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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back for the first meet with someone, or with a stranger? Does it feel better? Also, has anyone ever had any back luck stories with bb? Thanks  |
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"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back for the first meet with someone, or with a stranger? Does it feel better? Also, has anyone ever had any back luck stories with bb? Thanks "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go you local sti clinic and mention your looking for bb on a swinging site
Im sure they have stories with pics too.
Cock rot anyone?"
I'm not looking for bb. I'm just exploring other people's views on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bareback. I love the feeling of it. Love the pulsing of the cock as it cums inside me.
Do I do it with random strangers I meet on the Internet? Hell no. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To each his/her own about BB or not. But as far as I know in my past interactions with other swingers it's extremely rare for any of them to consider bareback. And the only two times I've heard couples do it bareback with other swingers, it's with friends who have been known to them for a long time, and both parties had literally gone for an STI check together and gotten clean sheets. As for pregnancy worries, both couples used IUDs, so that was that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, has anyone ever had any back luck stories with bb? Thanks "
Just the four children and a day pass to the clinic. Apart from that I'm as keen as mustard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think."
I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back
Much the same as my views on Russian Roulette.
Brilliant! "
is it?
if I had to make the choice I'd rather take my chances bb with a total stranger than russian roulette. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bareback. I love the feeling of it. Love the pulsing of the cock as it cums inside me.
Do I do it with random strangers I meet on the Internet? Hell no. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too."
See for women you can't feel a difference coz the condom is where we can't really feel anything.
I have given a bj with a condom on before and the guy said he couldn't feel anything much and it was better without, so yeah it is worse for guys i reckon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Never do bare back but will with my husband........ Obviously bb is better but we value our health x
Is he immune from all known STIs?"
What a strange comment !
We always bareback together but never when swinging .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To each his/her own about BB or not. But as far as I know in my past interactions with other swingers it's extremely rare for any of them to consider bareback. And the only two times I've heard couples do it bareback with other swingers, it's with friends who have been known to them for a long time, and both parties had literally gone for an STI check together and gotten clean sheets. As for pregnancy worries, both couples used IUDs, so that was that. "
Not in our experience, we've been on and off fab for over a year now and near enough everyone we've met hasn't even brought the subject up but has wanted to go ahead without condoms. Even men that have stated on their profile they never do bareback have had to be reminded and said they got carried away and forgot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To each his/her own about BB or not. But as far as I know in my past interactions with other swingers it's extremely rare for any of them to consider bareback. And the only two times I've heard couples do it bareback with other swingers, it's with friends who have been known to them for a long time, and both parties had literally gone for an STI check together and gotten clean sheets. As for pregnancy worries, both couples used IUDs, so that was that.
Not in our experience, we've been on and off fab for over a year now and near enough everyone we've met hasn't even brought the subject up but has wanted to go ahead without condoms. Even men that have stated on their profile they never do bareback have had to be reminded and said they got carried away and forgot. "
Could be a few guys on your list of verifications getting blocked now .... just saying |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
" Never do bare back but will with my husband........ Obviously bb is better but we value our health x
Is he immune from all known STIs?
What a strange comment !
We always bareback together but never when swinging .
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What is strange is some people's belief system that their hubby/wife/gf/bf/partner is somehow immume from catching an STI and then passing it on to them. That I find really, really weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Never do bare back but will with my husband........ Obviously bb is better but we value our health x
Is he immune from all known STIs?
What a strange comment !
We always bareback together but never when swinging .
What is strange is some people's belief system that their hubby/wife/gf/bf/partner is somehow immume from catching an STI and then passing it on to them. That I find really, really weird "
I guess if they play seperately I can understand that , but if you only play togethertthere's no issue surely ? |
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But does everyone who uses a condom for sex also use one for oral? There is as much if not more chance of swapping bodily fluids into thebloodstream... After all how many people have gums that bleed or a little mouth ulcer... etc etc. nice easy places for the bugs to get into your system. not many of us have such injuries in our sex organs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too.
See for women you can't feel a difference coz the condom is where we can't really feel anything.
I have given a bj with a condom on before and the guy said he couldn't feel anything much and it was better without, so yeah it is worse for guys i reckon."
I can feel a massive difference. A little more friction and guys who are uncut feel awesome just as the head slides in.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think."
