FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Ill Pay us both in a club
Ill Pay us both in a club
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks" 
Is this how some single men are now? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
Yes I get it a lot
I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night
Lesson learned
That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
I wouldn't do it anyway, even if I was paying myself I wouldn't go to a club with someone I didn't know unless they were well verified and had been to clubs before. You never know how someone will act in that situation.
I think a lot are nervous to go first time and want a companion (which I can understand) but if they turned out to be total knob heads it would be embarrasing!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
Smells of desperation to me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!
Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
Smells of desperation to me "
I don't think its desperation I think they are just trying to save money, I suppose you can't blame them for that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
Yes I get it a lot
I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night
Lesson learned
That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "
i will meet people in a club but not go in with them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!
Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up "
god no |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
i will meet people in a club but not go in with them "
That's how I do it now, I had to many guys who obviously just used me as a cheap ticket in so I stopped going in with guys, even if I have met them before, I also find a lot of guys just want you as an offering
I went with a guy once and he just wanted to sit in the couples room and have me fuck every guy who came in so he could fuck his wife, when I refuse to play with a guy he moaned because the guy I was with was with his wife, I left at that point and went out for a fag, the guy I was with them found me and told me to hurry up cause he couldn't go in the couples room alone
I suppose its a learning curve, I'm much more clued up now days |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"
i will meet people in a club but not go in with them
That's how I do it now, I had to many guys who obviously just used me as a cheap ticket in so I stopped going in with guys, even if I have met them before, I also find a lot of guys just want you as an offering
I went with a guy once and he just wanted to sit in the couples room and have me fuck every guy who came in so he could fuck his wife, when I refuse to play with a guy he moaned because the guy I was with was with his wife, I left at that point and went out for a fag, the guy I was with them found me and told me to hurry up cause he couldn't go in the couples room alone
I suppose its a learning curve, I'm much more clued up now days "
we learn everyday 
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.
However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership. "
So have you and you paid a lot more than them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.
However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why."
I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
he has probably works out that is still spends less money doing it this was than if he goes on his own... plus if he looks like he is with someone, they think he will get more chance to play (the kid in a candy shop approach) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!
Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate "
Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.
However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why.
I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry "
I agree and think the same to be honest.
id rather someone want to meet me than me just be a meal ticket into a club |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Behaviour like that isn't acceptable in any way.
However - on the flip side, when it costs more for a single guy than either a single woman or a couple you can understand why.
I understand why but I still think manners cost nothing, to ask a woman to meet you then ignor her all night just to save a few quid just seems rude to me and a waste of my night when I could have been meeting someone who wanted to meet me for me not for cheap entry "
I didn't say it was right - far from it!
Personally - I WOULD NOT go with someone and ignore her - I'd want the experience to be shared.
But unfortunately clubs as with the majority of dating sites, hook ups, etc see guys as a means to extract money |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!
Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate
Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man
"
Ugh, now you tell me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Cheez some guys are so smooth!!
Sounds like they either have some confidence issues or they just really desperate
Lack of self confidence, desperation , the two characteristics every woman looks for in a man
Ugh, now you tell me"
Don't forget Bo and bad breath |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
In our local club it's free for single women, and much cheaper for couples than it is for single men, so it's easy to see why guys would use this approach. Plus they have someone to chat to, at least initially, and more chance of playing with others if they have someone with them.
Being honest, if I was a single guy I'd probably do the same thing, except I'd stay with the woman, not dump her once we were inside. Of course, as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
" as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it! "
i prefer to be treated as me not like im some sort of prize |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It also makes it easier if the club has a strict single male policy.
There is one club I refuse to go to because of their forcing me to jump through hoops if I want to go along as a single |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
Why shouldn't they be picky? Being here is not a community service...everyone is here to fulfil their own desires...If you ain't it, then sorry but thems the breaks... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
tight!
i wouldn't go into a club with someone i havent met previously |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
Are you not selective in your choice of who you meet then?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.
Are you not selective in your choice of who you meet then?
"
obviously we are tight as we wont meet him and let him come to a club with us LOL |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.
I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.
"
thats me too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
Sorry but I would rather be called picky then end up with a weirdo. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.
Sorry but I would rather be called picky then end up with a weirdo."
this  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Our local club up here doesn't allow single guys, so often get asked to pair up and get them in.
Its always been a no from me. If I go to a club, I am happy to go alone... and I am not being used as bait, nor a cheap entry for someone else.
I'd go with someone I trusted and had met a few different times. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.
I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.
"
This is correct. People who don't go to clubs of haven't been to one yet don't seem to understand the great variety of things that happen in a swingers club plus what is private, what is semi-private (in rooms with windows) and what goes on in open areas.
Him |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Our local club up here doesn't allow single guys, so often get asked to pair up and get them in.
Its always been a no from me. If I go to a club, I am happy to go alone... and I am not being used as bait, nor a cheap entry for someone else.
