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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This might have been done before but do people have any regrets about people they DIDNT shag?

I've never regretted a single sexual encounter I've ever had but I've lots of regrets about the ones I didn't go for..........

I look back and wonder what I was thinking.

Once went to a wedding. I was dancing with the bride who I had known for a very long time. We had had a bit of a flirtation years before and snogged and had a little grope one d*unken night at a party. While dancing, she said "Ever wonder why you and I never hooked up" I said "fucking hell, now you tell me" We were both laughing but did make me wish I had been less gentlemanly all those years before.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes indeed, one particular time was our first visit to a club. Chatted the night away with a large group of couples & staff.

Because we was very new to the scene & club, we overlooked the flirty signals from one particular couple. And we ourselves hadn't discussed how we would go about letting each other know if we were both interested in anyone, prior to entering the club.

Anyway, it was only on the drive home that it dawned on us that this couple where interested in us. We both then asked each other if we would have liked to have a play with them, we both agreed that we would have.

However, the opportunity was lost

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By *ipsTeaserCouple  over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

A few times.

Years ago a work colleague(who it turned out knew when I didn't my ex was cheating) offered me a night at his. I turned him down because I was taken, but often wondered after how it would have turned out.

Xmas do, just gone. Female mate came onto me and we kissed. We left it there as the night went on but bugs and I did how that would have gone.

A meet on here that didn't happen. Was very very attracted to him physically however we had differing morals and boundaries so it didn't progress.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Jack and Danny,

I feel your pain. About 6 years ago, a girlfriend and I ventured to Abfabs never having been anywhere similar. A really hot couple were chatting to us then later, we were sat in the sitting room area and the lady was sat looking at us with her legs open and no knickers under her skirt.

Looking back,they obviously both wanted us but we were too naive to read the signals(although how I could have missed such a signal is beyond me now)

We also hadn't discussed whether we would have sex with others while there so hadn't sorted our boundaries.

We made up for it on further visits but look back and wish we had got it on with that couple the first night as we never saw them again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Exactly our sentiments, O well such is the life of swingers lol

PS if McCain couple see this, say hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some one I met recently on here.

She is gorgeous, intelligent,interesting sexy and kind.

I got over possessive, blew it big time. Over thought and over reacted.

It happens I guess.

I doubt they will read this , I miss their conversation and friendship.

More relaxed now and carefree again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to go out every week with a female friend for a drink. I was friends with the husband as well so I ignored all the signals and never did anything, even though given the opportunity several times..

They split soon afterwards and she asked why I hadn't shown any interest as she was totally smitten with me...

I often look back on the situation and wonder what would've been, but my situation now would be so totally different that I'm sort of glad I didn't.

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