rooms - not that I had anything to worry about.
Not only that, but not everyone leaves a verification.
I've had a number of meets that haven't resulted in a veri.
Even when I did venture into the chat rooms, it took a while before someone would actually give me a verification - despite even having one to one conversations with some people.
I'm certainly no timewaster, but if others had applied a 'time limit' to me, I would probably have found the need to delete my profile and start again - which, in my opinion, kinda slam dunks the whole theory.
I'd say that there are perhaps many other ways of determining if someone is a timewaster or not. |
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It takes 2 minutes to photo verify and if after just a month We will wonder why not!! There's no reason or excuse to not get photo verified at all, you don't even have to show your face!!!!
What I do think however, is that all couples should have to photo verify yearly.
So many break up, yet then hide verifications and carry on pretending they're a couple!!! |
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"It takes 2 minutes to photo verify and if after just a month We will wonder why not!! There's no reason or excuse to not get photo verified at all, you don't even have to show your face!!!!
What I do think however, is that all couples should have to photo verify yearly.
So many break up, yet then hide verifications and carry on pretending they're a couple!!! "
we arent photo verified, never felt the need to and its never been a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman 
absolute tosh."
Well demographics plays a huge role as well, unless your willing to travel hundreds of miles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh."
I agree with him
Its a numbers game on here, I have met a few guys who have been on the site over a year and not been verified and they are genuine because they turned up to our arranged meet, it can be very hard for some guys to find a meet they just need someome to take a chance on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are fairly relaxed about single guys who are not verified. It is clearly difficult given the disproportionate number of single guys compared to women or couples.
Major suspicions are raised however where couples or women remain unverified for more than a few months.
Rightly or wrongly our view is that they are either not on the site looking for a real meet or they are fakes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh.
I agree with him
Its a numbers game on here, I have met a few guys who have been on the site over a year and not been verified and they are genuine because they turned up to our arranged meet, it can be very hard for some guys to find a meet they just need someome to take a chance on them"
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By *et_n_Wild OP Couple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
"lol we are all genuine..."
No, not everyone is, and to think this is very naive. I've just read a thread about a couple's profile being cloned.
Everyone has heard the stories of men pretending to be females and couples. Let alone the shy wanna be's and pic collectors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine...
No, not everyone is, and to think this is very naive. I've just read a thread about a couple's profile being cloned.
Everyone has heard the stories of men pretending to be females and couples. Let alone the shy wanna be's and pic collectors. "
Yes and as well couples with just women pics and nothing of the male. |
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By *et_n_Wild OP Couple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
"I'd say that this may seem a little unfair as some find it a little more difficult to get their first meet than others.
Yes, I appreciate that one can get cam verified, but it took me a while to consider this option as I wasn't initially keen at using the chat rooms - not that I had anything to worry about.
Not only that, but not everyone leaves a verification.
I've had a number of meets that haven't resulted in a veri.
Even when I did venture into the chat rooms, it took a while before someone would actually give me a verification - despite even having one to one conversations with some people.
I'm certainly no timewaster, but if others had applied a 'time limit' to me, I would probably have found the need to delete my profile and start again - which, in my opinion, kinda slam dunks the whole theory.
I'd say that there are perhaps many other ways of determining if someone is a timewaster or not."
Unfair? Sadly it's the way it is... I like to think I give everyone a chance. However, lately some have spent weeks talking to me and when we try to arrange something they never commit to anything. I'm starting to see patterns forming, and when you look at their profile they have no verifications after months of being on here. |
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By *et_n_Wild OP Couple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
"It takes 2 minutes to photo verify and if after just a month We will wonder why not!! There's no reason or excuse to not get photo verified at all, you don't even have to show your face!!!!
What I do think however, is that all couples should have to photo verify yearly.
