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Do you fuck on first meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have a lot of spare time so when we do have a meet it's usually with some sort of play in mind! But that's why we chat on here for a while first, make sure the chemistry is there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do. I'm happy to have a drink first but not essential for me. If I don't get a good feel from someone by text and phone calls it's not going to change by meeting face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes if we like each other, I prefer to play first meet, meet for a drink and a chat first then move onto play, I can't see the point in rearranging for another time if you like each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of you enjoy to fuck on first meet "
Well, as I normally only go to clubs when I'm feeling frisky, then I would hope it happened each time.
But then my "pickiness" sets in and brings my hit-rate down to in between 33 and 50% Damn you pickiness, I want to get laid!  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We message here, then we whatsapp and sometimes phone chat by which point all is sorted. All it needs is to meet and see if all that's been said and the people are who they say they are, we talk from where we left off either in the bar of the hotel or the room and if the attraction in the actual meet is as it was on the site all is set as far as we are concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Local - a social then back to theirs if chemistry etc
partys/clubs if chemistry etc socially first
so yes generally first meets after chatting here or accasionally people ive never chatted on here before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes 
Oh who am I kidding, mostly yes 
but I meet people in clubs, it's totally different from meeting off here, you chat and instantly know if the chemistry and attraction is there . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes
Oh who am I kidding, mostly yes
but I meet people in clubs, it's totally different from meeting off here, you chat and instantly know if the chemistry and attraction is there ."
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Yes. We have plenty of vanilla friends & are on here to meet people to have sex with.
We have had socials but don't indulge in the scene every weekend so really prefer if fun is on the cards first night when we do, as long as everyone is happy. Profiles that rule it out on the first meet generally get bypassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't that what it's about??
Chat first, take it from there, agree the time and place and off you go??
Why else be on a sex site if you're not planning to have sex!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past I have sucked or fucked on nearly every first meet, but when I start meeting again (if I start meeting again) it will be social first every time if person is new to me. |
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Sorry for being an odd man out. Just too boring to meet up the first time. Then rearranged again for fun.in fact the zeal and anxiety is gone..I can understand some people flow with chemistry. Not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always happy to meet in a social setting first, but have usually taken a bit of time chatting beforehand to get the connection. So yes, usually ends in play on first meeting...it'd be a shame to let the moment pass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are an odd one...
They don't really reveal how you'd gel sexually.
You could get on really well socially but not be suited sexually. And vice versa.
So what's the point?
Unless looking for potential relationship/dates/friends, messaging/phonecalls/seeing pics, suffices.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually only meet if I'm in the mood to play, and already feel some connection - then if the chemistry is right I'm more than happy to have sex almost straight away.
In fact, I tend to find that if I don't play on a first meet, then it's not going to happen at all.....
But maybe I'm just an easy slut at heart...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the chemistry. .. If by talking to them on the phone/messages I get a good feeling then yes, as sometimes it's hard arranging a mutually convenient time for the both of us... so sometimes the play is on the cards as time permits but it's not a necessity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socials are an odd one...
They don't really reveal how you'd gel sexually.
You could get on really well socially but not be suited sexually. And vice versa.
So what's the point?
Unless looking for potential relationship/dates/friends, messaging/phonecalls/seeing pics, suffices.
S x"
Well they kind of do reveal more than messaging alone does, you can tell a lot from a goodnight snogging sess.
I've not met again on that basis of that alone, you don't get to any bases with me if you can't kiss!!
Also, I do find people don't always turn up looking or acting how they come appear online ~ nice enough to have a drink with not nice enough to have sex with.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social first meet with someone from here... at least it was supposed to be a social but we ended up fucking in my car in the pub car park...
I guess that meant it had gone well?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social is ok but we are here to do you now what long as they done look like the elephant man or she has a face like it's been hit by a express train get jiggy with it shake you merry maker. |
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Very very rarely. Prefer to get a bit of a buzz going after meeting face to face. Saying that, I have done a couple of times and am still in touch with them after all these years It really does depend on the person/couple and how the meet goes to be honest |
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