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over a year ago
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One would assume if they're only letting in 'beautiful people' then they'd be sent packing.
Personally, we wouldn't want to ask for an invite to a party where one would have to be vetted before we're deemed worthy of acceptance. |
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"One would assume if they're only letting in 'beautiful people' then they'd be sent packing.
Personally, we wouldn't want to ask for an invite to a party where one would have to be vetted before we're deemed worthy of acceptance."
Doubt it very much if you would be refused to any party,and I do agree if you are vetted then turn away,and refuse acceptance. |
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I'm sure i'm going to get shot down here and i'm not saying every party should have vetting but surely it's a way of ensuring that those attending have a greater chance of attraction towards each other so a more successful party? I realise and i'm still learning that people are attracted to all sorts, not necessarily their own 'type' but generally speaking? I have been amazed by the number of guys and girls who have been interested in me when their bodies are like a work of art and mine is more like a jelly explosion but still they have generally been around my age range / looks level. |
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"I'm sure i'm going to get shot down here and i'm not saying every party should have vetting but surely it's a way of ensuring that those attending have a greater chance of attraction towards each other so a more successful party? I realise and i'm still learning that people are attracted to all sorts, not necessarily their own 'type' but generally speaking? I have been amazed by the number of guys and girls who have been interested in me when their bodies are like a work of art and mine is more like a jelly explosion but still they have generally been around my age range / looks level. "
But that is about how you feel about yourself which is not the same as how other people feel about you.
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We don't vet people for our parties but carefully invite people that we consider will get on, understand the dynamic and respect our home and other guests...they're not necessarily people we want to play with ourselves...looks don't necessarily come into it...attitude and demeanour definitely do... |
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I think its a good idea to ensure that everyone attending a party expects the same and is aware of others expectations. We have attended parties where its become clear quite quickly that our expectations are hugely different to the other guests and we have left, if it was clear beforehand someone else could have attended in our place. I'm not keen on vetting by looks I'd never get invited anywhere  |
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"I'm sure i'm going to get shot down here and i'm not saying every party should have vetting but surely it's a way of ensuring that those attending have a greater chance of attraction towards each other so a more successful party? I realise and i'm still learning that people are attracted to all sorts, not necessarily their own 'type' but generally speaking? I have been amazed by the number of guys and girls who have been interested in me when their bodies are like a work of art and mine is more like a jelly explosion but still they have generally been around my age range / looks level.
But that is about how you feel about yourself which is not the same as how other people feel about you.
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Exactly, you don't half talk some sense do you?!  |
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"We don't vet people for our parties but carefully invite people that we consider will get on, understand the dynamic and respect our home and other guests...they're not necessarily people we want to play with ourselves...looks don't necessarily come into it...attitude and demeanour definitely do..."
Attitude and demeanour are nearly everything for me, you can be beautiful looks wise but if your attitudes stinks then your ugly! |
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"We don't vet people for our parties but carefully invite people that we consider will get on, understand the dynamic and respect our home and other guests...they're not necessarily people we want to play with ourselves...looks don't necessarily come into it...attitude and demeanour definitely do..."
Maturity is another one! I can't converse with a lot of the young uns on here yet I'm supposedly one of them! Maturity not just in age but in experience, not sexually as I'd only been with one woman before fab so that'd rule me out but life experiences, unless that's just my personal preference! In which case, I shall shut up! |
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I have never been to a party where I have been judged on my looks, all the parties I have been to have had a nice mix of all people
I did apply for membership for a club once where they asked for a pic, i didn't send one, seems daft to me, all because they owner may think I'm ugly so refused me membership who's to say all his customers will _iew me the same way? |
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