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arrange a meet, then she leaves??
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By *ogue78 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Was chatting to a nice ( so I thought ) gal, swapped messages and pics on kik, arranged meet then on day of meet, she leaves fab and blocks on kik. Why???
( don't really need an answer lol )
just ranting, and how many times has this happened to yourselves? |
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"Was chatting to a nice ( so I thought ) gal, swapped messages and pics on kik, arranged meet then on day of meet, she leaves fab and blocks on kik. Why???
( don't really need an answer lol )
just ranting, and how many times has this happened to yourselves? "
HE just couldn't go through with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sure she's even a "she"?? Lols. Sounds like one of those classic pic collectors. Dime a Dozen here, just keep your eyes open and not send too compromising stuff unless she is willing to do so herself as well. |
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Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always make sure you can first! Some 'women' are fake as. It's annoying to say least..  hope it hasn't put you off meeting!! Hope your next meet goes much smoother x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that. "
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 3 men who either arrange a meet an never turn up then blocked/stopped talking on everything or we have arranged something then a few days before just stop talking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had 3 men who either arrange a meet an never turn up then blocked/stopped talking on everything or we have arranged something then a few days before just stop talking.
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They must be a strange lot then, these fen-dwelling chaps from round your way.
Perhaps they took the name of your county too literally... |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that.
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it."
In your opinion. Unless you have regularly arranged to meet men how could you know?
There are plenty of women who can tell you of being led on then let down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround. "
Not everyone phone chats. I don't and I'm genuine. It proves nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not very nice but it happens. At least you know where you stand, sort of. Id prefer people left rather than be friends and never speak or say they want to meet, but they wont actually follow through |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that.
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it.
In your opinion. Unless you have regularly arranged to meet men how could you know?
There are plenty of women who can tell you of being led on then let down. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround.
Not everyone phone chats. I don't and I'm genuine. It proves nothing!"
A phone chat doesn't prove anything? Err... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was chatting to a nice ( so I thought ) gal, swapped messages and pics on kik, arranged meet then on day of meet, she leaves fab and blocks on kik. Why???
( don't really need an answer lol )
just ranting, and how many times has this happened to yourselves? "
Actually, i'm not surprised as it's just a norm on here. Learn not to put too much hope on that as it will always happen.   |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Its ok shes allowed to do whatever she wants coz she's a woman..."
Of course it doesn't, it just means some men should actually think with their big heads from time to time and not just their little ones'. So a phone conversation is not wrong to be requested to be honest!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that.
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it.
In your opinion. Unless you have regularly arranged to meet men how could you know?
There are plenty of women who can tell you of being led on then let down. "
Im sure there are. But given the proportion of men on here Im willing to bet the proportion of men who'd put the kibosh on a successful meet is a lot lower than that of women. Not only do women have many more offers if a last minute replacement is needed, But in a practical sense women would also be more likely to have doubts about their own safety and jump at the last minute because of this. |
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"Was chatting to a nice ( so I thought ) gal, swapped messages and pics on kik, arranged meet then on day of meet, she leaves fab and blocks on kik. Why???
( don't really need an answer lol )
just ranting, and how many times has this happened to yourselves?
HE just couldn't go through with it. "
Oh that is so true |
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By *ogue78 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
She had no verifications, so that should've first v warning sign. No phone call made, or offered. Phone call would've proved she was actually female though lol
And thanks everyone for advice etc.
Next time, won't be so naive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was chatting to a nice ( so I thought ) gal, swapped messages and pics on kik, arranged meet then on day of meet, she leaves fab and blocks on kik. Why???
( don't really need an answer lol )
just ranting, and how many times has this happened to yourselves? "
Lol this made me laugh, ... Tonight, same thing, but was meeting next week and user left site.... To be honest,... Really not arsed,... You just carry on and lie in wait for another, if you meet,.. bonus! Happens to us ladies too and i mean other single ladies! Single men get slated on here but women are as bad x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround.
Not everyone phone chats. I don't and I'm genuine. It proves nothing!