I beg to differ
I personally prefer bare back sex BUT I also like a clean bill of health and to be proud to have never had sti |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, has anyone ever had any back luck stories with bb? Thanks
Just the four children and a day pass to the clinic. Apart from that I'm as keen as mustard "
Was that a kenny rogers track ???  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
" Never do bare back but will with my husband........ Obviously bb is better but we value our health x
Is he immune from all known STIs?
What a strange comment !
We always bareback together but never when swinging .
What is strange is some people's belief system that their hubby/wife/gf/bf/partner is somehow immume from catching an STI and then passing it on to them. That I find really, really weird
I guess if they play seperately I can understand that , but if you only play togethertthere's no issue surely ?"
I guess some people find it easier to trust some others. I don't trust anyone; people lie and I cannot tell who is a liar and who isn't
Having said that, it is their choice to take the risk with their lives |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too.
See for women you can't feel a difference coz the condom is where we can't really feel anything.
I have given a bj with a condom on before and the guy said he couldn't feel anything much and it was better without, so yeah it is worse for guys i reckon."
Yes seems to be big difference and that women wont feel the same as us men. |
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Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag "
Nor am I interested in the human papilloma virus either thanks if I can avoid it. Recent research indicates that, at any point in time, 42.5 percent of women have genital HPV infections (source National Cancer Institute America)
Each to their own though. |
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"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back
Much the same as my views on Russian Roulette.
Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag "
I can not believe this...where does this statistic come from? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.
I beg to differ
I personally prefer bare back sex BUT I also like a clean bill of health and to be proud to have never had sti"
Yeah fair enough. I can't feel a difference myself, it is only the cum that makes the difference to me.
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Just had a thought actually, if the condom doesn't go all the way to the bottom of the guys cock coz he is long, are we still protected? Coz no cum comes out of it but idk some cock is still out of it. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back
Much the same as my views on Russian Roulette.
Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag
I can not believe this...where does this statistic come from? "
Actually, there is a 100% chance of dying eventually whether one has bareback sex or not |
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"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back
Much the same as my views on Russian Roulette.
Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag
I can not believe this...where does this statistic come from?
Actually, there is a 100% chance of dying eventually whether one has bareback sex or not "
Yeah but not as you reach the vinegar stroke |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back
Much the same as my views on Russian Roulette.
Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag
I can not believe this...where does this statistic come from?
Actually, there is a 100% chance of dying eventually whether one has bareback sex or not
Yeah but not as you reach the vinegar stroke "
It is a horrible sight; I just close my eyes to avoid watching those 'death throes' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bareback. I love the feeling of it. Love the pulsing of the cock as it cums inside me.
Do I do it with random strangers I meet on the Internet? Hell no. "
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"I prefer bareback. I love the feeling of it. Love the pulsing of the cock as it cums inside me.
Do I do it with random strangers I meet on the Internet? Hell no. "
Yup what she said.
Only one guy gets to be naked in me |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
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Yes cos there is a 1:6 chance of dying if you have a bareback shag
Nor am I interested in the human papilloma virus either thanks if I can avoid it. Recent research indicates that, at any point in time, 42.5 percent of women have genital HPV infections (source National Cancer Institute America)
Each to their own though."
You can still get that whether safe(r) sex is practice or not, as it can transfer with finger/hands from touching parts, as it can be on the skin.
I would definitely not play BB on a first meet, let alone, a complete stranger! |
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Lets face it....this is a risky business.
I could lose my job is anyone found out I was on here. Because I'm single and meet at others homes/my place, I could be robbed/raped/beaten up.
Even wearing a condom isn't a guarantee you wont get a nasty infection.
Bareback is the big no, no on here for many. Though just as many fudge the issue in reality.
I guess in the words of the original "dirty" man...with all the risks you have to say "do you feel lucky?" |
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So sad to see a lot of people are so naive and reckless with ttheir life because of fun. If you like bareback let your man do it for you. Why strangers? I think some of the bareback addict should take a visit to std clinic.their opinion on bareback may change.
The rate of sexual infection as a result of bareback is on the increase according to (stonewall) this is not only on the gay and lesbian community also on hectrosexual as well.
I don't see the point of barebacking stranger's. The risk is too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No comment on my oral question. ...bet everyone here has performed oral see on a bare cock.... or do you all think that is safe? "
Your question was a very valid one .
We get checked at our local gum clinic every 6 weeks as we are very active and although penetrative sex is condom only , the risks are just as great with oral as you said .
There is no way we would consider oral with protection so that's why we get checked so regularly and we hope we remain lucky and don't pick anything up from our choice of play .
