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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we know the first contact with someone on here is very important.
we know that its a big no no to go with to very short "fancy a fuck" type messages, and some people don't like to read an essay, but what we would like to ask you all is -
what would you all say is the most important things to say or not to say in the first message to get a positive response? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going by what I read I'd say there's no sure fire formula, It varies from person to person. If I was going to send a message it'd be based on the feeling I get from their profile and possible posts of theirs I've read in the forum. |
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Messages are only part of the whole package. You can send a stellar message but they're not attracted to you or send a poor message but you're just their type. That person can also be having a bad day and delete your message on sight! 
As mentioned before, there's no sure fire way of getting it right because people are different and want different things. Just be yourself, message with honesty and positivity and what will be will be.  |
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