A phone chat doesn't prove anything? Err..."
It doesn't prove they are genuine. It doesnt prove they will meet. It doesn't even prove that they are female - yes that can be faked. Just use common sense and stop thinkng with your cock. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that.
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it.
In your opinion. Unless you have regularly arranged to meet men how could you know?
There are plenty of women who can tell you of being led on then let down.
Im sure there are. But given the proportion of men on here Im willing to bet the proportion of men who'd put the kibosh on a successful meet is a lot lower than that of women. Not only do women have many more offers if a last minute replacement is needed, But in a practical sense women would also be more likely to have doubts about their own safety and jump at the last minute because of this."
Again that's only speculation. All people's experiences are not the same. In terms of ratios we don't know who messes who about most.
In my experience it is 100% men who are let downs. Would it be fair for me to say that? No, of course not. I could form an opinion based on that fact but it would only be opinion. Doesn't make it true.
Fact is some people let others down for reasons only known to them.
We can only have opinions as to whether it is mostly men or mostly women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many women just cocktease for the hell of it !!!!????????
What do you call men who behave like that.
Erm...a pussytease?
Though there won't be many about. 99% of blokes if they've put the effort in to arouse a woman sure as hell won't be leaving without enjoying the reward!
That would be Like going to a really expensive restaurant, paying for the meal, then sneaking out without eating it.
In your opinion. Unless you have regularly arranged to meet men how could you know?
There are plenty of women who can tell you of being led on then let down.
Im sure there are. But given the proportion of men on here Im willing to bet the proportion of men who'd put the kibosh on a successful meet is a lot lower than that of women. Not only do women have many more offers if a last minute replacement is needed, But in a practical sense women would also be more likely to have doubts about their own safety and jump at the last minute because of this.
Again that's only speculation. All people's experiences are not the same. In terms of ratios we don't know who messes who about most.
In my experience it is 100% men who are let downs. Would it be fair for me to say that? No, of course not. I could form an opinion based on that fact but it would only be opinion. Doesn't make it true.
Fact is some people let others down for reasons only known to them.
We can only have opinions as to whether it is mostly men or mostly women. "
This is true, everyone's opinions are achieved through experience, backed by intelligent guesswork, mine included.
So they can't be taken as the be all and end all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround.
Not everyone phone chats. I don't and I'm genuine. It proves nothing!
A phone chat doesn't prove anything? Err...
It doesn't prove they are genuine. It doesnt prove they will meet. It doesn't even prove that they are female - yes that can be faked. Just use common sense and stop thinkng with your cock."
The point of a phone call in the ops case would have been to give him some assurance that the person he was chatting with was indeed a female. It's really not very likely that a fella pretending to be a girl would go to the lengths of trying to impersonate a female voice. But it is funny to imagine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround.
Not everyone phone chats. I don't and I'm genuine. It proves nothing!
A phone chat doesn't prove anything? Err...
It doesn't prove they are genuine. It doesnt prove they will meet. It doesn't even prove that they are female - yes that can be faked. Just use common sense and stop thinkng with your cock.
The point of a phone call in the ops case would have been to give him some assurance that the person he was chatting with was indeed a female. It's really not very likely that a fella pretending to be a girl would go to the lengths of trying to impersonate a female voice. But it is funny to imagine "
They could rope a female they know into the whole scenario purely to keep the game going.
Some people are just twisted - male and female |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't meet till you've had a phone chat with the female. In fact, don't book anything - travel, time off, hotel, etc, until you've done this.
Pics/kik/messages are all easily faked. A phone chat is still possibly faked, but much less likely.
Some twunts do get off by leading guys on a runaround. "
TWUNTS, love it, ive always been a fan of the word twatstards but i think TWUNTS tops it.
Pmsl.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair its a massive thing for a lady to do on her own !
I takes a certain type of mental strength to meet a stranger especiallly if sex and nudity are involved !
Id say this lady liked the idea of meeting for casual fun but maybe when it came down to it she totally freaked out with fear |
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