The worry we have is the amount of folk who don't get checked because they don't associate the risks if they only fuck with condoms but do oral without .
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"No comment on my oral question. ...bet everyone here has performed oral see on a bare cock.... or do you all think that is safe? "
It's less unsafe. I know the risks and choose to accept them.
The risks from bb are too great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too."
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No comment on my oral question. ...bet everyone here has performed oral see on a bare cock.... or do you all think that is safe? "
I looked it up on the Terrence higgens trust and it said you were less likely to catch hiv from oral sex than penetration. |
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less likely.... but not safe. also other still can be spread that way... herpes especially. just want to make you aware that castigating bb and thinking you are safe because of a condom may need a rethink. yes condoms are a wise precaution but won't ensure you are safe from infection. ..be aware |
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"So sad to see a lot of people are so naive and reckless with ttheir life because of fun. If you like bareback let your man do it for you. Why strangers? I think some of the bareback addict should take a visit to std clinic.their opinion on bareback may change.
The rate of sexual infection as a result of bareback is on the increase according to (stonewall) this is not only on the gay and lesbian community also on hectrosexual as well.
I don't see the point of barebacking stranger's. The risk is too much. "
Ive just been, im clean
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No comment on my oral question. ...bet everyone here has performed oral see on a bare cock.... or do you all think that is safe? "
This is what I was wondering too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BB is offered on here more than people like to admit !
In my experiance its usually cpls that ask if its " ok " as some guys especially the cuck ones like to clean up !
Only once have i entered someone off here without and that was kind of accidental in the heat of the moment and i pulled straight out and covered .
Just been honest
Shame more Arn't... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Ive just been, im clean
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only until the next time you have sex..... and then? 
so unless you are going after every single meet.... the honest answer is going to be "I don't know"
I am not here to bash people who decide to go bareback.... at the end of the day it is about judging the risks and whether that risk is acceptable to them
so is it safer lets say using a condom than not.... sure...
is oral sex safer than penatrative sex.. yep
lowering those risks may make activities that weren't acceptable, then acceptable to others....
..... bit like crossing a road and judging the best time to try... it is safer trying to cross at a zebra crossing than lets say a 6 lane motorway
are there people who i have been put off meeting because of their stance.... sure...
and the end of the day i look at it as protecting my health.... and the only person responsible for that is me! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"No comment on my oral question. ...bet everyone here has performed oral see on a bare cock.... or do you all think that is safe? "
Your comment is very valid. Unprotected oral sex is almost as dangerous as unprotected vaginal sex
In addition, exchanging sex-toys without first sterilising these is also risky
The HIV virus can survive outside the human body for several weeks (on fingers!!!) |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Just wondering what women's and couples views are on bare back for the first meet with someone, or with a stranger? Does it feel better? Also, has anyone ever had any back luck stories with bb? Thanks "
Not in this body ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Never do bare back but will with my husband........ Obviously bb is better but we value our health x
Is he immune from all known STIs?
What a strange comment !
We always bareback together but never when swinging .
What is strange is some people's belief system that their hubby/wife/gf/bf/partner is somehow immume from catching an STI and then passing it on to them. That I find really, really weird
I guess if they play seperately I can understand that , but if you only play togethertthere's no issue surely ?
I guess some people find it easier to trust some others. I don't trust anyone; people lie and I cannot tell who is a liar and who isn't
Having said that, it is their choice to take the risk with their lives"
Not sure youre getting what that person is saying; nobody is saying their partner is immune to getting an sti, but obviosly they both use protection when with other people so as to greatly reduce the risk of either of them bringing something home from someone else. And of course they bb with each other...what married couple doesnt???  unless looking to avoid pregnancy of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had amazing sex with a condom on.
Dunno, i do like cum though. Sex doesn't feel any different with or without a condom for women i think.I can feel a big difference, it slides in and out a lot better. Plus you keep the erection for longer too.
See for women you can't feel a difference coz the condom is where we can't really feel anything.
I have given a bj with a condom on before and the guy said he couldn't feel anything much and it was better without, so yeah it is worse for guys i reckon."
Disagree with you on that, I think there is a big difference between with or without a condom. I hate everything about them, they smell, they dry me up, it feels so much better without and yes, I know there is always lube but I'd rather not have to use artificial lube.....can I just add, I only BB with my Mr. but the question was what thoughts were, in a perfect world there would be no need but there is  |
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