I'd go with someone I trusted and had met a few different times."
Oh well thats my next question out the window then
Please ignore the Email 
Gimp |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
For them in their eyes its a cheap night out, and again in their eyes a guaranteed shag!
Reply and tell him the club you want to go to is £50 per person, and they do rooms their for £150 per couple inc breakfast. Then ask what time he's picking you up "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Will some kind lady pay for me as well please? And my drinks all night. Thanks.
Ps. If you're a sugar mummy, I'd like a new pair of jeans too. And a Maserati. "
Oh lord won't you buy me a Mercedes Benz |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not something I would do but for a bloke the costs of going to club is ridiculous.
Only way I would go club is with someone to keep costs down I am fortunate in that my fb is into clubs so when I decide to go will be with her.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"i wouldn't go into a club with someone i havent met previously
but when you're inside the club, you will fuck complete strangers?"
i go as a single female as i like the freedom to do as i please and to do whom i please, providing they agree
my reputation in the 2 clubs i like and use is good and i wouldn't want a single male whom i have never met acting up and tarnishing that for me
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would never try to buy a meet by offering to pay admissions and for drinks. But being the gentleman that I am, I would certainly offer to pay and for drinks but that is just the way I am. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I get quite a few messages like this and it instantly turns me off, as I think that im either a meal ticket for cheaper entrance or that the guy lacks confidence, i feel neither quality is attractive.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
Forget a club, I've just had some douche wanting to pay me to meet  maybe I'll suggest the price of £500,000 and see what he says  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts  "
why not.. we are just talking about people who are for women as "handholders" it doesn't say anything about single men in general....
as long as you go.... chat to people and socialise (which is the trick a lot of single guys miss) then you will be fine.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"In our local club it's free for single women, and much cheaper for couples than it is for single men, so it's easy to see why guys would use this approach. Plus they have someone to chat to, at least initially, and more chance of playing with others if they have someone with them.
Being honest, if I was a single guy I'd probably do the same thing, except I'd stay with the woman, not dump her once we were inside. Of course, as we all know single women are at a premium and they have all the power, which is as it should be, even if some of them don't seem to realise it! "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If I was to go to a club with someone, then I'd want to have met them several times before, so at least we know what makes each other ticks and some trust to not abandon each other, or for example that I am good for checking the condom on rule.
I think the impression of many is that clubs are a free for all orgy from the moment you walk in, but my experience is much that its a social place with a naughty theme where selected play that goes on.
This is correct. People who don't go to clubs of haven't been to one yet don't seem to understand the great variety of things that happen in a swingers club plus what is private, what is semi-private (in rooms with windows) and what goes on in open areas.
Him"
exactly this |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
Yes I get it a lot
I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night
Lesson learned
That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "
Naughty i would never treat you like that, you and your toes would be with me all night! Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.
The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.
The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long! "
so u wouldny want to fuck them lol x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.
The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long! "
I used to have an agreement like this with a guy, I don't drive so going places that are not on my door step is hard, so he would pick me up and take me home and we would go into clubs together, I'd half half the fuel bill he would pay the entry as most clubs are free for women, so it was an agreement that benefited us both and we were both happy with, I never played with him it was purely a business relationship
To be honest I'd happily do that again if the guy was honest about what he wanted |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'd love to meet someone to go to clubs with but as a single guy not as a couple. Just a friend to hang out with and chat with.
The thing that so many frustrated singles fail to appreciate is just how social the club scene is. They think its like eyes wide shut all night long!
I used to have an agreement like this with a guy, I don't drive so going places that are not on my door step is hard, so he would pick me up and take me home and we would go into clubs together, I'd half half the fuel bill he would pay the entry as most clubs are free for women, so it was an agreement that benefited us both and we were both happy with, I never played with him it was purely a business relationship
To be honest I'd happily do that again if the guy was honest about what he wanted"
i wouldnt and i have done this before  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"And cakes. and a couple of goats to keep your she's company ?? xxx"
My sheep outfIt will be gone after Sundays avatar challenge vote. I'm getting fed up of all the sheep jokes, being told to flock off and am going on the lam. Fab it whilst you can.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"does this work
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?"
Sounds desperate to me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"does this worek
Had a few messages today asking me to go to a club with someone (not on my friends list or never spoken before)
saying
"Go to a club with me i will pay us both in and drinks"
Is this how some single men are now?