So many break up, yet then hide verifications and carry on pretending they're a couple!!! "
We joined before they had the photo veri function, and have just not got around to doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not all veris are genuine either i was chatting to a lass over the wknd and checked her veris seemed to be same person who wrote her 2 veris from last year but had 2 seperate profiles! Some dont want veris either it was a thing of trust on here but not anymore sadly |
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By *et_n_Wild OP Couple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
"lol we are all genuine...
Yes and as well couples with just women pics and nothing of the male."
I'm a Hot Wife... I fuck other men, sometimes he watches. Would you be happy to arrange a meet with a female only to have her husband turn up unexpectedly?
We used to swing as a couple, now we don't. Your point is?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult to get verified, we have met probably six couples at VA's just last Saturday, as it happens. Whilst hours and hours of jokes and friendly chat etc people sometimes are either on other sites ADS (or something like that) or just don't have the inclination to do so.
We have even been on another site ourselves and attended a local social meet. Had a good time etc and the organiser hadn't even given us a review. But through friends she has been looking for us so that she can invite us back to another of her socials. It's all a bit strange for us, so this verification emphasise can be nonsense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine...
Yes and as well couples with just women pics and nothing of the male.
I'm a Hot Wife... I fuck other men, sometimes he watches. Would you be happy to arrange a meet with a female only to have her husband turn up unexpectedly?
We used to swing as a couple, now we don't. Your point is?... "
Yes that's fine, it does say however on the profile you both play as single, so might expect a pic if a woman would wanna meet the hubby.
And no I would at least want some time when the hubby would come to get some notice lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and as well couples with just women pics and nothing of the male.
so in your opinion we are not genuine?"
No wouldn't say that as you got some veris as well. |
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh.
I agree with him
Its a numbers game on here, I have met a few guys who have been on the site over a year and not been verified and they are genuine because they turned up to our arranged meet, it can be very hard for some guys to find a meet they just need someome to take a chance on them"
The reason its absolute tosh is that there non genuine people on here of all genders, so not all people are genuine like he claimed, and if you really want to be verified you can be, there are ways to do it, its called effort, clubs, socials etc, using the numbers game excuse is a cop out, there are many many successful men on here that put the effort in, the thing alot forget is joining a website alone doesnt make a swinger, expect a website to do all the work for you and you will find yourself using excuses like its a numbers game, put the effort in and like many others you will reap the rewards. |
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh.Well demographics plays a huge role as well, unless your willing to travel hundreds of miles."
demographics dont play any role if you extend all your options, its about effort not numbers, some people get it some dont. |
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Totally agree with above not hard to get verified either socials or clubs find it hard that bi sexual people cant have a meet with in a six month period. That said pictureless profiles also puts me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't meet anyone without a veri-
it's not hard and doesn't take much effort to get verified even if it's in the form of a few webcam veri- least that way users can rest assure that the person is who they say they are.
If you put the effort in, you get rewarded!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have blocked unverified users and newbies. It's not difficult to get verified if you are not male.
Unless you are male pretending not to be male.
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That should be male pretending to be female  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh.
I agree with him
Its a numbers game on here, I have met a few guys who have been on the site over a year and not been verified and they are genuine because they turned up to our arranged meet, it can be very hard for some guys to find a meet they just need someome to take a chance on them"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol we are all genuine, the reason we and some don't got veried is cos the huge men to woman ratio of 100 men to 1 woman
absolute tosh.
I agree with him
Its a numbers game on here, I have met a few guys who have been on the site over a year and not been verified and they are genuine because they turned up to our arranged meet, it can be very hard for some guys to find a meet they just need someome to take a chance on them"
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"It takes 2 minutes to photo verify and if after just a month We will wonder why not!! There's no reason or excuse to not get photo verified at all, you don't even have to show your face!!!!
What I do think however, is that all couples should have to photo verify yearly.
So many break up, yet then hide verifications and carry on pretending they're a couple!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't go by verifications alone,i have met unverified men and all good .I have also chatted to well verified men who messed me about etc."
Verifications mean nothing. I really wish people would use their common sense and not rely on some green tick. |
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