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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me it makes all the difference, I'm not gay or wanting to play with the male but if the couple are both attractive it adds to the experience.
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Really it makes all the difference? So if she's properly stunning, your ideal looking woman with a great personality, and he's a fat bald old man without his own teeth your going to turn them down? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me it makes all the difference, I'm not gay or wanting to play with the male but if the couple are both attractive it adds to the experience.
Really it makes all the difference? So if she's properly stunning, your ideal looking woman with a great personality, and he's a fat bald old man without his own teeth your going to turn them down?"
Actually, yes I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In 7 years I've never once been asked by a single guy go see a pic of my OH
Ill always send one at some point down the line because I think its nice for them to see us both but no one has asked and they'll see my face long before they see my OHs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy."
In my opinion it does |
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"Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy."
I definitely care, I wouldn't find another man attractive in anyway but I'd still like to know what he looks like beforehand |
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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago
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I would say its good to know what he looks like, rather than concentrate on just the female. Although there would only be sexual contact with the lady, you are actually meeting a couple, whether the man participates or not. Unless its a cuckold situation and its clear what the parameters are. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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do i care what the male looks like in a straight mmf.... not really..
however... would i like to get to know both people in an mmf.... absolutely! wouldn't have a mmf without that... like to get to know the dynamics on what people are after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting responses here .
We have been on and off fab for 3 years now and have lost count of how many single guys we have met and without a doubt 99% have never asked to see what I look like . In fact i could not ever remember a guy asking to see me if the truth be told !
So it's odd to see so many on this thread saying they would lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do i care what the male looks like in a straight mmf.... not really..
however... would i like to get to know both people in an mmf.... absolutely! wouldn't have a mmf without that... like to get to know the dynamics on what people are after "
See this is what I think applies to most men, it doesn't matter what I look like because all there interested in sexually is the Mrs but there has to be some sort of personality match between the 2 men or its just not going to work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me it makes all the difference, I'm not gay or wanting to play with the male but if the couple are both attractive it adds to the experience.
Really it makes all the difference? So if she's properly stunning, your ideal looking woman with a great personality, and he's a fat bald old man without his own teeth your going to turn them down?
Actually, yes I would. "
You are very rare then, because not 1 man who has ever messaged us as giving a flying monkey shit what I look like, and it's good to have standards and morals |
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By *CSmoothMan
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy."
Though I am not attracted to other men, I would care and still want to see a pic of both. It's important to build a common connection with both. Have met some, where one part is pressing the other a little to much... Never a good experience.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More about the personality and cleanliness for me  "
100% this.
Every wife I've had the pleasure of playing with the husband has always been very friendly. Makes it do much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't specifically ask to see a pic of the male half. Although we may both be pleasuring the female and in close proximity to each other, I wouldn't really care what he looked like. It would be more down to personality and whether we could get on. Being straight I have no interest in the male half from a sexual point of view, so looks for me wouldn't come into it. Having said that, it's always nice to see who you are meeting. But it wouldn't be a priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't really matter, as long as he isn't Quasimodo, besides, I prefer to meet socially first, I couldn't enjoy the experience if there wasn't some sort of interaction between us. |
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"Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy."
It depends I would say not really but then again if he looked like Mad Frankie Frazer I might. |
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Yes absolutely in. many levels.I never loose sight that ultimatly as couple they are allowing to share a very personal intimate exp with you.Thus must include all parties recgonition concerned.
Looks
Personality
Build
And most important of all the slim chance you might know each other....... Eeeeek lol.
It would dissrespectfull just to insist on photo,s of just the half of couple your really interested in.
Then respect if they decline to give a photo......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Question for single guys: When arranging to meet a couple for straight MFM threesome play, do you care what the hubby/boyfriend looks like, or would you happily meet without seeing a pic of him?
I ask because we always share pics of both of us, as a courtesy really, but I often wonder if it makes any difference to the single guy.
It depends I would say not really but then again if he looked like Mad Frankie Frazer I might."
This is why we do show hubby's pic to the guy we're potentially meeting. Just so he can see that he's not meeting someone who looks scary  Naturally it's a given that the two guys need to click when it comes to the actual meet. |
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not really i dont really care,within reason ,but i would never meet anyone with seeing a pic first.ive met many guys that would be considered plain/unattractive and lotsa really handsome ones..i dont fancy men anyway so as long as they are genuine im usually happy to meet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it doesn't hurt, who wants to look at someone disgusting during sex. 
I think the bond you build leading up to the meet that is important.
But most importantly, it is both achieving the goal of making her extremely horny with multiple orgasms. To create a tri factor if you will! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see pics of both, nice to get a feel for the people you are meeting. Even if you aren't actively playing with them, you need to feel comfortable in their presence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see both really - mainly for respect but it also adds to the experience.
Would be slightly off putting if the partner looked like jim royle from the royle family  |
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