Yes I get it a lot
I had one guy mail me and ask me to go with him, when we got there it turned out he had arranged to meet a couple there and once in he ignored me all night
Lesson learned
That's why I don't go into clubs with guys any more I only meet them once inside "
What a fucking idiot I we would have let you out of our site xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've done this a couple of times, but with people I know. I've paid her entry in as I think of it like a date, I'd buy the drinks on a date in a bar so why not pay the entry?
it's not about the money for me, it's about actually going with someone. I'd be reluctant to go to a club without a partner in crime, but the ladies and myself have always chatted about our expectations beforehand. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
So women shouldn't be picky? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts "
Why? Unless your behaviour reflects what people are being critical of what do you have to worry? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Think it's true. Most guys on here are a waist of space. Please don't forget there are real ones xxx. Ps I've been to chams a few times with couples and would always offer to pay for them. After all they have paid for the membership. "
We'd find that really patronising |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"How do I comment on this without sounding desperate to demonstrate how none desperate and well adjusted I am?
"
Your bra is well adjusted.
Oh, but I digress from the main point and no-one EVER does that, do they? I agree with the numbers guy above - you're a guy, so just go to the club on ya lonesome, then do what you do and hopefully get some sex. If you don't, so what? You've been to a club and watches other people having sex. It's not something I'd miss out on!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance."
"Was thinking of attending a club this wknd i wont be going now! As a single guy i certainly wouldnt feel comfortable having read these posts "
I think these guys have a point, maybe there are different ways to express it, some more diplomatic than others.
But I do not think it's particularly easy being a man, or a single man, in these modern days!
Sometimes, we could bear with how things get expressed and listen to the message.
It is not always easy being a (single) man, on and off the Internet, on and off the Swinging scene, and having to invent a new role for yourself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *zzy173Man
over a year ago
Hackney |
I wanna go with as many fabulous ppl there is. We only live once and sharing Is caring, I say all this becoz im a decent guy in everyway I think and not many give me a chance. Oh its the way I msg sorry not everyone has the initial gift of the gab but they might be gd later or better in other ways. Just wouldn't know would you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.
As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.
As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside."
If she wanted you there for "security" why didn't she pay for you rather than you having to pay for her. Sounds more like you were used for a free night. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I can easily see why some women would be nervous about meeting up to go into a club with a guy more than meeting up inside?
Obviously if he behaves like a total doyle in there then she is worried about how it will reflect on her, but something no one seems to have mentioned is concern for her own safety? If meeting when already inside the club then obviously she is meeting him in a controlled environment, but in the outside world prior to entry it is less so. Just sayin', like.
From my own experience I've been to a club on my own and with a lady, though we had met previously so some of that above concern was taken away?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Well then everyones gonna try pick the prettiest one plus everyone deserves abit of love! "
Dont forget to take your sense of entitlement to the club with you. I'm sure you will be a hit!!
Actually a very good advert for never going to a club with a random. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No its coz u ppl are so tight and picky with who you choose men have to resolt to these situations. Not many give us a chance.
Why shouldn't they be picky? Being here is not a community service...everyone is here to fulfil their own desires...If you ain't it, then sorry but thems the breaks..."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Well then everyones gonna try pick the prettiest one plus everyone deserves abit of love!
Dont forget to take your sense of entitlement to the club with you. I'm sure you will be a hit!!
Actually a very good advert for never going to a club with a random. "
I wouldn't want to go with someone I don't know, what's the point in that when I can get in cheaper as a women and be amongst a lot of people I don't know!!
That did sound better in my head, I know what I mean |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I wouldn't take a stranger to a club. If they turn out to be socially inept I'd end up apologising for them. Also I would have the problem of getting them home if they got thrown out, or the problem of marooning them there if they had gone beyond the pale. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I wouldn't take a stranger to a club. If they turn out to be socially inept I'd end up apologising for them. Also I would have the problem of getting them home if they got thrown out, or the problem of marooning them there if they had gone beyond the pale. "
Oi I'm not socially inept I just wanted your boobs  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well maybe if clubs reduced there prices for guy's they wouldn't be driven to ask females from here if they wished to go with them to save money , and single females and couples could help by voicing there opinion to the club owners .  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
after reading about clubs recently i wouldnt go if it was free for single men! fckn keep your clubs and i certainly wouldnt feel it was safe bringing a woman with me! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have been asked by a female to escort her into a club and pay for her bexause ahe felt more secure going in with a bloke I did it because ultimately saved me a lot of money so whats actually wrong with that.
As for being ignored whilst in there in if you were going to club anyway whats the issue really you are just helping someone out your not asked to fuck them unless you both fancy it once inside.
If she wanted you there for "security" why didn't she pay for you rather than you having to pay for her. Sounds more like you were used for a free night."
Was still lot cheaper for me this way again whats wrong with that she had good evening so did i. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've had a couple of really great experiences doing this as i very rarely do spontaneous play in clubs.
It would be a guy I'd chatted to for a bit. I would then have a social meet with them first and if we got on then I would take them to a club.
Communication I think is key. I tell them what i expect and what I won't accept (and vice versa) Plus the club I go to wouldn't let the guy stay on his own if I was to leave so it's in his best Interest to be well behaved.
Plus it's usually free for ladies where I go and I make my own way so I'm not taking advantage of him. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Her