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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my girlfriend are both young at 20 years old and we have just started to introduce toys into the bedroom!
I got a cock ring and vibrating cock ring and she got a little bullet!
I want to go further and let her get a proper dildo but I am a little apprehensive :/
I only have a 5 inch cock and if she starts using a proper big 8 inch dildo she won't want me anymore!
Like sex with me will feel no where near as good as the dildo!!
Please can I hear your thoughts on this?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly? If she loves the toys you already have then she is probably gonna love a massive dildo.
If you think it will cause problems then tell her that, say you think the dildo is gonna make you feel inadequate.
You should be talking to her about this stuff, if you have problems between you both then deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But you are not attached to the other end of the dildo. It's you she wants, she may enjoy her toys but she is with you for a reason, don't worry.
Ah feeling all maternal now, not that I ever discuss dildo's and there use with my own kids. Just somebody else's kids, think I will shut up now.
Don't worry though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get her a few big toys and send her this way  we will take very good care of her for you .
only kidding. spend more time enjoying life than worrying about the size of your cock, its what you do with it, not how big it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was 19 and married. My husband went to a men only toy party,like the Ann summers parties and came back with a huge 12 inch,solid plastic vibrator. We used it a couple of times and then retired it,didn't make any difference to me after. I still have it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was 19 and married. My husband went to a men only toy party,like the Ann summers parties and came back with a huge 12 inch,solid plastic vibrator. We used it a couple of times and then retired it,didn't make any difference to me after. I still have it "
what??? Poor pussy do you want a new one love? Theres some good uns out now! 30yr old fck me if it you only used it once a week its at best 8in with wear n tear alone!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A dildo is not the same as a human being no matter the size, a dildo will not have the connection you have with her and there is a lot more you can do during sex which a dildo just cant do. It is fun spicing things up, if she wants to do that with you then feel privileged she is comfortable in that you have nothing to worry about in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bro don't stress , your building it up to be something it's not enjoy pleasuring her with it , she will always love the feel of the man driving the car more . |
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Many girls prefer to use their toys externally, and dont actually spend much time "plunging in and out"
Sensitive parts are mostly on the outside and so stop worrying!
She will probably be very grateful that you are a caring and sensitive lover.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."
I am in tolal agreement here. You are together...sex with toys is just that...it is not you...these are tools to be employed in foreplay and the main event...
You will never be replaced by a toy... |
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I'd be more concerned about the fact you want to meet men and women behind your girlfriends back than buying a vibrator, unless the idea for a vibrator is so she has something to please her while your out cheating on her?!?!  |
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"I'd be more concerned about the fact you want to meet men and women behind your girlfriends back than buying a vibrator, unless the idea for a vibrator is so she has something to please her while your out cheating on her?!?! "
classic cheaters handbook rule; I can get it anywhere i like, but they must be faithful to me |
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"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner."
Absolutely this 
There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.
I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner.
Absolutely this
There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.
I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.
Mr ddc"
and with ann summers it would be made cheap and would fall apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Real loving relationships look past "assets".
If she ever "leaves" you for that reason, then she isn't for you. However swinging is about allowing your partner to enjoy other things (if thats what you are here for?), whilst maintaining respect and appreciation for the other partners fears and insecurities - and ensuring you both are happy.
So long as you talk about things openly your relationship will grow stronger.
When it comes to the toys..
In fact a lot of females do not like dildos and prefer vibrators - so get her a wand and let her tell you what works for her when u use it on her.. If you like to watch her use it on her own, tell her that.. she'll want to know.
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"Trust me a dildo or a vibrator is no replacement for sex with a sensual passionate and loving partner.
Absolutely this
There is so much more to sex than the final grunting n thrusting.
I'll only get worried when Ann Summers bring out a toy with arms to hold her, lips to nibble her under her ear, and an attachment to put up shelves.
Mr ddc
and with ann summers it would be cheap and would fall apart "
Sadly that describes me too 
But just think of the number of batteries it would get through!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or consider that the dildo could be used as part of dp play, she'd rather have your modest cock in her arse, sensual without being overly painful. And the dildo is then for pussy play. "
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"Real loving relationships look past "assets".
If she ever "leaves" you for that reason, then she isn't for you. However swinging is about allowing your partner to enjoy other things (if thats what you are here for?), whilst maintaining respect and appreciation for the other partners fears and insecurities - and ensuring you both are happy.
So long as you talk about things openly your relationship will grow stronger.
When it comes to the toys..
In fact a lot of females do not like dildos and prefer vibrators - so get her a wand and let her tell you what works for her when u use it on her.. If you like to watch her use it on her own, tell her that.. she'll want to know.
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The fact the ops on a single profile, looking to meet men and women, suggests the op and his gf don't talk much at all!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be more concerned about the fact you want to meet men and women behind your girlfriends back than buying a vibrator, unless the idea for a vibrator is so she has something to please her while your out cheating on her?!?!
classic cheaters handbook rule; I can get it anywhere i like, but they must be faithful to me"
He asked for advice on a sex toy. Not what he chooses to do lifestyle wise.
There are hundreds and hundreds of men AND women playing away on here. If you're going to bring each one up on it, it will take some time. We're all here for one thing.. Live and let live.
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That cock aint small anyway if its that big soft id look forward to seeing it hard.
i wouldnt be worrying mate with that tool and remember a dildo dont taste half as nice and certainly wont cum !!! |
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