Just been browsing as you do on here.
Been chatting to a local cpl and they send me friend invite,of course I accept.
But to my surprise I realise the female of the couple is actually one of my bosses 
But saying this its very rarely that I see her at work as she works in our main offices elsewhere.
She is really hot tho lol
Any suggestions how I take things from here 
Obviuosly she dont realise who I am etc as she hasnt seen my face pics yet |
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over a year ago
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"Just been browsing as you do on here.
Been chatting to a local cpl and they send me friend invite,of course I accept.
But to my surprise I realise the female of the couple is actually one of my bosses
But saying this its very rarely that I see her at work as she works in our main offices elsewhere.
She is really hot tho lol
Any suggestions how I take things from here
Obviuosly she dont realise who I am etc as she hasnt seen my face pics yet "
I suppose the question to ask would be "how much do you value your career" if it was to go tits up? |
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over a year ago
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I think you should tell her you know who she is and tell her who you are . if shes part of a couple you dont know what theyve agreed on. we agreed before starting this we would never meet anyone we new outside of fab  |
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"I think you should tell her you know who she is and tell her who you are . if shes part of a couple you dont know what theyve agreed on. we agreed before starting this we would never meet anyone we new outside of fab "
Yes, this. I would let her know that you have recognised her, and out of respect and her privacy, maybe should leave it at that. If she is ok with it, then it's up to you......but I would be very cautious about what would happen if you upset her in any way.
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Id have been pissed off for accepting a friends invite and not being able to see what you look like so wouldn't even entertain meeting up with you,maybe you are worrying prematurely  |
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From what you say, she isn't your direct boss, and not someone you have too much contact with. The reality is that even if things went badly, she's not going to put her own job at risk by starting on some sort of vendetta against you that would be very difficult for her to explain.
I'd imagine she'd be a lot more worried than you, as she has a lot more to lose. And as long as you're polite, respectful and honest, why should it go wrong? |
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"From what you say, she isn't your direct boss, and not someone you have too much contact with. The reality is that even if things went badly, she's not going to put her own job at risk by starting on some sort of vendetta against you that would be very difficult for her to explain.
I'd imagine she'd be a lot more worried than you, as she has a lot more to lose. And as long as you're polite, respectful and honest, why should it go wrong?"
Exactly what I was thinking
Quick update
Still talking on here not told her who I am yet and prob wont unless she obviously wants to meet |
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By *ashes83Couple
over a year ago
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"Seen her at work yesterday
Couldnt bring myself to say anything......yet  "
I would be mortified if a member of staff did this to me.
Be honest with her. Tell her she a boss were you work, but make out you only just realised. |
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Let them know your interested. But tell them who you are ASAP. It happened to me with a couple who live a couple of doors away. So glad I did we played it cool and been long term discreet players. Normally play away. Caravanner. No one knows anything. Best way.always liked this lady anyway. What a bonus. |
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